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Do people really meet on this site?
October 22 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' I've met a lot of unreal people thanks to this site. which is just what you'd expect an unreal bot to say ;) I don't know adam, how can you tell if they're telling the truth? Are the people signing it's praises just fakers trying to sell membership? or... are the naysayers sneaky gits trying to throw you off the scent and keep all the naughty fuckers for themselves? decisions decisions
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RHP User
9 years ago
Anyone who is real, simply "like" this comment (irrespective of whether you participate in the forums or just read them). Of course, not everyone on RHP reads the forums, but it will give us a good idea of who is actively out there at the moment. Obi1
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MasterBilly
9 years ago
It is like everywhere hit and miss but all I can say is that I have meet same really good friends from this site
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MeGustaCaliente
9 years ago
I had a quickie with a rhp hottie just last week 😈 Can't wait to go back there again!
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On_Safari
9 years ago
As an example I have met 2 of the above 4 posters, consider myself a good friend of 3/4 (only cos OB1 had a dicky knee) and have slept with 0/4 BUT only cos O'Loose won't give in to me 😎 I've been here a loooong time, not lately though since losing my IP but I can honestly say I've met some of the most unreal real people here and my life is richer for it in many ways. How's that for a suck? Lol 😂Indy On Safari PS I've even met RHP behind the scenes people (they know who they are)
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RHP User
9 years ago
yes i have meet some great guys from here some i have know for over 2 years
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ive met 3 of the above ppl. Slapped one's bare arse at 3am in the morning, walking along Oxford St, Sydney. Been with one while a true knight in shining armour tried to whisk them away and I had to fight him off. And spent a whole weekend with the other one.
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On_Safari
9 years ago
😇 I'll bend over for you so you can give it a nice shiner....
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MissRedFox
9 years ago
Yep I'm pretty sure I'm real and the two guys I've met felt pretty real to me and they'd probably also agree my boobs feel pretty real too😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We have met quite a few from here , for drinks, and have become good friends with a handfull of them. In fact have just returned (as in an hour ago ) from a weekend away, with a nice couple from here. Our advice is to not have unrealistic expectations of what this site can deliver, as opposed to what you think it promises. - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
We have met quite a few from here , for drinks, and have become good friends with a handfull of them. In fact have just returned (as in an hour ago ) from a weekend away, with a nice couple from here. Our advice is to not have unrealistic expectations of what this site can deliver, as opposed to what you think it promises. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had only previously met a couple of people from rhp. But last night...met so many I don't remember all of their names (let alone usernames!) Two genuinely wonderful women even came out so that I wouldn't start the night alone and out of my depth! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
9 years ago
All the people on my friends list are people I've met in person, some I've played with some I haven't some I've just watched (not in a creepy stalker way) I've made some amazing friendships from this site. Can be much harder for a guy though on here then a single woman. Welcome and good luck
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RHP User
9 years ago
we do but prefer to keep it a little more private than some others..
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Either that or Adelaide was a dream that made my head hurt. Twice...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe it was all a dream. Third dream tonight. I've escaped a sore head so far..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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wantstochat
9 years ago
I've only meet a few lovely ladies off here & while nothing eventuated with them I'm so much richer for having a certain one of them in my life even if for only a brief period of time,she is a true friend & words cannot discribe how lucky i feel to call her that 😚
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've met 5 of you! Although me posting now brings the rest of your numbers up too.... dammit Yes Adam, people meet. This website, like all the others, just provides a platform for you to put yourself out there. What you put out there is up to you and will determine your success. Good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Damn that dicky knee!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I haven't met any of the people above... There is a strong meet and greet culture on the site which is largely what you are seeing there lol. It has been a while... maybe that makes my current reply moot... but either how, I know we (hubby and I) did meet real people... for sex. Most of those people are still active on the site though... so... Yes and Yes! Peachy 🍑
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RHP User
9 years ago
Can't say I have met anybody always the same answer on any site been on and no one has tried to change my thinking but without hesitation they take your money and never get anything for the cost I know I'm real and there is nothing saying that all of you are in administration for this site and others and if I'm wrong prove it ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think I had the same dream as Annie
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Some could be, some may be not. We all suspect / know of 'unreal' profiles.Are we real, or part of a parallel universe that sometimes intermingles with this one ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
several friends from this site, and those friends know others, etc. They are all awesomely unreal in the most fabulous way ;) Welcome and good luck x
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RHP User
9 years ago
People on my friends list I've met in real life and some have become my closest friends. Some I may or may not have been involved with 😉 Lots of very beautiful and genuine people on here. And I can say they are very real in the flesh. The unreal ones you'll get to pick up on soon enough. Either because they are fake or because their attitudes leave little to be desired. If you're half as lucky as me in meeting people here, you world will change for the better x
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
I have been gere too long...I've met nine of the previous posters! Now OP, I think you are probably referring to "meeting"..as in playing. Yes, I certainly have (and that does not necessarily include any of the previous posters 😉). It takes time, it takes effort, it takes respect. If you are willing to put all that in then you will indeed meet people.
