RHP

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Everyone is so demanding.

August 05 2010

I have been on that site for 3 months now, and not met anyone. Not that is really bothering me, but the few contacts i had chickened out at the last minute, and the rest, well they either don't respond to your messages, or don't read them, or it is like oh you are shorter than me, sorry. or wrong hair color,LOL and so on.What is wrong with people?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i just checked you out and i must say i would turn you down ....sorry but just cause your married.... maybe you need a bit more on your profile to entice the women keep hanging in there...a lot of men complain that women dont answer mail...so make sure you READ the ladies profile properly and only write to those that you fit with good luck roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Cos the lady is so right! Being Foxxay Roxxay of course. Married men & very clearly stated in my profile, but does that stop em? Nooooooooo. Come to think of it, the age preference doesnt deter the younguns. The seekers of FB's and the like still loiter....darn it, doesnt anyone read anything anymore?? (where have i heard all this before??? lol)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well, i read all profiles, the point is not being married or not, it is that there is way too much fuss about who peoples wants to meet. You are 2 years out of my age criteria, you have red hair, hairy chest, wrong skin color, ears are too pointy, too small, too large, too many fingers... shall i go on or stop right here?Have a great day and night all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    to be fussy on who we want to have sex with!! The way that I see it is, it's my body, my pussy...why shouldn't I be fussy with who gets to taste my sweet golden nectar from heaven!! I am sure there are profiles that you look at and think....hell no! Or are you just not fussy with where you stick it? Well said Foxy Roxy, Luvs ya girl xo xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' to be fussy on who we want to have sex with!! The way that I see it is, it's my body, my pussy...why shouldn't I be fussy with who gets to taste my sweet golden nectar from heaven!! I am sure there are profiles that you look at and think....hell no! Or are you just not fussy with where you stick it? Well said Foxy Roxy, Luvs ya girl xo xFunlovingxI agree!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Is demanding? Where? Why? How? When?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' to be fussy on who we want to have sex with!! The way that I see it is, it's my body, my pussy...why shouldn't I be fussy with who gets to taste my sweet golden nectar from heaven!! I am sure there are profiles that you look at and think....hell no! Or are you just not fussy with where you stick it? Well said Foxy Roxy, Luvs ya girl xo xFunlovingx saved me from saying it.....well said funloving roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Of  another thread "A terrible sadness" Hmmm.....lip service only perhaps ladies or a one way street!Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sorry Mr Frozzy, The girls have nailed it. I would be honoured to be knocked back by anyone of them. It's not a butchers market, it's a community full of beautiful people looking, searching and living. Don't let the frustration get to you mate. Respect is a powerful contribution. Girls, please feel free to knock me back when ever you feel the need. I'm here for ya. Mr Handle (And thankyou Miss Focus, Mr Handle makes me sound important)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sometimes it may behoove a gentleman to be a little patient as well while awaiting a lady"s answer to emails. I recently recieved an email fron a gentleman and ON THE SAME DAY a virtual reminder that it is polite to respond. So naturally I did respond with a NO!!! Now I always make a habit of responding to all emails and flirts, both successful and unsuccessful but it does take me a day or two to log on at times. Maybe some people needs to give us credit for knowing when we will not be taken by a male profile. I mean, be honest guys, do you fancy having sex with every one? Then why assume that we ladies would like to have sex with everyone? Fussy but definately not frustrated, fionabee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Careful Nev, must remember never to mention any percieved form of double standards here, women do rule remember and can make (and change) any rules that may exist. Now back on topic ... Frozzy, for starters, I have found most women here would not even open a message - much less a flirt - if there is no visible photo. It doesn't matter whether you have given them access to your private gallery, your message will just get deleted prior to reading. As for the married bit, well that is your choice. There are enough married women on here that are chasing the boys (normally way younger than them of course) and that is deemed acceptable but a married man gives the women a ready excuse to say no without sounding shallow or condescending. mooka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Nev... You are a game one arent you??? That being said though I dont see any nastiness just gentle reminders that the girls do seem to have the power and tips on how to improve Frozzys chances but then I could have my blinkers on too Mr Handle....Anytime you feel like a