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October 31 2012

Why is it so hard to find a FWB..... Just a good friend to have fun with, good conversation, hot sex occassionally and someone just to take you out of reality just for a few moments, a few hours or a day!!!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I guess you have to keep searching for the FWB that suits your needs..i know thats stating the obvious, but it needs to be a mutual arrangement for it to work well..and sexually compatible , easy going , creative, hungry , ercotic,sensual,dirty bad........   now how hard is that !! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My partner and I have a few between us who hang out with us and occasionally indulge in each other. I think the moment you stop looking is when they suddenly start to show up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hard!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We have been searching for 2 years on rhp but still only find people who just want one night stands, we are looking for friendship not one nighters, we hope to have found a nice couple now but will wait and see....   Our problem is we are alway told we are to old, they want someone younger and the thing is we have been told this by couples that are older than we are (and they say we are too old) most guys on here seem to want one night stands only...   We rather friendship with fun it last longer.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    So rare to find one that's so compatible and on the same wave length!The FWB's I've had in the past always seem to get emotionally attached after a few encounters

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Near impossible men like the benefits but no the friendship they consider that they allow themselves to be with you for a few moments to be friendship. They consider that phone call before they ask if they come over asking how you are to be the extent of courtesy. Keep searching takes time to find a decent guy let alone the elusive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Beneath_blueeyes'Near impossible men like the benefits but no the friendship they consider that they allow themselves to be with you for a few moments to be friendship. They consider that phone call before they ask if they come over asking how you are to be the extent of courtesy. Keep searching takes time to find a decent guy let alone the elusive.   Don't agree with this I'm afraid. I have gotten to know a fair few men on RHP, who have been nothing but curtious, well-mannered and ... caring! When hearing women say men they meet on here treat them like nothing but a quick fuck, I wonder about their screening methods. Any guy not showing me the respect I deserve will not make it past the first email. I find men treat you how you demand to be treated.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...that most people are so busy looking for their soulmate that they don't have time to be a FWB.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    and cunningulus (and kissing)Im open to almost anything :D(my in box is empty)fillitplease :D☺

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I agree, it is so hard to find. All I seem to get is people wanting a one nighter (rarely) or those just wanting a friendship only. Would like to combine the 2 into a friend or 2 who likes to go out, do a few normal things, as well as regularly satisfying each others more carnal desires. Couples may also apply. And yes, you could say this is a blatant attempt to fill my inbox lol, but it is true nonetheless.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Devious Miss M,that sounds like something DG would say....now why is that I wonder.?

  • casanovastudd

    casanovastudd

    13 years ago

    ...you only have to go to centrelink to find some friends on benefits, not sure if they'd make good friends tho...:p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Living where I do is not exactly conducive to finding the elusive (I love rhyming) FWB.Being such a tourist area, there are no issues with a one night stand, but that has zero appeal to me.Logistically, it becomes tricky with travel, schedules, accommodation (mine, let alone theirs)Chemistry, I want someone I melt into, have butterflies with and my heart skips a beatWho has the perfect balance of brawn and brainsOld school manners, morals and integrityPower and a hint of arrogance, yet I make him go weak at the kneesCan sweep me off my feet and whisk me away somewhere fabulousStyle, charisma and only wants me--------------swoon------------

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    meeting compatible people is the hard part, still looking for a FWB myself

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hanging out here (and a few other recent events) have made me much more fussy than I would have normally been.In my bad old days, I was happy to give anyone who seemed nice that had some attraction a go to see where it progressed. Now days, I'm not as likely to jump into bed with someone if I don't think there will be other visits..So as the bar is raised (so to speak) the difficulty level follows...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sometimes we reply before the replies made by other members have been approved and are visible. All my answers are mine and straight from the heart. (insert 'thumbs up' emoticon)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Over the last few days I have been chatting to a new friend from the site and things are looking hopeful. We are both on the same wavelength and are both looking for similar things!! Big big smile! Xxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I will add my 2 cents worth My sex life is full if not over full because I put them first and yes we are friends even when some have now got boyfriends. Down side I am the one short changed as I want love and more. TAKE MORE TIME TO CHAT   Steve

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'UrbanCowboy87'So rare to find one that's so compatible and on the same wave length! The FWB's I've had in the past always seem to get emotionally attached after a few encounters I thought that was the purpose of a friendship, an emotional attachment. Do you not get emotionally attached to your friends???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'UrbanCowboy87' So rare to find one that's so compatible and on the same wave length!The FWB's I've had in the past always seem to get emotionally attached after a few encounters Yeah I agree... men say they can handle it but they just can't!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' Devious Miss M,that sounds like something DG would say....now why is that I wonder.? Yeah.......... the mind boggles. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have never had any problem finding friends with benefits, some last months, some last years. most started as a one night stand from clubbing but i have had a few from here and those were just meant to be oneoff playmeets.   be patient Beachlass it will happen and when it does you will have a lot of fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'xxxmiaxxx' Quoting 'UrbanCowboy87'So rare to find one that's so compatible and on the same wave length! The FWB's I've had in the past always seem to get emotionally attached after a few encounters I thought that was the purpose of a friendship, an emotional attachment. Do you not get emotionally attached to your friends??? Sorry, I should have detailed it a bit better. I absolutely agree that friendships involve an emotional attachment. Problem with my FWB's is that they always end up wanting to be my partner and want more than a fwb arrangement

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'UrbanCowboy87' So rare to find one that's so compatible and on the same wave length!The FWB's I've had in the past always seem to get emotionally attached after a few encounters Yeah I agree... men say they can handle it but they just can't! I can see how you have that affect I'd crumble too!