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Fake it til you make it!

January 11 2011

A suggestion was made by a lovely lady in another thread to "fake it til you make it". I really like this phrase and have often applied it to situations requiring my clothes on, like work presentations and representations. . But it also reminds me of the orgasms I thought I was having in my early 20's...lots of moaning and groaning in response to the slippery slide of thrusting....well, thats what i thought and orgasm was, until a few years later when I actually had one! One that made me hyperventilate and turned my legs to jelly>>enter 'screaming' into the orchestral sounds of the evening. I think I must have been faking it til I made it, it's just I didn't know what I was working towards...d'oh! . So, I am interested to know (and I welcome you to share), if you have ever "faked it to make it" and was the outcome what you expected? . Cheers Morticiaaa

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    how does a woman fake an orgasm and why fake it?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I tried really hard to fake it to make it but failed dismally | I was 21 and had not yet had an orgasm. My lover at the time was a very well endowed man and we had been having sex for what seemed like ages and I was really sore but too shy to tell him. I thought if I faked an orgasm he'd think I was done and then he'd wind things up. Nine faked orgasms later I finally fessed up that I couldn't take any more!! I couldn't sit for a week after that! We are still friendly and every now and again he refers to that 'amazing' night where I just kept orgasming. Ha!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I dont know if its faking as such...I mean yes the stuff I enjoyed in my early 20s has nothing on what I do now. But it was still enjoyable & fun! . . But my first vibrator orgasm...whoah!!!!! Talk about legs tingling, body shocks, The most amazing release in the world! But I must admit me coming by myself at home is a focused event with a few sighs & maybe a few groans at the point of release. But its not really a viewers sport. If I am using the vibrator before a round with hubby, I naturally add in more moans...Not faking but def more aware of what he would like to hear. I also use different positions so he can see better. . . A penatrative orgasm doesnt happen every time with me, though a bit of daytime reading, a round with my vibe can usually guarantee me one when we do have sex. Im happy to do my 'homework' if I know its going to be a big night . I know sometimes you just have to get into the swing of things...Not really enjoying it, but then you let out a few moans & relax & before you know it your wet as anything & HEY! this is pretty good! lol...So I guess in that sense of faking=making, then yeah! They usually happened back when the kids were babies & I was not functioning as a sexual being, but a tired and harried mother. lol Mrs H xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Hehe sweetie, I remember discovering ye olde "Joy of Sex" in my parents bedroom, facinated by the pictures but disgusted by the thought that my parents were doing these things! But you know, the pictures never had facial expressions or "expressions of interest" haha....porn taught me that ;P

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ooooh ouchy irresponsibility :) The "amazing night"....faking the orgasms so he can get past the post BUT he gets it in his head that you're enjoying it so much that he'll just keep going....still, you found your voice :) . I think girls in porn don't do much for the orgasm...they scream and carry on but it's not gutteral. I think feedback noises are really important and men rely on them...I don't know, do men rely on the noises of partner for feedback? . and many times over the years that I have really just been enjoying the sensations and not said much, I then get asked -coitus interruptus- "are you enjoying this?"...oh man! I was enjoying it until you needed reassurance!!! Hehe...fun times :-D

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'youngblack'how does a woman fake an orgasm and why fake it? Search for 'When Harry Met Sally' on Youtube