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February 06 2011

Why do women ( most ) get emotionally attached after Physical Intimacy while men dont ?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Not me baby, especially if you haven't made me cum Dont let the door smack your ass on the way out But then of course that's just me

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    As soon as I cum...he is out the door or I am .. before he can catch his breath! I know alot of girls on these Sites and there is only 1 or 2 that do have the emotional thing going! I think you just WISH that they were! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Women are from Venus...Men are from Mars, as Dr John Gray will tell you. Men and women are diametrically opposed in areas of communication style, emotional needs and personal values. This may have something to do with the innate sense of nesting and building that women come genetically pre-disposed to - in order to maintain the continuance of the human species .. whereas men, are genetically pre-disposed to spreading their seed as wide as possible in order to keep the gene pool going. Hackneyed phrases all and generalizations too but, quite frankly, otherwise...I don't have a clue but it is a definite phenomena which seems to inhabit the male/female dynamic - not all, I hasten to add..I can hear the sexually liberated female on here howling for my blood. Might be a good idea to haul out that rubber doll, at least she won't be texting you endlessly wanting your reassurance that 'yes, she you are lovely' and 'yes, you do want to see her again' (fingers crossed all the while behind your back). I do of course reference this to me - I am a hopeless romantic and always hope for the 'happy ending' lol.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ALL women get emotionally attached, because NONE of them can stand to be without a big strong man to take care of them. they say they dont need us, but thats just whistling in the dark.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Perhaps the women you are getting intimate with are looking for something a bit more than casual. Or you might be promising more than you are willing to deliver to get them to be intimate. Make it clear that you don't want them hanging around afterwards before you get together and you wont have a problem. You probably wont have too many women either but, hey that's life.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Just to back you up there hazman Most , yes most not all have become emotionally attacted to me after being intimate . And so have i also at times when it wasnt ment to start like that . There have been times when i have met females who were looking for nsa sex and i wish i had never met them because of the emotions it had created. Its not about Pfff or " What Emotions " And im not here to brag or try and say i can make every female i meet cum ! ( unlike some ) What happens is what happens ! Feelings happen for a reason , if thats something you dont like, deal with it in a nice way

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Really! You hadn't realised! us Woman! are Different to Men! LOL Funny! that! We are very different! in Many ways! Emotionally for Sure! Learn to know Woman & what they want! Be honest and upfront at all times! xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'CrackUp'Women are from Venus...Men are from Mars, as Dr John Gray will tell you. Men and women are diametrically opposed in areas of communication style, emotional needs and personal values. This may have something to do with the innate sense of nesting and building that women come genetically pre-disposed to - in order to maintain the continuance of the human species .. whereas men, are genetically pre-disposed to spreading their seed as wide as possible in order to keep the gene pool going. Hackneyed phrases all and generalizations too but, quite frankly, otherwise...I don't have a clue but it is a definite phenomena which seems to inhabit the male/female dynamic - not all, I hasten to add..I can hear the sexually liberated female on here howling for my blood. Might be a good idea to haul out that rubber doll, at least she won't be texting you endlessly wanting your reassurance that 'yes, she you are lovely' and 'yes, you do want to see her again' (fingers crossed all the while behind your back). I do of course reference this to me - I am a hopeless romantic and always hope for the 'happy ending' lol. you do sound very familiar ,Cracked Up . Your writing and thinking i mean ????

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'jensta'Really! You hadn't realised! us Woman! are Different to Men! LOL Funny! that! We are very different! in Many ways! Emotionally for Sure! Learn to know Woman & what they want! Be honest and upfront at all times! xxx That can be said about women also How original jensta LOL

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT'Perhaps the women you are getting intimate with are looking for something a bit more than casual. Or you might be promising more than you are willing to deliver to get them to be intimate. Make it clear that you don't want them hanging around afterwards before you get together and you wont have a problem. You probably wont have too many women either but, hey that's life. You could hang around as long as you like MistressT even if i didnt want you to be around

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' ALL women get emotionally attached, because NONE of them can stand to be without a big strong man to take care of them. they say they dont need us, but thats just whistling in the dark.sounds like you do that alot , wistle in the dark. the 475 . Oh i mean theone , or was that two ? fuck who cares

