Despair not ye merry folk.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Like what Rusty??

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  brightness of the moon soon becomes overshadowed by the aproaching clouds l know l am also going to feel the darkness as i fumble to find the only erect ...............

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I hate not knowing things.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I hate what some ppl use it for.. Although most have good intentions' some seem to use it as a opportunity to dump life's turmoil onto someone else... meaning bitching without thinking and being a true arsehole without any thought to anybody else.Im sure we all have them.. you know' the one's who drill away til they start a argument then everyone has the shits for the rest of the day..Not that has happened to us for a few years now , mainly because I / we make sure we avoid it like the plauge.. Now ' we have fantastic xmas and new years days by picnicing on Sydney harbour foreshore, with a few immediate family members and friends.. add to that all the familys doing similar or those wandering the park are all in good spirits so its a win win for everyone. So yes' this topic is right for either Xmas or New Year...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Well said and so true... been there, understood exactly what you are saying...

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  14 years ago

  This is one of the most stressful times of the year and for many people it is not a happy time at all. There is a tremendous build up for one day. Huge expectations and the financial burdens for some are enough to make then contemplate suicide. Those that are estranged from thier loved ones have thier own emotional roller coasters to ride. No christmas is not always a time of good cheer and family fun.

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  14 years ago

  Quoting 'inspirit'As the brightness of the moon soon becomes overshadowed by the aproaching clouds l know l am also going to feel the darkness as i fumble to find the .That sentiment is kind of close to what I wrote and describes exactly my mood at the time. .Handmaiden, not only am I riding that roller coaster, I damn well designed and built it! I knew every twist, dip and dive it would take and still I climbed on! Only now that I'm sick of it I realise that I was also operating it and could've got off it and ridden a tamer one instead at any time. .Meeks, I wasn't in a real flash mood when I wrote this topic so forgive me if it's a little vague.I was slipping downwards in the lead up to Xmas but on Xmas eve I really fell into a hole. I didn't want anyone to know because I didn't want to spoil their fun and good times. I haven't seen my Son for a while now and knowing I wouldn't see him at Xmas, along with being unable to afford to travel back to Vic to see my family plus being unable to be with the ones I love had me not a festive little Reindeer. I found a silver lining to my black cloud in my writing, problem is sharing it (not that I probably ever will) would mean bringing down the mood of those I showed it to..Other than that example I can't really think of others, that's why I was asking the question.Something like, have you ever cheated and found your soulmate in that other person (not that I condone cheating at all)?.That's kind of what I was asking but not exactly....... You know what?..... Lets just forget that I ever started this thread and just let it die to the back pages.Only, my posting in it keeps it alive.... D'oh! *Facepalm* .Cheers?Rusty

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  14 years ago

  Hey Lil bit rusty,Can feel and hear the emotion there, like you have spent sometime asking exactly the same things!I got through it and now help and speak to people in the same situation.The key thing to remember is the little people involved are first and foremost innocent.The best I can suggest is for you to let go of any anger or frustration and eventually things will work out,But please dont beat your self up about your thoughts!CheersB

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