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Does it break the mood to ask your partner to wash first?

March 21 2011

Hi all, first time poster here so be gentle :) During foreplay with someone after we've been out at hot sweaty locations like a nightclub, and you know you're both not at your freshest down below, I can't bring myself to break the mood by suggesting a shower first if it's already naturally progressed to the bedroom. Would it break the modd completely to suggest a wash before any serious oral action takes place? With a familiar person it might be alright but what about when it's the first time with someone new? Thoughts anyone?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Just say....mmmm baby....come get wet with me and i'll scrub your back...love a bit of shower foreplay!(and she will probably like the chance to freshen up too!)JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    No I'd probably be the first to suggest it, especially if it is with someone new. But it doesn't have to be a conversation Leading her gently by the hand , kissing her passionately the whole way there, whispering to her you want to get all soapy and slippery in the shower and wash every part of her beautiful body . so much yummy fun to be had in the shower, make it part of the foreplay. You'll both feel fresh as a daisy and want to get all dirtied up again as soon as you hit the sheets. Have fun xx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Make the shower part of the foreplay - you know wash her hair, her back, her boobs, etc.... Sharing a shower can be HOT!xxMeeka

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Good advice from both of you ladies, thanks. Actually I have incorporated the shower before, I was just a bit worried about when you're with a person for the first time and the foreplay is already getting to the nitty gritty :) I do like that suggestion you made earlier MrsPeachypear63 with syaing "I'm feeling hot and sweaty", might be a good excuse to put on that old Nelly track "Hot in here" on the sound system, it just doenst get used enough anymore :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Make the shower part of the foreplay - you know wash her hair, her back, her boobs, etc.... Sharing a shower can be HOT!xxMeeka And having a shower with dual heads is great!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Shouldnt break the mood at all....As Meeka said, great for foreplay, i like to have the light dimmed, almost dark, water soap,expolring each other......yum One thing is for sure, an unclean smell, that would be a moodbreaker.... Maxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I agree with these ladies...if you suggest the shower for YOURSELF, because you are hot and sweaty...she will follow your lead, and you will have a fun time washing away all of that sweat...perfect fix :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    "before any serious oral action takes place", to hell with the shower I would be plunging in face first. Even better, "put that right here on my face".

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I usually ask straight up. It makes me feel more comfortable, and I'm sure it's appreciated. YOu could just excuse yourself like you need to go to the toilet and jump in the shower for a quick freshen up if you're a bit shy about it.On the other hand, I don't want my lovers to shower cause I like it dirty. :pHUgsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Unless the woman is absolutely pissed and does not care, most of us like to shower first. We like to feel assured the we are all clean and smelling fresh before partaking. I dont particularly want to snuggle up to someone who smells of stale sweat. Clean sweat that we make together is good. Shower together, or offer her the shower first. Say you feel sweaty and wouldnt mind a shower. Ask her if she wants one first or would she like to share yours.

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    15 years ago

    Especially what Stalky said. I loooove the aroma of a sweaty pussy........as long as it's just sweat......and moistness. lol. Have I ever mentioned how much i love the word moist??? But i digress. lol.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    cant remember the last time we went to a night club...... dont really want to....too many screaming children....lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I think that any number women would enjoy being playful...and particularly so when you are first together. Soft laughter and and gentle hand...and a bit of pampering in a shower or spa together is delightful. | Take time to wash her hair, caress her neck, shoulders and back...I think you will find the sensuality of the experience is an incredible way to get to know your new lover. | And don't forget the apres' shower scented massage oils. Savour every moment... | ...as you delight in the company of a beautiful woman.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I just don't get it.... Here's this guy, picked up some hottie at a nightclub and they're half way through tearing each others clothes off in some sort of primal animal way (you know the way you do if you picked up at a nightclub as opposed to the Meals on Wheels depot) and he wants to know if it breaks the mood if he asks her to climb into the shower. . And everyone goes oh have a nice shower together you know with gentle massages.. in fact while you're in there why not arrange a bouquet of flowers and bake her a fucking cake. . Will it spoil the mood? If you listen to this advice it will. But if you tear her clothes off, lead her into the shower with your lips still pressed together and your tongues wrestling, lather her up a little roughly and stroke her pussy while your gently pulling her hair... then you probably won't. My next move would be to press her up against the cold tiles and warm her up from behind, but that's entirely up to you!! I mean you might need to check the cake.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' But if you tear her clothes off, lead her into the shower with your lips still pressed together and your tongues wrestling, lather her up a little roughly and stroke her pussy while your gently pulling her hair... then you probably won't. My next move would be to press her up against the cold tiles and warm her up from behind, but that's entirely up to you!! I mean you might need to check the cake. Actually the dude really turns me on... anyone who smells so much that they think they need to take a shower before sexing it up has gotta smell bad, in a good kind of way. :pHugsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' matey matey matey....have you ever considered offering the lady a wine dine and spa...? you got to spa before you play... and sometimes you dont get that order either,.,.. ... of course all different situations arise....but if you on the way home from a night club on foot in a dark alley....awww shucks...don't worry about washing...... ..... I like that idea a lot. A spa ay? Gotta get me one of those