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' ALL women get emotionally attached, because NONE of them can stand to be without a big strong man to take care of them. they say they dont need us, but thats just whistling in the dark. Yeah right!!!!! l Not on the first meet and maybe not on the second. I get attached the same as I do with all my friends. It is not a matter of wanting a big strong man in my life at all. It is a matter of caring. I generally dont have random guys that I meet up with once for a quick fuck and then forget them. On the odd occassion that things have happened that way I am not gonna cry my heart out over them either. Most of the time I have spent weeks and sometimes months getting to know a person so I do become close to them yes but no more so than my female friends. Now the women on this site are not going to admit to caring and getting all emotional as surely this would be a sure fire way of ensuring that the men all run the opposite way. It is basically a matter of compartmenalisation. I found it difficult at first but have no trouble setting the sex side of things aside and knowing that it is only sex after all but........... ............even I have to admit that there is something about having a big strong man tremble like a little baby in my arms after having an orgasm to bring out the protective instincts.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    We don't? Jeese. I'm such a girl then.HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Make stupid assumptions about women getting attached easier than men? And why do some men assume we need and want a man to look after us? I know a lot of lesbians that are doing very well without a man! I also know lots of single women whose lives don't seem to be suffering even though they don't have a man! And I know a number of men who get attached emotionally after one sexual encounter! Sheesh. . .does anyone else get tired of educating men about the pitfalls of stereotyping? WILDly annoyed

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    sometimes i get a man in my head and he drives me crazy, my friends might know, but he never would...but im not a clingy girl so i only do things im asked, if im told yes ring me every day, then i will, if im asked not to contact again, then i wont sometimes its the man and what he says that makes us do things we normally wouldnt....so maybe, just maybe your getting what you have asked for, or maybe your just picking the wrong women lol we arent all emotional after sex...the best sex is the meeting at the park and being bent over the railing and walking away type, dont need emotions there, hell dont even need to know his name hahaha but some men do get clingy after sex too...iv had a couple of those but hey all people are different so choose carefully roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    WildTassieGypsy yep, memories like a goldfish some of them. a refresher course every few months is sooooo draining isn't it? But then I'd be stereotyping them all too wouldn't I Luv2fillUup made me giggle like hell because I can ummmm understand the immediate emotional attachment that women would suffer afterward an encounter with you. Believe me us chicks can fall for the dick and not the man Ohhhh theone what are we gonna do with you? LMAO The only thing I want a big strong man to take care of is........we all know the answer. They're handy for getting lids of jars and reaching high stuff I've never met a man that I can't live without

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    maybe read more books or get to know some women(past rooting them) and listen to their ideas on life.. like guys, they are all different... enjoy... Bernie

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Whilst I do disagree with a lot of the theory of Gray, some of it is true in practical terms. I make an emotional investment with my friends on varying levels and equally so with my lovers. The level and depth will vary...equally as it does with a woman. We are all from the same universe...we just approach it differently and I for one am happy to embrace and celebrate the differences. Meeting someone in an emotional vacuum? No thanks...I would like to think I could hold a lover in my arms even if we had played with sensuous silk ropes, scented candles and exotic oils. I prefer the experience to be an emotional sharing of some sort that we feel and explore physically together. Trying to justify a nameless, faceless or impersonal exchange of body functions leaves me flat. Ever walk away thinking "why in the hell did I do that"? I have...a few times, and choose a different path for myself. Benefits...with friends. ...and for everything else, there's MasterCard.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When Men AND Women orgasm the brain, releases a hormone called Oxytocin also referred to as the "love hormone" Those who don't respond with attachment, I guess are either not having an orgasm, or if they are, aren't releasing Oxytocin, or have their game face on with such focus that they feel nothing for their partner.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    You guys need to log out of stalkers_r_us.com! Emotional after one meet? What kind of women are you guys meeting up with? Just because you make a woman orgasm doesn't mean that she has fallen in love with you...could be you are one of the rare guys that is good at sex/oral and she just wants THAT again! Some of us women can say that men are the same! I have had my fair share of men that wouldn't leave me alone after the first meet! Damn it's hard being good at sex and blow jobs! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I'm emotional about life NOT about men ! I do express my emotions but not after sex. Sex with most men from RHP is just sex ! The rules of engagement are clear. I think most women can cope when the rules are followed and are clear up front. It's the mind games, the manipulation, and the bullshit that drives women insane ! It's the "you are the best woman ever" and "I wish I could see you everyday" type comments that start to make a woman's emotions rock and roll. But a lot of us have learnt that those are often empty words said to simply manipulate us to hang around for whenever the guy calls. I love my emotions. They are what make me kind, affectionate, caring, and compassionate. My capacity to love is huge and that is a wonderful thing ! xx Saturn

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'dontgothere' Not me baby, especially if you haven't made me cum Dont let the door smack your ass on the way out But then of course that's just me If I wasn't a committophobe too I'd fall in love with you right now!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Man your going to get EATEN ALive with a comment as stupid as that

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Oh gosh, I think I may have just blushed just trickin' . Lol yes us Committophobes gotta stick together. We'd even make a cute 'couple' of 'singles'

