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Do you like to watch a woman dance?

July 09 2014

In swingers clubs or events similar where I can dress a LOT more provocatively than I would ( for my age) at normal clubs, I love to dance. I especially like to dance around a pole, I enjoy the sense of freedom those sort of clubs give to us older ladies . To hopefully not be judged on our wobbly bits and to let our hair down and release our sexual beast :) Guys - What I am asking is, do you guys enjoy watching women dance? If so, what do you like about it? Would it bother you if she wasn't firm and nimble? Ladies do you love to dance? What do you enjoy most about it? Do you like it when guys watch you dance?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A Spiritual lady once told me that Life is a Dance . All of our interactions with others is a Dance . I'm not attracted by Women who Twerk. GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MisterGreen' A Spiritual lady once told me that Life is a Dance . All of our interactions with others is a Dance . I'm not attracted by Women who Twerk. GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile I am now seriously rethinking my Miley outfit for Friday night

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    Would be wonderful to watch. I doubt any man/woman would mind you shaking your groove thing. Sexy clothing, sexy attitude and the freedom of expression through dance would be very mesmerising Mrs Deliciouscurves. I love dancing I often wonder if I could really 'see ' myself when I'm dancing, do I look sexy (like I think I do) or do I look like I'm having a fit? Mary xx

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Do I enjoy watching a woman dance? Absolutely!Why? Because I love watching people have fun. She doesn't have to be a super model, she doesn't have to be a good dancer... she just has to enjoy what she is doing! Oh... and I'm with MisterGreen... not a fan of Twerking SG(still learning to dance...)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    So waiting for someone to post in defence of my twerking youtube clip Where is he ? No ?? Back to the pole and random sambaing it is

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' Would be wonderful to watch. I doubt any man/woman would mind you shaking your groove thing. Sexy clothing, sexy attitude and the freedom of expression through dance would be very mesmerising Mrs Deliciouscurves. I love dancing I often wonder if I could really 'see ' myself when I'm dancing, do I look sexy (like I think I do) or do I look like I'm having a fit? Mary xx Mary that is exactly my thoughts too! I feel hot…but wonder do I just look sad lol

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Maybe the best attitude is just to apply the famous "Dance like there's nobody watching you", let yourself go, feel the rhythm, feel the groove, and looking sexy shouldn't be an issue then... ;) Another quote that comes to my mind instantly: "Dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire (legalized by music)". Anyway, what was I wanted to say in the first place. Oh, yeah, I love watching women dancing (pole no-pole, it doesn't matter). :)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCurves' Quoting 'ag4mg92' Would be wonderful to watch. I doubt any man/woman would mind you shaking your groove thing. Sexy clothing, sexy attitude and the freedom of expression through dance would be very mesmerising Mrs Deliciouscurves. I love dancing I often wonder if I could really 'see ' myself when I'm dancing, do I look sexy (like I think I do) or do I look like I'm having a fit? Mary xx Mary that is exactly my thoughts too! I feel hot…but wonder do I just look sad lol And I am quite sure that delicious curves do look very sexy when shaking and bending in the rhythm. Would be a treat to see that. ;)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I went to my first Saints & Sinners last year (actually it was my first 'adult' event of any kind). The bottom level had a dance floor and myself and the gorgeous couple I went with spent a lot of the time there. At a normal club after you've had a few drinks it's always fun to let loose and do a bit of dirty dancing, but at Saints it was 100 times better because a) they played killer dance music, b) you and everyone else are wearing incredibly sexy, revealing outfits, and c) 'dirty dancing' can be taken to its most extreme with lots of touching, fondling, groping, kissing, sucking, and later in the night, fucking (we didn't go that far). I spent quite a bit of time as the dancing meat in a dancing couple sandwich and the whole thing was just so erotic and fun at the same time . I think pole dancing is fantastic, I'm amazed at some of the moves they can do, and the strength they have. I'd love to do it as a fun and fitness thing but once again the student budget can't stretch to it.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    It makes me feel so alive. My friends and I often go to nightclubs, and we probably do act like a bunch of degenerates. Who cares? Last Saturday we had so much fun! LD, who says erotic "dirty dancing" is only for swingers clubs?

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    11 years ago

    Love watching women dance like they don't care whether anyone is watching (or dance like they love knowing someone is watching). It can be super sensual and it feels like an intimate moment to watch two people in their own world enjoying grinding up against each other on the dancefloor. Love dancing and having people watch me. Grinding against another sexy lady or man on the dancefloor is just damn sexy. I used to love getting up on the poles in Couples International or jumping on stage and sitting a girlfriend down to give her a lapdance while people watched. I love it because i'm a massive attention whore and because it just makes me feel sexy and happy to dance up a sweat to sexy tunes. The sexual tension can be awesome foreplay too. I've been roped into (let's be honest, I wasn't exactly unwilling haha) being a dance prop in shows for a girlfriend of mine at Pleasure Lounge - sooo much fun! Jess xx

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    And you make such a wonderful prop Jessica rabbit... Unfortunately I am also a massive attention whore on the dance floor... So it can get a little wildly competitive on the pl stage lol Xxviolet

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    How god damn sexy is it when a guy really knows how to dance !!! I believe rhythm is a good indicator of sexual prowess in guys :)......... or maybe I just love European men who often seem to look like Diablo above and move like Ricky Martin !

