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Does sexy lingerie or underwear get your juices flowing ?

July 20 2010

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I have wondered about how important sexy lingerie or underwear is too having sex..I guess depending on the person or the situation and how it is used can make a difference to the excitement.. I love naked but i also love the sensuality of seduction and working through the sexyness of lingerie..So where does this sit with our forum friends?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I think that when I wear sexy lingerie I become another person.... or rather a different facet of myself comes to the front. :p Really, people should dress up more often. Let go of the business as usual you and indulge in the theatre and fantasy of it all... being bound to reality all the time really sucks. We are dreamers, all of us. We learnt to play at a very young age... so when did being an adult mean that we have to retain a parent mindset duirng our fantasies? Let go of the parent you ... remember how to play.... dream a little.. indulge some fantasy... play dress ups... become a horny little war slut in your french lace and nylons.... don't be afraid to use some fur and some feathers... I saw the most brilliant fur coats up the back at a second hand Bowral shop.... nothing over a couple hundred dollars... beautiful stuff for that sexy moment of naked indulgence. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    that the nice stuff is so expensive cos I'm quite partial to it being cut off me. :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love lingerie - in fact one of my unhealthy obsessions is shopping for lingerie, lingerie and even more lingerie. For me I just I love the feel of lace against my skin. I am obtaining a nice collection of corsets and some nice negligee as well as the fact that all of my bras and underwear match - if I cant get a matching set I dont buy it. I do like the look on a partners face when they find me answering the door, or lounging around in a sheer babydoll or some other piece of lingerie, just adds something quite nice to the whole experience and besides that it makes me feel good too. I am with Stalky, got to love the sheer fantasy of lingerie as well as playing dressups and just indulging the creative side of our sexuality. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well like i said i am not so fussed about what u guys think ... and like focus i like to match ..... and knowing that i have on sexy underwear under my jeans ( i pretty much live in jeans ) ...... well makes me feel good .... and yeah ..... there is nothing like anticipation and excitement of waiting for the next parcel from my favourite online place that does sexy larger cup bras ... (bravissimo for anyone with big boobs)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love lingerie....and im with focus ..if it doesnt match.. But Focus heres a cheap sexy alternative......hope its not too naughty try glad wrap !! hehehehehe norty norty norty (I saw it on a video ) honest miss b

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sexy knickers, yeah, lingerie, yeah yeah, but for me, it doesnt cut the ice... yeah its great to see some lady in knickers or lingerie, yeah, you can pretty much look and play all day... try a lycra catsuit... now THAT does it for me, it is tight, it is body conforming, but there is no way in (unless you have a zip) so the foreplay in my opinion is better, as you know you cant get in (unless the urge to ripyour way in is imminent!).. told you it was from left field!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well I certainly appreciate a lady going to the effort of putting on something yummy like that... matching is nice... so Focus, Frocker and MissBowpeek, I expect photos in my inbox later tonight so I can approve your choices... ;-) As for the effect on me... well.. I'm a bare skin guy... love the feel of a bare naked body pressed softly (or hard) against mine.. the touch of skin on skin... fingers dancing all over each other... nails from the lady strokeing all over me... oopss sorry got carried away there! hugs Wayne x PS - Taipan - do ya think you can organise some lingere models for the Sydney drinks night??? I'm working on getting Megan Gale to come.... seriously I am...

