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Do women enjoy anal sex

June 17 2012

Do women enjoy anal sex ?   My husband loves giving me anal sex , and I let him from time to time when he asks , it is ok but I would never offer it to him unless he ask and I need to be in the right mood, he would love to have me try DP, I also would like to try DP if and when the opertunity comes up,. and all you males out there please DO NOT contact us to offer your services ,   Are there ladies out there that enjoy anal sex and also ladies that have tried DP , and do you have any tips .   Would like the ladies views on this topic as we all know what the men wan't ,,, LOL ,,,   We are new to RHP and so far are loving it is a great site.   Shazz

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    when i was with my ex-hubby i used to allow anal sex but like u only when the mood suited me... i'm not really a big fan of it nowadays but will allow with the right person when the mood suits...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi, sorry I am a man. But we are not all the same. To answer your question about anal ,some women dont like it, some do it for there man, whilst some have the best orgasm doing it. Its best to start with a finger and play with the clit with oil. If ist going to work for you the nyou will fill the anal muscle tensing up before orgasm. Its also intense for a man if this happens, but in my opinion if this does not happen then its a fantasy not reality.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    some do some dont   My only suggestions are as follows (well for now anyway lol): 1. you dont sound like you enjoy it - dont do it if you dont want to. 2. always use a condom - I dont care if its your partner/husband or some random. This protects everyone (oh and please, pretty please, change this between anal and vagina sexl) 3. Lube up, if your new at it (and for some who are experienced they still need this) 4. Relax - this is hugely important. Youre not going to enjoy it if you are not relaxed and its going to hurt too if you're tense.   For DP:1. Begin with using a vibe and your partner/husband. Get yourself accustomed to this first. 2. If you decide to go further and have someone else join you what works for me is having the person I know and trust undertake the anal aspect of it. You already know how they feel there so you are more likely to relax more.   Personally I love anal. Its not something I do for just anyone though. I only have one man who is allowed this with me at the moment and he can make me reach an orgasm through anal sex.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...I'm still quite new at it (about 12 months) and only with Mr IAT. I do enjoy it and find that my clitoral orgasms are much more intense during anal. Ive played at DPP during masterbation with toys and with Mr IAT and found it both difficult and erotic at the same time. It's not something that I want/need all the time though and definitely off my radar with playmates at least for now (never say never, right). Good luck!!

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    We enjoy sharing anal sex, but it's something we only do together. It does take a little time to relax the oriface, and a lot of lube, but its worth it for orgasms as Mrs Q pushes back and takes me in. I wouldn't do it with just anyone. There are also hygiene issues to consider, always was well after anal penetration and before any other activity. DP appeals to us, but we would be pretty fussy about who, when and where.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think any man that expects his lady to allow him to perform anal should be happy to allow her to do it to him first with a dildo of the same size as his manhood... All's fair!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I love anal - I have great orgasms from it in missionary position and love the feel of it in any other position I love DP!!! Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think it is like anything sexual activity, you either enjoy it or you don't and people should be respected for it, whatever their preference.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i think i could prove for ur third kink but the whole even rights thing appollo thats just not cool

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If done right... I have come across two men who won't do it though, so it's a myth that all guys like it. Start small, heaps of lube, keep it handy, and a packet of those sorbent wet wipes does wonders for keeping it clean. There is bacteria in your butt that does not belong anywhere else so CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN and never does something go in your vag that's been up your butt... DP is awkward to achieve (well has been for us) but worth the effort... If you like it go for it, if you don't then skip it.

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'justswingingbi' I have come across two men who won't do it though, so it's a myth that all guys like it. My view to-date though never say never if there was a willing lady to guide a novice ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' I think any man that expects his lady to allow him to perform anal should be happy to allow her to do it to him first with a dildo of the same size as his manhood... All's fair! Ladies first though... i'm a gentleman

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'multiples_xxx' I love DP!!! Cass xxx And........ we love you!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    an orgasm beyond a 10 so i am told.....But i am greek

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I've always loved it. DP is fantastic when its done right...

  • sahzpete

    sahzpete

    14 years ago

    Thank's to very one who has commented , I have enjoyed readying all your comments , and will take them all on board I have enjoyed anal sex a few time when in the mood, but never had a big O from it , maybe one day I will   Thanks Sahz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'I think any man that expects his lady to allow him to perform anal should be happy to allow her to do it to him first with a dildo of the same size as his manhood... All's fair! Thats very true, a absolute must.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Agrees with ApolloThirteen

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I do it for Jensman but it never used to do anything for me personally. I mean I enjoy doing it for him and it feels naughty but it's not the greatest sensation. It doesn't hurt at all any more but it doesn't get me off. All the women I know that do it feel the same way. A DP is different though. I've only done DP twice but the second time I had a mind blowing orgasm. It was fantastic. I want to do it more. The added excitement and the added preasure made it great. I really recomend trying it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I love anal sex, no I adore anal sex in fact if a guy is not into it, it's kind of a deal breaker for me. I have also done DP and enjoyed that. :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    its a 'mood' thing....sometimes we feel like it, other times we just dont, but its not something we share with anyone else, mainly as we feel there's an extra element of trust that has to be established to go there. I'm not one to chase anal from a gal, its something she has to offer freely, as i 100% understand when the gals say 'it hurts' or 'its uncomfortable', but when everything all lines up....it can enhance what is already a sensational experience.......when it comes to matters of sex, I always maintain that 'no' means 'no', and is something that never needs to be repeated.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Mmmm we love it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    When I was younger I thought getting a girl to do anal was "the shit" (oops sorry) cause it was taboo. Now days though I'm with Mike if she wants to then fine but not chasing it.I have only known one girl who really loved it. Had a play mate who really wanted to try anal for her first time so we lubed up and went for it. Taking it slowly and finally in, I ask her "if it feels good?" she said "actually it feels like I'm taking a big shit" maybe I wasn't doing it right.quickly off for shower and back knocking on the front door. As far as tit for tat I think that's another reason I'm not into it.I don't like my butt hole being played with so I can understand not liking it.Nothing to do with being homophobic it just doesn't feel good to me if it did I would be bending over begging my girl to peg me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    absolutely love it....but as with any special treat, it has to be earned! (not hubby, he earned it a long time ago....but anyone else, i might choose to share my body with , does...lol)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have been with girls that beg for it like Meeka100 would do............and some that are straight to the point and say that it is just not going to happen..............each to there own!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'I think any man that expects his lady to allow him to perform anal should be happy to allow her to do it to him first with a dildo of the same size as his manhood... All's fair! Actually, I'd rather give than receive.

  • Bbare

    Bbare

    13 years ago

    Would love nothing more than enjoying that with you. Bbare