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Do You Try to Be the Best Sex.... They Ever Had.....?
July 16 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you dont give it your all? I am a giving person thus you get mt best. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have the most competitive nature when it comes to being good or the best in the bedroom. Nothing fires me up more than proving that I am good in bed. God forbid I should be told that I am bad in bed because I get seriously depressed & mope around for days. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I like being told I’m good in bed, and that I have a slight… ego? To me sex is the only thing I have a talent for and I think it’s the only thing is this world I take to heart when It comes to being told if I’m good or bad. I know guys can lie about your talents in the bedroom. But when I am told that I am good at sex or oral or that I’m one of the best they have had I will walk around with a smile on my face for at least 3 or 4 days. Yes I know this is probably making me sound shallow and unattractive but I am just being 100% truthful. And as I said earlier this is one subject that just fires me up!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikle' Becarefull hun... unscrupulous people might use that to push your buttons now. Your safe from me I live too far away... but I can dream..lol XXXXX As for the post... I will say I often try my best.. sometimes as any person might be I can be under the weather from work or child or whatever... but I have moments of brilliance!! and when I shine I really shine. On the other hand its often a mood thing too isnt it? The three am tap on the shoulder for a lazy early morning spoon? Well I like these to. XXX Mikle but that is the thing Mikle .... that lazy 3am spooning sex .... omg that is good too ....half asleep still horny and moving together, hands everywhere .....mmmmm ... i am deff a fan ....you imply that that is maybe not the best ... but it can be just as good ......
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RHP User
15 years ago
then do it well. No half hearted attempts - just go for it and give it everything you've got. If you don't then you might regret it later and wonder "what if I had..."... Seriously though - I'm like Taby... when a lady tells me I've left her with jelly legs and problems walking ;-) then my job is done and done well... The human ego loves approval - it's what we all strive for in one way or other. hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
I always make the extra effort in the bedroom. and more often that not it rsults in some excellent fun. Having said that though. You do also have to have someone in synch with you. Not everyone is on the same sexual level.
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RHP User
15 years ago
100%. I love to give...and I find that by giving my best I'm usally left weak at the knees too! Ms Blind xo
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RHP User
15 years ago
When you are in the zone.........................it's like every porn movie I've seen. Only better. It's real. Not fake. I sometimes put too much effort in and forget about me. Lol. Mmm I love the slow and sensual approach. But the hot for it now thing. Is also very nice as well. But I is a very daunting thing. Will this time be as special to someone else. Shit I hate to think of things like that. Fab.
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RHP User
15 years ago
If the guy doesnt make me feel like he's with ME...then I kinda lose interest.But if we click...and are equally matched in wants and desires...then look out! It's on!JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well if your hopeing for a repeat performance... Miss K
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi all! I have always tried to do the best that I can. I like very encounter to be special and leave a lasting, positive memory for all parties involved. Whether it's with the same person or not. Sex involves a lot of giving from all parties involved. More giving that taking. I read once "if you think you are doing more than your fair share, then you are probably just doing enough." Also, remember "it's only kinky the FIRST time."
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RHP User
15 years ago
Who wants a starfish? Unless maybe its a drunken night mistake, you have to give it your best every time... and not that everyone is going to know.. but who wants to feel like they're a dud in bed? Go hard or go home... its not as much fun if the girl isn't walking away with a big smile and wobbly knees :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
If the men crave the skin to skin contact as much as women do. Masturbating can only keep me happy for so long (3 days max)... then I've got to have the feeling of a male body. I love the warmth and feeling of a man's body..... and I like to think I give my best. Although I have "my best" and then I have "OMFG" which is reserved for that someone special. Sweet
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RHP User
15 years ago
Something may have driven you to post this? Anyhow, being your best at erotic play is the only way to be. If it is not mirrored back..... then it was not on your part that effort/synergy lacked. Who wants to be mediocre at sensual divinity? Not Me!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't TRY,(unless its a new position) I am just naturally me seems to work so far`
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm a highly competitive individual and don't like being second best. I think curious_for_more has hit the nail on the head, so to speak. Individuals really have to be synchronous to have that OMFG, but I think anyone who REALLY is the best would have lots of techniques and will try to find the one/s that work best for the one they are with! I know that women are incredibly diverse in what will bring them to that big O. So if you can't be the best, then I think you just have to practice more!!! and learn from everyone you're with. That said, if you're a selfish prick and are only looking for your own gratification, you'll never be the best for anyone. But me? yes... I always give my 110% to be the best and get those repeat performances... my ego loves the stroking too ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sweetwithdesire' If the men crave the skin to skin contact as much as women do. Masturbating can only keep me happy for so long (3 days max)... then I've got to have the feeling of a male body. I love the warmth and feeling of a man's body..... and I like to think I give my best. Although I have "my best" and then I have "OMFG" which is reserved for that someone special. Sweet yeah Sweets - I love the skin to skin contact, the cuddles, the touching... the entire experience - loads of fun and very sensual hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
.... than the feeling of nice warm skin against mine! And can't forget the hairy chest.... I love burying my face into a nice hairy chest! Heaven!!! Sweet
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've been left with wobbly legs on many occasions.... that's how I know I've had a good time! Oh, that and the sore throat from the screams of ecstacy!!! Sweet
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now you dont make a meal half alright do you..No you make it to treat your taste buds and fullfil your apetite..Well sex should be the same way..Otherwise you get married and eat burnt toast for the rest of your life !!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not sure if "trying to give the best performance each and every time" would actually work. I like Taipan's analogy with food, as with food, sex is a passionate experience. If two (or more) people don't gel then it doesn't matter how many tricks you perform you're not going to have a "best" experience. When you're into someone so much that every simple touch sends electricity soaring through the both of you then just laying very still together feeling every inch of contacting flesh is an experience that can't be bettered.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't get in bed (or wherever) TRYING...I just be me and do what feels right at the time. Too much thinking ruins what could be a great experience. I agree with others...you either gel sexually or you don't. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
"Trying" sounds a bit forced, I think if you try too hard in bed it doesn't really make it as enjoyable as it could be. So therefore I don't "try" I just have a good time. Haven't had any complaints so far.
