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Fake orgasms... oohh yeah, don't stop, fuck yeah! :P
February 15 2014
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luvsilver
12 years ago
even when its just me on my own . Mr Luvsilver
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Nope. I don't really give a shit. Sex is not about orgasms. At times I've gone home completely rooted and not cum once. I got no issue with that. (Lol... Issue!) I crack myself up! So, lol. Besides, it's more difficult to fake it, although sometimes just by saying "I'm cumming in your arse, bareback" is enough encouragement to bring some to the peak! Hugs Gazp
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Taby_DK
12 years ago
I don't orgasm from intercourse or foreplay so I can't fake it lol I can only orgasm from solo play. Taby xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Then the partner is just going to think that what they were doing was great and aren't I so awesome cause its making their partner orgasm ... when really they are thinking its it over yet or I need to dust the curtains. Not a big fan personally mainly for that reason Meeks.
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RHP User
12 years ago
to fake an orgasm.Never done it. Should I feel during say oral I go no where I say please stop. Because sometimes I am so up-tide from work I haven't switched off completely....but this doesn't mean I don't enjoy the fuck just will not in this particular moment cum.To fake an orgasm in my mind is wrong.Women who fake it are not doing us women a favor.Should this poor fella one day come across a woman who doesn't fake it and all the years he was a stud in his mind...he will call the honest woman frigid....only because he did never know he hasn't satisfied a woman.No sisters, please never ever do this.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We all get there at times when things are just not right and its time to end it gently, that is with a erupting, screaming down the house, quivering, convulsing, uncontrollable spasm filled, eyes rolled back, heart pounding, sweat drenched, exhausting gentle, I have had enough. If its a fake one, do I care? NO, at least you thought it was worth putting in the effort, thanks and ten out of ten for the floor show. Much better than laying there and having to ask. "Did you cum?""Yes." "Are you sure you came?""Yes." "Was it a good one?""Yes!" Wow you wouldn't have thought so but I did notice you move a little at the end."You sure you didn't fake it?" Does it really matter if you fake it? not really, as a man I am left with the "I am done with this." roll off and find a smoke method. Not necessarily because it was bad, but sometimes the mood changes. I think it only really matters if it is an ongoing thing, but then I would have to wonder why the faker is returning. Once again sex is as much about communication as it is about the sensual pleasures. If you have to fake it the only person you are letting down is your self. It seems that women have to put up with a lot of bad sex, is it just in the hope that some good sex will randomly knock on the door one day? BTW I do really care if you cum, how else am i going to maintain my delusion of male virility, and con others into the impression that I am a sensitive and caring individual.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I (f) usually need to fake it with playmates who *think* they are studs, but realy dont know what to do/how to do it, even with subtle direction and encouragment....i cant go bursting their bubble lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Been there done that...JESUS CHRIST get it over and done with! Nothing worse than laying there arms out like Jesus on a cross...and every now and again give a pat on the back thinking to self..."JEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESUS, hurry up and finish". I don't have a problem saying to someone you have to improve on some techniques. As for me, well have never had a man say to me "you're crap, don't want to see you again because I faked it". Would I feel insulted? Nah not really, in a way I suppose it would hurt my feelings and little ego. I'd have to say thank you for your feedback, leaves room for improvement with the next person. Foxy As nana says "What's trash to some is treasure to others" :)
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madotara69
12 years ago
it would be a shame if it became a habit. Mado Tara xx
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MissBishere
12 years ago
