RHP

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Ex's are ex's for a reason...

November 03 2009

Ok...can someone explain to me why women go back to their ex when he was obviously not good enough in the first place for her to leave him?? Because it seems to be the most common excuse I'm encountering from women as a rejection line on here as well as in real life,as well as " I'm attached" & " I'm only looking/into women". I've never had an ex try and win me back...they were treated like goddesses,even the ones who cheated,which is pretty much all of them.And what's with the whole "newly single & looking to root around like a porn" attitude,but knocking it back when it's on offer. I'm really not understanding women andctge whole yes means no means maybe means kinda means whatever " things chicks think like.Am I right to understand that women love assholes who treat them mean to keep them keen?? I'd really live some honest,constructive,decent advice on understanding womens mentality & how to get beautiful young women chasing me.I don't need attacks,or nasty comments saying "get over it" Its that kind of response that's made me the way I am now....and I'm sick of being told to not go looking for it because it comes to those who don't expect it.Well...been there,done that for 5yrs and not one girl approached me ...and besides,if your not looking for it or want it them how will you appreciate it and take care of it when it's given to you????

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well, we will never understand them mate.... we like to de~mystify and they like to mystify..... I "virtually" have to chain my darling Sophie to the bed blindfolded and ball gagged to get a shag... the things we do for womne huh? And what do we get in return? Anxt. It's enough to turn a bloke bi-sexual. This keeps me entertained in the quiet periods... hehe.    Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lmao hubby Gaz.... you're "virtually" getting me all hot and flustered teasing me like that... whew!!! :P lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey White hawk( good handle)....me thinks of lady hawk...It could be the old excuse so, as not hurt ya feelings...or they could be genuine....if so it could be the case of what ya said....treat them mean to keep them keen...id like a dollarfor every time ive heard that expression from different people( male n female)....or as Coustomer69 said..the thrill dominanceand protection only cause they run in packs..lol.....Thus they think that they can fix n tame them...( change them into what they think the guy should be)once the ring goes on that middle finger..reminds me of a joke about a 3 ring circus..hahahaDont become an bitter twisted ass!!!...as im sure that your aware of what qualities your seeking. eg what ya like or not like in a woman. ..and that you've grown as as person from your experiences.?Heard the sayings  Men are from Mars n Women are from Venus?....now in book form.And the twain shall never meet?....Males n Females brains are wired differently....Men touch Women feel ? Totally different in the way we view situations as well......which can lead to arguments.....               xox heymumma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hang in there.....youll become someones diamond.....btw....put ya P/G on main page.....much better pic...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    if the girls you see and want are after the guy who is a bit of an arrogant prick, then... perhaps being a confident and somewhat up-yourself fellow is what you can try doing.You can think about all the lovely things you'd do for them, and how they'd be your princess - but that isn't going to get your foot in the door. See what works, and do that.Gaz, that must be absolute hell for you tieing Sophie up, tightening the blindfold so shes all helpless, exposed, just able to feel you do whatever you wish to... absolutely hell for you mate, she's a cruel one (especially teasing us all with that new profile pic Phwoar! ;-) )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    At the end of the day, if a girl would rather go out with someone who is a known asshole than someone who is a gentleman and would look after her, that's her mistake.  There's plenty of women out there, and only when they are older and more mature do most girls realise what a mistake they made, and the heartache they could have avoided if they had gone with the guy that treats women with respect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I find this statement really quite aggressive and misogynistic. If ladies are not knocking at your door, perhaps it is because of your attitude? Anger is a good and natural reaction when horrible things happen, but don't let it consume you.   You stike me as someone with lots of hurt and bitterness. Maybe you need someone to talk to, sometime to work some things out, before you jump on a site like this, or even think about a relationship with a woman, even a casual one. Cos the interactions you are having here seem to be making you sadder and more fed up, rather than  happy and sexed up.   lovebitten xoxoxo