M42
Don't some people have anything better to do than waste other peoples time???
January 19 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
can i just say...WOW thats one very hot pic...not that im a perve but it was a nice look hehe ok sorry the question...what was the question??? ohh thats right time wasters....yep i agree totally with what you said i have no idea what you wrote so can i just nod and agree please...the perve, no i didnt perve i was just looking....and looking and looking...and looking oh shit iv gone off track sorry...its your fault...with those abs and that goofy look while your surfing and the water.... im sorry where was i again...thats right i agree, yep thats it i agree hmmm not into one night stands...does a weekend constitute a one night stand???...i travel. did i tell you i travel??? sorry im back again. yes time wasters are a pain in the arse and should be kicked off the site...maybe we could have a forum just to name them all haha...oh that would be SWB/SMB hahaha mmmmm nice ab's...sorry if i said that already...but hubba hubba roxxy...wiping my chin now
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RHP User
15 years ago
Time wasting is annoying yes and fortunately for me there has only been the one who changed plans at the last minute. It is something that does happen often and I really think that the on-line thrill of the chase is as far as some want to go. I dont think that there is anyway that the site moderators can stop this though. For me, someone that changes their mind at the last minute without a fabulous reason will not get a second chance. That is about all I can do. I travel away from my home town to play and it takes considerable effort for me to coordinate the kids in my care so that I can get away. I refuse to have a back up plan as that means I may have to let someone else down at the last minute. It is also not so great financially if I have pre-paid for airfares and accommodation. I always do have a great time when away though and treat the time as a mini holiday. A short break away. As a matter of personal safety, if I am planning on meeting someone, I will ask some of the other ladies of RHP that I am personally aqainted with what they know about the person I want to meet. I am not asking for specifics, just to know if I am going in to meet the next Jack the Ripper or not.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow, someone must've really got your goat with that message. I'm kinda scared to answer lol!! < These people that waste your time and don't show up or get cold feet? Have you seen them on cam? Have they seen you on cam? Have you talked on the phone to them? Texted them? All of the above? < I won't meet anyone unless I see them on cam first and talk to them on the phone! I met a guy when I first joined the Net with no pic of him and he flew all the way from Brisbane. I believed that the was good looking (ahh poor naive me)..and he (to me) was not attractive at all. Matter of fact he was in the Air Force and as I don't live far from the base I took him straight to the base and then dropped him off and told him to have a good weekend in Melbourne! < THEN stupid me went and met a guy a couple of years ago (experienced in the Net workings by then) and only saw his pics that he had up on his profile. Something was niggling at me that he wasn't Verified but .. as my pussy was ruling my head that week I went and met up with him! Had a guy walk up to me at the Pub (yes, always meet in a public place first)...I did not even know the guy and he asked if I was Funloving...I said yes and asked him if he was the guy I was supposed to meet..he said yes. Well, I stood there and yelled at him for wasting my time as the pics were not even him at all! AND then another guy who's pics WERE Verified...when I turned up to meet him he was around 40kgs heavier than his pics on his profile and when I asked him why...he said that he was in some Gulf War or whatever and that time was significant to him? On a sex site? You have to be kidding me...needless to say nothing happened there either lol. < Anyhoooooo...yes you are right, there are too many fakers on here and every other site you encounter, but unless RHP staff do an interview process they are not going to know who is fake or not...they wouldn't have the resources as there are like over 1 million members! < Go on cam, get on the phone and THEN meet them! If they get cold feet as the wonderful Stalky says "NEXT"! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
PMSL I'm still laughing at Roxxy!! Nearly slid on my ass on the drool puddle Her comments made me go and look at your surfing pic. Hey I reckon you can't be doing too bad if you've only been on for 3-4 weeks and you already have a glowing validation. Like you I have limited time, but what I do with it in the meantime is weed out the crazies, make my self a 'who to do' list and in what order...lol cos I plan to tick those babies off one by one But it will take time, and if they get impatient or cranky while I find some free time.....well.....I'll just skip on past to the next one down the list After all, this is 'all about me' and not someone standing there tapping his damn watch
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RHP User
15 years ago
Unfortunatly there are a tonne of time wasters on this site........mostly on here to get their jollies from dirty messages and perving at pics, they don't realise that we have better things to do with our time than to accomodate their bad habits of jacking off over a computer screen at home alone because they don't have the balls to meet up in person......or are sooooo nothing like what they have portrayed themselves as in their profile and pictures, that they can't meet up with you for fear of being told to f*ck off! I find if they are not forthcoming with more pics if they don't have many on their profile....they wont get on web cam.....or endlessly message you with dirty suggestions......they are wasting your time....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some people have absolutely nothing better to do, frustrating but you have to feel a little pity for them!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Justgoodfun, Welcome to internet dating. Its part and parcel of it, and not just RHP. Actually RHP is one of the better ones, some sites are full of fake profiles, and nothing gets doen about it. Over time you will get to know hte faqkes from the real ones. Having a good read oof the profile will be a start. All i can say is that there are some beuatiful people on here, keep searching you will find them...good luck mate. Cheers
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john60
15 years ago
Maybe the guys were not really gay and chickened out at the last minute.
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RHP User
15 years ago
To quote the OP... So the thing that pisses me off most is when people waste that little precious time I have!!!! . Just a thought, maybe upgrade to membership so that you can contact them rather than waiting for them to contact you? Some people forget that this site is simply a means to communication. It is perhaps the people who move quickly to phone and cam communication that have the most success. Because they don't want to waste their time either, wondering how genuine the person is at the other end. Take this scenario into real life....you see someone, you talk, you like, you ask if they would like to meet for coffee/drink, you ask if you can phone them. Unfortunately net life gives you the illusion that this scenario will be played out the same way. The stumbling point is that you have yet to meet them to validate them....which is the first step to meeting someone in real life. . Good luck. You have a nice validation, so it can't be all that bad ;P
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RHP User
15 years ago
We havnt been stood up, but get annoyed with the people who just want to chat chat chat. I mean sexy talk is fun & I enjoy it...But for me its a prelude to us actually meeting! I dont have time to spend all day everyday exchanging sexy txts with you unless Im going to meet you! . But yes its hard because different people have different agendas. Who knows what they are thinking! lol . Im not a big fan of the phone calls, the one time we did it it was akward & uncomfortable & it felt like we completely ended up at cross purposes. At least with txt & email you can read what you wrote, make sure its the right thing to say...lol and web cam? Nope, dont mind sharing photos with prospective partners but video footage? what happens if they record it? . I guess you just have to trust your gut & give second chances. Alot of us keep this seperate from regular life and that means that sometimes there is going to be last minute cancelations. If they seem into you & you fancy them, give it another go! Mrs H xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
You kill me! Thanks for writing what we were all thinking ;) Wilko xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Basically, thats internet dating for ya.
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RHP User
15 years ago
...... yes... i too started to read the forum post, and just couldnt stay on track. very nice pic . bottom line :) ..yes there are time wasters , yes we did chat to people at the begining , but now just set a time to meet if all party's happy and get out there. agree up grade membership , from what we have also heard , patience is what is required for single boys especially ..... and that is about about all that my attention span will let me have....now do look us up if you come to perth :) x ms c
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