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    most of the time i wear matching sexy bra and knickers....apart from those days i dont care and im wearing my granny undies hehe and whenever i go on a trip i always pack a sexy nightie or two with some super sexy knickers to match but....i always forget i have them and end up naked gotta love that skin on skin if your with someone special xxRxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love my lingerie and wear it all the time..(unless in jeans)....when I work I wear the tight skirt and jacket business suits and always have the suspenders and stockings underneath (usually no knickers)....it is a power thing for me...love being around all the men at work and having them guessing..."hmm does she or doesn't she have lingerie on"...love giving them the little peek a boo (by accident of course) . And when I can smell my juices and wonder if they can too....hmmm such a turn on!! My shirts usually play peek a boo with my teddy or my lacy bra...and is fun to watch men try to concentrate on what they are saying as they speak to me trying soooo hard to keep their eyes on my eyes. Love how sexy it makes me feel and love love love feeling totally feminine with my lingerie on....love it...obsessed by it!! Could never be with a man that doesn't like it...and surprise surprise...some men don't!! Oh and guys....when scratching your chin with your shoulder....we KNOW that you are perving lol...such a big giveaway lol. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I'm with you Ladies Love sexy lingerie, it's my number one indulgence...well maybe not number one! I buy for me & me alone, always makes me feel good & even more sensuous. Always sets...has to match. And sure it's always nice to get a reaction from you partner too...even if it does end up in a pile on the floor before too long. Frocker...thanks for the tip, haven't heard of that store before, will check them out. Keep indulging all Ms Blind xox

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    How about black stockings very high heels & completely naked while you are fully dressed . That gets me hot amongst other things. Have to say I do have some nice lingerie haven't shown off yet. Hey Focus - how do you get the corsets on without help??? It is hard. xxx Meeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    me naked with a few people in the room who are fully dressed and focusing on me telling me what to do. Sorry people I am feeling very hot and bothered tonight..........

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Miss B - Gladwrap huh? Could be fun. May need to give that one a try Hmmm now to find someone to try this on for Meeka - practice honey practice. I own a few now and being a single girl meant i had to learn pretty quickly how to do them up on my own. Oh and I do like the stockings and heels idea too. Very hot!!! Wayne - with those lingerie models for drinks night can we get some nice male ones too? please? Oh and the pics are on their way Taipan - you are a very bad boy!!!! Now I have to go shopping for more lingerie. See what happens when I start thinking about lingerie, what I own, what I need to own - that and I noticed a few sales ion my way home. I am laying my need to shop squarely at your feet. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    She loves wearing it and I love taking it off so she can't buy enough of it and he can't walk past a lingerie shop without buying her a little pressie. Gets awfully expensive though

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    ...stylish lingerie just puts the icing on the cake for me. Nothing like having beautiful long legs clad in quality thigh high stockings, matching bra, and a full length silky robe..yum!! and as for taking it off / cutting it off etc...NO thank you...it stays in..and gets a hell of a workout.. :) And hey, guys should have a go and put some on as well.. ;)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'focusliason' Miss B - Gladwrap huh? Could be fun. May need to give that one a try Hmmm now to find someone to try this on for Meeka - practice honey practice. I own a few now and being a single girl meant i had to learn pretty quickly how to do them up on my own. Oh and I do like the stockings and heels idea too. Very hot!!! Wayne - with those lingerie models for drinks night can we get some nice male ones too? please? Oh and the pics are on their way Taipan - you are a very bad boy!!!! Now I have to go shopping for more lingerie. See what happens when I start thinking about lingerie, what I own, what I need to own - that and I noticed a few sales ion my way home. I am laying my need to shop squarely at your feet. Kisses Focus you organise the male models... hehe that way they will be to your taste and not mine.. which given I'm straight would mean for some pretty ugly male models... hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'pjr3095'Sexy knickers, yeah, lingerie, yeah yeah, but for me, it doesnt cut the ice... yeah its great to see some lady in knickers or lingerie, yeah, you can pretty much look and play all day... try a lycra catsuit... now THAT does it for me, it is tight, it is body conforming, but there is no way in (unless you have a zip) so the foreplay in my opinion is better, as you know you cant get in (unless the urge to ripyour way in is imminent!).. told you it was from left field!!! somehow im thinking my fat arse would never look good in lycra.....*shivers* xxRxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I love my lingerie and wear it all the time..(unless in jeans)....when I work I wear the tight skirt and jacket business suits and always have the suspenders and stockings underneath (usually no knickers)....it is a power thing for me...love being around all the men at work and having them guessing..."hmm does she or doesn't she have lingerie on"...love giving them the little peek a boo (by accident of course) . And when I can smell my juices and wonder if they can too....hmmm such a turn on!! My shirts usually play peek a boo with my teddy or my lacy bra...and is fun to watch men try to concentrate on what they are saying as they speak to me trying soooo hard to keep their eyes on my eyes. Love how sexy it makes me feel and love love love feeling totally feminine with my lingerie on....love it...obsessed by it!! Could never be with a man that doesn't like it...and surprise surprise...some men don't!! Oh and guys....when scratching your chin with your shoulder....we KNOW that you are perving lol...such a big giveaway lol. xFunlovingx I think I justed melted into the carpet....................................

