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Ex using information to blackmail
June 01 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Kellyblair, The initial question i would have is why is he doing that? Did you cheat on him during your relationship? Have you done anything else to hurt him? Usually a partner of a couple may do things or threaten things if they ahve been really hurt by the other person. Have you ever used information against him? It is wrong if he is doing that, but sometimes people do things because they get so hurt.Im sure if he was asked he might have some things to say about you that would cast it all into a different light. Im just looking at it from a guys point of view. Someone who has had their partner cheat on them.It bloody hurts and yes sometimes you threaten things and say things to hurt the other person. Anyway hope he doesnt do that. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
ummmmm NO IT'S NOT OK ! Just to follow that up even when it starts snowing on the sun it still won't be ok ....... Seriously people , please oh please be nice to each other .... really you know being poly is suppose to be about enjoying yourself, having fun ........ Does anyone else see a problem here ? Kellyblair....... sister roll on, we have just read your VERY sexy profile and noticed some very sexy people you have hung out with we are sure you will be back bigger and stronger in no time at all ..... If not call us up and lets see if we can make you smile !!!!! mmmmm Brae and Miss Sarah
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RHP User
16 years ago
As far as I know swinging isnt ... but Blackmail most defintely is ... Nothing you could have done to him would warrant this behaviour at all....If he persists... try a Community Policing Squad... a word in his ear from them might just back him off....sassyme xxPS Are you coming to the drinks on Friday night KellyBlair
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RHP User
16 years ago
That guy is simply behaving like every ex-girlfriend I ever had. Maybe it's learned beahviour? Anyway.. send him a little note telling him to man up and grow a pair... . and attach a copy of the Streets album referencing "Dry your eyes". Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Single1_4fun are you serious? How can anyone look for justification in someone blackmailing their ex partner over something they did together? I don't care if she bonked his footy team, he has no right to try that shit on. Not only is it illegal, it goes against all logic, reason and morality to do that to someone. He's an ass Kelly, good thing you got rid of him!
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RHP User
16 years ago
He is a low act C......I had a similar experience after helping a lover financially
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thank you all....He is delusional & won't stop at anything to keep control of me....He not only wants to share our experiences with everyone I know but he wants to release all my pics & vids on the net....If i go to the police. Btw he was happy for my pics to be used to attract suitable suitor!! Sassyme....no I won't be coming to drinks nite, as he mite be there! Looking2try3.....message me ;) & yes very happy to see the back of him....He doesn't have a grip on reality! ally xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry Babe...its Jealousy mixed with envy. Males AND females get it. Police cant do much - if you even thought about going to them. A swift kick to the goolies.......or, ,,,,,dont you have photos of him??? ...;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey What ever you do dont let him no its getting to you...as he then has the power and control again....mind games ... Just say ...." whatever" and laugh that will get to him more..... good luck Coffee xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
You hit the nail on the head...this guy just wants to control you!! I would out him on here (even in Secret Womens Business) so that he doesn't do this to anyone else! It is against the law and if you get the right officer (speak to the one in charge) they will do something about it as this has been highlighted alot in the papers lately of police ignoring things that are put or said on the net. Even a phone call to him from the local boys in blue might make him rethink things. Ask the police if they can help you to get the images back (not sure if they can, but hey, you won't know if you don't ask)! As for not going to drinks because he will be there? That is still allowing him control over you!! Good luck to you hun and don't give up your fun or freedom for this tool for another minute! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Id love to see how some of the wonderful great guys who are attending would treat him and then of course there are us girls ...... Perhaps you should tell me who he is and i will invite him grrrrrr
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RHP User
16 years ago
KellyBlair i sooooo feel for you but he is obviously a mindless fool it is obviously a last ditch attempt to maintain control. I say lets find a cpl of Burly RHP men and a 10inch strap on to teach this man some MANNERS
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RHP User
16 years ago
You're such a tease. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
when people feel the need to do something like this. not only does it achieve nothing (you still won't want him anyway) but it causes no end of stress. i think it also has a negative effect on everyone because when people hear of this sort of thing going on it makes them all the more cautious when deciding whether to meet someone for the first time. hopefully he is reading this topic and wakes up to himself and stops being a coward
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RHP User
16 years ago
The suggestion to 'out' him is wrong as you would be guilty of the same thing as him.If you can prove you have suffered some sort of loss as a result of his actions then you can have him charged under the law for slander but as he appears to be threatening to do it only if there can be shown he has made demands of you or he will tell all then it is extortion or blackmail.Let the Law deal with it or you could end up in trouble yourself.We have had experience of this similiar sort of thing on another website and the Courts have sub-poenaed the website and guilty parties of spreading the information. Charges are yet to be laid but the sh.. has hit the fan so to speak for the perpetrators.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's quite simple really. He's an asshole! Miss K
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well Kelly Blair it seems you've had the nasty experience of a lover becoming an arsehole when all hasn't gone his way. Guys like this seem to give all guys a bad rep & unfortunately make it even more difficult for the decent genuine guys & couples out there (of which there are many) who enjoy & embrace the lifestyle, to have a sexy lady like yourself be completely open & trusting with them. Rest assured one bad apple doesn't spoil the tree, so keep enjoying & don't allow one spoilt brat to bring you down girl ! Mac & Leanne
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