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Endowment size versus personality
January 03 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
When it all gets to the nitty gritty there's a point where a thing's usefullness is limited to entertainment value only. It's difficult to achieve true sexual gratification in those circumstances no matter how personable the weilder is. Plenty of guys find their sexual forte regardless. A man is more than his dick. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks Stalky, Yes....agreed. I read recently about some women are not interested in anything over average size being the 6-7". My experience is that the average is really 7-8" and growing...(pardon the pun) especially with younger ones. I'm not complaining but some seem to use it as a badge of honour and expect women to shoon because of their size and not invest in developing a personality too. I wonder if any other ladies have noticed this? Just curious! Just to be clear this is not a general comment on all well endowed guys but just something that I noticed as a growing trend with some of the younger ones. Maybe its just a matter of maturity waiting to kick in.
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RHP User
14 years ago
TOTALLY OVERRATED My last partner was extremely well endowed…I truly thought I had hit the jackpot the first time I encountered it and yes it does feel good, real good however, bottom line the dude was a dud in bed. Penetration is not everything !!! He was of the belief that because he was soooooo well equipped…that all women should just fawn all over him and be grateful to behold his magnificence .I once asked him what he wanted to get out of swinging and his reply was for the female “to worship and adore his cock”- I think that pretty much summed him up. Yep it sure does start in the head….but for him, the little head. He was a good looking guy and had a nice personality – I mean you could take him out and introduce him to your mates, but he was lazy in bed. (Still is from what I hear) It was all about him and his pleasure. His fav position was woman on top cause he didn’t have to make an effort then and don’t even ask about foreplay..I mean, what’s that ??? Oh.. is that when I’m required to like pleasure my partner, your kidding rite ????? So give me a man who knows about foreplay, pleasure, exploring, substance, endurance and genuine interest (throw in a good sense of humor, over a big knob any nite !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
How many times do we get messages from guys saying how 'well hung' they are......................and....................that is it! Nothing more about them as a person....nothing on whether they like foreplay or to give oral.........nothing on anything but the size! Does give me a giggle and then I click "NEXT"! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have spent all of my adult life in two relationships. Both men were well endowed and very good in bed. Sex was never the reason why the relationships broke down. Then after 25 years I find myself back out there and looking.....I must say, I thought that the size of men's appendages had shrunk in the intervening years and a friend had to point out to me that 6 inches was actually average and not small. That does not mean that those with smaller length can not do the job just as well because they can....yes personality does play a huge part in the satisfaction stakes.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is fantastic, and the two are not mutually exclusive There are some lovely men on here with a dick to match their big brain and personality
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RHP User
14 years ago
Totally matters to some. But where to draw the line? Hitting the back hurts. Hold up your hand. put your thumb and pinkie away. You feel me?There's more to sex than dick size anyway! What about the hands, strong hands, running over you, grabbing your arms, your ankles, pinning you down? Brushing through your hair, gripping tight? What about lips, brushing your face, kissing your neck? Teeth, biting your shoulder, your nipple, your cheek? Strong legs and arse, to drive that bad boy home? Tongue, fingernails, flexible hips, balance, well planted feet? An arm around your neck from behind, a growl, a husky whisper in your ear as you get pounded, the evidence of mind behind the machinery? The eyes, a dangerous, sexy stare, telling you more in half a second than words can in a sentence?Size matters, but only in conjunction with everything else. Its like playing with a battery and having no toys.In my opinion having a massive dick is generally a sure fire way to become a shitty lover, from what I have heard from women, and stereotypes are based in the truth of the time.Whats with the tongue, stalky? You were so much nicer with your arse hanging out those lemon undies. seriously. Cool photo though.RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