When I was married and in my last long term relationship. I haven't since being on rhp, I don't see the point. I'm looking for amazing leg trembling sex and I won't find it by faking it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok during self love if I have fingers inserted I can feel my fingers being squeezed quite tightly when I cum......yet when I cum with a guys fingers inside me they don't even seem to know!!! Have had times where during oral with his fingers inside I have had an explosive orgasm....and then when I stop him because I am ultra sensitive after cumming he says "oh I wasn't sure if you had gotten there"!! This really surprises me because I'm quite vocal in my pleasure also...I don't mean screaming the walls down....but not silent!!So I guess when the guys don't seem to know the difference anyway....So yes I have faked it....but there are lovers that I have had that I Never need to fake it!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
When someone has to fake, it's the biggest insult to the connection one would hope has been created... If you can't orgasim, it would be respectful to say so.. Faking it is a lie and a massive reason to lose all trust in a person... If a woman I have been with faked it I would never have any trust in her again inside and outside of the bedroom.. If a woman said she can't orgasim, i might feel bad, but would just focus on how I can be better.. And have extra trust and connection with her... So basically, faking is a lie... Lieing is the biggest sin in a relationship - casual or long term - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Women fake it!! I'm going to have to rethink this whole sex thing. Ok thought about it, I shall shoulder on and hope my partners are honest with me.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
if some men didn't place pressure on us women, then we wouldn't have to fake it ....would we? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not saying there is anything ulterior but you would know your body very well and there is that connection between your brain and your hands so that you know exactly when you are cuming and what the sensations are on your hands. Another person is not going to have that connection nor the intimate in-depth (pun intended !) experience you do with your own body.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Araps' Not saying there is anything ulterior but you would know your body very well and there is that connection between your brain and your hands so that you know exactly when you are cuming and what the sensations are on your hands. Another person is not going to have that connection nor the intimate in-depth (pun intended !) experience you do with your own body. I guess that's true And Araps...Great to see you back
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RHP User
12 years ago
As Foxy so eloquently put it, I have had Jesus Christ sex, and faked it just to get it over and done with. I'm with JayJay on being asked did you cum? Surely when you're huffing and puffing like a steam train, saying "Fuck, YES!!", "Oh my God!!!" and "Jesus Christ!!!" a few times and then suddenly go still, isn't this a sure sign ?
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MissBishere
12 years ago
that's why men announce that they are about to cum...do they think we might miss it? Maybe we women need to change the "OH FUCK" to "IM CUMING"
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Maybe change it to "Are WE there yet?? Are WE there yet?? Are WE there yet??" I need to be encouraged for directions... I need a man to talk to me.. NOT follow an upside down map! Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Take a good look at yourself before dumping it on the person you're with. Takes two to tango and if neither of you are trying it will always be a fizzer.. Maybe you should never been fucking them anyway ?
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madotara69
12 years ago
do you have like practice faking it, or just hope it passes for real? What happens if the guy says something like, hey you just faked it?
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Kegels. All those core muscles are interconnected. Hint: when a woman orgasms, her sphincter pulses just like your dick does when you cum. Stick a finger on her buttonhole and you will know if she is faking. This friendly advice brought to you by Gazpacho.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No guys can tell when we fake it lol they are to busy with themselves - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
