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Don't be an Arse and Assume u know ME !
January 30 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
what she said :D
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree wholeheartedly with what you are saying! The way I like to look at it is that people are like onions...there are many many layers and just because you show one layer in certain situations (such as on the forum), it doesn't mean that there aren't many other layers to get to know...nor does it mean that you get to the middle, to the heart and soul....it's just one layer....
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah.. you can tell a lot about a person by what they write in the forums... but it is still only a fragment of the personality... Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
You are kidding right! You go out on a date...to a pub/club restaurant...wherever...and the guy is in your ear about all things sexual!Sounds pretty cringeworthy to me !Now anyone who has read my stuff..has probably realised by now that i rarely get involved with the overtly sexual topics.Why not? because these things are of no great importance to me, what is really important to me is the connection and closeness between two individuals...yes people...the melding of minds...everything flows from that!Sadly it would seem....some are obviously putting the cart before the horse! or just plain have no bloody idea!Cheers Nev.....loves the inuendo and tease and flirting
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RHP User
16 years ago
How are you tonight?
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RHP User
16 years ago
So does this mean you don't have mice in your kitchen?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss Saturn u have hit the nail on the head with everything u have just said well done roxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. I talk about sex openly and frequently doesn't mean I will fuck anything with a cock; 2. I talk about sex a lot doesn't mean I don't want to talk or go to dinner or the movies; 3. I talk about sex a lot doesn't mean I'm constantly horny and want to fuck all day; 4. I talk about sex a lot doesn't mean I'm cheap or a slut or a that you can treat me like a prostitute; 5. I'm comfortable describing the types of things I've done and the locations where I've done them, doesn't mean I can't be discrete and keep what YOU tell me to myself; 6. I flirt a lot online doesn't mean I cant be loyal, and faithful to just one man; 7. I talk about sex doesn't mean I can't hold a conversation about the economy, travel or sport; 8. I sound outgoing, confident and wild, doesn't mean I"m not also shy, reserved and sweet !yes, I am always amazed by some, if not all, of what you write here Miss Saturn....
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RHP User
16 years ago
mhmm, yep, EXACTLY!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am over the assumptions that because I am on an adult site I must fuck everyone who asks me and I must want to talk about sex all day every day to men who I have never met. And yep, if I am good enough to fuck then I am good enough to be taken to dinner or a movie or,(sheesh now I'm getting daring) both. Very well said Miss SaturnWildly fuming about assumptions
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was told a long time ago by a Wiser, Older Lady......( My Granny) Don't ASSUME..........As It Makes An ASS outta U and ME Nudie xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Please... Don't ASSume that if I write an Erotic Story that : (a) I will actually do or have done what I write about... unless its in the Encounters section; and (b) If it IS in the RHP Encounters section that it doesn't mean I haven't had an equally wonderful time with you or that you should be jealous. I like to write (in case you haven't noticed) ! I have always written stories since I was a teenager. I would NEVER write a story about an encounter with someone without first getting their permission. (Pity others don't do the same.) (Just wanted to add this since the new stories will be out this week and I may get some flack...) Hugs, Miss_Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
HI JG, The mice are real ! Not the sort of thing I'd make up. The kitchen is still a mess. The bread is going mouldy on the bench, my 5 year old just ate pizza for breakfast, the bills are buried until the left over food from last Tues, Wed or maybe it was Thursday... Yep... ALL sadly true! You want to come over and clean ? I can make a great cocktail! xxx Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'WildTassieGypsy'I am over the assumptions that because I am on an adult site I must fuck everyone who asks me and I must want to talk about sex all day every day to men who I have never met. And yep, if I am good enough to fuck then I am good enough to be taken to dinner or a movie or,(sheesh now I'm getting daring) both. Very well said Miss SaturnWildly fuming about assumptions I on the other hand would like to make it clear that I am on an adult site to fuck anyone who asks me, talk about sex all day to women, and in some cases men pretending to be women or even just dressed up as women, that I have never met. And if I'm good enough to be taken to a movie or pay for dinner, then I'm good enough to fuck.! We'll never stop people making assumptions about ourselves, everything we do is judged and assumed. How we're judged and assumed is out of our control... it depends on the intelligence of the person doing the assuming. *wow - that's deep!*
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RHP User
16 years ago
heck i would lend you my cat too...but he loves pizza and eating bills more than mice!!...i agree with what you say about assumptions...what we type here is merely one part of us...a place where we can have fun, be flippant, be serious, flirt like the cheeky little buggas we are...ahhh...the people i would like to meet...one day...but in the meantime i shall frolic through the forums...luv ya thought-provoking posts...oh trish...shall i send you bananas too?...roflhehecheersjose... (not today)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I went to bed early last night *giggle*...this working caper is exhausting LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
yep i understand completely.... i even get mail on another site refering to stuff iv posted here on this site can we say creepy lol oh and miss Saturn...il lend you my cat he eats mice and spiders hehe roxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ditto!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thats why i dont openly talk about anything too erotic or explicit to certain posts..but i have felt tempted to commenton some of your posts..as you have discovered...some people with presume that's only what we are about..so i dont.So i only do so when ive chatted to someone for a bit..as i want them to get to know ME as person not as a sex toy that canbe used and thrown away..but that i have a brain..and can converse on any topic.even the finer details of fine art to a point..lol..even motor bikes..haha so there is more to me that just sex.So far no one except 2 has bothered to take the time to find out what makes me tick.xoxoxheymummayour brave woman..me chicken little...lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
