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Double penetration request
October 23 2017
What would be the best way to approach someone to join me and a FWB?
I don't want to introduce one fwb to another to avoid drama but then I would know I'm attracted to both men.
Guys would you be offended by being asked?
Advice would be much appreciated
Thanks
- Posted from rhpmobile
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itsallabout
7 years ago
i would never be offended if my fwb was interested in this ...... its all bout having some fun :)
RHP User
7 years ago
My house got broken into and robbed twice in one night while I was out!
Talk about unwanted double penetration!😕RHP User
7 years ago
From my perspective I would not see a problem, it all depends whether you tell them everything, honesty is the best policy as they say. I would just have an open and Frank discussion with both parties. From my side I would love that oppurtunity if it was me.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I personally wouldn't be offended I'd appreciate the offer
- Posted from rhpmobile
PatchworkGirl
7 years ago
Ask! Maybe during play time with one of your FWB. Mention that you’ve fantasised about having another cock inside you while he is filling you and see if it’s something he’s into. From my experience of these topics coming up on the forums, , there are a lot of men who’d be happy to help out. In fact, I’d suggest you just keep an eye on your inbox and you’re likely to be inundated with offers.
Personally, it’s something that’s on my wish list too - but my preference would be that it’s with people I already have an established relationship with. I’m not comfortable with strangers, so I’d rather experience this with my partner and a FWB who I’m already comfortable with. Ultimately you need to go with whatever you feel comfortable with. Enjoy!RHP User
7 years ago
“Could I get me a hotdog thanks, but any chance of an extra Weiner?”
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I am sure he wont be offended, i am positive he would love it that you suggested it.
I see a sexy guy on here and he has asked me if i wanted to try DP with a guy he knows and trusts. I can't wait till we can organise to do it. Let me know how your 3some goes and i will tell you about mine.😊
- Posted from rhpmobile
smo669
7 years ago
No shortage of guys who are willing and able, me included
MrSuit
7 years ago
Re-iterating other comments, indeed just ask.
We're all adults, and if it's something we wouldn't be into, no is a valid response with no harm done.
And if they say yes? Then the more the merrier!RHP User
7 years ago
There are lots of MM couples on RHP who are straight friends. Maybe you could find a pair of men who would be willing to help!
- Posted from rhpmobileazadi1979
7 years ago
Thanks for the replies!
I have one willing FWB n just need another partner, I was concerned with asking someone else who is also a FWB as I didn't want jealousy or awkwardness, I believe it would be obvious that Im very into the man I want to experience double penetration with n not as invested with my other partners
Yet the idea of double penetration with someone I don't know us also not ideal
I will let you know how it goes, thanks again
- Posted from rhpmobileSawadee
7 years ago
I understand you wanting to feel comfortable when a second man is about to penetrate you. No point in adding someone you don't know if the comfort level isn't there.. So basically ' your back to square one. ?
The other scenario is that you approach this ( along with your partner ) with a open mind ' and go out and meet selected males for a coffee or drink just to see if you feel comfortable with them or not .. Could be a waste of time , but then again maybe not.. Whichever , you can always say thank you , but no thank .
Just make it clear you meet without commitment..RHP User
7 years ago
Love to assist with MMF DP
RHP User
7 years ago
if your other FWB knew you had more than one FWB and he was into that sort of thing then it shouldn’t be a problem.
But if you’re not sure if he is or isn’t then rather than just straight out asking, perhaps start a conversation with him about fantasies etc and mention yours. See his reaction and what he thinks about that and make your move, or not, from there.
Of course that will bring about his fantasies and things he may want to try, which he will be looking for your response towards also, but you don’t have any requirement to oblige in his and you may find something interesting there that you might just choose to pursue as well. So no loss either way you look at it and you never know your luck. And on that note, good luck!
If he isn’t interested at all, then maybe you will need to seek out another partner. You will find one don’t worry about that, you will just have to invest yourself into finding that needle in the haystack who is right for you and your other partner.