I think this thread has to potential to delve into some pretty deep areas, there is all kinds of relationships, right for wrong is not really something for opinion, touchy stuff and plenty too it all, some people have great relationships, yet sex is not so much a leading part, convenience may be the over all base, then there is hostile relationships, sure there would be plenty of reasons a lady may fake an orgasm, naive to say they shouldn't. would it be fair to say that maybe stress and social, financial, kids school, sleep deprivation, and all that junk could be all part for faking it too. I know a lot of men get so caught up with careers say for example, where they just lose the energy and playful drive for sex because they simply get worn out trying to make ends meet. Not to mention women working and what gets taken out of them too. I think there is a lot more to it all than just a lousy sex partner, generally. I can understand why a lady would choose to fake an orgasm to hurry along an uncomfortable moment they are in, sometimes it may be the best option, especially with a man they do not know, it could be scary too, lots of things. I see this topic going either way, a slugging match at men, or some pretty personal stuff. Certainly don't see faking orgasms becoming a cheerful ending, it feels a bit bitter, guess it is for some. But there is going to be some men who have to deal with this coming from the women, where those guys have possibly lost it all from trying to support a woman and maybe children. I know some men that have been taken by the needs to provide, and had trouble finding the mojo for the woman they support, her having the run of the house and no worries for where it all comes from to cover the expenses. I would hope those ladies could truly fake an orgasm, just because they care for a bloke who may just feel his pride is struggling and showing a brave face. Just for those fellows mainly, some are friends, and it's a bugger that it happens like that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Kegels. All those core muscles are interconnected. Hint: when a woman orgasms, her sphincter pulses just like your dick does when you cum. Stick a finger on her buttonhole and you will know if she is faking. This friendly advice brought to you by Gazpacho. This one time... at band camp...... I was masturbating and I had a butt plug firmly place within my buttonhole as you say. My god that thing shot out like a rocket when I came! lol. Hence the reason why I bought a bigger butt plug....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well it does matter i think a lot !! i dont want a fake ! may as well lie to me fuck my brother steel my dog and run away with my sister !!! Just be hones even if you have to take me back to class and give me a run down on anatomy parts of a pussy what not to do and what to do and when to do it !!! Much rather explore find out for myself what makes a girl tick ! So to speak ! But seriously just tell us when we are not even close hahaha I have had asked ladies in the past ? Umm oh sooo umm did you umm have a big O ?? When a lady says fuck yeah !! Makes you feel awsome and like the king . When a lady says ohh almost its like Damn damn damn !!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
When I have a loooooong session, because I want a break, but the guy doesn't wanna stop! It works sometimes depends on who I see. Some men do understand and respect that my pussy does get sore due to prolong rubbing from condom (even with the use of lube), some men don't, so I have no choice, sometimes! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Yeah?? Why is that?? When a women's Clam has closed up shop, why do some men insist on trying to force it open?? When it's closed up shop, it's closed up shop!! Please don't force it, rub more lube etc etc because it will hurt us. I mean HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLO, That's s sure sign to look out for with a women's body, so guys don't insist on forcing it open!! Some guys need to understand when this happens, give a woman a break, like for 10mins or so. Let her relax he body. I always tell lovers that, I need a break for a bit...I mean if a women doesn't say, then how are men suppose to know?? Our clams are tender you know, if you give the woman a break, you just never know. Just a little PEARL of wisdom to keep in mind. ;) Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
our clits aren't genie lamps! So stop rubbing it and put down the lube. LOL It's true...Your wish for an orgasm will not cum!! What it is saying to a woman is.... "I do not respect you or your vagina, nor do I understand a women's body and yours" It's also saying..."I'm selfish and want to orgasm..it's all about ME ME ME!". That adds a lot of pressure to some women and then some will want it over and done with. Yep.... Fake it. Guys get out there and ask women what they want, ask them about their body, their bits. Get in there and talk to her!! Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Isn't faking an orgasm kind negative reinforcement?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Isn't faking an orgasm a kind of negative reinforcement?