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'wowwow09'EATEN ALive that sounds delightful. maybe I should start (lol, ok, continue) posting dumb stuff too! Quoting 'dontgothere' Lol yes us Committophobes gotta stick together. We'd even make a cute 'couple' of 'singles' ooh ooh! move to Brisbane, I need a tag-team partner!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Too funny xFx ....and I have had similar experiences with a few of the ladies here. Jearzus, I barely had my zipper up and got the dreaded "Why haven't you called me yet" text. I wasn't talking about co-dependence or the deeper emotions of love and romance...happy with a half decent case of "I like you enough to be here". Sometimes the "benefits with friends" can be funny or have those moments that might surprise you. You know the kind...they can either embarrass the hell out of you or make you laugh. Sure...even I am not dumb enough to take "Tornado Tongue" for a test drive in the back seat of my Merc, but dang...at least kiss me after or give me a "high 5" for not accidentally kicking the shift lever into drive? We are but mere humans and whilst our emotions make miserable masters...they do make wonderful servants. I like spontaneity and clearly defined unexpected expectations. "Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places" never made my top ten list and I like playing wombat now and then....but just saying I don't ever say never and will try anything twice. So was that "Turbo Tongue" or "Tornado Tongue"? Probably just another RHP urban myth in the making. I am still looking for a woman that can suck a cricket ball through a garden hose....then we're talking LOVE!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    dont u feel a bit silly when u read a few other peoples posts and realise that ur one of the only ones who didnt get the joke? nice face pic by the way. oh wait, thats not ur face. well, u can see how i made that mistake.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    hehehe. i must be some kind of masochist. maybe i should just attach electrodes to my gonads, shove a tree branch up my ass and shut the fuck up.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' hehehe. i must be some kind of masochist. maybe i should just attach electrodes to my gonads, shove a tree branch up my ass and shut the fuck up. What shape would you like me to fashion your branch sir? :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' hehehe. i must be some kind of masochist. maybe i should just attach electrodes to my gonads, shove a tree branch up my ass and shut the fuck up. I demand front row tickets lol...wouldn't miss it for the world ahahaha! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    No not electrodes....................................tazer your nads ' ' ' Stalky's all over the anal branch sculpting, I'll happily tazer your nuts for you (always wanted to do it to that someone special) and XFunLovingX can throw popcorn at you from the front row seats . Talk about an awesome foursome

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    stalky- i will leave that one up to u. i have faith in ur judgement. the more loose splinters the better though. funloving-if ur gonna sit that close, wear a raincoat, things might get a bit messy. leave the top buttons undone though. dontgothere-oh, how sweet, what a darling u are. im only special in the sense that i need to attend special education classes. bring the charger for the taser. im a man of prodigious appetites.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' hehehe. i must be some kind of masochist. maybe i should just attach electrodes to my gonads, shove a tree branch up my ass and shut the fuck up. My thoughts exactly !

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Luv2fillUup good grief !! I have to ask what do you feed that thing ???

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    what did u mean when u said that u bet i whistle in the dark alot? do u even know urself or was it a schoolyard style comeback, kind of like, " i know u are, but what am i?". good one mate, good one. i get the impression that u lose 20 IQ points every time u do a shit. better go buy a butt plug before all is lost.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    its just really swollen cos he plays with it alot

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'dontgothere'Luv2fillUup good grief !! I have to ask what do you feed that thing ??? Just a little pussy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'dontgothere'Luv2fillUup good grief !! I have to ask what do you feed that thing ??? more to the point ...how am i able to see that thing???....WOW roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I don't want to throw popcorn...ok, ok, I really do ... but only when he has finished with the tree trunk and I can aim for the gaping hole ! Other than that I want front row seat...no undies...and able to use my vibe on myself as I am watching the fun times! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    and they will come out looking like jaffas

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I don't want to throw popcorn...ok, ok, I really do ... but only when he has finished with the tree trunk and I can aim for the gaping hole ! Other than that I want front row seat...no undies...and able to use my vibe on myself as I am watching the fun times! xFunlovingxhahahaha Just Awessome hahahahaha lmfao

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Hey Stalky. If you like I can bring some restraints in case he tries to run away. What do you think - rope or cuffs?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    How does a question on why women get attached emotionally after physical intimacy become a live theatre production of planting a tree in theone's arse?? Jaffa's and maltesers will I ever look at them the same way again? Stalky I can be your assistant - I will hold your tool while you whittle. xxxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' its just really swollen cos he plays with it alot Nothing to that...what he's playing with is his camera, or is that cumerama. It's a bit of a camera angle and perspective thing and really, a shit shot. Out of focus and distorted...I did not say that, did I? I will now leave to you folks that have more one liners than I have time for....or not. | Compare the feet below, kids. Only two possibles here. | He has the tiniest damn feet on the planet ...or the lens of the camera needs a good cleaning. | Assuming a size 10-11 shoe and the relative angle of the dangle...sometimes being a pixel pixie screws everything up. Course if happen to be wearing baby sneakers...well then my apologies. Bad equipment poorly presented all around.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TassieRose' Quoting 'dontgothere'Luv2fillUup good grief !! I have to ask what do you feed that thing ??? more to the point ...how am i able to see that thing???....WOW roxxy Great point Roxxy, how come we can see that when they're normally restricted pics. Not complaining mind you

