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Does the way a man wanks turn you on/off?

February 12 2012

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I'm quite fascinated by the blunt questions that get asked and answered on here, though I usually don't ask them myself (cue the *blush*).But here's the thing. I've been in chat and clicked on cams, and stumbled across the odd man here and there having a wank (who'd have thought!). And I've realised that I like a particular wanking style - slow, long, full grip, even better double grip - and other styles - fast like a rabbit on heat, pinch grip at the head - leave me cold.Am I the only one?

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  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Remember the old fable ... "Slow and steady wins the race" ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Interesting! I've never given it that much consideration... but cum to think of it.... I do prefer to see a double hander with a juicy wet bit of foreskin dangling over the end of a very swlooen glans... All juiced up with pre-ejaculate.... and veins popping. :)) I also like seeing guys give it a bit of a lick.... if only they could do all that with one armpit exposed, I'd be needing more than a keyboard protector. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hands up anyone who thinks Stalky hasn't given it much consideration. There you go Stalky, a forum full of armpits for you... Present for Valentine's day... a dozen armpits. xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I agree those slow, long strokes over a fat juicy cock with those strong manly hands is hypnotic... Mouth watering. Look into my eye, not around the eye, the eye, the eye.... Your under. :p xx Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'I agree those slow, long strokes over a fat juicy cock with those strong manly hands is hypnotic... Mouth watering. Look into my eye, not around the eye, the eye, the eye.... Your under. :p xx Meeks Add to that the guys that slowly rock their hips at the same time and you will have me in orgasm heaven! Mmmmmmmmmm HOT! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I agree - Frantic tugging does nothing for me...I like to see a man take his time and show control with long, slow stokes. Now that, I could watch all evening...well, maybe not ALL evening...at least until my hunger gets the better of me Interesting question.Mrs Addy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    that we cant help but think about those lovely motions for ourselves, and what that would feel like for our bodies Who would want a jackhammer??Not so sure Im up for the armpits though Stalky, I will leave those all for you:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Stalky: yep.. waaaay too much consideration there.. :)   Having said that.. I am a long slow full stroker myself with full eye contact with the viewer.. and hot hard sex talk :)   caveman (on wielding his club)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I better take my other hand off the keyboard then ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I had a little giggle after reading this topic!! LOL I hate guys that wank fast and with like a couple of fingers around they're penis ... WHAT IS WITH THAT!?? that rlly grosses me out... hahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...but if I know you well enough I am happy to show you how to play "Catapult the Blueberry". Accuracy is pretty good too...I can usually land one in your mouth from 10ft. away.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Must say that the long slow strokes look sexier (especially when cupping his balls) but what gets me off is a man pleasuring himself, doesn't matter what style just that I can see it in his face- total turn on.Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    How could you have missed me Chilli? I've lost more loads on cam here than anywhere else :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Add to that the guys that slowly rock their hips at the same time and you will have me in orgasm heaven! Mmmmmmmmmm HOT! yep I agree with this 100 percent and I see guys wank a lot with work, after all they want the hard cock and cum shot, and then i have to switch the setting to sports mode for those fast action shots I love it when they rock and when they are really vocal, and moan and say how much they are enjoying themselves It suprised me how many different ways a man can wank, two hands one hand, fingertips on top, grip around shaft. And not to mention where it flies to, my god I could put a bullseye on the roof of the studio at times. all good I do panic though what if a bit flies into my hair while I am photographing and I go to the shops or summtin! and there I am with that something about Mary look about me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    it was never a planned thing but it's just worked out that way, that I always mysteriously find myself watching some of RHP's finest strokes...... . PMSL Stalky at a seed planted growing to life and it's pure gold about a couple of posts later. . Yes James , take your other hand off the keyboard gorgeous .................. I DO like long slower strokes, but I also DO like to see it get faster, "oohhh is he getting closer? is he about to cum? yes yes thrust your hips into the air again" But saving the best for last he can do whatever the hell he likes to that dick of his, wank it fast, flick it, slap it from side to side, tie it in a fucking knot roll...AS LONG AS he moannnnnnns and groannnnnnnsss LOUD oh I love a man who moans, and I know someone else here will agree with that xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    OK, I really have to figure out how to use the chatrooms properly.For myself I prefer watching the face and don't care much for the hand on cock action. If face not available then I think, yes, that I prefer the long slow deliberate strokes. I quite like the quick tug-tug-tug followed by slow tug... tug... tug.... too

