Does AGE really matter? & How far do you travel for playtime?

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  cbdlivin

  13 years ago

  I think it makes it easier to stick to people in your own age range, and especially when new to the scene you have to be in your comfort zone to enjoy the experience. The worst thing is when you are not even wanting to be there from the start and trying to force something so to speak.I have always believed if you run into someone you know at a party or on the site you really do not have much to worry about as they are there as well, and most people are not likely to be broadcasting the info.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  To address your questions:Age range:We too do not like the idea of swinging with people old enough to be our parents, I have found when people voice this on the forums that they do sometimes cop a bit of crap from others who say "age is just a number". For us age is not just a number, with older people, we feel a generation gap and it's difficult for us to cross. We tend to have very little in common with 50-something year olds (both interests and views on life) and prefer to steer clear of people with whom we share no common interests. We don't even look at profiles of people who are over 15 years older than us. Does that exclude some great people? Probably, but everyone has their exclusions and no-go zones and no-one should be judged for that.Logistics:In terms of people playing in your corner of the world, they will not be all that interested letting the rest of the town know either so you're pretty safe. We tend to find that where we live, there just aren't all that many interesting profiles in our age range on the Sunshine Coast. Most of the time we get messages and flirts from people living in Brisbane, and by that I mean the south end of Brisbane, a bit over and hour and a half's drive away. When that's the case, we often have to plan far ahead in order to meet a couple, and it often never eventuates because we just can't get our schedules kid-free and non-working for all four people. A long ass drive there to meet someone over coffee/drinks is a bit of a pain in the butt, especially if you don't end up feeling attracted to them in person. Goodbye weekend, good bye any other opportunity for some NSA fun that weekend. So yes, do look for local fun, it's worth it!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Yea I agree with the general feeling , since going online with this kinda thing the biggest interest in us has been from older couples which we are not so fussed about, it's best trying to find people of the same age, thou don't mind the older ones if they are still good lookers , thou with the people who have showed immensed interest in us are sadly so below are own standards and you just have to say no, attraction is the main key and if its not there it's gonna just be a crap.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Seems we are not the only ones that feel this way! We agree that we may be excluding some very nice people, but I have to say, if we wouldnt sneek a perv on the street, its probably not going to happe here either. So where are there any events for the under 35s? How many of us are out there? And where the hell are you? =p- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  It depends on your personal preferences really. When I want to visit an escort, I tend to go for escorts in thier late 30's or older as if I choose a younger woman, it would feel like I was having sex with someone of my daughter's age, if I had one of course. I did visit a 26 year old escort a few years back, only because she has a thing for older men. I have been to gangbang parties and seen guys in their 60's having sex with women in their 30's. To each their own I suppose. Whatever turns you on.

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