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Hey Stalky. If you like I can bring some restraints in case he tries to run away. What do you think - rope or cuffs? I'm sure he would enjoy that far too much and I'm trying to play hard to get for once, dammit.. hehe. Definitely ropes... loose ones please. :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Stalky I can be your assistant - I will hold your tool while you whittle. Hmmm... I have a sneaking suspicion that "holding the tool" is a euphemism for something. :p Proof positive that I will never understand what women are talking about! Besides. Meeks... if I ride you down there on my motorbike... TheOne could be overwhelmed with stimulus .. Mistress T in her finest Mistress outfit... (Don't worry about Focus... she's a slut ~ she'll be too busy fingering herself in front of him like the naughty girl we know she is)..... and he all tied up, being dressed and undressed in girly clothes like a live manikin, fiddled with and taunted.....probed, licked and prodded... but being all tricked up in your bike leathers you'll take everyone's attention from him...... what with getting fucked doggy in front of him and kneeling there with your mouth open just out of his reach... Focus won't be able to stay away from you... So... let's be honest... how would that make you feel Meeka100? I mean... ruining TheOne's dream of being shafted by a specially crafted tree branch and all? I'd probably forget to bring it, for one thing so you have better remember to pack it somewhere safe. Whatever... I hope he has a large sheet of plastic as this could get very messy. :pHINT:(Hey Theone... I've invited myself to a wicked afternoon at your place.. errr... if you ever get a chance to send out the invitations.. that is :p)HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'Meeka100' Stalky I can be your assistant - I will hold your tool while you whittle. Hmmm... I have a sneaking suspicion that "holding the tool" is a euphemism for something. :p Proof positive that I will never understand what women are talking about! Besides. Meeks... if I ride you down there on my motorbike... TheOne could be overwhelmed with stimulus .. Mistress T in her finest Mistress outfit... (Don't worry about Focus... she's a slut ~ she'll be too busy fingering herself in front of him like the naughty girl we know she is)..... and he all tied up, being dressed and undressed in girly clothes like a live manikin, fiddled with and taunted.....probed, licked and prodded... but being all tricked up in your bike leathers you'll take everyone's attention from him...... what with getting fucked doggy in front of him and kneeling there with your mouth open just out of his reach... Focus won't be able to stay away from you... So... let's be honest... how would that make you feel Meeka100? I mean... ruining TheOne's dream of being shafted by a specially crafted tree branch and all? I'd probably forget to bring it, for one thing so you have better remember to pack it somewhere safe. Whatever... I hope he has a large sheet of plastic as this could get very messy. :pHINT:(Hey Theone... I've invited myself to a wicked afternoon at your place.. errr... if you ever get a chance to send out the invitations.. that is :p)HugsStalky Too much information. Sticking my fingers in my ears.... "LA LA LA LA LA LA LA LA"

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Oh dear theone the word 'defiled' springs to mind Start lubing up now if I was you, cos it sounds like you're going to end up with more splinters than Pinoccio and I'm tipping that you'll come out of this with a 'whole new way of walkin' LMAO

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'luv2fillUup' Quoting 'dontgothere'Luv2fillUup good grief !! I have to ask what do you feed that thing ??? Just a little pussy Cher right !!! 'Little' not for bloody long it wont be

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'Meeka100' Stalky I can be your assistant - I will hold your tool while you whittle. Hmmm... I have a sneaking suspicion that "holding the tool" is a euphemism for something. :p Proof positive that I will never understand what women are talking about! Besides. Meeks... if I ride you down there on my motorbike... TheOne could be overwhelmed with stimulus .. Mistress T in her finest Mistress outfit... (Don't worry about Focus... she's a slut ~ she'll be too busy fingering herself in front of him like the naughty girl we know she is)..... and he all tied up, being dressed and undressed in girly clothes like a live manikin, fiddled with and taunted.....probed, licked and prodded... but being all tricked up in your bike leathers you'll take everyone's attention from him...... what with getting fucked doggy in front of him and kneeling there with your mouth open just out of his reach... Focus won't be able to stay away from you... So... let's be honest... how would that make you feel Meeka100? I mean... ruining TheOne's dream of being shafted by a specially crafted tree branch and all? I'd probably forget to bring it, for one thing so you have better remember to pack it somewhere safe. Whatever... I hope he has a large sheet of plastic as this could get very messy. :pHINT:(Hey Theone... I've invited myself to a wicked afternoon at your place.. errr... if you ever get a chance to send out the invitations.. that is :p)HugsStalky Stalky baby....you know it would only be so that we can keep theones mind otherwise occupied....lol....we wouldnt want him screaming too loudly now would we??? Its been a long time since I ahve had to explain that kind of noise to the police . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    got some very vivid visuals reading that last post. and i dont mind telling u trendsetters, i got a semi. cant wipe the smile off my face. as a reward to stalky for conducting such a wicked session of debauchery, he can lay down in the fluids while the rest of us apply a fresh coat of baby oil, then yell out, "stacks on", and submerge him in a writhing mass of skin and genitals. oh yeah, you play hard to get? that will be the day. haha. dontgothere-im going to buy a 6 litre container of valvoline for the occaision. (assume deep voice) "you know what i meannnn"