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MissBishere
9 years ago
Me to 😜
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'MsJonesy' I have been gere too long...I've met nine of the previous posters! Now OP, I think you are probably referring to "meeting"..as in playing. Yes, I certainly have (and that does not necessarily include any of the previous posters 😉). It takes time, it takes effort, it takes respect. If you are willing to put all that in then you will indeed meet people. ... through a lack of interest on their part
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' Yes Adam, people meet. This website, like all the others, just provides a platform for you to put yourself out there. What you put out there is up to you and will determine your success. Good luck. The forums, chat rooms and events are a great way to meet people. What you do from there is up to you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
It was a delight to meet you and look forward to seeing more of you 😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
Adam I have met 3 from RHP and happy to say all are real and wonderful people. @MissRedFox - standing in line to feel those b@@bs lmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
We're all programmers and this is a great way to test spam bots! In all seriousness.... I met perhaps the most incredible woman I've ever met as a result of this site. I think I will soon be meeting her equal!!!! Worth it? Priceless.
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RHP User
9 years ago
"These are not the droids you're looking for..."
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'hard4usexc' Can't say I have met anybody always the same answer on any site been on and no one has tried to change my thinking but without hesitation they take your money and never get anything for the cost I know I'm real and there is nothing saying that all of you are in administration for this site and others and if I'm wrong prove it ??? - Posted from rhpmobile With that sort of expectant attitude you won't get very far i'm afraid. Nobody has to prove anything to you in fact you need to prove you are worthy of meeting and with that sort of attitude good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The secret is to be patient, I have met a couple of awesome ladies that had made contact with me. As being a guest and married the odds are stacked against me but it does happen. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
With the Perthsocialites events, over 200 real people. As a single, a few gorgeous real guys. And some remain good friends. Including new and lovely people we met in Adelaide this weekend. If you make an effort to go out and meet people it will work for you. Its been, for me personally, a great experience.
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RHP User
9 years ago
But I may have simply met or 'locked lips' with some of the above posters, in some cases either set of lips ;) I may have romped with some and some I'd like to call dear friends. There are others who don't post on the fora and they have become very special to us :) On our friends list are many a wonderful people :) This weekend just gone we were renovating and out of the three people helping, two were a couple who we met at a swingers party and are on RHP. Yes, people do meet up for all manner of reason ;) Mary xx
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islandkinks
9 years ago
Hey thx guys and gals for your responses. Good to get feedback on these sites. Can never be sure. Guess I'll just have to try harder :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
good to hear that people are meeting, patience is the key it seems. Will keep looking
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RHP User
9 years ago
I often wonder.... if some people have the ability of self evaluation when drafting their topics, to consider the way they may be viewed by the audience.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...here, you do some of the administration before meeting on the understanding that f2f is no guarantee that something sexual WILL eventuate...just that it might. The hard bit is eliciting responses to your initial communications (girls do NOT send unsolicited emails to fellas except on rare occasions...and then being able to organise a real-world meeting, )... ...always on the understanding that it may simply be a nice meal together and go your separate ways. In contrast, in the real world you're already face-to-face, but with a total stranger...presuming you can cut one out of a pack, keep her friends from circling the wagons and trying to rescue her while conversation ensues and you stay sober. In other words...situation normal...the odds are always stacked against you...this is just a variation.
