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Drinks Nights
February 25 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Friends and frienships/mateship are way more important than a romp in the hay....well for me anyway...i guess for someone who's been drought declared it may well be different! So would i expect to pick up on the night....thought didn't even occur to me...till you mentioned it!...and no.Cheers Nev.......loves people for who they are as a whole not their anatomical sexual bits and pieces!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Stalky's get together is a trial for something regular. There are lots of people I would love to meet... but I dont really want "a date" with each one to do so, if you know what I mean.... so my idea is that those people you are chatting up in RHP... well you can meet them in the company of others.. not so much "a date" as an "oh.. are you going to that? Im going to that" ... and if he/she is a no show or not what you're interested in, then the evening isn't a total loss. The venue is a non sex venue. A simple bar where you can still hear your own voice and potentially hold a conversation without having to shout. No more than that in my opinion. But if people do leave together, I'm not complaining. It's not the purpose. If it was the purpose, the venue would be a private safe place with safe sex comforts provided. Hugs Stalky
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
Miss Saturn Drinks night means drinks to me. Catch up with people, have a yarn or two, get acquainted on a personal level and hopefully make some friends out of the social event. Hey some people might hook up, if they do great, but drinks are drinks. Yep I must be soft in the head for believing that too!!! What does catch up for a coffee mean these days??????? Shit don't go out for a meal, that probably means you are a sure thing in that case.......lol Cheers Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's the kind of event you attend.. to meet and talk to kinky sexy fuckers and discuss what have been good sex events to attend! It's a good event to attend to get to know if those people you chat to are genuine. Maybe you are uncertain about sex parties.. never been to one.. not sure what to expect.... what sort of people attend... all open for discussion at a meet ad greet.If you've ever tried to meet someone at a coffee shop and they didnt show up.. this kind of meet and greet is for you because there's backup! Same for all those people who have knocked at the wrong door.. or sat in the carpark outside a venue too scared to go in. Or for those who dont know anybody there... well, that would be most of us at a meet and greet because for many, we only know each other through chat, forums, MSN and so on. The purpose is to meet! If anyone goes to a meet and greet with the expectation of sex on the night, then they are the people most likely to be dissapointed. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'that's Not my idea for meet and greet what?! it isn't?! oh well... but... *sigh*fine, then there'd better be lots of laughing and drinks with parasols :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
It may not be the idea Sydlad.. but I am not the fuck police... as for parasols... Man have I got just the spot in mind for yours. :P Hugs stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
To me, that's not what the meet and greet nights are for. There are plenty of people on this site that I have no interest in sexually, but I would still love to meet. I'm straight, but that doesn't mean I don't want to meet other guys off here...There are some great blokes here that I could see myself becoming good mates with... Where or how you meet them is irrelevant. There are also lots of women on here that I love to bits. I don't necessarily want to sleep with them all, but I'd still love meet them! lol The misconception that this site is exclusively “for fucking” always makes me laugh... especially when the majority of us (in the forum gang anyway) value the people on here as human beings, and not just as potential fuck buddies. If those peoples’ minds are that closed, well look at the opportunities they’re missing out on to meet great people – just because they don’t want to “fuck” them... haha. It just comes down to maturity and experience if you ask me. RHP is a great place to meet likeminded people... Where else in society can you so openly discuss what we discuss in here and get away with it? haha. You'd get locked up in most places. Whether they're male, female, sexually compatible or whatever makes no difference. The meet and greet nights are about hanging out with and meeting the friends you've made on this site... You can root them if you like, but If rooting is your main objective on one of these nights, then I reckon you're gonna be disappointed - and pretty unpopular. Good post Miss Saturn... as always ;) Love Ridgie xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
But stupid nutters thought it was a fuck meet! Dont know how many times I had to explain it was just dinner and drinks..And if you clicked with someone then go and have your fun... I was just trying to get some cool RHP folks to meet. But too many are silly or just palin chicken shit....hahaha..Can I say that? oopsy sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
