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RHP

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Fake 'couples' aka single guys

August 23 2012

Apologies if this topic needs a fork in it because it's done, but just interested to hear people's ideas about profiles that purport to be a couple that turn out to be a single guy. We have had a run of bad (and irritating) luck with this recently where we are contacted, read the profile, show some interest, are asked if the girl in the couple can call, we say yes, then the guy rings with a few - mostly unimaginative - excuses as to why she can't speak on the phone and eventually, 'well, we've actually split up, never were together, but can I come over by myself right now?' type propositions. On two separate occasions, the guy has made it clear he is really only interested in Mrs F2P but doesn't mind if MrF2P 'hangs around'!!!! The latest one, who said M was 40 and F 38 on the profile, actually admitted to MrsF2P he was 30 and had always been single. Mmm, not surprised frankly :)Obviously we politely but forcefully refuse and block and no harm done, but what's the motivation here in being deceptive? We can see it would work if you just want to be a cyber-voyeur, but if your intention is to meet to have actual sex, how high could the success rate be? Is our profile not clear enough or are there a lot of dickheads out there who think they are so special we will make them the exception to our rule? And no offence to most single guys, we have found them to be pretty respectful overall.Anyone else encountered this? Any comments/advice appreciated :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    its a bit of a joke really. finding all the online dating sites are like this... pretty much given up hope on meeting anyone off the internet now. now to try to meet face to face and see if we can snare a unicorn

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Murdered millionaire Herman Rockerfeller was a singlemalecouple.He met the couple who murdered him through an underground swingers magazine.He turned up to their house for sex without as promised, a partner and so incensed this couple they murdered him. Obviously the singlemale couple game can be a tad dangerous,but hey maybe that is part of the motivation x Hugs H

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    why ... i dont get what can be achieved by it ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yes' we have found this to be the case far too often , and it stinks... You let these guys into your world because of the way their profiles read .. Then after becoming friendly , then they drop all sorts of excuses why its just them only... THIS' pushes me away just as much as the annoying single guys who are like fly's around dead meat...BUT... in saying that ' over the last 12 months Mrs JJ has had a ongoing problem with entrimetriosis.. ( probally wrong spelling ) a painfull condition women have to deal with and meaning it can effectively put her on ice . I have explained this to couples who have contacted us and they will either stop messaging us, or they think I am a single guy trying to do a number on them.. which is not true... Even though Mrs JJ doesnt mind if I play while she is out of action. I just cant bring myself to suggest anything but the way it is.. Meaning, if they dont ask me , I wont.. so we both agreed I create my own profile as a available straight male.. until such time we can play together..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    hi! Thanks for the topic:) I've known a Guy I met online who had his Profile advertised as a couple ..but uit turned out that his Lady Friend had stopped playing but he still kept the Profile up..No harm done I wasn't attracted to him..We were Social Lunch mates no more...I say it again .. "ALL PEOPLE WHO JOIN THE SITES SHOULD PROVIDE A RECENT PROFILE PIC". If they can;t show on their Profile atleast allow Others to have access to it.. Relationship Status should be known too ..So we are well aware of whom we're chatting with and what tyo expect .We are all on a Level Playing fieeld so to speak...:) Cheers Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Herman wasnt murdered...he died as a result of a fight that came about from him being a sleeze bag....rocking up to a play date without his promised "partner".It has been shown his death was not premeditated.Even the prosecution downgraded the charges from Murder to Manslaughter.Now I am not at all condoning Murder-Manslaughter in any way shape or form, but it does go to show that tempers can really fire up when the single guys pretend to be a couple and there are many ways that situations can get out of hand very easily.Most people just get pissed of and leave it at that, thank goodness!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We've had problems involving couples, on three occasions actually.So here we are both are in a hotel room with another couple, all ready to play and what do you get?The other couple fancies some girl on girl play.!Mind you we had already discussed previously our desires - that didn't include girl/girl play stuff.We're pretty sure it revolves around - how hard it's to find that single girl out there.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Its happened to me alot of late...   Im not sure of their motivation either, surely if their intention is to meet its certainly not going to happen when the truth comes out....   Almost like kiss chasey - all a big game!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't get it

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok, I'm going to add my 2 cents worth which may end up being a dollar $ !! I honestly don't understand why anybody would do this If it's to see private pics - there is a huge world of free porn out there Surely when it comes to talking on the phone or meeting in person it soon becomes evident that it is just a single guy - and probably always has been Having said that, and on the subject of pictures, FFS how hard is it to have pics of both people in the couple and recent pics ie taken within the last 12 months at least (for those about to abuse me for not having pictures in my profile see my post - thanks) It's all a huge disappointment for people when you aren't being real to yourselves and in turn letting others down - most people have busy lives and given the option of meeting people who are not what they describe (arent actually a couple, age, size, other possible descriptive details) you would honestly pass and spend tour valuable time on real people or other activities as family, work, church (chucked that in there for a giggle) or even playing / watching sport Ok enough said, I don't think there is much change from my dollar $ so I will be off ! Play safe X

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Btw, how do you guys get your comments to have punctuation ?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    yea theres a few here...we strike many...couples who are not...couples where shes mysteriously ill, away, at work, being a bitch...or has packed and gone...then theres the guys who who swear black and blue that they are single....but who have a wife, 3 kids and the mother in law in a granny flat, but you only discover this truth 30 minutes out from touchdown when he rings and cancels because his wife/daughter/mother/poodle/cat is sick, or hit by a car... then of course theres the couples who are real, and both are here, but he's contacting you on the sly because we've said no to them previously as a couple, or shes said no for some reason....or he wants to play bi, but doesnt dare let his wife know he feels this way....lol.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Wow - if a millionaire can't even pick up a couple without pretending to be a couple himself, what hope does your average guy have?!I actually do kind of the opposite to what this thread talks about. On another site I have a single male profile that is 95% about me, but at the end (if you read the whole thing) you learn I am part of a couple and we only play together. Sounds counterproductive, but my reason is that we have no trouble picking up couples where the woman is bi and wants to get it on with my girlfriend. Yeehah! Giddyup and all that. Except it gets a bit disheartening when he's banging my girl and she's banging my girl, and I'm kind of an unwanted bystander. So my profile on this other site is about finding a couple where the woman is interested in me, not just my girlfriend. And at least I do eventually state in my profile that we are a couple, so there's not really the same level of deception.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks guys for your considered advice ... clearly in the world scheme of things this is called a ''first world problem" and certainly not something we are too bothered about, just one of those annoying inconveniences. Having said that, it's good to know we are not alone in this experience :)Definitely the unfortunate case in Melbourne just shows you how these things can get out of control, but seriously, like Ruby and Hesione said, that extreme response to being pissed off might be just over-egging the pudding a tad!!Interesting from the guys in a couple who find themselves 'on the outer' with another couple who just want girl on girl play ... we are finding that is the predominant interest from other couples at the moment, which is fine, whatever floats your boat, but we are holding out for something more inclusive.Thanks again all, and enjoy your journey xx

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