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225Special
9 years ago
Quoting 'Eiliethiya' I had only previously met a couple of people from rhp. But last night...met so many I don't remember all of their names (let alone usernames!) Two genuinely wonderful women even came out so that I wouldn't start the night alone and out of my depth! - Posted from rhpmobile We were one of the couples you met Eiliethiya, was good to meet you...you looked real to us.....
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Leave it if you doubt it, and believe it if you use it! Everyone comes on a site like RHP with different mindset and expectation! It is our own expectation that makes the experience we have or going to have. Therefore, Adam, trust your own instinct and create your own experiences is my answer to your simple question :) I do meet people from here and just met one tonight for dinner. He is refreshingly pleasant and a is nice change of my journey on RHP in a long time! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you believe it's going to be a waste of time, then it will be..... No point asking complete strangers, as us complete strangers you can't prove are real anyway..... Kinda ironic really :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Quoting 'hard4usexc' Can't say I have met anybody always the same answer on any site been on and no one has tried to change my thinking but without hesitation they take your money and never get anything for the cost I know I'm real and there is nothing saying that all of you are in administration for this site and others and if I'm wrong prove it ??? - Posted from rhpmobile With an attitude like that, sadly you more than likely will not have any luck in here. Paying $ guarantees you absolutely nothing. Its like the "single" males, that pay $$ to get into a swingers club, expecting lots of sex in return for the money that they paid. It would be cheaper for them to go to a brothel where at least they will get what they paid for. You need to accept/realise that you outnumber the couples/females more than 100 to 1 (probably more like 900 to 1) and the money that you pay, to subscribe to this site, guarantees you nothing. Just like the money one pays to go to a swingers club guarantees one nothing, but entry to the club. It is best to have no expectations , that way you won't be disappointed and can rather concentrate on making new friends and slowly seeing where things may lead.
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RHP User
9 years ago
67.83% of all statistics are made up on the spot...
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Quoting 'Hank_E_Panky' 67.83% of all statistics are made up on the spot... So you are trying to say that "single" males don't outnumber the females/couples in high numbers/ratios? You also need to consider that there are many couples that are just the male half posing as a couple. There are also many "female" profiles that end up being a male ... so the ratios are even more....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' p.s. I've been a paying member for four years and have definitely gotten my money's worth. *** cue "Imperial March" tune ***Yesss... That sounds exactly like something an Imperial Administrator would say, SummerSpamBot..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Descartes would be stoked to be quoted on RHP. Although I do prefer Kruger's approach. I shop therefore I am. Yep. I've met loads from here. And their loads. 😈 Alas, it seems like we met a long time ago in a galaxy far far away.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lol I'd start with changing your profile buddy :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Really unreal or I really real. I'm confused. I need wine for this kind of discussion.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' Maybe it's Schroedinger's sex site and we are all real and unreal? it all gets real when you check inside the box
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'adam_is_kinky' Hey thx guys and gals for your responses. Good to get feedback on these sites. Can never be sure. Guess I'll just have to try harder :) - Posted from rhpmobile I say.....not directly to you...... but smarter.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Seems too many people are taking substances to make the real, unreal. Cant seem to please everyone.... ...
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Cheekyarses
9 years ago
We have met some of the most genuine, friendly, sexy & intelligent people in this site. I chat to a person I met on rhp everyday, we met on this site over 6 yrs ago. In saying this we have also come across time wasters - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
How have you been finding it?
