RHP

RHP User

M49 F49

Does it mean i am bi

March 17 2011

have been swinginging for about six years with a few different girlfriends and i like to go down on them when they have been fucked and filled with another mans cum, does this mean i am bi ?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hehe.. It's not exactly like sucking his cock you know... but it definitely means you like eating creampie.... pie rhymes with bi... so you can't be too careful.... you might catch something... it's unlikely to be a new sexuality... but you might catch something none the less.HUgsS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Subconsciously you may have bisexual tendencies. The thought of going through the physical act of sucking another mans cock is distasteful to you but subconsciously you are putting yourself in a submissive position by ingesting another man's cum. I see a lot of guys in my line of work that insist they are straight but love anal penetration and they have no wish to label themselves as homosexual. They think that if they get a Mistress like me to use a strap on they can't be called gay or bisexual. Some of them do in fact have homosexual/bisexual tendencies. The rest just love anal sex with a strapon. When will guys get over their fear of being labelled and treat it like any normal sexual act? Women like anal too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thats having fun all the attention is to the lady, go for it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A person's sexuality indicates his/her gender preferences, not his/her sexual preferences. Anal penetration is merely a sexual act, it is not a sexuality. If a guy gets some stimulation on his prostate gland, that doesn't make him a gay dude ..... it just might make him a happy dude.Obviously straight people can receive anal stimulation, Gay people can receive anal stimulation and bi people can receive anal stimulation.... but equally obvious is the fact that not everyone likes to receive anal stimulation. I've met a zillion people who are grossed out by the thought of anal penetration and don't do anal sex at all, but are not straight. Anal sex is irrelevant to a person's sexuality.The logic follows that liking to receive anal stimulation is not a pre-determinate of your sexuality, merely a fact that you are capable of being stimulated in that way by a lover.As it happens, the OP didn't even mention his arsehole... he apparently likes to eat a sloppy pussy.... and good luck to him for confronting his interests. He only asked the question because he wonders if it still falls within the boundaries of his identity as a straight guy.... that's why these labels are inhibiting... and why I dont bother with them.. it means I'm free to do what I want to without having to ask myself if it falls within the parameters of my "sexuality". HugsStalkyQuoting 'MistressT' The thought of going through the physical act of sucking another mans cock is distasteful to you but subconsciously you are putting yourself in a submissive position by ingesting another man's cum. I see a lot of guys in my line of work that insist they are straight but love anal penetration and they have no wish to label themselves as homosexual. They think that if they get a Mistress like me to use a strap on they can't be called gay or bisexual.

