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Do you have a wandering mind?
January 30 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mrs D,Fantasy is and has been a part of my relationships and my mind has frequently wandered during sex. I can't imagine NOT having a wandering mind, especially once a relationship is more than 6 months old. Sometimes its the wandering mind that causes the extra bit of something that gets me over the line. If it works, use it!Wildly fantasising
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am sure mine has too..I dont think i was thinking of an ex though..Maybe dinner or did i lock the front door !
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RHP User
16 years ago
Absolutely - often wander to other people and / or other scenes with the same person e.g. fucking my partner I may think about when I fucked her at an orgy or watching her fucking others during group sex. Sex is best when is a combination of what is physically happening plus some added spice from others - can be other people and/or other scenes involving the person I am with
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been in a monogamous relationship and am now in a very open relationship... regardless of the situation the person I'm in bed with is the only one on my mind at the time. Tis the only way to ensure the pleasure of the partner.A friend in QLD however nearly never thinks of his wife when making love even though he adores here. (though he will never tell her that)You are not alone...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah i do this sometimes! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Fantasy during sex is a major part of sex for both myself and my hubby!!!! Often we will discuss where we "went" during the session....and ashamedly I have to admit my mind sometimes wanders to thoughts of work during a steamy interlude .
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RHP User
16 years ago
when i was married....my mind use to wander all the time... id think about everything from whether we needed toilet paper to where did i put the car keys very boring man that one lol... it must have been out of bordom....cause dont do it a lot now men these days have my full undivided attention roxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just seen tempt us's profile and pics. Damn sure that if we were with her, our minds would be wonderfully concentrated! Could not imagine a wandering mind with Ms Temptus...only wandering hands and tongues! Soooooo sexy XO
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RHP User
16 years ago
that men do have minds and do think during sex...butt wasn't it woody allen who once said..."Lord, why do you give me a cock and a brain...yet only enough blood to run one or the other?..."jose... (but only sometimes)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi..im mentioned in another post..that i read and hear a great many years ago that it was normal for some people whoare in long term relationships to fantasie of another..be it the man/woman or both.As for me i never did i get to immerse in what im doing..heheLike you Taipan..i think once or twice...ive wondered if the house was locked up..or ive left the stove on...lolas ive had gas...nooo not me, the cook top that is...as i had a misshap once..but thats another story...I think its great tempt_us that you and your love can talk about things in an open honest way..makes a relationship stronger.Yet mmmm Jose...he woody speaks from experience...lol...his manhood got him into trouble ending his long time marrage..xoxoxoheymummafantasies now...hehehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have been together for 20 years,not once have we ever wandered?.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am actually amazed at the responses. Most of us DO or have fantasized during sex. I did it purely out of boredom. NOW the sex & relationship is so amazing and my husband is an open, passionate & loving man that there is no way I could be removed from that moment for an instant. My husband always gets my full and undivided attention and I know that I always have his. When we're masturbating that's different - think about whatever you like. I would be terribly hurt if he told me he was thinking about someone else while he was making love to me. Fantasizing about things we'd like to be doing, places we could be - that's fine. But to be thinking about another person.... never! If I'm with someone else my mind may wander during intermission to something inanimate but wouldn't wander to another person during sex. I'm too into what I'm doing and enjoying. And Majere75 - my husband will be thrilled to know he's not the only one who thinks only of the person he's with. Mrs D
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