oh heymumma, I know! I know! That's why I stopped talking about the details too. So many messages, so little time! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Its only after ive gotten to know someone a bit more....that i express myself in an open erotic way..hehei try to paint a pic..using words..but its what im going do....and i keep my word..i do as i say...heheheI'll either use txt msn or e-mail...great way to build up the sexual tension that ignites the sparks of lust leading up to the the flames of passion.xoxoxomumma...beware dont get me started...lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
SaturnI never thought any different - you profile is very clear.Just basic manners really.The mouse comment is sure to get this thread deleted.Best wishesMr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
ya starter button...giggling...would it be okay if i pushed it?....grinsbad jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
We all judge each other and make assumptions. It's not the initial assumption that's the problem but the inflexibility in the person's overall thinking and their lack of space between their ears to consider other possibilities ! There is a lot of me I keep private. I very very rarely go in the chat rooms.... unless some particular hot guy "tricks" me... " is your webcam on?"...."ohhhh mmmm...yes" ! rrrrr oh well... I'm sure no one was watching !!! The kitchen is a little cleaner... I actually switched the dishwasher on !!! Now I just have to unload it ! Too hot for that today. xxx Saturn
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
totally agree miss Saturn, people make WAY to many assumptions and at their own loss really, try not to let these twats get you down and guys reading this...... takes notes, miss Saturn is NOT alone on her thoughts about this.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss_Saturn, you've done it again.... how wonderfully honest, and true! Exactly how I feel. Just because I talk about sex alot........ Why shouldn't we talk about sex as openly and freely as we do about dishwasher repairs? Too many uptight people around. I bet if we could openly talk about our sexual lives, that would be the #1 topic of conversation. I have had great discussions about sex with people. Some of my friends are a little taken aback by what I say but they have all said they appreciate my openess about it and wish they could do the same. After a few conversations with them, they have relaxed at bit and actually feel better about being able to freely talk about sex to someone. It's part of our lives and it's something we enjoy (Immensely). Why shouldn't we be able to share it with others? I also have to say that I have never enjoyed sex as much as I am enjoying it now. Sexual freedom is a liberating feeling. I no longer have to sit and imagine... I can actually get out there and do it, and do it with whom ever I choose and enjoy it WITHOUT being thought of or labelled "nothing but a whore". You can not look down on me for what I'm doing because you're the one knocking on my door. Mrs D
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RHP User
16 years ago
"Oh well... judge me at your own peril !"M'lud the facts are the case are:These ladies who are slandering my client complain that they are treated like sex objects by my client but they are communicating in very suggestive, expressive language on a sex website.Yes M' lud its true. They lead my client on - all this intense sexual talk turns him into a babbling idiot - He doesn't know where he is.They claim that they would like to communicate with my client about art, science, politics, elephants and motor bikes but there is no evidence on this website that they have initiated or participated in any such discussions.What is that my Lord. You say that the RHP censor deletes any reference to these other noble topics.Whats left then?..Only SexWhat is that you say? .....Case dismissed.Mr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
When you ASSUME you make an ASS out of U and ME!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Saturn' I usually enjoy your posts and always make sure I read what you have to say because of the entertainment value..... but I found this one a little strange Why worry about what others perceive you to be or not to be, ? Regardless to what you write or dont write in your profile or this forum.. people will only read what they want to read. Men and women alike. If people's perception differs to the way you would like to be percieved' I cant see how you could change that without some sort of confrontation ? Me thinks' its something girls/ women will always be up against patricularly in a forum situation Just my opinion... Mr JJ what you do and dont like
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'wannabyummymummy'and guys reading this...... takes notes, miss Saturn is NOT alone on her thoughts about this. Really? What a pretentious thing to say. So you're saying Ms S is not alone in not liking to be judged or have assumptions made about her... go figure. Are you saying this trait is unique to women? And that us 'stoopid' men better be taking notes as we are the only ones that judge and assume? I think there is only one thing worse than making false and uninformed assumptions and that would be putting everyone in the same box based on their gender.
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RHP User
16 years ago
On a lighter note... I thought I woke up at Miss S's place this morning. - There was no milk for a coffee - All the cups were in the dishwasher - dirty. I might need Ridge to come around and turn it on - There was no dog food, so I had to dig out some festery ham and leftover pizza to keep him nourished - There was a cowboy hat next to the bed.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lets all play nicely together or we'll have to separate the boys and girls into separate yards! We ALL make assumptions. I make them all the time ... I just leave my mind open to correcting them. I make assumptions about men. The main one being that they ONLY want to fuck me and move on. That men don't give a shit about the real me, that they only want to know what I'm wearing today! (rrrr, pink bra and white lace knickers !) AND they really don't care what my name is... I'm sure several of the current ones don't know it ! But... occasionally I"m proven wrong ! I love it when I am. I've met lots of wonderful men. Lots of nice, caring men. Lots of men I'd happily spend a large part of my life caring for and loving. I wouldn't have realised that if I'd just stopped at the assumption stage. Hugs, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
hehe yes way Jose....you can look for yourself...if you find the starter button...nodding head...hehehexoxoxmumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ah Ohhh... I think Jeano is showing signs of stress... He must be a busy boy getting ready for the road trip I guess. However, I mostly agree with him and I must say this... We, as in ALL MEN, do not like being patronised... although I never argue about being in the same box with another guy.. especially Jean... Yeah. You know what I mean, bebe.. a little bit of DP and a whole lot of woooohooO! So go ahead.. take notes ladies... put all that in your notebook movie and smoke it. :p Hugs stalku, stalky, stalkme!
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RHP User
16 years ago
mmmmSounds like the original post is related to Melbourne's weather conditions at the time rather than the nature of good and evil.Hope cooled down now.Mr. SR
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