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Luckdragon23, looking4quality, JessicaRabbit and Violetincredible! I'd pay to see that.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Don't Baptists have sex standing up?....because people might think they are dancing :-) .sorry just couldn't resist that old joke,but dancing was banned,probably still is...amongst some religious communities.. and rightly so I say,far,far to sexy...in fact it could very well lead to an orgy :-) :-) xQ

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    You are so right... Dancing does often lead to orgy like behaviour ... Very very bad... Xxviolet

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Seeing a girl provocatively dance in the right environment would be a little heaven on earth to me. The only places I've been where women dance, hasn't been a situation where I could really take it all in so to speak. I'd love to just be able to go and be some place where you see a nicely dressed girl provocatively dance and you can just be turned on and not have to worry about it, exchange flirtatious looks, see the look in her eyes that she 'knows' what effect she is having on you. I don't know what it is about a girl that can dance, but it just works for me... Qefenta3 - I come from another religious denomination that's not Baptist that traditionally frowned upon dancing, people my age aren't really fussed by it (unless they're just ultra conservative), from my group we realise that dancing by it's own definition can be done in so many other scenario's, and between you and your own partner, if you're dancing a little seductively it's just chemistry...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I am a mad keen tango dancer, very sexy and erotic, but do you think I have ever found a swinger who dances the the tango, ( not even my wife) so please let's get together ( and yes it can be just dancing). Xxxxx rod

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    I just checked out Diablos profile, he has dancing as an interest? The possibilities are endless! Mary xx

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I am completely lacking in the rhythm gene (also why I am crap at musical instruments) but I love watching dancing, especially women who know how to put on a show. I can appreciate the skill, physical effort and emotional exuberance underlying their moves on the dance floor as well as admiring their money maker.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' Would be wonderful to watch. I doubt any man/woman would mind you shaking your groove thing. Sexy clothing, sexy attitude and the freedom of expression through dance would be very mesmerising Mrs Deliciouscurves. I love dancing I often wonder if I could really 'see ' myself when I'm dancing, do I look sexy (like I think I do) or do I look like I'm having a fit? Mary xx Hahaha, does it matter what people think? If you feel good about it, and sexy, anything goes. Just think of the Elaine Dance in the Seinfeld episode. She thinks she's hot when she danced... that is all that matters...

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCurves' How god damn sexy is it when a guy really knows how to dance !!! I believe rhythm is a good indicator of sexual prowess in guys :)......... or maybe I just love European men who often seem to look like Diablo above and move like Ricky Martin ! If this is true DeliciousCurves it condemns me to be the worst root ever. I just can't dance.Lucky for my four sons they didn't inherit my dancing gene. Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Yeah nothing turns me on more than a woman doing the Robot.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Thanks for such a great topic, curves, and looking at your pics you would be wonderful to watch. Do you do any tango? Thanks for your comment about sexual prowess, I'm a good dancer but my wife often comments about some endowments of the Jamaican men she has never danced with!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Sukki' So waiting for someone to post in defence of my twerking youtube clip Where is he ? No ?? Ok.... so..... maybe I watched that 2....... hundred times.... The girls got moves...... defence? Hardly. Appraisal!

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Been to a nightclub a few years ago with an ex-bf and they had a few 'cages' up for some enlightened women to get up there if they want to and show their moves. Cage dancing is great to watch but not when you see these laughable half drunk deluded women. They certainly made Peter Garret look seductively nimble... . Very classy. Should they be up in the cages? Nah. more like jail for visual assault.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    There is nothing more erotic or gets a guys blood pumping, than seeing a woman move her body.... Especially if the dance is a veiled glimpse of how a woman likes to talk sexually through her moves.... Sexiest foreplay you can start the night with.

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'luvsilver' Quoting 'DeliciousCurves' How god damn sexy is it when a guy really knows how to dance !!! I believe rhythm is a good indicator of sexual prowess in guys :)......... or maybe I just love European men who often seem to look like Diablo above and move like Ricky Martin ! If this is true DeliciousCurves it condemns me to be the worst root ever. I just can't dance.Lucky for my four sons they didn't inherit my dancing gene. Mr Luvsilver