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    it might be a "shit shot", i dont have enough techie knowledge to be sure, but if there was any such thing as smellevision, it would smell like shit, now im pretty sure of that.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Stalkers - if theones1983 dreams come true - I don't think me in my biker leathers is going to distract anyone's attention. But I still get to wear your leather jacket right? And you can keep the boots. I haven't forgotten 2 out of 3! Bring it on.xxxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' as a reward to stalky for conducting such a wicked session of debauchery, he can lay down in the fluids while the rest of us apply a fresh coat of baby oil, then yell out, "stacks on", and submerge him in a writhing mass of skin and genitals. oh yeah, you play hard to get? that will be the day. haha. dontgothere-im going to buy a 6 litre container of valvoline for the occaision. (assume deep voice) "you know what i meannnn"I know what you mean.

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    15 years ago

    focus, if a few cops showed up it might not be such a bad thing. especially if they bring their battons. more uses than one for those little toys. they can even radio for back-up if need be. the more the merrier. meeks, u can wear my motor bike boots if u like. and my 'helmet', as long as u give it a good polish. a bit of spit and rub, rub, rub. yum, yum, yum.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Ok ill tell you , its like this ,, nah , changed my mind but how are the splinters ?? Low IQ , hmm , I wonder hey ??

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'luv2fillUup' Quoting 'dontgothere'Luv2fillUup good grief !! I have to ask what do you feed that thing ??? Just a little pussy Cher right !!! 'Little' not for bloody long it wont be I haven't broke one yet oh hang on yes i have amazing what lube does though , natural or from the bottle just ask the one above , but i think he will need the bottle kind !

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    15 years ago

    its not for you to look at is it

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'luv2fillUup'just ask the one above , but i think he will need the bottle kind ! See.... now.. that's trolling.. just a little baiting up to co-erce further reaction... we have our way with trolls around here... we fuck em up the arse, figuratively speaking. I'm sure you understand that these little tiffs are best let go... I mean... if you stop, he stops... and vice versa... because it really gets boring otherwise for teh rest of us .. errrr.. that is, unless you're a really skilled troll ... you know... I mean.. you would already know of you were one.. in which case I'd be telling you to suck eggs... and you'd have trolled theone off this thread by now in very amusing ways.HugsStalky

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    15 years ago

    I find it quite interesting, I enjoy the art of being intimate, but I do have a problem with people saying doing anything to make you share your emotions and your soul. I find this more invasive than allowing someone to be inside of me, you can have my body but my soul my heart needs to earned. I had to have a birds and the bee's talk with my Daughter not so long ago. If only I would take my own advise. A former partner *insert name here* she had a dog called Rove a lovely little thing, I had a dog called Gabby. My daughter was horrified that Rove used to get errections all the time and try to hump Gabby. I explained to my daughter that men are like rove they cant help that they feel that way and we should feel sorry for them, however they will do anything say anything to be inside of a women to get their genitic needs met. Men are llke fishermen, they will try all kinds of bait to real you in, if the first lure doesnt work they will try another to catch the fish. But I do find they cant sustain the lie, the lure they put out, all comes to the surface eventually, to all the women on here give yourself the power to see through all the Rove's in this world and give yourself on your terms.. And always remember Rove! Me x

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    15 years ago

    i kept waiting for fill-with-shit to come up with something witty and amusing, but all his responses were as lame as a three legged donkey, so even i became bored and have no intention of continuing the tirade. forthwith, i shant be responding to his piss poor jibes as i now deem him to be beneath my notice. . as most people know, my dicky remarks are intended to inspire levity, and clever ripostes from the intellegent and humorous members whom i know to be out there. they are certainly not designed to attract the misguided scorn of the clinically ignorant, nor that of the plainclothes superheros who will say anything to curry favour with the ladies in a pathetic and transparent attempt to get their ends wet.

