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Fake Orgasm!
October 11 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
LOL I think the main difference between real and fake orgasms is the acting! Don't think a man would know the difference or not, but I may be wrong. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ooooh....aaaaahhhhh.....mmmm.....more.....OMG.....OOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.....AAAAAAAHHHHHH OMG! OMG! OMG!!! *sigh* mmmm . A lil fake one....just for you
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nearly ever woman i know fakes it at one time or another for various different reasons and no you can't tell. I had a guy tell me once he had a sure fire way of telling, just to prove a point i got past him. There is NO way. We can even fake the physical. I have a girlie friend who is so good at it i have tried to tell, we actually did an extraordinary experiment. We both lay on the bed facing each other, one went to work on the other with the hitachi, the other just messed around to turn her on but not to the point of cuming. To test the physical responses fingers were used in both pussy and arse and there was VERY little difference.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The girl who didn't have a genuine orgasm did her best "fake" , including the physical reaction (yes, that too can be faked) hehehe...she's such a bad influence on me!
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RHP User
14 years ago
No the man cannot tell otherwise some of the men I have been with would not come back for more. Yes we fake it for various reasons. I never did until I joined on line sites. I thought it was not a good thing to do. Then after 20 years in a monogamous relationship where I was always satisfied first, followed by three years on my own, I joined a site very similar to this. The first man I was with got really, really bent out of shape because I did not orgasm. He gave it his best as did I but it just did not happen. He got so demoralised about it that in the end it had a (softening) effect on him. It was not even his fault. However we do remain good friends. Not saying I fake it every time by any means but if it aint gonna happen it aint gonna happen and nine times out of ten it is not the fault of the man. Sometimes it is just kinder.
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RHP User
14 years ago
unless the mans brain dead or ignorant...absolutely yes......you can tell. and besides, this hang up on orgasm is just ego driven....its not a sign of failure if your partner doesnt climax........but its certainly a sign of trust if you partners honest enough to say she didnt cum....I'll take honesty over bad acting any day......
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Hey IMO if there was a problem either with me or her, if I could not make the lady orgasm then I would want to know what it was I did not do right or need to do differently to have it happen for her. Not every woman is the same and there will always be some learning to be gained. One woman from this site told me she never had penetration orgasms so I made sure she got plenty of oral orgasms to compensate and then started experimenting to find what might help her reach what she never had. Another said she never had oral orgasms but that was an easy fix...she just had to lay back and receive ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
If a woman wanted to fake it then thats their thing...would i know ?? probably not...but who misses out here ??
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is generally faked because you know it just isnt gonna happen....even if the guy tries all bloody night long. When it gets to that stage, the big O is hard enough to acheive by ourselves let alone with someone else. Remembering here that for most women reaching orgasm is not only a purely physical thing. Other aspects have to line up as well and if the mind swithces off for whatever reason...even if you have waited too long, held out too long on the night. Some guys are incredibly sensitve about such things, especially those that have been married to a right bitch who in the end was verbally derogatory about his sexual prowess. Even a man who's wife did not want sex often begins to doubt his sexuality, performance and technique. I have found that occassinally, very occassionally, the acting can save so very very much. Rather moan in the right places and fake it than do any more damage to a fragile ego.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think its very important a man feel he has satisfied you. The big problem is that men feel that the O is like the finish line and for them it often is. Women are just not like that, the big O is the icing on the cake but we can have our cake without it and enjoy the ride just as much. Nobody likes to perform under pressure. A man does not give a woman an orgasm like its some kind of gift wrapped goodies. It is complex, its in our head, its the day you had, its the chemistry at the time, its a surprise sometimes when you least expect. I also try to tell the man that I may not cum but that I just cant get enough of him, I just love to lingers with a man. Its not just the sex its whole package that gets to me, not just the race to the end. I rather enjoy the journey along the way. I have won the academy award for fake orgasm. Category “Screamer”. Some times I was so good I came by accident, convinced myself! Now I do not have to prove a thing to anyone, I know what I am capable off and I am up front with things and just talk to my lover. But mostly I kinda know how my endorphins kick in when around a man, I am more self aware of that animal attraction. I almost get there when they are undressing me or in a kiss. I am more attuned to my own desires, an orgasm is easier for me to attain because now I know in that fist kiss if I am going to get there. And sometimes even with the best lovers under the right circumstance that “ La petite mort” stays just out of reach.
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
I ....well at least i think i can tell the difference between a real and fake orgasim....lol.....but I'm shure a few have slipped past the radar....goodgirlz and Morticaaa.....hmm I onto you two !!!!.......I suppose it's ok for a woman to do this, if it's for the right reasons, if they think that the guy is a bit fragile or something ?.............But I will also admit that a few extra moans and groans can make a better experience sometimes.... It's probably no different when a guy says,to a woman " your the Best " or the most Beatifull...etc etc Like fiona said, sometimes it's just not going to happen....the same goes for guys to !...it's just the way it goes ! Ohhh Baby ohhhh Baby Ohhhhhhhhhhhh !!!!! Baby !!!!!!!!. Love and peace Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
we dont care ???
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RHP User
14 years ago
To be honest last time I faked was with last ex husband...He never knew. Alas no need to fake since then. Just curious you men and women how do you really know if a girl fakes an orgasm?? xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is so easy to tell if I fake it but hey, I aint telling how!!! Sooooorrrrrryyyyyy! As for you Tam? One obvious thing......a man cums. You think I dont know if he hasnt?
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RHP User
14 years ago
This was perfectly and fully covered in mainstream media, namely a movie called "When Harry met Sally" - so the answer is no we (the men) cannot tell, unless the woman wants us to know... my belief is that sexual relationship should be honest enough in this area - it's not a big deal to say "hey, can I go a bit longer so I can get there..", I try to communicate this with my partner during sex so we can cum together (hey - there was even a song about this :-) LOL - better stop right there, but NO NO NOwait I can't stop, let's just keep going oh oh oh... aaahhhh ahhh aaaahhhh .... !!! t h a n k s b a b y ;-0
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RHP User
14 years ago
Isn't all women contracting when they have Orgasm??? Perhaps the nipples getting hard?? Goose Bumps??? isn't that the sign of Orgams you can't fake??? I have all the above signs when it happen But Like Fiona said if ain't gonna happen is not gonna happen even with the "toy" help still wouldn't cum!!However I cum most of the time and the toy does help a lot specially when I'm tired ......I find it hard to believe when women said " I never fake Orgasm" they can't be that lucky?!? LOLEven if women really good at acting there are 2 different contraction, some women can control the contraction by squishing their V, but O contraction so hard to fake as it far more faster speed kissesFlex
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am picturing the whole moaning crap..faking it..if there was already understanding between the 2 people then there is no need to fake it , its more for the stimulation and pleasure at the time, which is great.. when i say who misses out , i am saying well the guy probably cums , whilst the girl fakes it..no big O for her..then again she may have been looking at the clock or making her shopping list !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I find the contractions (easiest noticed during fisting but can be noticed during sex) and the increase in natural lubrication to be good pointers.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with mikeshel, my partner and I sometimes have quickies, or we have an orgy and I can tell when she orgasms, as she has involuntary pussy contractions well after we have finished and I am still inside her ... plus she juices and juicescheers to all
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