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Does your mind wander off when having sex?

November 10 2010

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How often does your mind go elsewhere when your having sex? Mine has gone drifting sometimes not because the sex was bad.. although when it is ordinary , i do let it run off !! I dont know sometimes thoughts pop in the head..Did i finish that email !

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    All the time.. My mind wonders, why are his eyes closed, what's he thinking about?? hmmm, is he thinking about me or someone else, if I ask him to do something what will he think, will he like my new toys.... Oh crap this is boring. I need a drink... Oh yeah Southpark's on... Time to let him get some sleep..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    That's why sex is more fun in groups of seven. :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    somtimes i wonder Does my Dick look Big in this ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mostly I'm thinking about my partner...I know that sounds a little twee but hey, sex should be sexy, fun, sometimes intense and you need to be 100% into it... Plus, I'm Dom so if I am playing hard with someone I need to have one eye on their safety, their breathing, their enjoyment and if they are restrained for example, that they are not being hurt...well, not too hurt ! *wink* And who says men can't do more than one thing at a time !!??!! One way to not let your mind wander is eye contact...close, hot, eye contact... Dogism.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Only if I am not really into it - not in the right mood or maybe with the right person. But otherwise I am too busy concentrating on what my lover is doing and how it makes me feel. And what I want to do to him.... Forgive me for saying but isn't that partly your fault if the sex is ordinary?? Particulary if you are still in work mode - or are you talking about a RHP email. LOL. ... xxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky'That's why sex is more fun in groups of seven. :p Hugs Stalky Tell me Stalky - What is the significance of the number seven? Or are you superstitious? Seven dwarfs Seven deadly sins Seven days and seven nights? What?????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Totally there & In the moment! nothing else but pure pleasure matters! My thoughts other than with sexual fun! Doesnt enter my mind! But if its not good I guess thats different & if thats the case, dont go back there! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ... that and how I am going to get away with it. When your head is swimming with all of the senses screaming yessssss. Isn't a little distraction good?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I am mostly in the moment although..........................................I do tend to tell stories of being with women whilst encountering my man........Without instigation I tell him what I want to do with a woman...just goes berserk...We always begin with eachother and end together (snuggling) and the spontaneous coffee or red wine! although in between can be quite a nice conversation...or a hot conversation...Oh if a storm breaks I totally go into this wild hot horny sexy vixen....The mind is a wonderful thing...heck running cold shower..... That just gets crazy, I love that! xxx ps. gotta love your man, James Morrison!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I am mostly in the moment but i am sure we are all guilty of wandering off at some stage in our sex life..But some shared horny thoughts are always a game starter.. And it gets hotter and hotter !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Wandered off occassionally but I truly can not remember when. I am usually in the moment as well. If it is hot...then all I can think about is the pleasure I am feeling and how to increase the pleasure for us both. If I am bored then I will be trying to get into it more so I can finish this up. lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee'Wandered off occassionally but I truly can not remember when. I am usually in the moment as well. If it is hot...then all I can think about is the pleasure I am feeling and how to increase the pleasure for us both. If I am bored then I will be trying to get into it more so I can finish this up. lol. Hot! Fionabee lol lets finish this up lol pmsl....well can't deny have not been there heck!!!! I did ask one time (at band camp) is it in ffs....didn't go down well pardon the pun....lol Taipan love the horny stories letalone the horny thoughts...although stay mostly with the man in present... Hot!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I know what you mean. So do you think there is any stage where its not too rude to just get up put your clothes on and say I'm out of here?? Well what I mean is during the "performance" and before the final trumpet blow. Hehehehe xxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    seven hours to answer a question? Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Love I said pet, This is not my special field and hold no qualifications....Although I would stick it out (pardon the pun) and then make a decision not to go back.....I couldn't walk out during the act...heck no matter how bad it is... Just my thoughts and will take the 5th lol xxxx goodluck Meeka honey

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' Love I said pet, This is not my special field and hold no qualifications....Although I would stick it out (pardon the pun) and then make a decision not to go back.....I couldn't walk out during the act...heck no matter how bad it is... Just my thoughts and will take the 5th lol xxxx goodluck Meeka honey I suppose I would have to agree with that assesment. I guess our generation were brought up with manners. So a polite root with a don't call me I will call you. Is that your suggestion Darl?? Hahaha Was with a couple once and within the first few minutes knew I had made a mistake - so what's a girl to do. I guess lie back and let them do all the work while I had a little snooze.......... zzzzzzzzzzzzzz Or was the vibrator????? Flat batteries no doubt.... xxxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'BlackStilettoes' Love I said pet, This is not my special field and hold no qualifications....Although I would stick it out (pardon the pun) and then make a decision not to go back.....I couldn't walk out during the act...heck no matter how bad it is... Just my thoughts and will take the 5th lol xxxx goodluck Meeka honey I suppose I would have to agree with that assesment. I guess our generation were brought up with manners. So a polite root with a don't call me I will call you. Is that your suggestion Darl?? Hahaha Was with a couple once and within the first few minutes knew I had made a mistake - so what's a girl to do. I guess lie back and let them do all the work while I had a little snooze.......... zzzzzzzzzzzzzz Or was the vibrator????? Flat batteries no doubt.... xxxx Meeka Oh woman I said pet I said love!!!! oh would have loved to have been a fly on the wall...that's awsome...when in doubt always reach for the vibrator but batteries are flat well heck...time to get dressed my dear, nothing happening there lol... That's hillarious...that's why I have rechargeables heck! never let me down, well most of the time...and guys luv it! Take care Meeka that's simply gold!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Funny. ROFLMAO. I can relate Meeka, I really can. No it is not polite to just get up and start getting dressed. Neither is it nice to yawn loudly and say things like "well hurry up then" Maybe a little "Mind if I nap off here? Wake me when you are done?". This is when the old acting skills come in handy. Good luck ladies.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Have just started a new thread on the topic - see what the rest of the forum think about it. Too funny NOT! Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ohohohohohohohohohohoh yeah just there. Keep going. Never seen one so big in my life. Yes yes yes yes yes. You are the best baby - that's right just keep doing that.... o oh oh oh oh oh ooooooooooooo (that's me faking an orgasm in the hopes that they will hurry up. Cum on already.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think it is a statement ummmm just pull nighty down when you are finished lol....oh heck scooting over to see new forum on this topic...ghahahhahahaha Sometimes you just have to fake it to get the hell out of there lol xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sex is a great way to leave all the hectic life stuff and just focus on the feeling between one (or more) people. Totally focusing on the contact with the other person is great but sometimes it's nice to just empty your mind completely, not think about anything and just enjoy! What sucks is when the hectic stuff jumps in there and takes over, no faking it though - if that happens it's cup-o-tea and a chat time haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    spankfreak I don't think anyone is going to close their eyes with you naked beside them..hmm my mind may wander somewhere tonight!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its true sometimes i have been known to think about other things but generally if things are getting pretty boring for me...though will have to say that it has to be REALLY boring for my mind to wander further than how can i get out of here politely??? or what can i do to make things more fun??? hmm will they think me weird if i ask them to do????? Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hell yeh all the time how else does a bloke get some self relief unless he can dream on demand ,,,,,,,,,and ,,,,, always think about the RHP ladies helping the little fellers out of their sacks and up the shaft,,,,,,,,,,,,,, OHOoooooo you ment sex with a person OOPS may BAD Andy xxxx