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Deceiving profiles??
April 24 2012
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2more4fun
14 years ago
I feel your pain and know what you mean but there are enough verified or validated couples out there that we generally avoid those faux couples.Noticed that you guys yourselves are not verified so I guess there's a lot of people who don't utilise the feature so much? We would still contact couples that are not verified but you can bet that we will ask them them to or swap numbers asap for us girls to talk to each other.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You have wasted way to much time on msn! Telephone.....speak to the mrs! sooner rather than later.Felonius.....I would like a buck for every time I have repeated that over the years.
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RHP User
14 years ago
where men are men and women eat their young be afraid kido its all smoke and mirrors here
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Innercircle
14 years ago
We wasted 18 months on msn crapping on to many tens of people/couples who we eventually realised were just wasting time. Now, it's 'verification check', 'validation check', message. If they aren't verified then they pretty much aren't serious. It's free, and takes 2 minutes to complete.If they aren't verified and validated (we all were in the same boat at one stage) we hit them up straight away for some sort of proof they are real. The genuine ones jump at that chance. The wasters just drift off never to be heard from again...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lust: welcome to our world.. even verified persons are going to let you down every now and again.. Keep trying.. you will find some good people... Good luck.. Oh that I should even get close enough to feel that dissapointment... :) Tuscan.. I am in Perth (or closeby for a month from 3rd may..) want proof I am real?? caveman
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RHP User
14 years ago
There needs to be a new catergory here,the singlemalecouple,they come complete with photo of "wife".. usually very enticing. For some odd reason she is never available to chat,asleep,shopping ,working night shift... yada,yada,...so why waste hours,simply phone and say'get her to call us' and when she does... in her deep voice ,you will know for sure ,you have encountered ...the singlemalecouple.....hours of contact then reduced to ten minutes max. ps.do not accept the excuse for deep husky voice 'I have a cold' ....this is just another part of their deception.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' Lust: welcome to our world.. even verified persons are going to let you down every now and again.. Keep trying.. you will find some good people... Good luck.. Oh that I should even get close enough to feel that dissapointment... :) Tuscan.. I am in Perth (or closeby for a month from 3rd may..) want proof I am real?? caveman Do I have to run my teeth over you, every so softly to make sure your a real pearl? see you soon hotstuff
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RHP User
14 years ago
I allow biting.. I mean.. "Sure Turcan.. run the teeth over... " Cavey
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well yeh I had spoken on the phone to this person, his 'wife' was either asleep or at work... I suppose you just can't be to trusting!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
As soon as someone mentions MSN we are out of there. We are here to meet real people. The kind who don't shy away from talking in person and proving they are real on the phone then meeting face to face sooner rather than later.You can even tell from the wording of the message they are a fake (one man couple). The wording has lots of "I" rather than "We" and reeks of single male. Usually followed by messages with requests for lengthy stories about what your female partner's fantasies are. Most likely just so they have some material to read and fiddle with themself.Another funny one is when they list their fake female's height and weight. More so on another site we are on you actually put down the weigh in KG. You come across the fake couple. The pic of the female is a super slim petite model looking girl that is listed as 5'2" tall and they have put down 70kg for the weight when you know they would be lucky to be anything over 50kg, what girl would put down 20kg more than their real weight. It's a fat guy taking a stab in the dark at the weight of his fake partner in the pic.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mrs FL here, and yes lust42 (OP), it is a problem. We are very new on here as a couple, but that doesn't mean we don't have some prior experience in this area of profiles. We are very much aware that an alarming percentage of "couples" are just the male, either through changing circumstances or worse, deception. And yes, as Hesione mentioned, the profiles are usually pretty enticing but for some reason the female half is just never around. We just come straight out and ask though, and in our profile you will notice we say that "Mrs FL will always ask to speak to the female of the couple beforehand and this is a great time to discuss any boundaries or fantasies!" ..... and of course to find out if she exists lol! We absolutely understand that some couples that once played together may now have one partner who has stopped for whatever reason. But, if this is the case, 'fess up in your profile pretty early on please, it would save those of us looking for genuine couples an awful lot of time. We would also love to see more couple profiles featuring photos of both members of the couple together. It's kind of crazy that so many couples on here just have a sexy boob shot or lingerie shot of the woman only. We'd much rather see the two of you together, it gives you a great sense of intimacy and when you're a couple looking for similar, like-minded couples, a greater sense of validation in a way. I think it's time that true couples rise up and fly the flag lol! We took our profile pics just 2 Saturday nights ago, just Mr FL and I in our kitchen with a self-timing camera and a tripod ..... and oh my god it was so much fun. It makes us feel good too that anyone we contact is seeing the "true" us, recent photos, photos of us together, and well, because we're not really into that sort of thing, photos that don't let it all hang out, there's a little bit of mystery still left! Plus of course we have our mobile phone number listed and we are keen to veryify and validate our profile in every way possible to maximise the chance of us meeting the perfect play mates! Good luck in the future lust42, if you have your suspicions, make 'em work for it lol! Oh and Mr FL just asked me to add ..... if it looks looks like a duck and it quacks like a duck, then sadly it probably is just a duck! Bye for now and sexy times to all! xxx
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
happens all too often there is also the couple posing as single female profiles, you think it is a girl looking to meet other girls or couples only to find out that she is a package deal and actually hubby wants to take part too and they are really after a 3some!!!Arrrgh VERY frustrating.Some really good advice on here already so i wont rehash it all but in short have the ladies talk to each other early on in the piece over the phone. If they dont want to do that they are never going to actually meet you anyway (legit couple or not) so save your time and move right along.
