Do women love oral whilst giving oral

January 16 2018

My question to you all is Would you prefer to just have oral performed on you Or give oral when recieving it As a male To receive oral is fantastic But to give oral whilst recieving it prolongs the inevitable by somewhat taking your mind off your self and taking care in what your doing No point doing a job if you don’t do it properly. Hey - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You mean a daisy chain of people performing oral sex. Yes that’s fun. 69ers I often find a bit awkward due to the positioning.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Its too distracting for the woman! And again I say 'my' experience. I dont mean to generalise and happy for you to prove me wrong. It can be frustrating when she is sucking away and you feel like you are getting the best of both worlds and you move to her clit and she stops and forgets to get back to business! Don't get me wrong, I LOVE giving oral and the 69 position is a sexy way to go about doing it for those of us with 'wandering tongues' but it's definitely never a 50/50 split. Maybe that's where the term 69 comes from. 69% of the effort comes from the man! ;) Its a catch 22. You love that you can get her to a place where she loses focus but selfishly ya kinda want to be at the same place!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I would rather give then receive or receive then give. I find concentrating on the two things at once diminishes the pleasure for me. LC.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Until you both get distracted by the task at hand, sorry, tongue. I’m with you LC. Give and Ye shall receive. BB - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Apparently according to Dr Google woman are better at multitasking than men. I bet they didn’t do the test during a 69 💁‍♀️ Guilty as charged I get so much pleasure I stop dead in my own enjoyment zone 👋 slap. Clearly too self absorbed 🤦‍♀️ spank me 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    69 distracting for both

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I like it but understand why some women don't.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Allocated Dinner for 2. Enjoy your seating.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Last year in Christchurch I saw a working girl, and she showed me a new way of having mutual oral sex. She lay on her back with her head over the foot of the bed. I stood at the foot of the bed and leaned forward to kiss her on the lips, yes the labia. Of course it just so happened that when I did this my dick ended up in her mouth. 😈 Old dog and a new trick...😍

  • SydneySteve

    SydneySteve

    8 years ago

    I get distracted What it gets to the business end of the deal Tense then explode then need five min before getting back into it But There in saying that How fucking good is it cumming whilst having a mouthful of pussy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Call me selfish but now I like to receive before I give... have been with partners who expect oral and think one lick will please me... if I get you off, i want the same... not a fan of 69s... can’t enjoy it as I’m concentrating on giving him pleasure I’m not concentrating on my own... when I give oral I won’t stop until I’m rewarded with a mouthful of coconut juice.... been with two guys who swore they never cum from a blow job... total satisfaction when I’ve proved my mouth has super powers 😛👅 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    Just go with the vibe. I rarely cum from receiving oral, but that isn’t to say I don’t enjoy it. These days, typically I like sensual overload, which means stuff going on all over the place.... hands full, orifices filled and erogenous zones all stimulated. That’s a bit difficult to achieve one on one.... which isn’t to say I don’t enjoy it. Cumming has become less important to me. I’m born to be a giver. What can I say! Having said that, a couple of days ago someone gave Be a hand job under the cubicle stall and It must have been just what I needed at the time. A five minute blow and go. Hugs Gaz - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I much prefer taking turns..... that way focus on giving and receiving can be 100% for both parties

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being selfish to your own needs and wants. Men who understand your choice won’t have a problem. Personally I like to give first anyway, I love hearing and feeling body language changes, gets me really, really turned on. Setting rules can dampen the experience so whilst that’s my preference I don’t enforce it because, well, there isn’t much excitement with being predictable. BB - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I agree with most here. I want to focus on what im doing properly. I prefer to give anyway so let me just do my thing. Mrs A - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I prefer to concentrate on giving or receiving....I can't do both at the same time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'SeekingAdventure' Its too distracting for the woman! And again I say 'my' experience. I dont mean to generalise and happy for you to prove me wrong. It can be frustrating when she is sucking away and you feel like you are getting the best of both worlds and you move to her clit and she stops and forgets to get back to business! Don't get me wrong, I LOVE giving oral and the 69 position is a sexy way to go about doing it for those of us with 'wandering tongues' but it's definitely never a 50/50 split. Maybe that's where the term 69 comes from. 69% of the effort comes from the man! ;) Its a catch 22. You love that you can get her to a place where she loses focus but selfishly ya kinda want to be at the same place!! - Posted from rhpmobile I have found that it's my partners who have got distracted and I'm doing with the giving with no receiving!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Maybe it's time to source some new partners! It's one of my favourite oral positions. Possibly because my ex was never willing. Tell a man he can't have something and he wants it even more! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You rock! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    What she said.... And I’m loving the new undies avatars. Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    69 is too much. Prefer to give then receive. Although I am not fussed if I don't receive every time. I am just that way inclined.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    After the all important build up, kissing rubbing etc , I usually position myself so I can slip down and give rather than taking both at the same time. How are you expected to enjoy the sensations while your mind is somewhere else. I'm quite happy to wait or even miss out if penetration is the better option . What goes round ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yes and I've found guys feel guilty about taking/receiving pleasure, just being able to enjoy that and let it go, they love it and have shared their feelings about that with me. Given that I enjoy pleasuring, it's not a hardship for me lol but remove that guilt IMO allows each to get to that happy place. All going well, more than once 😉

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    I identify with what you say and you got it in one .. A man knows when a woman genuinely likes what she's doing so he can lay back to enjoy the sensations..