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gazpacho
12 years ago
You think I can't tell? You mean I am wrong? Right then. Please confirm the facts ladies. Manipulate yourself to orgasm, while you're climaxing place one finger on your sphincter and feel it.... Then report back to me if you feel your sphincter pulsing with the orgasm, then report your findings back here.... In the interest of scientific discovery.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Further to my previous post, just for my amusement, please lick your finger first. :) Hugs Creepy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think I might need some assistance. How about you come over and stick your dick in it while I masturbate. Then you can tell me if it pulses or just grabs the bejesus out of your cock. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Shouldn't need to ask... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just say sorry i cant come. It happens occasionally even on my own. Faking for myself so my fingers dont feel bad, that would be interesting lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51'Please confirm the facts ladies. Manipulate yourself to orgasm, while you're climaxing place one finger on your sphincter and feel it.... True. And very easy to contract while faking an orgasm. You're not giving some of us enough credit. Yes, I used to fake it regularly, and was damn good at it too. It's all about not overdoing it, and contracting at the right time and in the right spots. All in the past though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cause you can't fake that orgasm!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
See so mind blowing I can't type
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RHP User
12 years ago
A friend of mine introduced me to goaless sex which made a lot of sense to me as sex for me (as a guy) was never about the orgasm and normally meant at least a temporary pause in proceedings, worst case a final point in the night/day... so not orgasming is often my goal. I love to give pleasure and admit I like my girl climaxing over and over. I hate to have a rule for guys and a rule for girls here but I don't need to cum to have a great time but I am not sure I would be excited to know I wasn't able to bring my girl to orgasm if she normally comes that way. If she had to fake it, I would be disappointed in myself but ultimately it is what it is and I probably would never find out except for a lack of an invite to cum again... LOL W
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeh I don't orgasm unless on my own. I never fake it. But guys definitely have a huge issue with it. Like they're inadequate. It's very annoying when they make you feel like a brown piece of equipment. And you wonder why some ladies just can't relax enough to get there. Vicious cycle. But I was with a guy who thought I had had an orgasm. And when I said I didn't, he didn't believe me Hahaha. Then sooked about it. :/ I can see why ppl fake it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Neither can I, the best organisms I get r the solo onez
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RHP User
12 years ago
Had a lady that was all talk, pics were most likely the best ever taken of her, had no idea what she was doing. And as a cougar hunter back in my day I usually thought they knew what they were doing. This time nope. Im cumming! Me too! Cum in me! Ummm I already did... somewhere and the cums gone now... rubbed in the sheets....soo..... gotta go! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Shouldn't need to ask... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... Yeah yeah, I heard we're all worth it.I was merely getting off on the idea of all these RHP ladies sticking their finger on their buttonholes by my desire. Where's your sense of joy, funsponge? HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've always seen it as defeating the purpose and rewarding the wrong behaviour. Counter-productive to my future orgasmic prospects (if with a regular partner). I have been surprised by the amount of men who have admitted to me that they've faked it at some time in their lives, how on earth do women fall for that!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think most people want to enjoy them self when having sex.How dose one do this? They communicate with their partner and tell them what they like and how they like it.What their desires and kinks are ,and how they like to play that out.I don't mean ,talk about everything,as being surprised is part of being stimulated. I for one,like to know the truth ,weather it be how bad/good i am in bed or where i stand in a relationship/sexual buddy relationship.I have always thought if your honest in anything you do in life,you get the best out of it.If i am moaning ,it means your doing it right.If im quiet, up your game. After all life is a learning experience.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ooooohh this is sensitive and a scarey topic ....wow...Gues what guys its not all about YOU. You seem hurt disturbed betrayed and cheated that we may have felt the need at some stage for whatever reason. Is panting a little harder...moaning a little when you didnt have to faking it to encourage you to have a great time. I cant rememeber when but I do remember the times I missed out because he came and wasnt bothered or said after sorry or Did you cum.....oh that miserable marraige and waste of so many years. Did I ever set out to hurt him or his masculinity? No and that usually is part of why some faking or acting comes into play. Not to hurt you but to be nice..not every time we have sex but on occassion....so give us break we arent EVIL. Yes Gaz pulsing arse is a dead give away....and Meander true you can fake that too....but oh why its such a nice feeling.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Us guys are just gonna go through life thinking we can satisfy any girl because these fakers out there have got us thinking that we're studs in the bedroom but we're actually lame at sex. ITS WRONG! STOP IT! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
gaz, was that they were all licking their fingers already... I know that you wanted to ask them to do it, but it was like asking them to put toothpaste on their toothbrush... they just do it naturally......I even licked my finger... Hp xoBecause you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd never fake an orgasm because I wouldn't wanna feel ripped off! lol
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madotara69
12 years ago
Do you reckon you can fake it as good as the real thing?
