F32
Don't mind a lick but won't be a licker.. wtf!
July 14 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
Some people just refuse to go down on others. While they are all for receiving. Plenty of men and women like that. It is best to talk about these things and not find out in bed in my opinion. Why they are like this? Many reasons; some people had a bad experience in the past and it put them off for good (bad hygiene, zero maintenance, Strong odor etc) Or it could be that they are worried about contracting STDs. Which is a low risk thing as stomach acid kills everything but one can still contract skin related things. And some people find it to be very intimate thing that they reserve it for their significant other. We don’t have issues with going down on others, but having said that, we choose our playmates carefully.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yeah that would be a mega no from me- I fing that bi curious is an odd label that can cover many many things. I do always ask for full clarification and commit to nothing before I get there. I’ve turned up at a meet and not wanted to proceed.
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Ken oath!!! Massive Fake. You cannot attest to being Bi if there's no reciprocation. I've found this with "Bi" men. I ask point blank now and if they're invited to join my hubby and I (from our cpls account), I expect to see the male on male action straight up. Sux you had that happen.... onto the next x
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Samnite
6 years ago
I am sorry to hear this happened to you especially as it left you somewhat unsatisfied. I have found over the years that there are varying levels of bisexuality. While people may claim to be bi or bi-curious they may not always be willing to do or have done to them everything that they are willing to experience as part of heterosexual play. As Dynam08 stated...bi-curious is an odd label that people use to cover many things. The best course is open and frank communication. If you know what you want then state that and find out if potential play mates are willing to provide it. There could be any number of reasons why this happened so it's best to be clear before the start. Good luck in the future :)
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Bit like a bi guy that won't suck dick. And there are straight guys that wont lick twats. Straight women that wont suck cock. Guys that wont kiss another guy but love sucking cock. They are out there. People are all different, thank goodness, just a matter of finding those that have the right combinations to unlock us and vice versa.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
You went there got her off and then got with her husband. This is what happens when you are invited to join them. It was all about them. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
I believe the term for a chick that does that is a "pillow Princess"
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RHP User
6 years ago
Even if she didn't she could still got u off with her fingers. Selfish if u ask me.
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sw1ng3rz
6 years ago
Bi curious, for me anyway, is straight with a kink lol. I guess since Hubby and I started this journey 12mths ago I have been able to be open about being attracted to girls as well. I wouldn’t say I was bi though cause I guess I don’t have the experience to back that up. Curious to me = there may be some extra guidance but more than happy to be taught.
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RHP User
6 years ago
She did message me after and was like thanks for coming was so nice to meet you etc. My response was definitely not as polite 😂 I made it clear what I wanted from the situation Her hubby then proceeded to text me and basicly apologized , apparently it's not the first time she has pissed someone off 😂 This is why I ignore 70% of my messages on here 😂
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RHP User
6 years ago
In my eyes only bisexual means you like both sexes including sucking cock an licking pussy, But tha is only my opinion an everyone has their own but as a Bi female I do both quite happily
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
The hubby texting and bitching about his wife. That's not cool. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
I agree Ms Foxy..... And especially if it's happened before... The time to cover it off is before the event (..." Just so you know we don't do this").... Rather than after the event (....'sorry my wife didn't do this...has pissed people of before")... I mean it's fair enough if the wife/partner doesn't want to go down on her guest .... But you would know that your guest would like the act reciprocated...... It's like letting someone at the bar by you a beer... Knowing you aren't going to buy them one back...pretty rude..
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Threes Allowed Agree OP. If theres anything you specifically do or don’t want to do it’s best to bring it up pre- meet. So everyone is crystal clear. Sounds a bit pre-meditated but it will help you avoid these situations which make you feel (rightly) that have just been used. Look after yourself because too many of these type of incidents IMO start to affect your sexuality negatively pretty quickly.