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RHP User
9 years ago
And some of them do meet. Is it a waste of time? That depends on how much time you're willing to invest. If you only pop in here once in a blue moon, or rarely send/reply to messages, I'm afraid not much will really happen. Make contact with people compatible with you and keep in touch to keep the interest level up and it will happen.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hi everyone Im fairly new here is there any tips from the ladies please? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Although, Adam, with an attitude like that I don't think you'll have much luck. ;) I've met heaps and heaps of people from this site. Mostly at events and clubs though, but I've also met up one-on-one with some men and couples. It's a good or as bad as you make it. I don't really like making dates, I prefer clubs. Much less stress! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Really? I remember seeing your profile around when I first joined up a couple of years ago... I even have a very old flirt from you... 😏 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Tips? Give the women here the respect they deserve. They know their stuff........ Pmsl.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I have met ladies on here. Huge number of ladies compared to men. As a man it is a lot of effort and remember to play nice. Lower your expectations to a couple per year.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've seen people who have been here around the same amount of time as Coconut call themselves similar. My tips Coconut, people in the forum can be incredibly cynical and it is not represented by the majority of the site but go back through this thread, there is a lot of advice you might like to take on. Each to their own. Also Posting in the forum can be very successful for some though for a few it's a nightmare. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
most who is in this forum are woman or couples, for them meeting somebody is easier then for a man. I think I am going to change myself into a woman (a bit younger one) and I am going to have a real good time. I sent a few messages but one girl wanted me to join a site where they just keep charging you forever. Reported her. Lot of them don't have the decency to come back with a yay or ney. So yeah if you a woman or a couple it's a lot easier. Just my two cents worth!!!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
2 years does not make you fairly new, no matter how many people say it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
37? Hmmmmm
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice' I wouldn't even call a relationship fairly new after two years. Here's my tip to anyone for whom the forums are a nightmare: avoid them. On topic: Looking forward to meeting close to 30 interstaters in a week or two! We are so different aren't we Summer, I have no interest in meeting pretty much anyone. One of the things I like about RHP is the range of choice we have for the depth we get involved in any part of the site. I would suggest anyone considering avoiding the fora recognise that there are supportive, encouraging words to be found here too, of course. Peachy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summersolstice'On topic: Looking forward to meeting close to 30 interstaters in a week or two! locals are just chopped liver *sniff* ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
in recognising the forum is not always filled with snarkiness. At the same time though, I can fully appreciate many would find the tone of some posts off-putting. I know my own posts have sometimes been misinterpreted (or taken other than as intended). I've been posting in the fora here since the beginning of this year. I don't consider myself new here anymore. I've not yet met anyone, so I guess I might be new in that sense. I wasn't able to get to the Adelaide M&G the other week. As it happens, I'll be in Sydney the week before that M&G but can't stick around to attend that one either. There'll be other opportunities. (Actually, I'd be open to coffee on the Friday or Saturday afternoon if anyone's interested to say hello).
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RHP User
9 years ago
"brain in a vat An updated version, due to *Putnam, of *Descartes's thought experiment with the malin genie (see METHOD OF DOUBT). We are invited to consider the sceptical possibility that our experience is actually produced by a brain suspended in a life-preserving medium (a vat) and stimulated electrically in such a way as to give us the delusive experience of living the life with which we are familiar. One reaction is to deny that this is even a bare logical possibility; another is to argue that even if it is a bare logical possibility, we know that it is not the way things are. A controversial argument of Putnam's attempts to show that the hypothesis that I am a brain in a vat self-destructs, since if I were one, were I to put it to myself 'I am a brain in a vat', I would not be referring to brains and vats, and hence would not express appreciation of my true situation." c/- Oxford Dictionary of Philosophy (Third Edition).
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RHP User
9 years ago
ugh, I really dislike the "brain in a vat" stuff - especially the "proofs" that one is not a brain in a vat, particularly the "I think X" "but a brain in a vat can't truly think X because it couldn't have experienced it directly" "therefore I'm not a brain in vat" - which completely falls down because you can't establish that you definitively think X by the very rules used to claim part 2. (was this post meant for this thread? or Word of the Day? or was it meant for a "do we ever _really_ meet people on this site?" existential consideration?)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Was just (flippantly) chiming in on the theme of 'real people' following some of the comments of others, including one's reference to Descartes... FWIW, might you consider your cranium is a form of vat or vessel for the carriage of (you as) a brain, electrically (electro-chemically) stimulated in such a way as to give you your experience of life? (I wouldn't presume to know if, or how 'delusive' your life or anyone else's might be. However, it seems a number of comments in this thread suggest, or perhaps allege there may be a degree of delusion experienced by someone).
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ontology'FWIW, might you consider your cranium is a form of vat or vessel for the carriage of (you as) a brain, electrically (electro-chemically) stimulated in such a way as to give you your experience of life? ha, I actually wrote just that but deleted it because I wasn't going to put such a long post in.
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RHP User
9 years ago
wrote in another post somewhere that was it worth to pay for 3 month. It's getting to be NOT. No one want an old basted like me, just as men mostly want a nice younger chick/woman, woman want's a nice younger "harder" body. That's my rant!!!!!!!!!!!!