Just remember, all good things come to those who wait.
MnauMnau
7 years ago
I think that you are concentrating on one thing only. To have a DP.
My first one was very spontaneous. Out of nowhere.
Me and my friend (both straight) went to see a married couple he knew.
This girl riding on top of my friend just looked at me and asked if I want to join for DP, so I did.
Nothing planed.
Just enjoying life.
And her husband watching...
- Posted from rhpmobileazadi1979
7 years ago
MnauMnau
Turns out that sometimes fantasies are sometimes just that..
DP was something a casual partner n i discussed after experimenting with vibrator, cock n clitoral vibrator at the same time. He constantly brought up getting another man to join us, but has been reluctant now I've started to make moves to make it happen
Its unlikely I will be have many spontaneous opportunities to experience DP unless I open myself up to group, multiple partner situations
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Im sure you can work up a few candidates from here no problem. Happy to offer a helping hand =)
RHP User
7 years ago
I was expecting this thread revival to inlude something from the sex shop that spammed everywhere last night posting a 2 for 1 dildo sale.
(Good luck OP, just ask, DP is very hot - I think that particularly if you're a playfriend type arrangement it's even more likely to be given the green light)RHP User
7 years ago
A double penetration request...
Is still a penetration request :P
Just sayin' :)RHP User
7 years ago
I was asked once by a friend of
mine if i'd be interested in joining him and his girlfriend for some fun, he went on to say it was because she was wanting to be dp'd as well as double teamed. It was a good and fun evening
Mctag9
7 years ago
Love doing DP with ladies especially DVP!!
No shortage of guys that do it where you are Azadi.
Rlee552
7 years ago
Hi OP
You asked two questions, but I suspect you know the answer from your second question and it is just a matter of taking the plunge.
1.What would be the best way to approach someone? Be upfront and open as to what you want and just ask?
2.Would guys be offended if asked? Umm, hell no. Not sure I can put it more emphatically - but no. If there is a rare guy who is offended and takes it personally, he is on the wrong site and is living in the wrong century.RHP User
7 years ago
Some guys don’t dig the thought of sharing with other guys. Particularly if they’re both fwbs, the less preferred may get jealous.
Do they each know you’re climbing other trees? If not it could get awkward. Why not msg a few boys on rhp and take your preferred fwb on a DP date? Could be fun
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
I'm sure you'll find ecstasy being DPd
RHP User
7 years ago
Great to see a openminded chick wanting to experience some fun.its a woman's world so go and get want u want girl .id love to help and close by
Good_Bad
7 years ago
I have a similar fantasy.. would love to try with a FWB.. we discussed a little but the right opportunity hasn't popped up yet.
Like Meander said: making a couples profile might be a good way to go.
Alternatively ask if your FWB knows anyone who would like to join in?
As a FWB I want my friend to have as much fun as possible :)
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'OnAnAdventure99'
I have a similar fantasy.. would love to try with a FWB.. we discussed a little but the right opportunity hasn't popped up yet.
Like Meander said: making a couples profile might be a good way to go.
Alternatively ask if your FWB knows anyone who would like to join in?
As a FWB I want my friend to have as much fun as possible :)
- Posted from rhpmobile
That sounds hot :)RHP User
7 years ago
Ask and you shall receive
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
It’s been 6 months now.
I wonder if the OP got her wish?
Regards
3s companyRHP User
7 years ago
When is it?
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
2 dicks in the one hole, between good mate is fuckin hot as 😜 and watch the lady go right off tap with pleasure 😛
RHP User
7 years ago
Make sure you use some lube and start slow edging them in and build up to it so you don't tear something or you will be limping around like a Bali dog lol.enjoy and have a screaming great time
RHP User
6 years ago
Communication is the key! Both parties have requests, desires and a bucket list
RHP User
6 years ago
I personally would be flattered to be asked. It's not everybody you ask to help with your first DP.