endowment as somehow being linked to virility....at least, that's the way it's always been put across to me growing up. Some of my female friends would beg to differ, though - having been told more than once "He's big, but it's a shame he doesn't know how to use it!"As for personality, I did know one fella who used to brag about his size...he had the personality of a dead fish, and the sex appeal of roadkill.Speaking for myself, I'm happily average - at least I think so...never bothered to measure - and I'd rather get into your head before I get into your pants
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'GirlJuice' Thanks Stalky, Yes....agreed. I read recently about some women are not interested in anything over average size being the 6-7". My experience is that the average is really 7-8" and growing...(pardon the pun) especially with younger ones. I'm not complaining but some seem to use it as a badge of honour and expect women to shoon because of their size and not invest in developing a personality too. I wonder if any other ladies have noticed this? Just curious! Just to be clear this is not a general comment on all well endowed guys but just something that I noticed as a growing trend with some of the younger ones. Maybe its just a matter of maturity waiting to kick in. I would have to agree that the average sized penis is now a bit bigger than the traditional 12.9cm (or whatever it exactly is) but in my experience it certainly hasn't increased by 2" in the space of a generation. I always laugh when I go through people's profiles (being bi-sexual I do check out quite a lot :)) because practically 90% of men on here claim to be at least 8" or bigger. Whatever happened to the average man or is it only swingers who have massive cocks?? I've met plenty of men who've claimed to be huge and then when it comes to it I look down at myself & think, "wow I must be utterly enormous!" Face facts; if you have an average penis then maybe realise that's what many women & men are looking for anyway, it's all down to personal preference. Don't lie about being huge because you just look a wally when your pants come off.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks Biguy, well said! Don't mind the pic either...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I bait cocks... Average cocks, fat cocks, stiff cocks, dripping cocks but I am not a fan of the really huge cocks. They hurt my bum bum. ！(◎_◎;)
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playfulminx
14 years ago
LOL @ CockBait. That's the thing isn't it? You are kinda limited with large cocks so Joe Average is a far more flexible option :DHey, I don't think you'd knock back a guy for being well hung but do any of them actually get ultra, ultra hard? That's probably more important to me :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent'Totally matters to some. But where to draw the line? Hitting the back hurts. Hold up your hand. put your thumb and pinkie away. You feel me? There's more to sex than dick size anyway! What about the hands, strong hands, running over you, grabbing your arms, your ankles, pinning you down? Brushing through your hair, gripping tight? What about lips, brushing your face, kissing your neck? Teeth, biting your shoulder, your nipple, your cheek? Strong legs and arse, to drive that bad boy home? Tongue, fingernails, flexible hips, balance, well planted feet? An arm around your neck from behind, a growl, a husky whisper in your ear as you get pounded, the evidence of mind behind the machinery? The eyes, a dangerous, sexy stare, telling you more in half a second than words can in a sentence? Size matters, but only in conjunction with everything else. Its like playing with a battery and having no toys. In my opinion having a massive dick is generally a sure fire way to become a shitty lover, from what I have heard from women, and stereotypes are based in the truth of the time. Whats with the tongue, stalky? You were so much nicer with your arse hanging out those lemon undies. seriously. Cool photo though. RA Dam you can almost talk a woman to orgasim..forget the cock :) thought I was reading some mills and boon porn there for a while. Is your name Farrrrbiooooooo :) Nice post :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Agree we seem to be jumping the evolutionary ladder here ! Mens cock sizes are jumping up by 2 inches !! Hell some they will receive email!!!! Fark bugger that from here on my cock will claim to be able to be used for google+ !!!!.I will, if I may, note that as a regular Sydney swinger and club attender where there are multiple cocks pointing at me and others ............ I am not seeing the monster that are claimed to be about ! Someone is telling porky pies ....( no relation to red hot ones ).ooops gotta go need to plug my dick back into the USB port !!!!!!.Brae .........buzzzzzzz buzzzzzzzzz Quoting 'biguyforcock' Quoting 'GirlJuice' Thanks Stalky, Yes....agreed. I read recently about some women are not interested in anything over average size being the 6-7". My experience is that the average is really 7-8" and growing...