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
Foxy Yes! Agree. They need to sort their shit out before asking a third. Not cool. If it’s happened before, even worse. That’s fucked up.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Have had a few unexpected experiences playing with couples starting rules and expectations up front is very important one rule that seems consistent is no kissing, and that one I actually understand. Getting caught out with no playing with her if he's not in the room when there was no mention of it before hand can really end a great play date quickly. Don't think I could play with a woman on a regular basis if she stated I was not to give her oral.
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RHP User
6 years ago
If unicorns are as rare as stated on these pages they are going to run out of talent real fast !
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D_Light
6 years ago
"Make sure the remainder of the Herd for that region gets the memo" She's not Bi Curious (Experimental) cause she's not trting her curiosity when presented a rare commodity as you OP. She's Straight and if blindfolded and all men Deep shaved and moisturised how, if deprived of all senses. would she know who it was ?? especially if multiples... This is Where the Validation process on this site enables such tragedies to continue. PUSH FOR CHANGE & OPEN REVIEWS, VALIDATE THE REVIEWER!!! If I was upset as I know exactly how you felt, plus the site I was on had a validation option I would have done one even if up for and hour or 2 that's how upsetting it was for me. I too posted a forum and considered starting another different mod where I could start my own "Fan Club" and un it is a white board section that sends a msg to ever member of your fan cluc a msg to read your notice and present your story for them to privately take notice and use this however. I chose to Keep my honour and maintain Discretion requested by all...….as well as all do's & don'ts so ticked all the required boxes from 2 hours of taking the edge off with a few drinks . 2 hours of positive getting to know ea other and for me to Not feel if I maybe a catalyst in conflict between then after all done, my lights were all go! I decided to send a PM politely expressing my disappointment of the Self centred, 1 way street behaviour and how 2 were of us left with sticky eyelids from only 5 minutes of play time, I still had singlet on his wife full underwear, and as we were licking ea other clean and readily building up the intensity in the foreplay whilst he was in shower s another 5 minutes of us too finally naked and in 69 pleasuring ea other, H e march's back in fully clothed and told her to stop get dressed we need to go now to avoid footy traffic??? she protested on our behalf his reply was you took to long talking at the start luckily for him I was indisposed and pinned down from her wrists harder at this point as my face was buried below on the job until he pulled her off with a firm command of control. leave it there cause all know end result. I felt sorry for her for days We all up probably waisted 4 hours doing homework in the chatroom on here, KiK etcand a target used to express what may be the only good thing he is capable of doing to please him... 3 months later, all forgotten and picking up confidence again with 2 fantastic dates the same BI MMF when I received a, not a response from them A response from her single profile all apologetic, and how its been this long form for them to get back on track from his form & hoped her & I could find compensation by picking up where we were rudely left... He did not need to know about it ……. I turned her down as it is beneath my ethical standards, & won't be the Catalyst for disaster. pity she did it that way instead of making him watch only, restrained , after wining and dining us with dancing and all as pennants for his crime , she was definitely above my paygrade and an honour to play with... but 2 more months of no Libido or need had to be endured and now just 2 weeks in i'm not enthusiastic towards those entwined as i'm needing something more and I can't have it, for personal reasons. leaving this selfish act,that happens with MM action all the time, wonder where he picked it up from, Has impacted me... not what should have and doubting my every honest action is going to be a positive, truthful reaction ever again. I don't want to play games unless its in pleasurable moments. This shite scenarios can happen to all of us over time and only through positive education and these forums are we able to unite and provide this education. to both thr perps and us all OP learn from it and prove to yourself take in control and now your time is so priceless and so selective and you need all boxesof desired/required/dealbreakers done Not theirs completely,( My previous partner of 4years was a unicorn on here when I met and accepted her and learnt all and so much more from her trials and tribulation's yet it still happened) each time you decide and follow and evolve your personal rules it will empower you and keep this classy confident beautiful person a stand out to the quality sector not quantity. it was not your fault its just life … xxx Stay Shiny xxxx
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RHP User
6 years ago
This is not a normal thing with couples if the female is genuinely bi. Sounds to me as if she was only doing it for her partner to be honest - if she is bi it shouldn't be an obligatory 'returning the favour' thing, it should be something she actually enjoys doing! I have been on here as a single female myself and have only had it happen once where I played with a couple and she was definitely not into it any girl on girl (after saying that she was bi). Was the most awkward thing ever - never again! You get pretty good at getting a 'vibe' for if they're genuine or not after a while I think... Miss Little xx
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curiousgirl35
6 years ago
Sorry you werent given oral in return. I hope he did at least?