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' My next move would be to press her up against the cold tiles and warm her up from behind, Oh yeah....that's what im talking about!Nothing like him biting my neck and shoulders...his fingers twisting my nipples....while his hard cock is rubbing up and down my soapy asscrack....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.*throb*JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    wont break the mood,as Peachy has said, just let her know that you would like to shower first (Shows you care about her) and ask if she would like to join you.99% of the girls i know will welcome the chance to shower first!As for me, i'm a dirty fucker, and love a womans musk! Besides, she's about to get pretty damn hot and sweaty anyway!Each to their own i say!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    try sniffing the air, turning up ur nose and saying, "jesus christ, how long has that fish been out of the water? better get it into the shower before its gills dry out." just call me old silver tongue.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Perhaps examine why it doesn't occur to you to head for the shower BEFORE the foreplay gets to the nitty gritty. If you're already on the bed naked and your mouth is just an inch from her clit, it's too late to be asking for a shower break. Suck it up, sunshine. xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Can't argue with that logic...if you have forfeited your sense of sensuality or turned into a primal primate, it's probably best not to look up with her legs over your shoulders and ask "Can we go wash this thing". Forget it and just take a deep breath... | Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Perhaps examine why it doesn't occur to you to head for the shower BEFORE the foreplay gets to the nitty gritty. | The tip off might have been any flies in the room heading for the nearest can of Mortein and taking a nose hit. Plan you work...work your plan. | | Seriously...not even the best of pearl divers goes in without checking the waters first.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Cake. FLMAO Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I just don't get it.... Here's this guy, picked up some hottie at a nightclub and they're half way through tearing each others clothes off in some sort of primal animal way (you know the way you do if you picked up at a nightclub as opposed to the Meals on Wheels depot) and he wants to know if it breaks the mood if he asks her to climb into the shower. . And everyone goes oh have a nice shower together you know with gentle massages.. in fact while you're in there why not arrange a bouquet of flowers and bake her a fucking cake. . Will it spoil the mood? If you listen to this advice it will. But if you tear her clothes off, lead her into the shower with your lips still pressed together and your tongues wrestling, lather her up a little roughly and stroke her pussy while your gently pulling her hair... then you probably won't. My next move would be to press her up against the cold tiles and warm her up from behind, but that's entirely up to you!! I mean you might need to check the cake.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Like it really is easy..if you feel like a shower you drag her straight in there clothes and all. Peel them off and devour her with water running over her naked body. Taste her pussy quick as you don't want the water washing off all her salty goodness. So shower is really no problem but I have to side with Jean, when I've lead a hot, sweaty girl into my lair after a night clubbing I'm not giving two hoots about her being fresh!!!! I do have an abnormally keen sense of smell and taste though so I guess I've been lucky that all the sweaty women I've been with have tasted divine no matter how sweaty they are. I guess my keen senses can smell a tasty morsel waaaaay before I undress it!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBJ' Just say....mmmm baby....come get wet with me and i'll scrub your back...love a bit of shower foreplay!(and she will probably like the chance to freshen up too!)JMO...BJxxx I love the shower play also... It is a wonderful time, to be 'intimate'.If you suggest that you love playing in the shower, making sure that you use a nice soapy cloth to wash your partner all over, making sure that after it is washed and cleaned, that you give someoral attention to some 'now nicely clean' spots..I love the passion, the touching, and kissing.. it makes it all more fun...:) PS: Dove soap is really really nice.. ;)'

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Install one of those emergency wash down cubicles, for chemical spillage/radiation exposure in you bedroom. Tell them you won it ina 'safety exhibition' raffle and don't forget the wire brush and dettol.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Tonyerotic'Install one of those emergency wash down cubicles, for chemical spillage/radiation exposure in you bedroom. Tell them you won it ina 'safety exhibition' raffle and don't forget the wire brush and dettol. or tell her Prison Guard is your favourite role-play so you can squirt her with ice-cold water from the fire hose and throw de-lousing powder on her. admittedly, the last prison movie i watched was Shawshank Redemption, i can't vouch for the current use of de-lousing powder, you might have to say it's a period piece... xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I find most people shower daily (well the people I know)? And most would shower, b4 going to a night club, yes (always!)? So they can't be 'unclean' really? I love the scent of someone, gettn a good wiff of their pheromones can take my mind to the hot sweaty sex that we we SHOULD BE HAVING...shower smower, have one when your done! OCD clean freaks! Lol! If u dig their scent it shouldn’t be an issue. So just stick your nose in their pit first to be sure lol! P.S. The smell of Dove or Palmolive doesn't get me horny at all, and if it is a rose scented soap then it just makes me think of the toilet spray my mum always had in the loo, now how that is meant to mask the smell of poop is beyond me?!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Will it spoil the mood? If you listen to this advice it will. But if you tear her clothes off, lead her into the shower with your lips still pressed together and your tongues wrestling, lather her up a little roughly and stroke her pussy while your gently pulling her hair... then you probably won't. My next move would be to press her up against the cold tiles and warm her up from behind, but that's entirely up to you!! I mean you might need to check the cake.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    If you take her out and hose her down however......

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    It's the mix of pheromones that is creating the mood, so why wash it away? Surely there is going to be a round 2...just like sorbet between courses, think shower as foreplay between rounds.