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    I really do wonder if that is the truth Chasing, you sound like a fisherman to me. Oriah Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'Too funny xFx ....and I have had similar experiences with a few of the ladies here. Jearzus, I barely had my zipper up and got the dreaded "Why haven't you called me yet" text. I wasn't talking about co-dependence or the deeper emotions of love and romance...happy with a half decent case of "I like you enough to be here". Sometimes the "benefits with friends" can be funny or have those moments that might surprise you. You know the kind...they can either embarrass the hell out of you or make you laugh. Sure...even I am not dumb enough to take "Tornado Tongue" for a test drive in the back seat of my Merc, but dang...at least kiss me after or give me a "high 5" for not accidentally kicking the shift lever into drive? We are but mere humans and whilst our emotions make miserable masters...they do make wonderful servants. I like spontaneity and clearly defined unexpected expectations. "Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places" never made my top ten list and I like playing wombat now and then....but just saying I don't ever say never and will try anything twice. So was that "Turbo Tongue" or "Tornado Tongue"? Probably just another RHP urban myth in the making. I am still looking for a woman that can suck a cricket ball through a garden hose....then we're talking LOVE!

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    I hear you if only men would be honest upfront about their expectations of what will happen and what they want, then you are able to make the choice for yourself. Oriah Quoting 'Miss_Saturn' I'm emotional about life NOT about men ! I do express my emotions but not after sex. Sex with most men from RHP is just sex ! The rules of engagement are clear. I think most women can cope when the rules are followed and are clear up front. It's the mind games, the manipulation, and the bullshit that drives women insane ! It's the "you are the best woman ever" and "I wish I could see you everyday" type comments that start to make a woman's emotions rock and roll. But a lot of us have learnt that those are often empty words said to simply manipulate us to hang around for whenever the guy calls. I love my emotions. They are what make me kind, affectionate, caring, and compassionate. My capacity to love is huge and that is a wonderful thing ! xx Saturn

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    Oriah..... you are a special one, the kind of woman who makes the hairs on the back of my neck stand erect. There seems to be few like you, I can only think of two or three, who illicit to such such depth, Mz J where are you?, and two others, an earth mother who despite her bravado illudes to so much more, and excites me so, as well as a a special lady from the Midlands of WA, gawd this is all so "Star Wars".....lol...."may the swartchz be with you"Cheers Nev........More to life than armpits and pussy!

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    Quoting 'theone1983' i kept waiting for fill-with-shit to come up with something witty and amusing, but all his responses were as lame as a three legged donkey, so even i became bored and have no intention of continuing the tirade. forthwith, i shant be responding to his piss poor jibes as i now deem him to be beneath my notice. . as most people know, my dicky remarks are intended to inspire levity, and clever ripostes from the intellegent and humorous members whom i know to be out there. they are certainly not designed to attract the misguided scorn of the clinically ignorant, nor that of the plainclothes superheros who will say anything to curry favour with the ladies in a pathetic and transparent attempt to get their ends wet. What kind of fool are you ? I really dont have time to reply to your wasted moments in " The One Cyber Land " c but just letting you know i am still here to read and laugh at you you are funny. You should change your name to then go get a branch up ya . Not lame , just cant be fucked , got better things to do XXX

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    Sorry a little bit was emitted from my last post , just noticed , was meant to say - You should change your name to NumberOneTool !

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    Quoting 'oriah' I find it quite interesting, I enjoy the art of being intimate, but I do have a problem with people saying doing anything to make you share your emotions and your soul. I find this more invasive than allowing someone to be inside of me, you can have my body but my soul my heart needs to earned. I had to have a birds and the bee's talk with my Daughter not so long ago. If only I would take my own advise. A former partner *insert name here* she had a dog called Rove a lovely little thing, I had a dog called Gabby. My daughter was horrified that Rove used to get errections all the time and try to hump Gabby. I explained to my daughter that men are like rove they cant help that they feel that way and we should feel sorry for them, however they will do anything say anything to be inside of a women to get their genitic needs met. Men are llke fishermen, they will try all kinds of bait to real you in, if the first lure doesnt work they will try another to catch the fish. But I do find they cant sustain the lie, the lure they put out, all comes to the surface eventually, to all the women on here give yourself the power to see through all the Rove's in this world and give yourself on your terms.. And always remember Rove! Me xThat can be said for a lot of horny little fuckers that are going though puberty , but then again you cant put us all in the same box , and in saying that same goes visa versa . females are the same ! Every one needs a root , its part of life , so if he /she ignores you after the fact ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, maybe , just maybe either your getting sucked in time and time again or , your just no good in bed ?? Just making a point , no offence intended .