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    15 years ago

    If you then go and pash out the guy who left the load :D (sorry... that's a bit crude for me but hey, it's nearly Friday)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    what do you like the taste of more?- her vagina?or- the guys cum?:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If he came in a cup, and that cup was just to the left of your woman's vagina...what do you consume? Cup = Bi Vagina = Straight Vagina with a Cup Chaser = I have no fucking idea Cup with a Vagina Cha... Shit, these scenarios confuse me. If you're not sure, then you're in the middle, and in the middle = bi. I think you're bi mate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' A person's sexuality indicates his/her gender preferences, not his/her sexual preferences. Anal penetration is merely a sexual act, it is not a sexuality. If a guy gets some stimulation on his prostate gland, that doesn't make him a gay dude ..... it just might make him a happy dude.Obviously straight people can receive anal stimulation, Gay people can receive anal stimulation and bi people can receive anal stimulation.... but equally obvious is the fact that not everyone likes to receive anal stimulation. I've met a zillion people who are grossed out by the thought of anal penetration and don't do anal sex at all, but are not straight. Anal sex is irrelevant to a person's sexuality.The logic follows that liking to receive anal stimulation is not a pre-determinate of your sexuality, merely a fact that you are capable of being stimulated in that way by a lover.As it happens, the OP didn't even mention his arsehole... he apparently likes to eat a sloppy pussy.... and good luck to him for confronting his interests. He only asked the question because he wonders if it still falls within the boundaries of his identity as a straight guy.... that's why these labels are inhibiting... and why I dont bother with them.. it means I'm free to do what I want to without having to ask myself if it falls within the parameters of my "sexuality". HugsStalkyYes Stalky I know he didn't mention anal penetration. I was using it as an example to show that some acts such as anal penetration are non gender specific and therefore anyone that participates in such actions should not be labelled. Ifyoucan is asking if the pleasure of ingesting another man's cum from his partner's pussy would make him bisexual. My answer to that was maybe. It all has to do with the motivation behind his actions. If he does it because it makes him feel submissive or cuckholded then the answer would be no. If he does it because he dislikes the idea of puting his mouth over another man's cock but desires the cum then the answer would be maybe. If he finds other men sexually attractive, but cant bring himself to become physical with another man, I would say he would qualify for the bisexual label. Unless the gentleman in question is prepared to give motivation as to why he enjoys the act we really cannot be certain as to his sexual bias. About the only thing we do know is he takes risks with safe sex play.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If you like it...do it. Call yourself whatever you like...or think up your own name for it. It does not define your gender or who you are as a person. Just avoid calling it a Julia Gillard...I think we may just all find out that nobody is sure what in the hell that is all about but are going to get screwed senseless and no one will enjoy it much. | But to answer the question...maybe.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I like pineapple juice, but that doesn't make me a Queenslander.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Yes Stalky I know he didn't mention anal penetration. I was using it as an example to show that some acts such as anal penetration are non gender specific and therefore anyone that participates in such actions should not be labelled. No dispute here.... that's what I thought you meant but I just attempted to reinforce it! I don't know that eating jizz off your female lover makes a guy bisexual. Let's take some examples.... What if, in this threesome situation, the guy licked jizz of her pussy and tits and then spat it into the face of the other guy.... does that make him bi?... or is he only a bit bi because he likes to swallow? What if he then licked it off the other dudes face and spat it in the woman's face? Does that make him any less bi?really... it's just body fluid... some of which happens to be male... it's not like he's fucking the dude. HugsS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Justin8507_Take2' If he came in a cup, and that cup was just to the left of your woman's vagina...what do you consume? Cup = Bi Vagina = Straight Vagina with a Cup Chaser = I have no fucking idea Cup with a Vagina Cha... Shit, these scenarios confuse me. If you're not sure, then you're in the middle, and in the middle = bi. I think you're bi mate. i love to suck a man dry and swallow his cum...but shit id never drink it out of a cup lol...straight from his cock only thanks...so what does that make me???....fussy, maybe??? roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    im with most of the others....its just a label you like what you like thats all there is to it i love some really strange stuff...but that doesnt make me strange, around here it just makes me normal so dont worry just go with the flow roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I agree mostly with CM. It's just a label and labels have been done to death in these parts in the past. But I suppose it's a grey area if you feel confused or preoccupied with the need to label it somehow. I hope you find the answers you seek but I don't have one in this instance. How you reconcile your sexual tendencies is a personal thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' ... it's not like he's fucking the dude. HugsS If he did that definately awards him the Bi Label. It really comes down to who you are giving / having pleasure with, Have thought for years now you have to be slightly Bi to partake in group sex. For us love licking a ladies pussy after another guy has been there thats hot, especially if the lady has cummed but not the othe guy. Jean can stick to licking a pineapple that obviously rocks his boat. Sharing a cock with your wife giving oral , feeling his cock inside inside the ladies pussy, double penetration, we call that soft bi, The attention is still to the lady and the three of you are playing. Guy to guy oral with no lady involved, cuddling , kissing, male to male anal sex. That is Bi we wont go there and will avoid those that do, thats our choice. Before anyone jumps into us because of our choices, we have been refused by others because of soft bi suggestions above. Which is fine we accept their choice, We find swinging works best for us if boundries and expectations are discussed prior to the bedroom labels help us with those hot discussions. Going with the flow, no expectations etc has lead to dissapoinments from our experiance we want to when a date is made with another couple to swing, for it to be a great night. Like we are going out to swing, thats have sex, not a dinner social night! I can see singles meeting singles operating under rules.