(pardon the pun) especially with younger ones. I'm not complaining but some seem to use it as a badge of honour and expect women to shoon because of their size and not invest in developing a personality too. I wonder if any other ladies have noticed this? Just curious! Just to be clear this is not a general comment on all well endowed guys but just something that I noticed as a growing trend with some of the younger ones. Maybe its just a matter of maturity waiting to kick in. I would have to agree that the average sized penis is now a bit bigger than the traditional 12.9cm (or whatever it exactly is) but in my experience it certainly hasn't increased by 2" in the space of a generation. I always laugh when I go through people's profiles (being bi-sexual I do check out quite a lot :)) because practically 90% of men on here claim to be at least 8" or bigger. Whatever happened to the average man or is it only swingers who have massive cocks?? I've met plenty of men who've claimed to be huge and then when it comes to it I look down at myself & think, "wow I must be utterly enormous!" Face facts; if you have an average penis then maybe realise that's what many women & men are looking for anyway, it's all down to personal preference. Don't lie about being huge because you just look a wally when your pants come off.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's not the girth that hurts it's the length. Unfortunatly the length kills me. Girth is a gift from heaven Anywhere from average to extra thick and around 6 to 7 at the absoloute max and i'm a happy customer.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Maybe there is something in the water here in the West or maybe isolation does have its benefits!!! LOL Sorry I couldn't resist. No porkies, just telling it how I've experienced it! Believe it or not, that is up to you but I don't believe in demeaning someone's observations. Maybe the Sydney boys just don't find the need to go to the club. Just saying!!! Cheers GJ Quoting 'looking2try3' .I will, if I may, note that as a regular Sydney swinger and club attender where there are multiple cocks pointing at me and others ............ I am not seeing the monster that are claimed to be about ! Someone is telling porky pies ....( no relation to red hot ones ) .ooops gotta go need to plug my dick back into the USB port !!!!!!.Brae .........buzzzzzzz buzzzzzzzzz
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Tart_Du_Jour
14 years ago
Tisk tisk, I don't know why you ladies are still lying about this matter. Everyone knows the only important measurement is the size of a man's wallet. I mean, how else is he going to nice things like furs and oysters and boats?
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RHP User
14 years ago
One of the biggest cocks I have ever seen is attached to a 65 year old cross dresser!
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a guy... I don't really think about it too much. I had always been told, by every girl I slept with that "I was huge" and "I was unbelievably amazing in bed". Both comments of which, I completely ignored as being tripe girls say thinking it's what they're meant to say to stroke a guy's ego. It's interesting that there's an automatic assumption out there too; that all guys try to show off about their cock, and exaggerate. I remember telling my friends during a D&M, about a serious problem I had at one stage - I was in a long term relationship; and I was just too big for her. I was severely limited in what positions worked; and I hated it. Instead of understanding; and getting suggestions; they all just joked about how I must have been making it up! I can tell you, at that stage; i would have loved to be an inch shorter. In saying that; I have seen girls look at this site, for example, and seen a guy state his length as 4 inches... and the girls giggle and say "no thank you!" and skip to the next. And that guy could be amazing in bed; but the girl is... perhaps "not experienced enough" to know that there is far more to sex than just the size. It's this kind of behaviour from girls; which leads guys to start exaggerating. Mind you, it's identical to some guys seeing cup size as "B" and saying "no thank you!" and skipping to the next, too! The female from this pair did point out to me, though: "yes, it's fine that you don't think cock size is important; and you don't care about yours; but i bet if you had only the half the size you do; then all of a sudden you would become self-conscious about it". I don't know if I would; but she has a fair point! It's easier not to care when you have enough, and know people aren't judging me because of it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and so the song goes !!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
It sucks being the only comment on page two. Its like when you tell a joke at a party and everyone kinda wanders off in an awkward silence.Here's to you, Joe!RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lmfao. I love that song! No-one gets lucky till luck comes along! Hugs Stalky
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