RHP User
6 years ago
Would you feel comfortable going with your fwb to a swingers club or a redhotpie arranged party and see if there’s a male there that your attracted to and have good chemistry with?
No pressure to play that night but could help you find somebody your both comfortable with... or even another couple who are after the same thing? Another male to fulfill a dp fantasy
ozmelbcpl4cpl2
5 years ago
Just find a couple and one extra male you will find every scenario is possible
SSExplorer
5 years ago
So OP, you have several FWB that you are really in to and you want DP.
Seems like you have all you need!
Ask 2nd FWB if they would like to do it too and if it’s a yes then you’re going to have a great time!
Why would you worry about jealousy?
Maybe give them a chance to be grown up boys!
If I was one of the FWBs in this situation I’d think it would be neat if the guys went and had a beer without you. They could pal up and talk about what they want to do with you. If they click they will work as a team to make the experience mind blowing.
Further more if that works out then you will have mfm fun on tap from then on in!
All I see is Win Win Win!RHP User
5 years ago
They have 22 friends so I’m assuming all is well.
A past lover wanted this so as I’m bi we vetted the men together, I appreciated that courtesy very much and it all turned out spectacularly well.RHP User
5 years ago
Sound fun
Jaison_beach
5 years ago
So any luck
RHP User
5 years ago
First of all I think you need to find a guy who you like and want and then see if he is up for the fantasy or post on your profile you are looking for someone for it
As a guy I'd love to be asked and participate and make your fantasy happen. There isn't anything sexier than making people's fantasies happen
QLDtwo4fun
5 years ago
DP and DVP are both great fun.
RHP User
5 years ago
I've been invited a couple of times by women to join their partner for DP. On both occasions when I asked if their guy was cool with it I was asked to give an assurance i was not bisexual. I think a lot of straight men are as worried about the second guy in a threesome having eyes for their junk, as they are worried about their partner preferring the new guy to them.
in my experience the only way that an MFM threeway with DP will work successfully is if the male in the couple takes responsibility for finding the second male. That way he can be sure that the guy is not competitive; a threat to his relationship with his partner; or quietly bisexual.
The same goes for FMF, it works better if the woman brings in a second girl. But in that situation you are generally hoping that the new girl IS bisexual.RHP User
5 years ago
Hello
This is also a fantasy of mine. I am pretty big but respectful. I am in Melbourne and not too bad looking.RHP User
4 years ago
I'd definitely not be offended at all, rather is be excited by the idea, but then I'm bi so that could just be me
RHP User
4 years ago
if the guy is offended thats his ego getting in the way.im sure he wouldn't hesitate at a FFM.Wouldnt it being attracted to both men such a much more rewarding experience for you
RHP User
4 years ago
Wouldn't have an issue with it at all so long as your fwb is not really creepy or awkward around me 😂
DonnaBrett
4 years ago
If you are worried that your first FWB will have an issue with it doesn't that mean that you suspect he might view you as more than just a FWB? ...and no, I (male half here) wouldn't be offended. I've partaken in many DP plays, they are good fun but the logistics can sometimes be tricky. Good luck
RHP User
4 years ago
I'm keen to step up and take one for the team I'm packing 7" & would love to double penetrate you either double pussy or pussy & anal.
RHP User
3 years ago
Can I volunteer?
RHP User
3 years ago
Never… I’d always be keen. Some of the best fun you can have!
MrIce77
a year ago
I would not be offended at all in the slightest. Double penetration is so much fun for everyone involved. I just love it
pirate66
a year ago
Have you tried a butt plug for double penetration with either of the FWB first to see how it goes ?
Bryan5151
a year ago
Hello we have done a lot of bi and group meets with guys, never had any problem with guys knowing that others would be there, and yes the wife did get dp several times and loved it, so just pick the guys you want to meet and I would suggest you get 3 guys to play with, and that way you can go the whole way and get air tight as its called, one in each hole and one in the mouth your love it,
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