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jonax2
6 years ago
Honestly why? don’t understand selfish behaviour. There is no ‘I’ in threesome! It’s about pleasure & pleasure for all yet this experience was about pleasure for 2 selfish people. We messaged a girl once who was ‘experimental’ whilst interested she pointed out that any girl on girl action was above the waist. We all moved on. Kudos to her.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'FatFunFiesty' Ken oath!!! Massive Fake. You cannot attest to being Bi if there's no reciprocation. I've found this with "Bi" men. I ask point blank now and if they're invited to join my hubby and I (from our cpls account), I expect to see the male on male action straight up. Sux you had that happen.... onto the next x Oh, I have heard that so many times from the couples I play with. The 'bi' guy who suddenly is only interested in the woman or only in receiving..
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Mask_007
6 years ago
What can I say. I have to confess... i am 100% a pussy licker. If I could would spend much more time licking, sucking and have tones of times with my face immerse, and working my face true lips all the way to clits and back again.... Would be a dream have someone extremely interested in that as much as i am.
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Deep_Love
6 years ago
Should we really be calculating the percentage of someone's "bi-ness" FFS, really? Let people have their preferences, likes and dislikes without slapping labels on it. If a straight woman doesn't like sucking cock, is she not straight? You can be a bi guy without wanting a cock up your bum. I thought the majority of people on this forum were open minded. Clearly not. OP, I think the person you should be most pissed off at it yourself, for not using your words and communicating what you wanted. Live and Learn.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Deep_Love' Should we really be calculating the percentage of someone's "bi-ness" FFS, really? Let people have their preferences, likes and dislikes without slapping labels on it. If a straight woman doesn't like sucking cock, is she not straight? You can be a bi guy without wanting a cock up your bum. I thought the majority of people on this forum were open minded. Clearly not. OP, I think the person you should be most pissed off at it yourself, for not using your words and communicating what you wanted. Live and Learn. I don't think this is fair at all... The OP said that the male of the couple said "she won't eat pussy and she NEVER has." Never being the important word here. Females 'playing with women' (as this couple said she had done before) isn't usually just a little twiddle of the nipples and a kiss. I think most of us would assume this statement to mean she had gone down on women before and generally assumed an interest in it, unless she explicitly stated beforehand that she wouldn't do it - which it sounds as if she didn't. And the OP has said that she DID speak up - she asked hubby and he shut her down. What would you have advised the OP to do to communicate her wants, jump out of bed and say 'i'm leaving unless she goes down on me'? Yes the female in the couple in question is entitled to her preferences and is not obligated to do anything whatsoever, but if it was a man who refused to reciprocate in any way, even just bringing out toys or using other means than oral - we'd all be jumping up and down saying how terrible of him. I doubt we'd be telling her she should have been annoyed at herself for how it went down (or didn't, no pun intended) rather than annoyed at him for being selfish. Why is this any different and why is it all the OPs fault? Miss Little xx
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RHP User
6 years ago
Deep Love Not only is your comment not worth my time LITTLE MISS said it all anyway xxx Don't be such a Debby Downer
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sensualsavana
5 years ago
Totally agree, I enjoy eating pussy and if the intended couple state on profile where female is bisexual my undetstanding she eats pussy. I have had the same experience so disappointing.
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