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'lukeali101' Us guys are just gonna go through life thinking we can satisfy any girl because these fakers out there have got us thinking that we're studs in the bedroom but we're actually lame at sex. ITS WRONG! STOP IT! - Posted from rhpmobile If a woman thought a man was a stud in the bedroom, she wouldn't fake it, she be back for 2nds, 3rd's and MORE! If a woman FAKES it, it's because the stud has not satisfied her. Helllllllllllllllllllllo she would not want to see him again. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've never faked. When it's been bad, I have directly said "I'm not feeling this, time to change it up". Honesty is the best policy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That is just so wrong! Speak to the person! Guide them or move on! It's insulting to both parties to pretend. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess if the person you're with is that bad and you really don't want to see them again, then faking may be a way to finish up the current session a bit quicker. If you do want to see them again though, then either give some subtle (or not so subtle) instructions or just say that it isn't happening today. Not everyone orgasms that easily (as plenty of women on this thread have said) and sometimes a new lover may need some help as to what works for you. As others have said, sex doesn't always have to end with orgasm and I've had occasions when either myself or my partner hasn't orgasmed but still enjoyed the time we've had. If you constantly fake it, then you're only letting yourself down as the other person will think that they're doing a good enough job and not change what they're doing. Would I be able to tell if it was faked? It depends how well I knew the person and how good an actor they are. I would care if they faked it though, as I'd rather they were honest about it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Right on... Sorry I can't cum... Simple , easy and true... Say it as it is and skip the BS.... Not all guys have hearing problems...
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RHP User
12 years ago
To watch my girl stumble from my house in the morning wearing a stupid grin and lolly legs, I am in no doubt she has had no need to fake a thing. Tasting her orgasm, again no doubt. If you need to fake it you been playing with the wrong guy. A naughty whisper in the ear can make a woman climax. Or am I just damn good at what I do? I strive for worlds best practice. Just my thoughts.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fake orgasms are sometimes a must!!!! If don't think I could ever tell a guy if they were a lousy lay! That's where they fakeys are needed
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nine out of ten times i can taste when my partner cums but how would you ladies feel if it was reversed ? your partner has you blind folded in doggie position and pulls out and dribbles spit down your back and bum Doubt it would feel nice so i think honesty would be better than faking it.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Sorry mate, I was right off my game yesterday, twisting anything said as negative. I needed a text message reminder to pull my head in. You're a cool minded gentleman. Hugs Gazpacho
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gazpacho
12 years ago
If I had my finger on your sphincter I could tell if you were faking it. :p Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
me why more woman fake it then men......what makes it so important to most woman to fake it? A long time ago I read the book I think it was the HIDE REPORT.It blow my mind how many women faked it and how many women had never had an orgasm....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'CravingTouch' I have been surprised by the amount of men who have admitted to me that they've faked it at some time in their lives, how on earth do women fall for that! It's not all that hard to do, especially when wearing a condom (and then being "considerate" enough to dispose of it immediately.)
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' It's not all that hard to do, especially when wearing a condom (and then being "considerate" enough to dispose of it immediately.)I must admit, I've been very considerate a few times. :) HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seriously! Just because there was no orgasm . doesn't make you bad at sex. It's only a few seconds out of the whole experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'FiFoMiSS' Seriously! Just because there was no orgasm . doesn't make you bad at sex. It's only a few seconds out of the whole experience. - Posted from rhpmobile You are so wise. We all have our moments and mentally trying to have an orgasm just makes the problem all the more difficult. HUgsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some of us control our muscles, there will be no involuntary outer sphincter movement for this puppy if there is any chance of it letting out a little whistle. Especially so if its getting the close attention of someone else. I was with two ladies and it was time to blow for me, just as I was at the end of the orgasm, TOOT, with both their heads in that general area. I still get grief over that one. I have never said sorry so many times before, after cumming.. -<Bb:.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'FiFoMiSS' Seriously! Just because there was no orgasm . doesn't make you bad at sex. It's only a few seconds out of the whole experience. - Posted from rhpmobile I agree.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Quoting 'lukeali101' Us guys are just gonna go through life thinking we can satisfy any girl because these fakers out there have got us thinking that we're studs in the bedroom but we're actually lame at sex. ITS WRONG! STOP IT! - Posted from rhpmobile If a woman thought a man was a stud in the bedroom, she wouldn't fake it, she be back for 2nds, 3rd's and MORE! If a woman FAKES it, it's because the stud has not satisfied her. Helllllllllllllllllllllo she would not want to see him again. Foxy Foxy, Luke is saying that the guy will always think he is a stud because women may be faking it with him... and therefore he will never learn. Therefore, Luke is saying faking it is a bad idea because we are misleading blokes into thinking they are good in bed when they are not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think it's because we are taught that the orgasm is the aim of sex, in the movies and all the romance novels , porn. So I know that people are disappointed when the other person hasn't cum. It has taken me awhile to feel okay with men not always coming, particularly in the group scene. Or, there are a hell of a lot of people having bad sex and faking an orgasm is a good way of ending it.... because an orgasm means you all get to go home. Yeah?