knock back let me know we cant have you feeling left out now can we? And I am glad to have made you feel important everyone needs that from time to time Mooka...you sexy gorgeous darling of a man..thats all I've got from you apart from good advice of course. Not only gorgeous but wise too Frozzy....You have been given some good advice here sweetie and I hope you take it in the kindness it has been offered, my own 2 cents worth is that you need to be patient, we hear time and time again from guys who havent met anyone and they have been on the site for a while too. I know it seems that we ladies are icky and fussy however if a message is articulate and you dont fall too far out side what our profile says you MAY be given a chance. Dont take things too personally but remeber that all we have to go on are words on a screen.. Tell us things about yourself, make your profile enticing and Mooka gave you the best bit of advice there is you need a pic that is publicly available just try not to make it a cock shot as many women here (myself NOT included but then I am a bit of a perve) dont like them. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Frozzy...You make it sound like you think us women are here to offer you a service. If you want a root your better off paying for it ...there not fussy, they all "love you longtime" Married and no picture, except in your private...hmm !!!! A man with something to hide. Leelee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We have been on here for awhile now and I came to the conclusion a long time ago that there is alot people on here are not serious about meeting someone but use RHP more as avenue to vent their desires and fantacys without any real intentions of ever meeting anyone. Sitting behind a keyboard ' the real person disappears and the bravado and fantacy takes centre stage. All of a sudden we get the swash buckling self acclaimed super lover or the overly liberated women demanding what they do and dont want.. for a nil result ... finish ' close down... do it all again tomorrow..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Not so much Game as "no bodies yes man" and perhaps stooppid....lol and i am always an advocat of if you post it be prepared to be torched.....i have no problem with that!Cheers Nev.....be true unto thyself.   OR    no blowing smoke up skirts here....i tells it as i see's it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'justjuice' We have been on here for awhile now and I came to the conclusion a long time ago that there is alot people on here are not serious about meeting someone but use RHP more as avenue to vent their desires and fantacys without any real intentions of ever meeting anyone. Sitting behind a keyboard ' the real person disappears and the bravado and fantacy takes centre stage. All of a sudden we get the swash buckling self acclaimed super lover or the overly liberated women demanding what they do and dont want.. for a nil result ... finish ' close down... do it all again tomorrow.. Some people have a reason for not meeting. I have on my profile at the moment that I am only here for the Forums...before that, I did meet up with guys... Lifes circumstances has changed things for me for the time being and I am even a bit upset that I can never get to drinks as I would love to meet everyone from the Forums and elsewhere. This is my week at the moment: Monday night: Son has basketball training from 7:30pm till 9pm Tuesday night: Daughter refs basketball from 6pm till 11pm Wednesday night: Son has basketball training from 6:30pm till 9pm and daughter refs until 11pm Thursday night: Son has basketball training from 5:30pm till 7pm and then has Tae Kwon Do from 7:30pm till 9pm Friday night: Son plays basketball (Rep) which can start anytime from 6:20pm (rarely get them) till 9:50pm and is anywhere from Kilsyth to Drysdale to Warrandyte (we hardly get a home game). Saturday: Son plays in either the late morning or early afternoon and then daughter plays late in the afternoon Sunday: Son trains at 6:30am till 8am So really, some of us don't have the time to meet with anyone! So please don't tar us all with the same brush. At least I am upfront about how busy my life is at the moment (and it ain't even my life) lol. An exhausted xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I do not find any of these ladies here, nor elsewhere for that matter...."demanding". They are simply exercising the perogatives of discretion as choice, which we too...even as mere males, have as well, | Not everyone appeals to everyone, and sometimes in a given situation may appeal to no one...live with it. | I do find some curious, such as in the case of a well groomed beard which I do remove now and then, that something like that is a "filter"...but so be it. That's life...I am happy to live with it. | One definition of insanity is "Doing the same thing over and over again...and expecting a different result". I suppose you could either change your game plan, accept the result...or if you aren't enjoying the experience, simply stop. | Personally...I am having fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You knwo I love you right????? Gotta love a man with a sense of humour. But I happene to agree with you babe if you are game enough to post it be prepared for ALL the comments the good the bad and the ugly... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Nev, Mooka... You've summed it up in a nut shell.. Justjuice... How right you are.