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    15 years ago

    Congrats pjr for thinking outside the box! Lycra yummy. Lingerie is v nice but like everything everyone has something in particular they like. I (lady) am a bit partial to corsets and vinyl type stuff. Lord however doesn't give two shits about lace and flimsy things. Give him a short skirt that shows hints of naked pussy underneath when you bend over slightly team it with a nicely fitting hoodie (zip up front of course) and he will be slavering at the mouth. Considerably cheaper than lingerie, and you can wear it in public anywhere and tease the crap out of him!!!!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    not that I'm complaining that there is all many of super hot and sexy lingerie for the womenfolk to to tantalise our eyeballs with...but what equivalent things are out there for us guys to dress up in? (and yes, I'm sure I could look smashing in fishnets and a garter-belt... but... y'know, cross dressing just isn't always appropriate :p )

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Love beautiful sexy lingerie .. I wear it everyday and like some of the other girls.. I need to have it matching top and bottom ... My lingerie draw is like a rainbow... Mostly I do it for me.. but when I am with a man it sometimes seems a smidge wasted when they dont take the time to notice.. usually indicates the type of man they are to be honest... Im like FunLoving in being a corporte girl .. love having that corporate suit on and a beautiful set of lingerie stockings .. and feeeling deliciously sexy .. and as usual horny .. and wondering which man might pick up on my lustfulness. mmm sexy .. (turns me on just thinking about it).. Once made for a great pick up in the Qantas lounge .. but thats another story !!! As for you boys... nothing beats a tight pair of boxers .. hugging that sexy bum .. showing those man legs .. and showing what you have but keeping it all secret at the same time ..... when a man akes off his trousers and thts what I see... purrrrrrrrr Sassyme (sheesh its getting hot in here)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'sassyme' Love beautiful sexy lingerie .. I wear it everyday and like some of the other girls.. I need to have it matching top and bottom ... My lingerie draw is like a rainbow... Mostly I do it for me.. but when I am with a man it sometimes seems a smidge wasted when they dont take the time to notice.. usually indicates the type of man they are to be honest... Im like FunLoving in being a corporte girl .. love having that corporate suit on and a beautiful set of lingerie stockings .. and feeeling deliciously sexy .. and as usual horny .. and wondering which man might pick up on my lustfulness. mmm sexy .. (turns me on just thinking about it).. Once made for a great pick up in the Qantas lounge .. but thats another story !!! As for you boys... nothing beats a tight pair of boxers .. hugging that sexy bum .. showing those man legs .. and showing what you have but keeping it all secret at the same time ..... when a man akes off his trousers and thts what I see... purrrrrrrrr Sassyme (sheesh its getting hot in here) got me all worked up there Sassy.... was in the Qantas lounge a few times in the last week... hmmmm nice thoughts indeed.... hugs Wayne x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I would have to say that I equally adore women both in and out of sexy lingerie. So if I may, I would like to clarify by simply rewriting the question... | I love women in sexy lingerie when: | A) It is sliding off very seductivlely with my help | B) It is in a heap on the floor or thrown everywhere | C) It gets caught in my teeth at the best possible moment | D) All of the above | This is not a trick question! I choose "D" for....delightful!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' not that I'm complaining that there is all many of super hot and sexy lingerie for the womenfolk to to tantalise our eyeballs with...but what equivalent things are out there for us guys to dress up in? (and yes, I'm sure I could look smashing in fishnets and a garter-belt... but... y'know, cross dressing just isn't always appropriate :p ) mmmm those tight boxer things...you know the ones chasing midnight has on in his profile pic....mmmm in black, god i do love a man in black jocks god damn id be on my knee's in a nano second yummo xxRxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love my matching bra/panty sets... I moved house recently, and counted as I packed... I can go for more than two months, and not wear the same set twice Have recently discovered stockings & suspenders... oh my... LOVE them!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    maybe i dont look sexy but hey i feel sexy soo thats all that matters really. my thing. have every color lol.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    La Perla xxx