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Its no different to the real world here. Paying a membership gives no guarantees for hookups. If you being 78 years old went to a bar, whats the chances of you picking up? Exactly. Hard enough for those in our 50s to succeed. And plenty of younger guys in their 20s, 30s and 40s complain of no luck. So accept your position as being in the smallest age minorities in here. Make of it what you can, smile and be realistic
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RHP User
9 years ago
I my have some luck, will meet her next week.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Good luck. Be yourself and be positive with your meet. Life is life. Xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hasn't been a happy outcome for me. Not that I really expected otherwise. This is Adelaide!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
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RHP User
9 years ago
Had a wonderful encounter just last night!! So much so it was worthy of an update of our profile pic 😉 Lets just say...one very happy camper 😉 haha. 💑
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QLDtwo4fun
9 years ago
We have met more people with profiles on this site off this site, at clubs and parties, than we have through this site. That includes during the time we were paid members.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I believe a percentage of the women on here a genuine. But you have to weed through the many NON genuine ones who just like to play mind games and message ping pong without committing to a meet. I messaged one woman nearly every day for 4 months without a meet. I said 'goodbye thanks for nothing' literally.In the end you will come across the genuine ones and have a fantastic time. I have after many frustrating messages by the non genuine women who just need to feel wanted, without the commitment of a skin on skin meet. After all ladies we join these sites and pay good money so we can "play" if you don't wanna play then Why are you here, seriously. So to all the lovely Genuine ladies in my area who would love to play. Check out my profile, you maybe very surprised and like what you see.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Very true, However. It's different for men than it is for women. Especially for us who are past our 20's and 30's.For a man we need to fight and some times very hard for our playtime. But for women. It doesn't matter how old you are, what you look like or smell like. All you have to do is start up a profile as a guest without any pics or very little to no info. Then just sit back a wait the few minutes for the offers to roll in, and roll in they do. :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I Know what you mean, I agreed with one woman here for a meet to have play in my car in a park, drove about hour and half to get there and she didn't turned up. I was livid, today was checking her profile and so far "last on this week" shoving on her site. I have an idea that a lot of woman (not all) just here to talk (as they do) or using man as a "phone sex" person and after they get of on your sexy talk you don't hear from them anymore.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Why are we here? To meet genuine and respectful men who are open minded. I met a few and eventually met my guy. Paying a membership does not mean you have sex on tap. Its not a Dial a Hooker site. I read your profile. It more or less says you are only looking for sex. No mention of any form of connection. And a close up of your penis eye isnt really a big draw. There are plenty of nice respectful guys on here. Women will be more attracted to them.
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RHP User
9 years ago
(Can't quote for some reason) "But for women. It doesn't matter how old you are, what you look like or smell like. All you have to do is start up a profile as a guest without any pics or very little to no info. Then just sit back a wait the few minutes for the offers to roll in, and roll in they do. :-)" Not always the case! I get lots of views & flirts, not so much actual genuine messages (I'm not counting any that just say "wanna f*ck/ how 'bout it").. and only really since I've joined conversations in the forums. And as to age barriers... I'm 39. I've had a guy tell me I'm "too old" for him & he's 34!! This same guy was only ever interested in being "penpals"...we texted on and off for over 2yrs (my own fault for holding out hope that he'd want to meet in person)...so it's not just women that pull that on men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was talking to a woman keen to meet me, I traveled to the meeting place but she didn't turn up ( wrote about it earlier on). After a week she came online and I asked why she was not there, and said that she had to work, not letting me know that. We talked today and I was saying how about she coming my way (I traveled 1 1/2 hour to meet her) but she never said anything about coming or not. You would think she would say something about "to far or why not you come again" which to me is strange. I have this gut feeling that she was not real, I have sent the last message 12:30 PM but she never answer me back, and she still online now 5:30PM. I like to have your opinion is she real or not?
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
We have no idea of she is real, cannot help you with that. My suggestion....if they are tying you in knots, those knots are of your own making. Its meant to be fun, if its not don't engage, save your own sanity by walking away.
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RHP User
9 years ago
But then I hear voices and imagine a great deal.
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