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is a good point, Although we have always tried to display a good balance of pic's of the two of us on our profile public gallery. We found a lot of couples to only have pics of the female 1/2 and this was frustrating for Jane as she wasn't interested in blind dates. After reading your comment Forevermore I think we will be making some changes and working out the timer on our camera for pics of not just the two of us but the two of us together in the same pic. I feel we had underestimated the importance of this. Quoting 'ForeverLovers' We would also love to see more couple profiles featuring photos of both members of the couple together. It's kind of crazy that so many couples on here just have a sexy boob shot or lingerie shot of the woman only. We'd much rather see the two of you together, it gives you a great sense of intimacy and when you're a couple looking for similar, like-minded couples, a greater sense of validation in a way. I think it's time that true couples rise up and fly the flag lol!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'timandjane' This is a good point, Although we have always tried to display a good balance of pic's of the two of us on our profile public gallery. We found a lot of couples to only have pics of the female 1/2 and this was frustrating for Jane as she wasn't interested in blind dates. After reading your comment Forevermore I think we will be making some changes and working out the timer on our camera for pics of not just the two of us but the two of us together in the same pic. I feel we had underestimated the importance of this. Quoting 'ForeverLovers' We would also love to see more couple profiles featuring photos of both members of the couple together. It's kind of crazy that so many couples on here just have a sexy boob shot or lingerie shot of the woman only. We'd much rather see the two of you together, it gives you a great sense of intimacy and when you're a couple looking for similar, like-minded couples, a greater sense of validation in a way. I think it's time that true couples rise up and fly the flag lol! 90% of the couples on here have photos of the female only. And those that do have photos of both halves - don't have any photos together! Seriously, if you can't show us photos of BOTH of you - and I mean CLEAR PHOTOS so we can see your face - QUIT wasting our time.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We'll exchange the initial messages and swap pics to see if there's any interest. We won't make much more contact until it's time to meet up and that will be via a phone call.The other site that we're paid members on (our name - HotSpace) also has verified or validated status, it doesn't mean much to us, as they can still do a no show. We have yet met anyone from here, but I do enjoy the forums here.We also have had a better success rate with paid members.Ed.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We're loving keeping an eye on the forums here ........ and this is a perfect reason why. timandjane, you guys have the sexiest profile, and your pics are really awesome. Love the one of tim with your names written across his stomach. Just wondering if maybe I could pinch that idea for something artistic in the future lol? Your profile definitely is very balanced and you are only going to make it hotter and better when the two of you get in the pics together! So I wish you a fantastic, fun and sexy evening in the near future involving you both, a camera with a timer and maybe a bottle of wine, lots of laughs and flirting! foreverlove7985, omg, we've nearly plagiarised your name! Eeek! Love the sentiment though, we just feel so strongly we'll be together forever, and lovers forever. We've nearly made 20 years so far! Your profile photos have always impressed me, they show exactly who I imagine you to be. Your profile is so clear too, and I hope that over time ours can reflect our needs and desires as well as yours. We totally agree about the face photos, I mean ours are in our private gallery for privacy reasons but they are there. No pussy or cock shots, just us as we are together. You see if you do meet a couple and play with them you kind of expect they'll have a pussy and a cock between them ....... but it's the other stuff that's important, that look, their body language, your attraction to them in a photo. So I hope we see lots more profiles like yours. VivaCple, we agree totally re the phone call thing. Friends of ours on another site have told us they've given their mobile number out to so many "couples" and almost had a zero response. So you just have to be a bit suspicious about people who don't pick up the phone and make that call. Wow, we're the exact opposite, if we feel chemistry with a couple we call straight away, chatting and messaging on line is so one dimensional, at least being able to hear people's voice, tone, if both are there how they respond to each other ..... it adds so much! And let's face it, if we're going to go to the trouble of setting up a playdate, which for us and many others on here involves juggling work, study, child care arrangements, play venue etc ..... you want there to be a good connection and of course all the "big" issues out of the way (ie are they"real", their boundaries, kinks, fantasies etc). Mrs FL on behalf of ForeverLovers, xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
If quickly they wont exchange numbers and be ready to talk - there not real and wankers., then we not interested We like to always have a telephone conversation , female - female - male - male F - M, M - F , before we meet . If there are excuses or no calls - move on .
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RHP User
14 years ago
it`s very annoying and waste of time... If someone is fake after exchange of msg.. Both single and couples are fake sometime.... And even when u come across date finder wrong dates r placed...
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RHP User
14 years ago
It makes me wonder...with all the single guys posing as couples on here, how many of the single guys posing as a couple are chatting and trying to hook up with other single guys posing as a couple...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would love to be a fly on the wall listening to those conversations Fun_2 _gether...x Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
OMG you're telling me people are lying on the internet?!?!?! I'm gutted, next you'll be telling me not to trust the government.
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RHP User
14 years ago
totally agree with you there Hesione
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm a cuddly girl (and I mean cuddly/chubby not like some skinny girls with a complex about that 1/2 cm bit of tummy they have) and for some reason guys love me! Go figure lol. Just yesterday I arranged for a guy to meet me and my male playmate for a fun night and he kept giving me bs excuses. He kept saying all week he would love to fuck me and have my guy watch but when it came to the day he backed out and couldn't even be honest. Oh well, he missed out. My playmate and I had an amazing spa together and fucked all night! Have had a few guys from couple profiles saying the missus isn't into the swinging thing anymore. So why not change the profile or get off the site? As one playmate of mine said "there are too many tyre kickers on these sites". Sadly it's true, too many are just watchers and not doers.
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