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Does Soul mates excist?
January 31 2009
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RHP User
17 years ago
i believe they do, my husband was definatly mine, unfortunatly he passed away 2 years ago. But i do also believe there is someone else out there for me who i am just waiting to find... but by god isn't it great testing out the waters...lol
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RHP User
17 years ago
over my life i've met a coupler of people i would call soul mates. it's very rare and precious thing. to me they are people that give me a feeing of calm and connection that you don't find in a good friend. you usually know why you like your friends, it's a list of tick boxes thing. but a soul mate is harder to understand. you may have nearly nothing in common. i don't think being together is important. the feelings for a soul mate do not require physical connection. it's an intangible thing, just knowing they are there is enough for me. i think soul mates can be the same gender, so if you're strait being together probably is not an issue. i don't think it's a sexual thing really. but since 2 of mine i've on the other side of the equator, we take tuns buying air tickets to keep in touch. LRE (here's to special people)
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RHP User
17 years ago
I knew my ex husband was my soul mate....we'd finish each others sentences and just knew how the other felt, it was a deep felt connection the both of us had. Unfortunately he broke my heart! Soul mates aren't supposed to do that are they?
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RHP User
17 years ago
I believe in soul mates Soul mates can be on very different levels be it physical (sexual) or intellectual They don’t have to be a lover, husband or wife I believe that a good honest sincere friend who you are able to come to in trouble times as as well as in good times, who does not judge you but are there for you are soul mates
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RHP User
17 years ago
my gf is like a female version of me.(no not a girl with a beard or dick) from our first meeting it was like we had known each other all our lives. Thats about the best way I can describe it.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Of course there are soul mates out there.... steamy is mine ... dont know what i would do with out her.... just knew the first time i met her .. we were made for each other..... asked her to marry me after 10 days of dating her.... omg now thats over 20 years now....... Love you my darling STEAMY .. mwahs all ways xoxoxooxoxox
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RHP User
17 years ago
Not sure about soul mates in the traditional sense. Like that as soon as I laid eyes on you thing, but I do know that Mr and I are definately sexual soul mates. We swing and have heaps of fun but there is no feeling like the sex we have together. It all just comes together in the most perfect motion, no matter how many people we have had join us in our relationship i have never felt as fulfilled by anyone else as I am by Mr. mrs xxx
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RHP User
17 years ago
hmmmm tinks, what can i say, i have met my soul mate. We never thought we would meet but fate had other ideas. I had no intentions of falling in love again and wasnt looking to either but "WHAM" it hits me full force and now dte and i have been together over a year now and we couldnt be happier. (wish i met him along time ago) But hey it all happens for a reason. I dearly hope this happens to you and you can feel the joy and love that i am experiencing, then you wouldnt have to ask that question hun. good luck in your search shan xoxoxoxoxo
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RHP User
17 years ago
How many people do you need to be with to find your soul mate? Some find them after 2 or three - some not even after a hundred. Just lucky or easily satisfied. Or is it just a question of creating a soul mate out of the one you are with? If you believe you can find a soul mate or you are open to the discovery then you are more likely to find them. Just as anything you believe re-interprets your experience. How long can you be "in" love? Brain chemistry says one to three years. The trick is make being "in" love a habit rather than a special event. What does a person "in" love do, say, want, accept as opposed to someone who just loves, cares for or appreciates? When both people act like a soul mate then they have found each other. If neither communicates what they expect then the odds drop dramatically. Ask your loved one - how would your soul mate behave? Ask yourself. If you have found your soul mate tell us what they do that makes them so.
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RHP User
16 years ago
While not undervaluing the concept of soulmates and trule love, I feel that - given the role chaos and chance inevitably plays in the concept of fate, it's obtuse to deduce that in a world of 6 billion people there would be only one perfect match. And, even if there was, that you'd have any chance to encounter that perfect match inside a reasonable lifetime. I just hope I meet someone nice who falls inside a bell curve.
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RHP User
16 years ago
this is a brilliant question that so applies to me!!!yes i can honestly say they do exist.. and having just broken up from a 12 year relationship with someone i am now fightin in court over custody of my daughter whom he never took ANY notice of when we were around.. by chance i went on a social networking site called tagged and i did indeed find who i believe to be my true soulmate! Unfortunately he lives in canada.. we speak on msn messenger x2 a day on voice chat with the web cam.He takes great interest in me and my daughter he adores her and she .him. and recently we met for the first time when he came here for 3 weeks in march .. it was the best 3 weeks of my life and now we are engaged!It really IS!!! difficult even more so now we have actually spent real time together but we are gonna make it happen sometime when this court thingy is settled ..i am of the mind if its meant to be we will find a way!! but its hard every day not bein able to be with each other but we make the most of what we have .
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RHP User
16 years ago
You are a very lucky woman, Miss Sparkles.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think I've had 5 soulmates so far... maybe 6. Lol. I have two ATM.. and another who lives in the US. It's not like a person goes looking. You just realise the extraordinary strong connection. Shit happens. Things change and life progresses... sometimes taking you in different directions and sometimes you just have to let go. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
i met my soulmate when i was 16....we have loved each since....maybe thats why i cant find love, no body has ever stacked up...we are connected in ways i cant explain, its a beautiful feeling whenever we are together...(miss you Eddie xxx) but on the other hand...i have the best soulmate in the world....she understands me when nobody else does....she gets it when i think im funny and nobody else is laughing....she knows when im hurting, even if she isnt about....she is the best ever, most beautiful woman i know...(love you bettercup, mwahhhh) roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
they always get the joke no matter how obscure.i've had it and lost it and not sure i gunna get another chance.Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your mind is there to choose from your alternatives, The body to act on the choice, and the soul to observe(experience)the outcome. Believing your partner to be your soul mate is perhaps a deeper way of loving them. And there can't be anything wrong with that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'mynameisearl2' they always get the joke no matter how obscure.i've had it and lost it and not sure i gunna get another chance.Earl you'll get another chance babe...we all do xx roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Statistically speaking, you're likely to find someone better.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'The_Last_76' Statistically speaking, you're likely to find someone better. gotta love statistics, eh.your a legend man.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'The_Last_76' You are a very lucky woman, Miss Sparkles. yes i am :) xxx
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