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
That's not how I interrupted when reading Lukie Post. If Lukie "THINKS" he is stud if a woman fakes it on him, not the women's problem is it? Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
You need to speak up, ask her what she wants, take note of a woman's body. Ask for feedback...If you don't ask, then you will never know? Please don't go "THINKING" you are a stud, cause you will end up having a cocky attitude, over time. Women will pick up on that. It's not healthy, thinking that way. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
There was a difference between having an orgasm and cumming. Why have some people posted like they are the same thing????? To me they are not the same....cum is release of bodily fluids and orgasm is a very intense pleasurable euphoric feeling. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I totally agree with your lost post. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
And don't have to have an orgasm to enjoy it..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'That's not how I interrupted when reading Lukie Post. Must agree with Meeka. I think Luke said if we don't tell guys what they are doing wrong, they keep thinking they're great when they're not. He was speaking about "us" guys, not about himself. Do correct me if I'm wrong, Luke.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'FiFoMiSS' Seriously! Just because there was no orgasm . doesn't make you bad at sex. It's only a few seconds out of the whole experience.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you really think a guy that does not know he is bad in bed will ever get it, fake orgasms or not. Some people are just unable, or unwilling to pick up the blatant and in your face signals everyone puts out. Body language does not lie as the vast majority of it is involuntary and many people don't have a clue how to read body language. Only a fool judges ones ability in the bed room by the quality of the others orgasm, or whether they had one. Fake orgasms are not producing a line of males with delusions of studliness, they are born that way and nothing is ever going to change that. I have a friend that thinks he can sing and play the guitar. He is terrible and I and others have told him so, but he just can not get his head around that fact. He thinks he is gods gift at everything and its not because others have clapped at him at the end of performance, for people seldom do. It is just the type of personality he has, he thinks he is good and nothing will ever dent that belief. There is nothing wrong with the fake orgasm, you are not corrupting people, you are not lying. You are just ending something politely. There are too many fucked up people out there for you to end it any other way.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'That's not how I interrupted when reading Lukie Post. Must agree with Meeka. I think Luke said if we don't tell guys what they are doing wrong, they keep thinking they're great when they're not. He was speaking about "us" guys, not about himself. Do correct me if I'm wrong, Luke. has it got to be up to the woman to speak up and tell? Why can't he ask, as in take on his 1/2 of the responsibility??
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I don't understand why some people will not say something, even tho it's an uncomfortable topic to talk to someone about? I mean sometimes it's good to have those uncomfortable talks, get outside a comfort zone. Maybe I see things differently as I like good open and honest communication, even tho sometimes I may not want to hear what the other person's message is or what they are saying to me. I think it's healthy. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' There was a difference between having an orgasm and cumming. Why have some people posted like they are the same thing????? To me they are not the same....cum is release of bodily fluids and orgasm is a very intense pleasurable euphoric feeling. Foxy It is the same thing to me. And I use those terms interchangeably.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Foxy............ if the woman is faking an orgasm well the guy is not totally wrong to assume she enjoyed it. Yeah? So sorry... if you are faking it you can't then blame the man for not knowing you didn't enjoy it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well, sometimes by the time we have reached the bedroom I know that this will be a one off. So yep, sex is probably bad because I don't make much of an effort either. In those circumstances I can't be bothered saying why I am not enjoying it, just get it over and done with and get him out the door. This is surely 90% of one night stands isn't it? It's happened a couple of times to me, and yes it is because I have gone there when I really should have said no. Oh well......
