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Drink to Swing

December 29 2010

Hello all, I've noticed of late that a certain amount of people - not to be sexist but females seem to want to drink. ALOT before they want to swing. Nothing directly related to playing with Salina and I, but people who seem to need a little bit of dutch courage to relax and or get in the mood. Which leads me to the question, do you actually want to be in the scene at all? I have no issues with drinking, but why so much? Don't you want to remember the whole thing, the experience. Wouldn't you prefer to be in total control of yourself and what you might be getting into? What have I seen of late. - Well I've seen a person gets so drunk they end up throwing up and crying. Don't get me wrong the tear streaked mascara look has always given me a little bit of a thrill but the diced carrots in the hair and vom breath ... no thanks. Or you have the lovely young lady i met the other day, who was so wasted she at first thought the seduction approach of asking me strap up her corset. I have no idea on how to put this things on, so suggest I seek assistance from my other half, 'I just want you to put the fucking thing on for fucks sake." Very sexy! I still went and got Salina's help. So grateful was the busty 'lady' that later on in the night she whispered in my ear that she had 'pissed her undies' and 'could i help her' There you go guys a free seduction tip, 'I've pissed my pants' ! I've never been a huge fan of binge drinking and I"m not one to preach, to anyone, about anything. But I would like to ask ladies and gents. What's the balance between courage and sexy, to annoying and foul. Andrew

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15 years ago

dear god if thats what the drink does to them they shouldnt be drinking anyway but then the great man does say...4 beers is all it takes to turn a person so mabe they need it to do it ohh did i say EWWWWWWWWWWWWW roxxy

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15 years ago

Never been drinking at all when I play. I like to be fully aware of what is going on plus I dont want to forget anything lol.

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15 years ago

Thank goodness I rarely drink and never to the stage of being pissed. I would feel sooooooo mortified the next day if my behaviour was like that. I would be cringing for days...weeks...forever. Maybe these women are only doing it for thier men. It has been suggested before , on this forum, that this does happen and generally shouted down by several forum regular couples. I am with the others...if you have to drink to get through it.....it really is not worth doing!

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15 years ago

Quoting 'TassieRose' ...4 beers is all it takes to turn a person roxxy I wonder how Stalky is going on his holiday.... I think there is a place for a few drinks when meeting couples/singles it does help break the ice and relax you but once you get past the social drink and into the medicinal there is a problem of some type there I have to agree. LC

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15 years ago

perhaps it is merely a case of overestimating their limits?Im sure we have all been in the position of thinking we're fine...have one more drink..then have it hit us like a tonne of bricks.But yes...some people DO require some Dutch courage.Sometimes letting go of insecurities and inhibitions takes a little bit of help.JMO...BJxxx

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15 years ago

Quoting 'LoveCurvie' Quoting 'TassieRose' ...4 beers is all it takes to turn a person roxxy I wonder how Stalky is going on his holiday.... LC if i know Stalky at all he would be having the time of his life roxxy

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15 years ago

HI, Having recently ventured to my first "hardcore" play venue, I did require a couple of straight Vodkas to help relax me. I did want to be there but found the nudity plus play pretty full on. The vodka helped take the edge off but I stopped after two, I wanted to ensure I could walk and remember all the fun ! Next time I go I doubt I'd need a drink to relax. I'd simply have a drink for the enjoyment rather than it's impact. Sex is sooo much better when you experience EVERY sensation and every guys hands and fingers exploring every part of your body. Regards, Miss Saturn

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15 years ago

We've experienced the same, and normally we'll make a judgement call and if we think they are too wasted, then we'd rather call it a night and offer to catch up another time There are a couple of occasions where the opportunity hasn't arisen again, which has been a shame, but has also reinforced our decision and that the other person wasn't really ready (or keen) to jump into bed with us.

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15 years ago

Another vodka please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

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15 years ago

I caught Stalky online just before Christmas - he was in Venice having a great time. He had just been in Rome and by the sound of it he definitely abided by the saying When in Rome................ Meeka

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15 years ago

That is hilarious Andy. Well I guess not really but it is so gross I had to laugh. . Carrots in the hair and vomit breath - OMG so gross. . I love the line - " I pissed my pants" I mean how old was this women?? Maybe she meant that she came in her pants? That she was sooo wet for you baby. . I don't know but it sounds like an awesome night! LOL

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15 years ago

Good food - nice drinks - sexy clothes - dancey music - hot sex - all kinda goes together doesn't it ?

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15 years ago

I enjoy a good drink with a good friend...and on the odd occassion in the quiet of my own space. That said, I don't see the need for a big blast of "liquid courage" before engaging in the company of others. Of course, one drink does not really dull the senses...and may even heighten a few if you are relaxed. I agree with you...that being aournd people that are already off their feet makes me far less interested in loosing mine with them. | Now then...sitting back afterwards and having a few? Stomp on the cap and pass me a glass...neat.

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15 years ago

sounds like one for the squirters.. drink drink drink...then pee your pants and all over the beds and the floor seems most guys love this

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15 years ago

Well guys its a problem that drinking and sex are good bed felows and the same time it "drinking" wants to strangle an kill good sex.If i go out and play i drink to a minimum and have 2 maybe 3 drinks in the first hour and no more than a six pac for the night.Hell you want to be able to perform well and speak to them for the night.Have to watch what people give you at a meeting as well as some friends free pour drinks and its hard to know how much you have consumed.Drunk chicks are never pretty and when i am with a girl i want to feel her rockstar energy and heat.I want her to be cheeky and coherant and have fun,ALLNIGHT! Its harder i think for a alcoholic,but i would not be attracted to that anyway,dont get me wrong be as pissed as you want ,just be able to have a good time and drink responsibly.You can still be a crazy white boy with his drinks inthe freezer with a six pac.Try and make one of your drinks an energy drink instead through the night and stay the stallion.And yeah its ok for a girl to pee herself hell its no big deal,help her!And to fuck a girl while she pee,s is a very nice feeling. We all love Wet and Wild. Detonator vomit .....ah no comment bomb that BOOM yuk!

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15 years ago

Alcahol suppresses inhibition. So it is a tool in this case and one can become a 'Tool' if not careful (as in the urine sample you gave in your post). I know booze is a lot of other things too but the one thing I find unsettling with drinkers is that it can make them...Unpredictable. Nothing like smearing Cointreau and Baileys over peoples body parts (Jaffa after-taste) or sliding ice cubes here and there from someone's Gin & Tonic. Who needs to drink the stuff when it has so many other uses.

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