Cheekyarses

Cheekyarses

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Define sexy

April 11 2013

I have recently been complimented that I'm 'sexy' - define what sexy is to you? I'm not one who can take compliments easily, I mostly think 'whatever, they are only saying that because they think they should n it might be what I want to hear'... 'Sexiness is half of what you have, n half of what you would like to have' Or is sexiness 'confidence no matter your age, height, weight, sexual orientation, openess n not afraid to express yourself'..... Would love to hear your definition of sexy!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Is going to differ for everyone cheekyarses. I personally find that there's one common link though....confidence and belief in who you are. I think it goes without saying, that not too many people could or would find someone that doubts everything they do as being sexy. Of course.....I could be wrong :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Confidence is sexy, especially when a lady has curves and knows how to show it.... in the way she walks and presents herself (in public I mean)- that also lends to the way she dresses. She knows what works for her, doesnt show too much and lets you mind imagine the rest.- Being stuck up is just a plain put off... so being able to apply a cute smile, with those eyes is always a compliment to the above sexiness.in the end - sexiness is you. What makes you individual and unique.. something as simple as how you smile when you sleep is sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    CHOOSE....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Simple really....Sexiness is not how you look, but how you act.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    13 years ago

    Never met a sexy person who doesn't have it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Nigella....that is all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Luvnya69' Simple really....Sexiness is not how you look, but how you act. I completely agree. And frisky had a very valid point too that sexiness is in confidence, that really gets me going. I believe it is much 'sexier' to have someone very average looking give you the stare-down and slowly crawl upon you while doing so, taking control of the moment than a drop dead gorgeous specimen just lay there starfish.My 2 cents :) -Mr Otori

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    and an adventurous spirit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The right attitude (not over confident or stuck up), with a cheeky smile, that glint in the eyes that says they know what they want and how to get it...and strength of character! It is not always about how you look but about how you feel.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Not the red lipstick, but the way you smile when you wear it. Not the high heels, but the way your hips sway when you walk in them. Not the expensive lingerie, but the gleam you get in your eyes when you're wearing it. Things are not sexy, behaviours are sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Reading that post is sexy

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Sometimes you can walk into a room n some ppl just stand out n they might not be the most attractive or have the perfect figure - but their personality n the way they hold themselves says it all!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    nuff said   have to be smart, funny, and comfortable in your own skin thats what I find sexy in a person

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    13 years ago

    Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When a guy lets fluffy or the chain OUTSIDE When a guy makes the ultimate sacrifice and sleeps in the wet patch. When a man brings his own condoms.......rare breed of fella that one When a man washes with vigour that spot behind his balls and his arse hole sexy when a man hears don’t stop, he don’t stop Sexy is a man that can stay away three minutes after he cums as a posed to two minutes Sexy is man that says, after you honey. Sexy is a man that takes his socks off while having sex

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Smilingwithfun'Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder. beer holder

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    sexy just is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    foremost; confidence confidence brings it all to head. the walk, a look, a comment, a smile. a confident woman can hold a room to ransom if she wants. luckily for me I have a woman who is that. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya77' sexy just is. Sexy is as sexy does.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's an attitude. It's the feeling you have when you strut and others sense it. It's a wicked sly smile that is telling. I get called cute way more than sexy. It's kind of annoying :/

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What defines sexy?Someone I find alluring, classy and able to hold conversation about ideas and events rather than just people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The deep voice, which lets my skin get goose bumps, where you have to turn around and look you said that Sexy are tight jeans on a long legged male Sexy is a great mind Sexy is even a great verbal disagreement Sexy is a smile where I see the teeth and great lips Sexy is a man in work clothes with a dirty face and a spanner in his hand Sexy is a man with a naked baby in his hands   However the bottom line is Sexy is the male’s attitude to life. Happy direct spontaneous and loving   But still sexy is a man in tied jeans and a nice shirt or bare skin

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting '2GuysWithRespect' What defines sexy?Someone I find alluring, classy and able to hold conversation about ideas and events rather than just people. As I sit in my prada, swinging a leg with pair of jimmy’s shoes on sipping my water from the last ice burg on earth look up to start a smart conversation bat my blue eyes and say how about that fucking Dow Jones fella he goes up and down all the time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    aaawwww

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Confidence: the way you hold yourself, the way you interact with the world, the way you move knowing what you want and being comfortable asking for it   Attitude: self respect, respect for others, curious about the world, a desire to experience     Dress: knowing your style and dressing to make the most of your assets   Eyes: that glint, cheeky and knowing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    what you do,with what you got....Mae West...Peter Dinklage,...Robbie Coltrane...Barbra Striesand...Dawn French...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you nailed it with this: "confidence no matter your age, height, weight, sexual orientation, openess n not afraid to express yourself'He walks into a room and all eyes are drawn to him, there are whispers of "who is that?" He is tall, dark haired with piercing eyes. He is dressed in well fitted jeans, williams boots and a polo, there is a faint scent of Hugo Boss.He is confident, hungry and strides toward me with purpose..................now that is sexy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sexy is intelligent. Without a spark in the mind (it has infinity of variety) your look, personality, and lust mean nothing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    confidence is one thing and shyness another.. both have equal qualities as far as Im concerned.. for me being cute is always a big plus.. I just love a feminine girl who knows how to use her smile and dress in sexy outfits that show off her unique feminine assets, and I dont mean cheap and nasty. If she has that X factor, she could just about wear anything and come across as sexy... A girl I once knew looked great in my PJs....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Greetings to all.....Aura, essence, spirit, mind, the whole person is sexy to me. here's a dumb example : brad pitt does absolutely nothin for me but i reckon dr phil's a bit hot ! I don't analyse it i just roll with it.......zac efron's a bit bloody allright as well......pheromones that blend well make people sexy as well....................peace to all, rd.........