At the first "drinks" night in Melbourne, it was a fun night. Fun conversation, fun company, fun teasing. We knew a little of each other from the forums, either posting or just reading and it was a great way to meet those people in the flesh, so to speak....:) At 51 , I was the eldest of the rhp sandpit and I think I am correct in saying , the youngest was 25, and all ages inbetween. I have made it clear in my profile and forums that I am not a 'cougar' and not into women, so the drinks night was a fabulous way of meeting other rhpers that I would have never met. There was no feeling of pressure to hook up with anybody, their forum personas shone through in a very relaxed, comfortable, if not silly evening of mixing with other like minded individuals out for a social meet 'n greet. If there is anyone feeling a bit shy about attending.... it seems we are a friendly lot, come on down and say hi. I hope to attend the next one, my only expectation will be one of a fun night out. If anyone arrives by themself and leaves with someone.....woohoo...good for them but it wont be something that should be taken for granted is going to happen. intrigued & curious ~~wandering off to find some champagne proof clothes~~~~~
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RHP User
16 years ago
Melbourne drink night!!! A fun social night with forem friends, to meet and socialise!!! NOT A MASS ORGY!!! Great chance to make new friends! with like minded people! Im sure there plenty of great personalities!!! Im sure we will talk dirty! laugh lots! Lets make it a fun night to remember!!! Miss Saturn it will all be good!!! XXX
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm certainly not going along with the intention of playing that night, nor meeting potential playmates. I just want a night out with like minded people.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow... I feel so much better after reading everyone's thoughts. I SERIOUSLY thought I'd stuffed up big time by inviting lots of people along.... I had a picture of all these crazy guys getting pissed off with me... and calling me a tease.... when all I want to do is have FUN... lick a few body parts... male and female and laugh ALOT. I'm short on laughter at the moment. And really ... I'm not THAT gullible am I ? Why isn't innocence a nice trait ? Why is it seen as being gullible and misleading? Hugs, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ridge_E_Didge' To me, that's not what the meet and greet nights are for. There are plenty of people on this site that I have no interest in sexually, but I would still love to meet. I'm straight, but that doesn't mean I don't want to meet other guys off here...There are some great blokes here that I could see myself becoming good mates with... Love Ridgie xx All I can say is - Four beers. Oh and it's not gay if you think it's straight. (apparently)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' All I can say is - Four beers. Oh and it's not gay if you think it's straight. (apparently) Is that 4 beers to get into my pants or into your pants? lol Where you been Jean? Haven't seen you for a few days?
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RHP User
16 years ago
the speed limit says 80. Do 80. If a meeting is listed under meet and greet I'll be leaving the jumbo-sized dingers in the drawer at home (that's a lie I have a small penis, I have to make a regular connie go over my balls so it doesn't slip off). Orgies are usually listed as such, right? Random
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RHP User
16 years ago
I asked Dr Jean and he said coffee DID NOT mean F*** me F***me now !! Well Im telling ya..............................The Drinks Night is about fun laughter sexy discussion flirtaceous comment and ADULTs who respect each other, enjoying each others company, getting to know the people behind the forums, enjoying time with ppl who are more open with their sexuality.............., and fun and laughter IT IS NOT MEANT AS A PLAY NIGHT !! Its being held at a public venue...... Grow up boys !!!!! There is more to life than sex and ...sex.....lol ! If you have been drought declared (love that ) chances are its got something to do with your attitude and how your interact with people. THE DEFINITION OF STUPIDITY IS TO CONTINUE DOING THE SAME THING , EXPECTING A DIFFERENT OUTCOME !!!!!! GGGGRRRRRRR beware this cougar has teeth !!!!! Miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' It may not be the idea Sydlad.. but I am not the fuck police... as for parasols... Man have I got just the spot in mind for yours. :P make it one with the old-school 'hook' shaped handle, those new-fangled handy-dandy-compact umbrellas would just be inconvenient... I'm a human, we walk upright - not on our hands ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ridge_E_Didge' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Where you been Jean? Haven't seen you for a few days? I was carrying out recon in Deniliquin for the road trip... We're not going to blend in there and can skip it - especially you, they'll freak out if they see a grin with a full complement of teeth.
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RHP User
16 years ago
so when is the brisbane or gold coast drinks?