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    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'luv2fillUup'just ask the one above , but i think he will need the bottle kind ! See.... now.. that's trolling.. just a little baiting up to co-erce further reaction... we have our way with trolls around here... we fuck em up the arse, figuratively speaking. I'm sure you understand that these little tiffs are best let go... I mean... if you stop, he stops... and vice versa... because it really gets boring otherwise for teh rest of us .. errrr.. that is, unless you're a really skilled troll ... you know... I mean.. you would already know of you were one.. in which case I'd be telling you to suck eggs... and you'd have trolled theone off this thread by now in very amusing ways.HugsStalkyI troll when i have time Stalky xx

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    Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'luv2fillUup' Quoting 'dontgothere'Luv2fillUup good grief !! I have to ask what do you feed that thing ??? Just a little pussy Cher right !!! 'Little' not for bloody long it wont be Lovinggggggggggggg the new pic!! xFunlovingx

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    Awwww thanks xFunlovingx I felt like doing something a bit speshy for Valentines Day even dragged out the hat to cover the mug...lol

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    some do some don't. some women are needy and clingy from the get go and others, well, they are grown up, aren't they?

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    I can screw a guy with no emotional attachment whasoever. The only emotional attachment I have is to my partner.... every other guy is just a fuck.... once done, out the door and forgotten until we meet again.

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    Quoting 'theone1983' ALL women get emotionally attached, because NONE of them can stand to be without a big strong man to take care of them. they say they dont need us, but thats just whistling in the dark. Maybe you're right if you quote this statement at least 20 years ago when small percentage of women have a good education and were able to get to an executive job position. But it's 2011 now; so you will find an equal amount of women and men are the same level of income which has massive influence on women confident in life. And we can now rely on ourself both financially and emotionally (of course not all women can). So to correct your quote, having a relationship is not all about women look for big strong man to take care of them but to share mutual things and supporting each other for whatever necessary. Don't you think so? Or maybe you personally want or need those type of women who only rely on men to survive so that you feel more powerful and strong as a man... :PI can firmly say that I'm one who don't need a man to make me happy or to feel safe and protected. But if I ever decide to start a relationship with any man; then it's because I feel that I can share most part of my life with him that we're going to walk side by side rather than just having him to feel safe. :)Maya x

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    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'theone1983' hehehe. i must be some kind of masochist. maybe i should just attach electrodes to my gonads, shove a tree branch up my ass and shut the fuck up. What shape would you like me to fashion your branch sir? :pHugsStalky You're adorable Stalky....Love it!!!!Maya

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    Quoting 'maya34' But if I ever decide to start a relationship with any man; then it's because I feel that I can share most part of my life with him that we're going to walk side by side rather than just having him to feel safe. :) Maya x. if i ever decide to start a relationship with a woman, it will be so she can cook my dinner, as well as doing other domestic chores, while i drink beer and watch telly. not to mention, satisfying my every sexual need, whilst taking responibility for her own orgasm. they are lining up at the door for the job, but i havent yet met one who cooks panang chicken quite the way i like it.

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    Quoting 'maya34' Quoting 'theone1983' ALL women get emotionally attached, because NONE of them can stand to be without a big strong man to take care of them. they say they dont need us, but thats just whistling in the dark. Maybe you're right if you quote this statement at least 20 years ago when small percentage of women have a good education and were able to get to an executive job position. But it's 2011 now; so you will find an equal amount of women and men are the same level of income which has massive influence on women confident in life. And we can now rely on ourself both financially and emotionally (of course not all women can). So to correct your quote, having a relationship is not all about women look for big strong man to take care of them but to share mutual things and supporting each other for whatever necessary. Don't you think so? Or maybe you personally want or need those type of women who only rely on men to survive so that you feel more powerful and strong as a man... :P I can firmly say that I'm one who don't need a man to make me happy or to feel safe and protected. But if I ever decide to start a relationship with any man; then it's because I feel that I can share most part of my life with him that we're going to walk side by side rather than just having him to feel safe. :) Maya xLove your style Maya !

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    I am not 'emotionally attached' to ANY of the guys I've been..intimate with. I am however emotionally attached to having my house to myself afterwards. Damn, half the time I forget who they are/where I found them/or whos number it is next to the computer. I dont even chase em up afterwards...unless its to say thanks for a GREAT time. Guess I've been missing out. Who knew?

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    can you be emotionally attached but not know their last name?

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    well for 1 thing it's mainly the younger/immature/needy girls who get attached..I for one DO NOT get attached unless there was some sort of emotional connection/spark there to begin with and they would have to be bloody good in the bedroom to make me want to come back

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    Quoting 'mikeandshel'can you be emotionally attached but not know their last name? I thought all their last names were "Smitty" (Smith)! xFunlovingx

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    each to their own...some guys are worse!har har...

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    I've had this problem a couple of times when I've met girls out clubbing. Everything is just so easy at the start but really there always comes the inevitable commit or get out situation. Even though both sides start off purely wanting a casual relationship it's just too easy to fall into a bf/gf situation unless you don't engage in any sort of conversation and bolt for the door after a successful mission.

