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Decent photos,it'so difficult???

June 14 2016

Primary rule in advertising: Try to make your message as clear and interesting as possible.. Talking with couples,do you really want to get an answer to your flirt or message?so (we think)better avoid this situation: 1)profile with no public phothos at all (quite logic) 2)profile with only public photo-s of her(the majority) 3)profile with public photos with anatomic parts of his and her So guys,when we get a flirt or message first at all we check the profile...of course we dont need your complete I.D simply a decent,normal pic.of both of you even with no face in order to undestand quickly if you match or not...otherwise is just a waste of time...or it's so difficult?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry what was the question? I got side tracked by those amazing legs in your photo. 😆

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yes it is apparently difficult. At the risk of sounding like a cracked record, a major gripe of mine and if you look at the rest of their profiles without the vision, you're doing better than me. I stop right there. It raises red flags for me and I personally consider it a major waste of time, and most times a fruitless exercise with what is revealed further along, to be bothered trying to chase up more pictures. I sometimes start communicating with let's say 2 pictures of them, but not really showing themselves properly, but expect they'll give me more vision pretty quickly. If that doesn't happen, I don't ask, I just don't reply any further. They need to put in, to get something back in return, simple as that. My opinion is it's not usually laziness, but trying to hide the real vision. Bit of a jaded opinion, maybe, happens over time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yeah I was just thinking the same. Wow, sexy as fuck, both of you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    They ARE bangin' legs aren't they? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I do hope you feel much more settled, and relaxed. However, those that need this advice are too busy sending out messages en masse, to be reading these forums. I hope your experiences are better herein. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    This is the way to get the message across, go you!I'm sure everyone knows the rules now and you will get better and more suitable responses.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    10 years ago

    if it is so difficult to take decent photographs?? The answer is that is is easy, given today's technology, to take decent photographs. One just has to make the effort and then of course pay attention to detail , like whats in the background etc. We have seen too many photos where the background is a dirty untidy house / bathroom, toilet un-flushed, dirty clothes (and underwear) strewn on the floor..... if people have no pride in what's in the background (ie could not make the effort to clean up) then what is their personal hygiene like? One does not have to have a fancy, expensive camera. One just has to make an effort. Many of our photos were taken using our iPhones and it really is very easy. There really is no excuse.

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    I need to go back to English school to study English all over again, as I had to read the OP's post three times to get their questions 😝😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    The only question I could see was, is it difficult, all the rest were statements.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    And think people are just going to fall at their feet, legs spread wide/raging hardon ready for them to pounce on. After all "this is just a sex site" and we should all be loose and full of juice ready for use .... 😏 God forbid there be any preferences or people wanting to be treated like people. I'm sure most wives, girlfriends, women here all prefer to be treated like an easy lay 👍🏽 hey? 😝🔫. Indy On Safari

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I normally think your posts are thoughtful and considerate, and I have always appreciated your input on some often difficult discussions. I must say, though, I am surprised at your comment about the OP's language in their post. I agree with Summer, OP. People who need the advice are the least likely to read this, sadly! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    Why can't it be that I am genuinely having difficulty in understanding the OP's post due to my own lack of skill, instead of how you interpret my comment? Is it because I inserted the laughing icons? Why can't I be laughing at myself instead? :) Like I always say, how other people judge me, or think of me, or say about me, is truly their own opinions and really none of my business! :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    No imagination or effort with the photos translates to no imagination or effort in the bedroom.As the OP alludes to. If there is a lacklustre advertisement on the TV (not me) then are you likely to rush out and buy the thing?Effort people. You can have so much fun taking the photo. It's almost as much fun as the sex. Well it would be if you are Lacklustre. I met him once.............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I apologise if I've misinterpreted you comment, Sweetgem. I wasn't judging you - that's almost never my intention on here, and certainly not in relation to how people express themselves! I was just making a comment about how I saw your post - it sounded a little more judgey than usual, and I didn't read it as you having a laugh at your own difficulties understanding it. That's the main problem with forums, huh - because we just get written text, we miss so much in translation! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    Your gesture PatchworkGirl, no apology is needed as tone of voice is not present in written words, so message gets easily misinterpreted :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I actually have this written in my profile..... and putting in effort is not just regarding messages but everything if you dont put a little effort into your messages I will be thinking you wont put effort into anything including sex so.... think a little guys! (with your top head) Kisses Claire I Dare

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    10 years ago

    With the top head indeed. lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We are European,from not english speaking countries,so some misunderstanding is comprensible Just to be more clear , the meaning of our post was about "most of the people here are looking to meet eachothers"and the meaning of "decent photos"is about "clear"pictures where is possible more or less undestand with who we are trying to meet If we are talking about couple pic. of both,full body,with no face all right In this way in a blink of eye is easy guess if the couple is interesting or not

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid' With the top head indeed. lol Glad you liked that lilyorchid - I like yourself am a straight chick looking for single guys - and after reading your profile I found we have more then a few similar things to say there. Nice to see I am not alone so just wanted to say Gday Kisses Claire