M44 F47
Essential information for profile building
May 18 2024
We're always trying to ensure our profile is straight to the point and communicates what we're looking for and how we like to meet, also what we don't want.
We're always open to suggestions and critique as we think clear communication isn't just how we say something but also depends on how people interpret what we say.
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Andrea_Sydney
6 months ago
Hm, well still, your profile to me reads like s job ad.
That’s not so much down to the bullet points (it’s good to have some paragraphs for sure, makes an easier read), it’s more down to how it’s all worded. The vibe is outlining your requirements, they seem strict and demanding. Just how it’s worded.
You are an attractive couple, but if it was me I wouldn’t say you expect equally fit bla bla.
Psychologically you are putting people into a space to “apply” and expect to be told they are not attractive enough to make the entry. Even very attractive people might feel that as a turnoff. You just don’t want an arrogant vibe I guess.
If it was me, I wouldn’t say anything about expectations in attractiveness regard. There’s no need, you just say no thanks if you don’t like someone who messages.
Many of the expectations listed should come up in conversation anyway, rather than listing prior.
For sexiness reasons!
I personally prefer messaging sexy, playful people over ones that come across arrogant and demanding.
Not saying you are, you are probably really nice people in person!
Just saying how your profile reads to me.
Keep in mind the people reading the profile are just as choosy as you. But a sexy conversation is needed, it’s not a transaction.
I would cull the requirements to the absolute necessary, and add some sexy paragraphs about what you offer, what you like to do with your play partners maybe, something playful and inviting.
RHP User
6 months ago
you are both attractive and you gave a good descriiption in your profile. The only thing missing is whether the Yamaha RZ is a 350 or a 500
Felicitous
6 months ago
In my personal opinion...
I always feel one should be unapologetically and unequivocally oneself in whatever shape or form that takes in the expressing of needs or preferences.
Especially in a profile.. the wording of such will likely shift as you do, as you refine preferences.
Those that resonate, will align and you wouldn't want to engage with those that don't anyway.
Bending or changing to please others.. or to be more pleasing for others (I feel) can attract something in which there will feel a sort of 'missing'nor mismatching.
I love this analogy... Seeking opinions on how to write about yourself and consequently tapering or tailoring is like putting someone else's coordinates into your GPS. You'll arrive at their destination not yours.
I know that's not really what your question was about.. but there's something underneath the question of wanting to moderate what you do to be more 'appealing' to others.
Hope something in that resonates.
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nightingale8
6 months ago
Everyone is here for their own thing. Personally I like the clarity of your profile, I suppose I’m straight to the point and it removes the uncertainty. I also think it’s fine to say you’re looking for (conventionally) hot people. Why lie, not all bodies would necessarily be beautiful to you. All your profile communicates is that you want easy long play sessions with hot people - if that’s it then you’re bang on.
I’d hesitate to contact you as a single woman though as I wouldn’t know I’d make the cut (please don’t answer that lol). If I had something clear in mind that I was looking for then maybe I would.
MsSuperFoxy
6 months ago
I like your profile.
Ms Foxy
ElectricDreamers
6 months ago
Some kind of clue to who you are.
A lack of any information conveys -
You're lazy
You don't give a fuck
You're secretive/hiding
You're a shit communicator
All traits that generally don't equate to someone being a good lover.
RachWandered
6 months ago
You have a very sexy profile.
You look like cool people and most importantly… real (and ridiculously good looking)
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No_probLlama68
6 months ago
Hi guys your profile is great and it sounds like you’d be a fun couple to meet! The new version of the profile is better, it flows pretty nicely, and reads a lot less like a job description. It doesn’t seem to mention if you play separately or not? I can see you invite single females for ffm, but not specifically only for Mr SS for mf play.. would straight girls be considered or do you prefer only bi? Also the single males for Mrs SS - is that mf play or always a mmf situation? If it is mmf - how involved would Mr SS be, as it indicates him to be straight in the orientation section.
Some people suggest they only play together, or in the same room, or seperate but with hubby at home etc etc, and you do talk about and use “we” a lot, it just doesn’t say specifically it’s always together or if one on one is ok.
wanderlustQLD
6 months ago
I really like the way your profile is worded, esp the marathon sessions part. This is a great inclusion that helps manage expectations and also attract like minded people. I learned something I can use in profile structure from this convo! Thanks 😊
RHP User
6 months ago
What’s in it for them?
That’s the core concept of any marketing campaign. It applies to this as well.
Shenanigans26
5 months ago
For me, I don't hesitate in stipulating what I'm looking for. If someone doesn't like something in my profile, then they should not contact me. Helps weed out the lessdesirable people early on.
Also makes having conversations around safe sex far easier as I've already stipulated it in the profile....
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