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I like the long slow strokes, interspersed with a few quick short ones here and there. Oh and the sounds. It is the little moans, that get me all worked up more than the actual visual. I have been known to listen to a certain phone message sent to me late at night when I am by myself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It's because I like to be man-handled, with a little dominance. Long, slow, firm wanking gives me the sense that a man's going to know how to handle me, how to touch me tenderly, possessively, how to slap my ass if it takes his fancy. Short, pinch-grip, frantic strokes makes me think he's going to come at my like a rabbit and be over and done with in seconds.Funny, the psychology of wanking!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Excellent post and yes double handed wow single handed long like they mean it oh and Maybe it feels good but to see a man with two fingers twiddling with the tip Well I just loose interest.Yes I like to watch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'jamesnp'How could you have missed me Chilli? I've lost more loads on cam here than anywhere else :-P Seems I have missed you on cam too James! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sorry but I find a guy who's comfortable having a wank in front of me sooooooo enjoyable. Hate to say it but so often its sort of the female you expect to see. But hey if they want to go there with me well hello, I'm not only intrigued, fascinated but it also gives me ideas and helps the expertise along the way!!   Thank them for the share YUM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    a good pull is the biggest turn on for me ..... i absolutely LOVE watching a man pull himself .... and i even love it more when i can lick his balls as his wanking mmmmmm it's fricken sexy ;-)

  • Albert01

    Albert01

    14 years ago

    At your instance to join in the thread. A wank is quite clearly best enjoyed with long slow strokes. With the right person being able to lookinto each others eyes if they can bring themselves to climax at the same time is incredible. Cleaning up the outcome for each other is also a fon chore Alb

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm off to develop my slow style more..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    poor chilli....didn't mean to distract you :-PJuicypants....that is absolutely perfect....definitely a crying shame I'm eight years too young....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i'll be honest.....i love a good wank......often!long and slow is the way to go....nothing like being watched by an interested party - very big turn on.If I ever get asked to do anything inparticular whilst wanking is also exciting, again, if the watcher is genuinely interested and turned on:)theres also nothing like watching a watchers mouth while in the throws of it all.....you can get some interesting and sometimes comical mouth movements!!!off to take car of the prostate!

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Handmaiden'I have been known to listen to a certain phone message sent to me late at night when I am by myself. Is it the sound or the thoughts running through your head placing visuals in your mind which has you redialling message-bank ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It is all the visuals in my head and just quietly, how did you know I was scrabbling for the redail button in the dark?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I had no idea the percentage of women that enjoyed watching was so high. I would of thought most women would of been bored after 30 seconds lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I sometimes ask him to do it for me while I bite his nipples and fondle his testicles. As far as the online thing goes, I've only seen it onscreen once but it took me by surprise as I thought I'd been chatting to a girl. Turned out to be a TV.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi Girls,I noticed that all the girls seem to like the slow stroking action when watching guys wank, and would prefer not to see that to a guy using two fingers, some even judge that I guy would not be good in bed if he uses two fingers instead of a while hand.Now I agree that a slow full hand stroke feels amazing, and I like to start my wanking off this way (which obviously pleases you girls to watch). However as I like to stay on the edge of orgasm for hours (which I would love someone to watch the whole show, but assume most would get bored), I need to swap to a two finger approach, with the thumb rubbing the top ridge of my cock and the fingers rubbing the sensitive part underneath my cock through my foreskin. Doing this makes my cock head glisten with precum and makes it easier to slip my foreskin over the ridge at the head of my cock.So to answer your question, I use the two fingers so that I can enjoy myself longer and generally get a more intense orgasm when I blow. Don't know about other guys but that is why i would do it, sorry if it is not visually great to watch but it makes the overall feeling so much better for me! So it might be that us guys who use two fingers are actually better in bed! :-P