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' has it got to be up to the woman to speak up and tell? Why can't he ask, as in take on his 1/2 of the responsibility?? Why would a guy think to ask if a woman is letting him know it's great for her? If your house guests told you your roast was delicious, would you ask them "but really, how was it?"
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
A bit below the belt there.. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'There was a difference between having an orgasm and cumming. Haven't heard that before. For me having and orgasm and cumming (though I much prefer coming) are the same. Though cum has come to mean ejaculate, so I can see why people would think cumming = ejaculating.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'A bit below the belt there.. Foxy That was just an example to emphasise my point, not talking about cooking skills. Different example: Someone compliments your jumper. Do you ask them what they really think? No offense meant in any way.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I haven't had many.. I would tell the guy I was not satisfied straight away, tell him to stop. I would say "I'm not feeling it" Why continue?? I've done that once before. I've not had many one nighters and if I do I choose not to see them again, cause I don't want to. Always have done that. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'That was just an example to emphasise my point, not talking about cooking skills. Different example: Someone compliments your jumper. Do you ask them what they really think? No offense meant in any way. If someone compliment me on my jumper, to me they have gone out of their way to make a compliment. I see it like being genuine and thoughtful. If they didn't like my jumper then why give a compliment if it's not meant or genuine? It's morally wrong to me and not being honest with ones self nor to the other person. "Thinking about something" and "saying something: are two different things in my eyes. Thinking is psychological and saying is verbal, that's what I believe. Sometimes we can't control our thoughts but yet we can control our words. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' If someone compliment me on my jumper, to me they have gone out of their way to make a compliment. I see it like being genuine and thoughtful. Sometimes people fake orgasms to make the other person feel good too. Lie or white lie?
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madotara69
12 years ago
If you were going to fake an orgasm, a fair while it takes to bringing the lady to an orgasm worth being anything of nothing being out of normal. If you are faking an orgasm, then you are faking that first point with orgasm, you are faking nothing much more than you began, nothing much lost to anyone for all it is. I take pride in being eye to eye, that changes the whole ball game. If you, (and that would mean Tara was with me so it's us) were with us, I don't know where Tara would spend her feelings, they would only add to anything anyway, so we would be only and that not outside of the three minute quicky rule, (for the best interests to society), a quicky just for the sake of maybe missing out on a root, just a quicky is about as far you ladies can defend, nor would you then want to fake the orgasm. Hey I could let of a load in a couple of minutes, less, Tara just distracted me and that won't change, about a minute, the real deal, and the three minute rule, diminishes any point in questioning the claims. all for their own crack at getting a shot off, you don't make it and the other does, Oh well you were there for that other person, or the hubby in a rush to work, or wife toey some time off the kids, and not much to it. Get in there and see to it she cums, and you can piss off do what you gotta do, parted with smiles. The Quicky is a very important part of sex, family and tradies, truckies, the workers, the younger ones dipping their toes in, make it past the three minutes and to learn it's not a three minute round same to the sporting type, Jack rabbit, JayJays got that covered. If we are eye to eye, then firstly, we are at a point there is not going to be any want and need for wasting a thought to faking anything, maybe for the next morning, that is covered by the rule of sexual conduct, being the only time the boss becomes what ever your job is, Boss just has to because he needs the rule some time himself. The only time the work day clock sais it will allow to mould itself to cover any time rooting ends up leaving the rooters to it.Then the boss is not under the unconditional rule. That with the three minute rule has all to faking and if you don't know it's fake? Hardly even worth getting into a debate defending what? never rolled past start, so the fake orgasm is akin to saying (if you have or even talked talk) gee wizz, you know what, well any way I have got something else and want to go do that, so see yourself out when done, got to go bye bye. So who is getting any benefit, credibility