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    Quoting 'Broncos87'I've had this problem a couple of times when I've met girls out clubbing. Everything is just so easy at the start but really there always comes the inevitable commit or get out situation. Even though both sides start off purely wanting a casual relationship it's just too easy to fall into a bf/gf situation unless you don't engage in any sort of conversation and bolt for the door after a successful mission. i think there's a middle ground, you can chat and fuck and have a good friendly time but you have to leave it there for it to remain truly NSA - it's when you start going out other places and doing other things too that it gets complicated.

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    ...after you've been put to the sword by some folks and then had your topic completely hijacked by others. . If you're interested in some of the observable differences between men and women I'd recommend reading some of the popular psychology stuff out there. The most famous is "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and there are dozens of others. A married couple with the surname Pease write some, like "Why men lie and women cry" and so on. They have some good ideas but just remember the 80/20 rule. What these sorts of books write about men are likely true for about 80% of men, in that culture (i.e., the USA), about 80% of the time. They're valid in that you can observe those sorts of traits in men, but remember there are always men who aren't like that, and even the men who are aren't like that 100% of the time. (Obviously remember the same sort of thing when reading about women). . It'll be a good start and will get you thinking. Enjoy.

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    I think that alot of girls do get emotionally attached as they are insecure within themselves and need a man to be able to survive in life! < You will see these same girls put up with shit that they don't need to or they will jump from one relationship to another and claim to have found "the one" with each! Some don't even take a breath between each relationship! < These are the girls you run from! xFunlovingx

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    I would have to agree with you there I do like to have a big strong man to be there for me as long as he makes me cum first :p hahaha obviously you males need us too otherwise your work socks would be piled up next to your bed waiting to be washed

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    being emotional and getting emotionally attached are two different things... don't confuse the two and flatter yourself ;)men and women get emotional because as human beings, we are not made of stone.... we all generally have some kind of emotive reaction to what happens to us.... TOTALLY unemotional people are generally put into the "damaged from previous bad experience" or aspergers syndrome group.... but then again, I would only be "emotional" if the guy was worth it.... otherwise it doesnt worry me at all ;)

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    I will tell you why its because alot of men are liars and tell you different stories all the time so women do get emotionally conected. The one I was dating and fell pregant to he was in to relationships with me and another women much older then me and him he abused me because I find out about them and she always said there was nothing going on with them.he told her i was just the mother of his child. until she found out he was cheating on her two and we meet with that lady as well I am looking for her.I was marride for 9 yrs and he has pulled me into the ground when it was his doing cheating and sleeping at her house the night his baby was born .please let me know if you know a person like this inbox me

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    I am shocked at the naivity of some people. The book is a basis guide only - it does not generalise everyone!!! It is SCIENCE!!! Women have more hormones and men have more testereone - ON AVERAGE!!! (As we all know the type with the ????) HORMONES = Emotional Heightness TESTEREONE = Masculine Detachment Increase Which means, and only GENERALLY speaking........ Us Ladies FEEL better ORGASMS -hahhahaha nernerner!!!! Guys FEEL detached or sleepy at times after an ORGASM - cos most can't keep up - hahaha GUYS ARE MOSTLY MORE VISUALLY STIMULATED THAN THE 'AVERAGE' WOMAN. WOMEN ARE MORE FEELING STIMULATED THAN THE 'AVERAGE' MAN. Just general science people's, no offence intended, averages only (mmm don't think I know anyone that is average!!!!) And guys - cos you are more visual......let moistheaven draw you a big bold MAP.....so you can SEE and FIND your way to our G-SPOTS!!!!!!!!!!!! And for those wonderful guys that know exactly where to find it, cos they WATCH how a woman FEELS to find that 'oh' 'aaaahhhhh' place THANKYOU FOR CUMMING!!!! Please cum again And again

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    Quoting 'moistheaven' I am shocked at the naivity of some people. The book is a basis guide only - it does not generalise everyone!!! It is SCIENCE!!! Women have more hormones and men have more testereone - ON AVERAGE!!! (As we all know the type with the ????) HORMONES = Emotional Heightness TESTEREONE = Masculine Detachment Increase Which means, and only GENERALLY speaking........ Us Ladies FEEL better ORGASMS -hahhahaha nernerner!!!! Guys FEEL detached or sleepy at times after an ORGASM - cos most can't keep up - hahaha GUYS ARE MOSTLY MORE VISUALLY STIMULATED THAN THE 'AVERAGE' WOMAN. WOMEN ARE MORE FEELING STIMULATED THAN THE 'AVERAGE' MAN. Just general science people's, no offence intended, averages only (mmm don't think I know anyone that is average!!!!) And guys - cos you are more visual......let moistheaven draw you a big bold MAP.....so you can SEE and FIND your way to our G-SPOTS!!!!!!!!!!!! And for those wonderful guys that know exactly where to find it, cos they WATCH how a woman FEELS to find that 'oh' 'aaaahhhhh' place THANKYOU FOR CUMMING!!!! Please cum again And again gee then..we must both be way above average.........lol