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RHP User
15 years ago
If you aren't putting in your all, what are you doing there?The chemistry is usually evident before the event, so there's no excuse not to deliver really.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I hope that I give my best - well most of the time I do ! But have to say not all the boys I have known feel the same!!!! Come on be truthful now boys. I met the most sinful gorgeous boy not long ago and all he was interested in was getting laid - no consideration for my needs at all you would think by 33 he would know better!! Question - good kisser absolutley gorgeous - do I give him another chance???? Yes or NO??????? Or like Stalky says NEXT. Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nick mate did I miss something?????? Are you serious??????? Lol. Fab.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't necessarily "try" to be good. I'm naturally sexy but with my previous partner I felt the need to up the ante and be this really sexual being because he got around, alot and hung out with very sexual people that mostly had sexual occupations. In a way I did feel that the new "sexiness" I bought upon myself was really empowering and I wondered how I would be on my own because I still wasn't feeling it between us. I mean we had awesome, sweaty sex but it wasn't fufilling because he wasn't always completely present in the situation.With my love now we feel sexy, we make each other feel sexy just by looking at one another, we fuck like pornstars and make messy love like it's the last time. We don't really put that extra effort it, it just evolves naturally around the act of sex I guess. His pleasure naturally becomes my priority and my pleasure becomes his. We enjoy absolutely every inch of one another and never feel like we're not getting enough out of sex.I think it has to do with your relationship with the person - love your partner? Enjoy them, go with the flow. One night stand? Gotta make that impression. Too drunk to care? Get it over and done with :)
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wannabyummymummy
15 years ago
i guess i am a little competitive and yes i like to think that i can please my partner and if i can be the best experience they have had then BONUS!!! however i do expect the same in return, i like a guy to make the effort to put in the best they can do and to communicate with me what they like and don't like and to listen to what works for me too. This is supposed to be fun for everyone but at the end of the day sometimes you just don't hit it off and you have to know when to cut your losses and say thanks and goodbye.If a guys isn't going to give it his all then sorry but no return invite from me and i would expect the same if i didn't put my all into it either.At the end of the day, gotta love that wobbly knee finish
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RHP User
15 years ago
Obviously everyone has different buttons and it's unlikely that one person is good at everything but having said that, if your pay close attention to your partner during sex you can almost always make it something very special. Some people are aroused by athleticism, others by dexterity and some are into particular sex acts. I never ask how I rate but have been told a number of times that I have set a new benchmark and at these times there hasn't been any extraordinary effort, just paying attention to know what to do, when to do it and how fast/slow/hard/deep/soft is correct at the time. I try to make sex the best it can be at that particular moment more so than best ever.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well we have always found that the more we focus on giving pleasure sexually the more pleasure we get from it so its a win win for us if we put our best into it. Pretty damn good for the confidence and ego when you can get that OMG YES! response from your efforts! srfun
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RHP User
15 years ago
It was Just a Topic of conversation amongst a few friends...and their replys were mixed ...Personally myself I am with most Posters replys....It's not about Just Getting laid to me at all....I dont Try....... It's a natural progression of the chemistry between us ....No trying needed ... I give as Good as I getand Who does Not Liked to have their Ego Stroked....I dont ask For Scorecards....But i do like to hear....." That Was Amazing....Lets Do That Again ..!"$350 an hour Nick......? you have gotta be yanking our Chains....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Some positions give me cramp, other positions are now outright impossible, and often at the end I'm panting so much you would think I had been doing it doggy fashion or I'm on the verge of a heart attack. And that's just having sex with myself......
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RHP User
15 years ago
Acknowledged NudieRudie2. T.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Every time is an opportunity to excel and love and lust . All opportunists should and will be taken. and slow lazy sex is included as well
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RHP User
15 years ago
While we can't always guarantee anything - I'm with Srfun in that you try to focus on giving pleasure - and be open to experience - then see how things go. Be nice to have a great time together - especially doing something you hadn't done before!
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RHP User
15 years ago
i'm a giving person by nature, and I give more than I get, with one or two exceptions.
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RHP User
15 years ago
It should just be natural, you can have good sex and then it can be breath talking .It's uncontrolable It's all inside ,if the mind is stimulated and the chemistry is there , You will see it in there eye . You wont have to try :
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RHP User
15 years ago
My motto is make love like it's the last time you will, you just never know!!!
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