to the worth, akin to having an argument with a parking metre? cost a dollar to have the matter forwarded to the resumea ..? reference, either way. Foxy, you are speaking to it as well. The orgasm you fake is just a quick cum. So eye to eye we would be just starting to get into a feeling for a place to settle and start out locating all the hot spots, have a bit of fun a few little teases just because you can. and, even duck off for a tick, to see the cricket score, all in for the innings now. If it's not a quicky, then your in it for the orgasm and that orgasm is what it is all too. That's the orgasm Foxy is defending, and yeah Foxy faking it doesn't earn the argument. Doesn't have anything past it to offer. It's the orgasm where the kafuffle is rounded off and summed up to. how many people have come together and worked together and taken the orgasm to it's intensities, Euphoria is where the compliments blend, and then all in good taken time, nothing matters, just the place you have to reflect on values, because anyone in that place has a high rating and comfort to the privilege. All the same in there and all satisfied for the efforts. Eye to eye establishes a respect is the place to hang the hats, a box if a ladies hat needed one. Yep, I would know if you faked it, and you would know I knew it too, we could leave it at some reason had to gracefully excuse the whole of any efforts or sacrifices to get there and to what had been anticipated to run it's course. A pleasant goodbye with what it needs for each to walk away without it being even a question from anyone else. It's great to have a someone who can see the work that goes into the ladies orgasm, and give a bloke a hand now and then, she is worth every second of it, her eyes tell it straight to you or us. Kings for a day. Mado, Tara xx
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I understand some people will say something, but they are thinking something else. That's not genuine to me, nor would it make me feel good knowing I've told a lie or they have lied to me. Same as orgasms. I've had my days/years of faking orgasms. It did not make me feel good, seeing the other person getting their rocks off and me laying their feeling like crap! or Vice Versa. I take having sex and being intimate with someone seriously now. I will stand up and say something. If it's crappy (as in really crappy) I will say so, if it's fantastic why not thank them and tell them ? Even if it just a one night stand or long term lover. I have done that and will continue. It's the right thing to do in my eyes, as long as it is done tactfully and in a respectful way without the other person feeling like crap or belittled, I think it's Ok to do. Foxy PS- Mado I got what you are saying. :)
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Is it true??? Men can and do fake it too?!?!?! I'm shattered and now doubting my own sexual prowess....walks away greatly disturbed by this revelation 😳
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi there long time no speak :) Yes it's true man fake it but the question shl be more y ? I have faked it only to give the lady the highlight of her success no more no less... It was simply due to I had no more cum left n she had reached her limits as well :)) it's nothing nasty more a feel loved thing to be honest
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Because by your own admission you were out of cum which implies you'd already had multiple orgasms!! 😳
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RHP User
12 years ago
A man can fake am orgasm and quickly whip of the condom so that the woman doesn't see that it is empty. Or like someone said........ maybe he just spat on her back.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
That's gross Meeks!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some of us here are not about hook ups or one night stands. We are here because we love sex (all aspects of it) and wish to become better lovers and explore our sexuality. Without doubt a woman putting on a performance to help her partner reach orgasm does work. Why fake the orgasm though. As many have pointed out any considerate and attentive lover will realise, maybe not immediately (during his) but just leaves a bitter taste and creates issues in a LTR. Gaz its not just their sphincter that quivers and that's beyond most women's understanding of how to fake. Super Foxy, you have it right too. A fake O is just a woman's lack of care to communicate. How could anyone become a better lover if their partner just bull s__t's them into thinking it hit their buttons. I have lied about coming but I have also had some mind shattering/knee trembling and indeed sphincter trembling sex where I didn't ejaculate? Don't fake it, use your words...... communicate.
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RHP User
12 years ago
never faked one nor would i ever.Neither has Mrs Rough -Although at times it would be preferable to"Are you finished yet"?
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