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Does this sound creepy??

June 06 2013

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Hey peoples I need a bit of feedback from the community..   I noticed a young woman viewing my profile about half a dozen times over a week so I sent her a message "Hi nice to be noticed". The message was read but not responded to which didn't bothered me. A couple of weeks later I see her viewing my profile again daily for about a week. So when I was online today and the real time info feed said she had looked at my profile and was online I sent this message.   "Hello I'm Matthew, Shevermin is my online alter ego. I keep seeing you pop past my profile I wonder if you see anything interesting..?? I was once asked by my brothers Wife if I was a tits or ass man?? She has very large brests and I felt it was a loaded question. So I answered truthfully that I am a smile guy. I nice smile makes up for alot of body imperfections, because none of us are perfect.. What I didn't tell her is that I'm a bit of a foot guy too. And maybe I feel you might have a few sexy shoes you like to..?? "   Now I am a bit older than her but her proflile didn't state anything like "nobody over 40" and I fitted her description of who she desired, and to add a bit of context her profile picture was of feet below the knees in a pair if stilettos.   This was the message mailed back to me. "Get lost, does it occur to you that if someone was interested they would contact you? "   So... was I being a bit creepy ??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Not creepy..... but mostly irrelevant to anyone reading such a message, and therefore not intriguing or creative or emotively personal to the person receiving such a message. (although the shoe comment sort of went close) That is how you compel someone to respond. But the response tells you all you need to know. Say........ NEXT!!!!!! And don't assume all womens profiles are genuine.... Or even female!!! DG

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Please give us an example of what you would Have written. You keep giving all this wonderful advice.... How about some practical examples from the pussy whisperer? Hmmm.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Seems odd to me. Why is she looking at your profile all the time then responded like that? Have to say guys that immediately start talking about sex or tits and arses in the first message... Well not a good idea. But I guess it depends on how the woman's profile is written. I don't think your messages was creepy but I would have sent a more innocuous type message first up.

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  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    13 years ago

    First up, the reply you received back with the words "get lost" was plain rude. My guess is she might not be impressed with the way your email was composed or she is simply one of those "window shoppers" who just checks out people's profiles without real interest for contact??? As a female, if I received the same email from a guy, I would be thinking "what the heck" for the part where you mentioned about the conversation you had with your sister-in-law. However, I would not reply with plain rude words or tone. Hence, each to their own. I don't think you were been creepy, you were only been a bit proactive, but you might have given out the wrong type of detail in your first approach :-) Anyways, don't take it personal as this is normal to have run into a weirdo lol- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If people learnt how the brows part of this site worked ... we wouldnt have emails like this ... if you are on the auto brows ... you have NO control on whose profile is next in the que ... its AUTOMATIC ... but when it auto opens as you scroll thru.. it records a view ... not intentially picking your profile each day .. its just thst you were somewhere in the auto que or on the rack. Yes the person replying was rude ... but in all honesty .. she had no control over which profile qued next. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Cheers for the feedback peoples, and yes I know most women are not keen on there brests being referred to as "tits". But my sister inlaw is fron Ireland, and "tits and ass" said in an Irish accent does roll of the tounge with less bite that an Australian accent..     Uneventful, thanks for the heads up on the auto browse that explains alot..   Chhers and beers   Shevermin

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ahhh Meeka Just as you say I've given "all this quality advice".... Including plenty on this very topic in the past. It's there in the forums for those interested enough to look, and determined enough to learn so I'm not going to offer an example that isn't directed at a specific persons profile as they'd need to be mentioned for reference purposes. One thing is certain though.... The number of topics from guys complaining about being ignored or their lack of "success"... And women complaining about guys and their oversexed too-horny same as every other too-horny profiles and their emails.... says that a lot have a lot to learn. I learned, and there's only one thing stopping them showing the same interest in themselves. Choice ;-) DG- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    People will look and perv all the time, best way to deal with it is to ignore who looks at your profile or lock it so they can't view it. Works for me :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you suspect your message was a little creepy .....then it probably was....afteral she did ignore the first one,that was a fairly good indication that she had zero interest. However her eventually response was less than polite.... unfortunately Shev.some people have just never met my dear friend,Miss.Manners