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    15 years ago

    I LOVE a woman in sexy lingerie, especially the suspender stockings like blindambition is wearing in her profile pic :o) It is such a turn on to see a hint of the stocking tops with the suspender strap peeking out from under a short skirt as a woman sits down, seductively crossing her legs with a smile. But one thing I would say ... PLEASE ladies, DON'T take the stockings off into the pile on the floor with the bra, panties and suspenders, leave them on. The feeling of silk is very erotic. @sassyme Tight cotton boxers ... I wouldn't wear anything else :o)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I just swoon at the sight and feel of a lady in lingerie. High heels and lingerie are just so erotic. I can never go past a lingerie shop or HH shoe shop when out with a lady. It is amazing though the number of blokes who haven't or won't buy a lady lingerie. Also startling is the number of ladies who have never had lingerie bought for them.

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    15 years ago

    But you told me I didn't need any Taipan!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Crazy i can see it now , how do you go in heels !!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    enough said ! Hope the typing police aren't around xxx ps Did someone say heels!!!!

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    15 years ago

    Can u hop on one heel??? Might break the other leg me finks!But oh yeh I cut a dashing figure in heels & french knickers!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I now have a mental image of you running around (OK hopping) in a cute little corset, suspenders, stockings and stillettos....... Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Lingerie, costumes, dress ups all bring out different, sexy facets of our personalities but sometimes I wonder, "What is the point when I'm going to end up naked anyways??" So maybe the birthday suit is my fave?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Agent Provocateur, Pleasure State, Victoria's Secret i'm sure hubby has shares in them by now lol. Tell me any man or sexy woman who doesn't get turned on by a sexy lady in 5" heels, stockings, suspenders basque etc. Ask any child at Christmas most of the fun is in the unwrapping hehe and I love my men and ladies to enjoy unwrapping me.............mmm x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    fer both sexes works.by the way, ebay has a lotto answer fer man. cost me a fortuneova the years. still enjoy stirrin the neigboursup walkin the pittbull in leather jeans and full length coat.gotta give em sumpin ta talk about ova dinner, eh......ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahaahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahaEarl

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Love il lingerie, costumes, dress ups you name it ... makes it a lot more sexy part of the whole atmosphere, being acting and feeling sexy during the act always takes it up a notch,....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    love all forms of dress ups, and lingerieFocus, i hear you, just do what we do- Get an ok looking cheap set from big W or the like, and get changed into that prior to hitting the sack.Then when its time, i have absolutely no problems ripping the knickers open. helps when your head is already down there, and you can dive in after that awesome sound of ripped materialyum

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Wasn't the credit card and the Internet invented for buying all forms classy, skanky and take me lingerie.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I was recently with a guy that I constantly drool over, he was realllllllllllllllly hot for a white bikini with killer heels (black). And I added some black spanish gloves. The bikini was probably a result of the hot chick from Wog Boys 2 lol. I delivered and it looked great :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'luvitruf'love all forms of dress ups, and lingerieFocus, i hear you, just do what we do- Get an ok looking cheap set from big W or the like, and get changed into that prior to hitting the sack.Then when its time, i have absolutely no problems ripping the knickers open. helps when your head is already down there, and you can dive in after that awesome sound of ripped materialyum My problem with this approach is that ALL of my bras and underwear have to match. As do any for my negligies...so this means for anyone to rip lingerie off me they better make sure they have a replacement piece because I love mine to match at all times. I am even at the stage that unless I can obtain a matching gstring (my underwear of choice) then I refuse to buy the outfit/bra. Simple really. Kisses Focus BTW I did go shopping for more lingerie recently and obtained a few lovely bras and underwear sets and a cute little outfit that i am sure will be appreciated by the right person.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I wear them everywhere - shopping, housework, going out etc. It keeps my boyfriend very happy!!