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    11 years ago

    I find anyone performing the running man incredibly erotic. Everything else I can take or leave.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    if a woman is confident, with on beat rythem and sensational seductress dancing skills, regardless of her "wobble bits" its a very fine thing to watch or even better join and give her a dance or all night long grind.. personally I love music and dancing just as much as sex although I can easily separate the two.. have a few sexy people which I absolutely love going out and just dancing with then we pick up others and go our own way usually :-) probably the thing that gets me every time is a good dancer with a nice smile and cheeky eyes. not the biggest fan of strippers or pole dancing personally.. but its okay to look at I guess most men like it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As for me, I can't even do the Gangnam Style and do wish I could do some of those hot Latin dance moves. Sadly, still no volunteers to teach me LOL But I'd probably look like the hippos in Disney's Fantasia Diablo - You can play me like your Spanish guitar any time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dancing is fucking good fun. If you can't get out and ahve a dance, you're gonna hold back in the sack I think. I love to dance. and I'm good at it. My firend made me dance at his wedding withn his sister in the bridal waltz thing beacuse he wanted soemone out there that was enjoying themsleves lol. But Del....my god...you know you could stand still next to a pole and let the wrold revolve around you and still look good lol. Stop fishing for complimets ;)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    And sorry...I shoud splellcheck...but who cares. it was in the monet..like dancing should be

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Luckdragon23' I went to my first Saints & Sinners last year (actually it was my first 'adult' event of any kind). The bottom level had a dance floor and myself and the gorgeous couple I went with spent a lot of the time there. At a normal club after you've had a few drinks it's always fun to let loose and do a bit of dirty dancing, but at Saints it was 100 times better because a) they played killer dance music, b) you and everyone else are wearing incredibly sexy, revealing outfits, and c) 'dirty dancing' can be taken to its most extreme with lots of touching, fondling, groping, kissing, sucking, and later in the night, fucking (we didn't go that far). I spent quite a bit of time as the dancing meat in a dancing couple sandwich and the whole thing was just so erotic and fun at the same time . I think pole dancing is fantastic, I'm amazed at some of the moves they can do, and the strength they have. I'd love to do it as a fun and fitness thing but once again the student budget can't stretch to it. Hey LD what do you say the next one you and I go

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    there is nothing more provocative than watching a woman dance seductively and slowly I my self love the Salsa, the Bachata and the Tango

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I love watching women dance, it puts a happy feeling in the air. The way they swing thier hips, nice and slow or just shake it out. Myself well i dont seem too have the happy feet for disco dancing, but slow and close different story.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Yep I love to dance to a great beat and love going out with friends to clubs dancing. Yep spend more time on the floor than anywhere else. Don't ya love it when out dancing on the floor and some dude starts grinding/dry-humping away from behind out of the blue? You try to leave, and they lock hands on your hips to get you to stay...LOLZ Guys, get it in your heads...Just because you stand and watch her from a distance, swoop in on her like a seagull to a chip, and start grinding/dry-humping/rubbing your old fella against her back or arss, does not mean a woman is going to go home with you or is obligated to you. Has anyone heard of the "Chicken Noodle Soup" dance?? I just can't do. *Line Dancing - NOPE - not for me. Foxy

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Definitely hot watching sexy ladies strutting the dance floor The theatre of it all ,sexy clothes ,dripping sex appeal Like a sexual entree if u are lucky xxx

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Except when it looks like they're impersonating a fish out of water!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I love it, watching a woman work her curves and move with the beat and flow of the music. Something sensual and seductive about a woman losing herself in the music, relaxing and forgetting her inhibitions. Being firm and nimble isn't a factor its more the act of doing it and just letting go.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I like to watch but I prefer the movements nice and slow, provocative and sensual. The standard pole dancing gymnastics is interesting but not really very sexually arousing.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Yes yes yes I do - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I love to watch a woman dance, they way they move is so dam sexy The Body Rockers song I love the way you move... Wow can some Girls can move to that

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    When a woman is lost in the moment and flows with the music (or just the mood), is one of the sexist hottest most sultry experiences too share/watch - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Did you ever consider; that the "dry humping dance" was just a bit of fun?? You may see it as more.... BUT..... Narcissus made the same mistake when he spent too long looking in the mirror. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Well mrs spankus is an amazing dancer an I absolutely love going to a club an watching her move her body gets so in the mood - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    Nothing wrong with someone showing passion on the dance floor. Wobbly bits are the medals we carry due to our fight with age. So love to watch a woman enjoy themselves on the dance floor, regardless of "Wobbly Bits"

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    Delicious Curves, please let us know when you are dancing next. I'm sure you will have a most attentive audience of RHPer's.

  • 69squirtle69

    69squirtle69

    11 years ago

    Fresh from Perths Burlesque Festival Openning night. I would say, both ladies and gents love to watch ladies dance provocatively and a lumpy body is oh so beautiful. Soh sensual, so sexy.

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'squirtle1969' Fresh from Perths Burlesque Festival Openning night. I would say, both ladies and gents love to watch ladies dance provocatively and a lumpy body is oh so beautiful. Soh sensual, so sexy. Everyone seemed to love the show, regardless of the body type! It was all about the attitude, the super cute facial expressions and theatrical nature of the performances that drew people in. My favourite performer of the night was not 'firm and nibble' at all but had amazing energy and on-stage presence, and just seemed to thoroughly enjoy herself. Jess xx