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RHP User
16 years ago
For us Drinks night is a way we can get out together with friends for a fun night of chat, dancing and general flirting with either people we can call good friends or people we are yet to meet... (Yes, we were at the last drinks night and we did not pick up.. but we did have a great night out.. so thanks to all those who were there who made it a great night.) The averages.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss Saturn, What is the change in your friends personal circumstances? Is he now in a relationship.Im presuming that it might be something like that for him to not want to go to a drinks night. If that is the case i think he would be doing the right thing, becuase he wants to focus on that. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
see if we can't Herculese the sin bin in and drop it over melbourne.your parties garrenteed to be non sexual then in a Benny Hill kindof way.ahahahahahahahahahahahaahaa
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's 4 beers rations mate... 'cause 3 (Jean, Stalk, Ridge) x 4 (beers) = 12. And 12 + 12 = 24 = one carton.... every two nights. So that'll have to do. Drop 'em bebe. :) Bottoms up Stalky<<<<< now realises the true origins of "bottoms up". Quoting 'Ridge_E_Didge' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' All I can say is - Four beers. Oh and it's not gay if you think it's straight. (apparently) Is that 4 beers to get into my pants or into your pants? lol Where you been Jean? Haven't seen you for a few days?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hmmm... I think you're onto something. I've always wondered why they dont make a dildo with a handle... I mean... there it is all smothered in lube and slippery as... well... as a dick I guess..... and they're difficult to get any real purchase on.. but a handle... like an umberella handle... curled back under.... maybe with a vibrator... could double up as butt primer. Where's Miss Honey when we need her...! HUgs Stalky Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' make it one with the old-school 'hook' shaped handle, those new-fangled handy-dandy-compact umbrellas would just be inconvenient... I'm a human, we walk upright - not on our hands ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Welcome to Stalky's RHP party. there will be no smoking, poking ,stroking, frolicking sucking, kissing eating, possing and any other ings !! I am with everyone here it will be good to meet the people we play with here..However feel free to do any or all of the above in my pressance..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Taipan12' Welcome to Stalky's RHP party. there will be no smoking, poking ,stroking, frolicking sucking, kissing eating, possing and any other ings !! oooh, so a drinks meet with no drinkING, sounds like something from somebody very artsy, who uses words like 'post-modern', and talks about 'collectives' :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz Taipan... I'm not your mum... you can bring whoever you want to, wear whatever you'd like to and do whatever you will do... I wont lodge a complaint unless it involves messing up my hair. :p Sydneyboy... I'm not big on collectives. It's design by committee.... and there's nothing delightful about that. I run a dictatorship in my practice... lolz. As for the modern movement.. how can we exceed it? How do you break with a program that values crisis, or progress beyond the era of Progress, or transgress the transgressive? Modern movement may be in crisis and may have lost its fixed historical reference to antiquity but the ideaology is not lost. The Post modern movement is simply an anathema. We can discount it as an experiment, along with "collectives". Nope.... the at the drinks night, there shall be drinking and singing, perhaps shouting and jostling.. and maybe even a little spanking :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you see me being spanked call me a taxi !! I will be drinking , singing ,listening and laughing !! See you there man..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Although I haven't been to an RHP drinks night (YET!), I used to attend a few run by another site. I can still remember the first one they organised in Sydney, I have never laughed so much during one evening at other people's misfortune in my life. Some in the chat room was making out like it was going to be an all in orgy, even though it was being held in a very public place. Of course only about 25% of those who swore black and blue that they would be there actually turned up and of those that did, hell I have been to more exciting church picnics. It was more interesting to see who didn't turn up, which loud mouth "god's gift to humanity" didn't turn up and the excuses they made lolThose that were boisterous in the chat room turned out to be meek and mild church mice, those quiet onces who were always lurking turned out to be the life of the party. The one thing that really made me laugh was most women made an effort to look presentable, but some of the guys rocked up looking like they had just crawled out from under a truck. I bet everyone can guess which ones bitched the most about not getting laid lolDrinks nights are just that, a chance to finally met that person who you have been chatting to, whether it be in a chat room, a forum, even on MSN. All preconceived notions about them have to be left at the door! My advice: if you get the opportunity to attend a drinks night, go, you won't regret it if you just go to have fun and meet people.
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz Mooka.. I appreciate how that works.. you sometimes see 150 people registering for an event and 10 show up.... but I've previously met a good number of the people who have said they will attend.... so even if nobody new shows up... we're in it for a laugh. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I wasnt surprised at all... in real life you are what your are on the forums...full of life andfun! I was entertained and amused but not surprised intrigued & curious
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RHP User
16 years ago
when and where is this drinks night
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