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    have just blocked her....out of sight out of mind.I find it creepy when the same people keep checking out my profile. I just assume they're having a wank and then I feel awkward because I'm not watching them

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    OP, the message wasn't creepy. There are many reasons why someone might look at your profile repeatedly and not contact you or want a message. Don't assume looking means interest in contact. I often look repeatedly just for a perve :) It's disappointing her response was so rude, totally unnecessary. Some people get a kick of drawing others in then knocking them down. That's one of many possible explanations. Don't take any of it to heart x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    But you were obviously interested. So you should be able to initiate contact also. It doesn't make sense.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Too Much Information - at the beginning it would have been too much information, not a need to know comment. Just a light hello general stuff, not get into the guts n' all approach.Her actions a bit confusing, just learn from this and move on, some people just want to look see, they will contact you if/when the occasion arises, her response was rude, good thing to find out now rather than later.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The lesser warble does not know many words. So she finds it hard to express her self fully.The "Get Lost" screech broadly translates to "fuck it you found me rummaging in your wardrobe looking for that spicy older man smell and the $150 you always have in your jacket pocket"..Just un-ruffle her feathers, pat her on the bum and send her back to her school dormitory.. When she learns how to communicate properly she may indeed contact you and return the $150...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    She's creeping on you! She's the creepy one haha I think if anything, you should creep her out in the biggest gesture you can conjur. If only you could stand real close behind her and whisper "Pipe...the fuck...down"

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'd not considered this, but possibly a good point.Quoting 'Three_Wise_Words' .......... Some people get a kick of drawing others in then knocking them down. .......

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Only de elete wear a cricketball..Ummm where were we? Oh yeah some advice. Fell into a stalker-man-trap eh? It happens..Perhaps swap "My Brother's Wife asked my sexual orientation...." to "Someone asked...Breasts and Butts" as a family member could come across a little "Creepy"..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    This is why I hide my tracks as when I didnt and I would view guys profiles then I would get hounded because I had looked at them. If I am interested you will Know. Although I like to be sought out.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hide your tracks on RHP? I didn't think it was possible to look at profiles without it registering a "hit". If this really is possible then it would explain why i get to few hits on my profile Don't be shy ladies Disclaimer: Although the first part is a genuine question, the rest is purely meant as a jokeQuoting 'Beneath_blueeyes' This is why I hide my tracks as when I didnt and I would view guys profiles then I would get hounded because I had looked at them. If I am interested you will Know. Although I like to be sought out.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'foreign_lover' Hide your tracks on RHP? I didn't think it was possible to look at profiles without it registering a "hit". One of my many tricks as well.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Three_Wise_Words'OP, the message wasn't creepy. There are many reasons why someone might look at your profile repeatedly and not contact you or want a message. Don't assume looking means interest in contact. I often look repeatedly just for a perve :) It's disappointing her response was so rude, totally unnecessary. Some people get a kick of drawing others in then knocking them down. That's one of many possible explanations. Don't take any of it to heart x this is our experience as well....people look.......because they can. it doesn't mean a thing in many cases...

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  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    13 years ago

    It was probably a guy posing as a girl hoping to get some cock pics from you but when you got all talkative he wasn't interested.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Perhaps she thinks she knows you in real life and is trying to figure out if you are who she thinks you are.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If one were to stalk someone, surely a disguise would help in case they turned around and saw it was you..If one were to go browsing profiles, surely a whole other profile (disguise) would help in case they checked their lookers and saw it was you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    if she was over 41 anything is possible that's why most woman I meet are under 40 hell no stress and love sex. Go for younger girls------no baggage and still got there sex drive

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    "Most women" you "Meet". What sort self-defeating arrangement of words is that to use? Sounds like you're not getting far there..How about "Of all the various age chicks I screw, the young girls stress me out less but the old birds stress me to hell with their baggage and low sex drive".That's the Man way to put it. Don't be a pansy about it.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ha! love it! you forgot to correct his grammar. do iiiit!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Direct' Quoting 'foreign_lover' Hide your tracks on RHP? I didn't think it was possible to look at profiles without it registering a "hit". One of my many tricks as well. Stalking? lol.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Who says I look at a profile more then once?

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