RHP

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Do you prefer regular sessions with the same male partner or a different one each time?

January 22 2011

sex

I was the third wheel so to speak in a couples bedroom fun on and off for about a year or so and loved it, over time we really got to know what each of us liked and were able to safely and comfortably push our boundaries… alas the couple are no longer a couple (work was the issue not sex) and I miss the fun we had. Was just curious about what other couple out there like

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    id prefer a regular play friend that i could meet often but then inbetween id love someone different and new is that allowed??? lol roxxy

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When work takes us away, we usually play! Spontaneity is a big part of our play....we socialise in the bar of the hotel, Gomez dares me to flirt with the man I can't take my eyes off, business cards exchanged (Gomez's thing)....and then we suggest some fun! Gomez does the business side of things...what our playing rules are and it goes from there. It's usually a 50:50 outcome and it's no issue if they don't want to play. We just have clean fun night rather than a dirty fun night ;P

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When we find a play friend that ticks all the right boxes we tend to meet very regularly. but being spontaneous is fun also. its easy for her , if she spots you at a bar, and she wants you, resistance is futile.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    first meets are exciting but misses needs to feel total comfortable first before we play so doesn't happen on the first meet usualy unless you totaly blow her away.So a regular is the way we go not too say that we only have one regular at a time after all variety is the spice of life

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Roxxy, I think that’s allowed ;-) it’s about having fun and expressing yourself, and at times we need a little more help to do that ….

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'SORENTOSEXY'When we find a play friend that ticks all the right boxes we tend to meet very regularly. but being spontaneous is fun also. its easy for her , if she spots you at a bar, and she wants you, resistance is futile. I love the "resistance is futile" bit ;-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Thanks for sharing that. Everyone being comfortable is the most important thing. Often people thing the single guy that comes along is just raring to go no matter what, but at times taking it slow and getting comfortable is just as important to me as well.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I love you little game, sounds fun. Those set ups are fun. The couple I used to play with once met me in a bar at we pretended we had never met before and her husband had to try and pick me up for her pleasure, I remember making it hard for him. It felt odd at first, but we had fun with it and it turned out to be good night. I just might have to carry more business cards with me ;-)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Living in the country we hope to find a compatible couple for regular fun! (still looking!) . But must admit I enjoy the spice of picking up strangers in the club... So Im with Roxxy instead of NEXT! its BOTH! Mrs H xx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    we would love a reg playmate/mates. we think knowing how to please someone is 1/2 the fun and experimenting would be easier if we are all comfie together.Mrs B