RHP

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Ex Sex and other arrangements - why do folks find this odd

May 03 2010

So I had ti go away for a few days, ex was happy to look after place, also cleaned, cooked me some meals, did laundry etc and a couple of quickies for good measure, yet some folks find this odd - why so?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No idea why anyone would find this odd...as long as you both enjoy it who gives a rats what anyone else thinks? Alot of peoples mentality is "once you've split up...you should want to fuck up each other not fuck each other" lol. I am jealous (bastard) lol....I would love to have my ex as a FWB...the sex was HOT HOT HOT!!! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    im with both funloving and Trish on this one if you have that with your ex and both of you are happy good for you im jealous lol but my ex comes near me for sex and hell...look out world roxxy's gunna blow so HELL NO would i have that but i do envy those that do roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No sex for the last 3 years of marriage.....then wants to fuck after I move out. lol not while I have batteries in my drawer

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think it depends on the circumstances of your separation. For example, while I agree that it is entirely your business and doesn't warrant approval from anyone else outside the two of you, in my own interpretation, an ex is exactly that..............she's the past. Nothing to do with my present life. For example, my separation from my ex-wife, was bitter-and-twisted. Hey, wait a minute. So was she. lol I'd rather she was in a different country so I can't even imagine sharing a bed with her. I know many separated partners whereby one would see it as a position of power and control, even weakness on the ex's part, if they had sex again. So good luck with it, Slim.......not only do you have sex with your ex but she housesits, cooks, cleans, etc? God, I didn't even get that during my marriage. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Good for you that it works out that way. All I'd be wondering was why did you split in the first place?? Yes i'm nosy I know lol. As for me? ex sex is no go zone, tho if any want to clean and cook for me.......Whatever works I guessDev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm all for Ex Sex in the right circumstances...sometimes you just have an itch that you just can't scratch yourself. Rather than fumble around with someone new, an ex knows exactly what you like, what buttons to push and when, what gets you off and best of all, they won't give a shit if you scream out someone elses name at the moment of climax ;) Wham, bam, heres-that-CD-you-left-at-my-place thank you ma'am! Belle

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Your Ex is like a good movie - You enjoyed it at the time, but you don't want to necessarily see it again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    im with funloving on this one ,,,after i split with my ex ,,,,i tried to stay friends a least ,and had no animosity to her at all ,,,but she turned from a wonderful friendly honest person , ,,,,,and started hanging out with some of her ex friends ,,,,,,< ex sect type people ,,,,,,the family,,,,,,,india > now all i see when i look at her and listen to her ,,is a horrible ,lying ,2 faced monster ,,,,,,i think that these people have some kind of control over her,,,,,,,,,,,any how ,,,,,,,i tried ,,,,,,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think we grew into seperate lives, but good that we can now do our own things and live our own lives, but still be good friends, My you are a nosey one - but not as bad others