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Do You Give as Good as You Get?

March 07 2018

I read that men give oral half as much as women... though the men apparently enjoy it twice as much. Is it true that men only give half as much oral as they get? Do men enjoy oral more than women? If both are true, why aren't men giving the pleasure they love so much to receive?This is not a dig at men but a sincere curiosity at the apparent imbalances of giving, receiving and enjoyment. Peachy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I love giving oral, to a woman. There are only a few things that turn me on more then heading down south and staying for a good while. I love to take the time to search her out until i find what gets her to that place where her hips start to heave and thrust and her breathe starts to pant. As i said i really do love it, but hey dont take my word for it ask Mrs couplakiwis... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    8 years ago

    Based on other forum topics I would say no. Based on personal likes, hell no!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But from my experience, I tend to give it a lot more then I get... I'd prefer it to be more 50/50.. But that's just how it's worked out... With the first 2 situations I've been in, it started 50/50 and ended up closer to 80/20 if I was lucky... In the last and shortest lived situation, it was 100/0... So in my exp it's been the opposite of what you discribe... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I give as good as I get. I love to feel fully met so I hate to think my partner doesnt feel met also. LC.

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    8 years ago

    It would be dealbreaker for me not to give or get oral with a regular partner. BUT then there are some partners who you just love to worship because they are just too delicious. My last FWB. Would have happily just given him a BJ with nothing in return just because. 🔥 As for getting, only been with two men that I feel have been really deeply into it as such. Do believe part of that is chemistry. But both were very amazing and memorable. Unfortunately one was my ex he was actually incredible and one of the few men who could get me off from oral. I shall call him the pussy whisperer. 😍 He’s a prick but he sure knew his way around a pussy. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    8 years ago

    Majority of men I have been with are happy to give. So I would say 50:50 But when they are down there ,some guys are more into it than others.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    8 years ago

    I don't feel it's passable to give as Good what I get, but I sure do enjoy trying and it's as much a burden as taken well received, when trying my best to give and the enjoyment delectable, touch and taste, honey to me and dipping into the pot then spreading it all around, carefully with the very tip of my tongue painting circles and swirls around the hood of her clitoris, nibble and tease her open flower as her vulva swells and parts way inviting and glistening, Snap!!! her thighs shut closed locked with her ankles crossed, holding my head, any escape just the slightest further touch from my tongue, Her firm hold then becomes like being in the bite of a crocodiles jaws, so much so she has a fit in uncontrolled motor skills and then I'm in the hands of fate, as she valorously takes me in her hold and into the crocodile roll... near twisting my head off if not for going with the flow.. all because she did not want to orgasm so soon. What Tara does for me well received is ineffable, I humbly concede she has the better of me Peachy. Can I get a smiley stamp now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m not the kind to consider sex a competition. Give, receive, give, receive, receive, give, give..... share. But I guess to answer the question, my experience is that I have given more than I have received, perhaps because I give enjoyably without expecting reciprocation and ‘her’ opportunity to give back is lessened as a result? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'EarthQueen'BUT then there are some partners who you just love to worship because they are just too delicious. My last FWB. Would have happily just given him a BJ with nothing in return just because. 🔥 My thoughts exactly EQ. Delicious is a word I would use in current situation. OMG could BJ all day and don't care if reciprocated. HOT HOT HOT. Add in the womaniser and absolute heaven!! As for the 50/50 there is only a few I have met that actually know what they are doing and if it's not great I choose to move onto something else. I don't have to have it. Depends on the person, one partner always received but rarely gave and got sick of that over time more the demanding of it rather than the actual giving. Now I give because I love it and hearing moans of pleasure is the biggest turn on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Haha, made a similar post in another topic last night... Not quite as graphic detail, but same point. The death roll and neck snap. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    And it's always the same story. Lady complains that blokes don't give enough oral. Then you get a chorus of blokes saying they love to give oral.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I got lots of mail after my post. Admittedly most of the approaches were a bit off and could have been worded better. But cant blame guys for trying. As for the forum, this is a sex dating site. If a random bloke wants to pipe up and say "i love it" or "ill do it!", " im fully into oral" then good on him. Honestly im sure there are people who are just afraid to post on the forum and i would like to see more new people. Not just the same old core group.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I absolutely love giving oral and getting lost in the moment, I love receiving as well but in the balance I’m more inclined to give first than expect or wait to receive. Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Definitely given more than received. By a country mile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Dragon, thank you, yeah, I had a closer look at that site, and no, I didn't look into it deeply enough. I hadn't realised there were so many topics on oral/head around the place either. Too funny. Thanks all the more for your posts everyone. It was a naive question! Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    The first part of the post above is my confusion about which thread Dragon posted on. Sorry for the confusion. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I wasn't actually blaming the blokes for advertising the fact that they love it. I'm one of those blokes. It's more the fact it keeps getting asked. I think we've more that answered the fact that a lot of blokes love to give oral. Forgive me for saying this but everytime I see the question it always seems to come across as a frustrated lady that is taking out the fact she isn't getting any head from her fella on the rest of us. I also love to receive head and I think I'd lose interest in a woman pretty quickly if it wasn't her thing. Just being honest.

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    8 years ago

    Lol. It’s about time we do another forum on anal. Then back to oral. Like farming we need to rotate our crops.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's a break from big dicks! Or not, hehehe, Peachy

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    8 years ago

    PMSL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with a bit of self advertising, most of us do it and that's partly what the forums are for. Also, yes there are lots of guys out there who love giving oral. The extreme exaggerations by some guys are what gives me a laugh, and it's mainly the oral topics that seem to bring out those sorts of extreme claims and advertisements. I think there's a few reasons for that, including something I mentioned on another thread about the now widespread perception that all women place huge importance on oral and guys feeling like they have to live up to that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Same as I've met women who don't like receiving oral. A good cunninlinguist is indeed a treat if you are a woman who enjoys oral. Peachy I saw a TED talk recently about this topic specifically in relation to young people. It was quite disturbing that young guys expect to receive head without reciprocating. And they base their sexual expectations on what they see in porn. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    if you pay attention to giving them as much pleasure, and they believe the same...the rest just takes care of its self....maybe it was a TED talk? R