Deal Breaker Photos?

July 21 2010

Just went through some photos on RHP and thought it might be fun (and educational) to point out photos that are regarded as deal breakers :) Please don't mention cock shots. I'm chasing things like:Guys posing with promotional models at events &Guys/girls loading up photos from weddings (ie - in bridal/groomsmen gear)Playful xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Crowd pics: Where's the Wally???Hugs... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ...from a pair of jocks? I happily admit to being a pair of designer men's briefs with a reasonable grasp of the English language initially. However, and almost sure and certain deal breaker, is a woman who may show you some anatomical part of themselves (not complaining, simply commenting...I am happy to continue my studies in female anatomy) and demands any number of clear face pictures before even speaking? Throw in fuzzy, poorly taken or those awful "mobile phone in a mirror" shots. Could just be the coup d'etat! Masks are a diffeent story...I enjoy a bit of mystery.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The ones that you mentioned (wedding or promotional pics), but also can't stand pics where they are nothing but a dot and you can't see them (ie: waterskiing), pics with a cute cuddly dog and definately pics where they stand there with two fingers up and arms crossed like my 12 yo does (hope you know the ones I mean). Oh and single guys with wedding ring in plain sight make me giggle lol. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    anything where someone claims to be single and there is clearly another person in the picture, poorly masked (read badly scratched out) faces, really tiny ones that i need a magnifying glass to see, really dark (poorly light) ones where you dont know what you are looking at, and of course the classic no pic at all (either publicly or privately) but hey would love to see your PG! Yeah right like thats going to happen. I dont mind the mobile in mirror shots - i actually understand that it can be hard to take photos of yourself if you live on your own and dont have someone who can take them for you and of course I am a perve so anatomy is fine by me. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    any pic we upload seems to do the trick as soon as anyone see them poof gone, never talk to us again

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    15 years ago

    All of the above definitely apply. We would also add; - Facebook style photos, while we don't necessarily want lewd shots of genitals some sex appeal is good. - Photos of play including other people who are not part of the couple or single in the profile. Particularly when these mystery people are featured. - Photos where the photographer clearly made no effort to get the right angle or light and no creative effort. - Also a major turn off for lady (who does most of the screening) a profile with absolutely no shots of him - Oh and we know it is hard to photograph a penis but really some cock shots YUCK. Finally the biggest deal breaker.. NO photographs, won't even get past the first glance with that one!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ... pics that have a partner 'cut out' - presumably and ex, and pic that have other people in them where something just tells me the people in the pic don't know they're 'appearing' on RHP.Kind of suggests a lack of discretion and respect to me lilmiss x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Pics...I dont like that so many peeps have restricted pics as their main.Do they not realise that guests (as most single fems are) cant actually see them??Oh...and single guys whose main pic is their cock stuck in some chick...kinda makes me wonder if she knows she is out there for all of rhp to see?(yes...these pics are restricted too...i just happened to see one one time)Like Fussy said....seems more than a tad disrespectfulAnd I agree with what has been posted above.....no pics of both in a couples profile...pics of multiple peeps and you have to guess which one the profile is for...etc etc.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Seriously some of the pics on rhp provide us with the best giggles. I agree that the wedding photos or the group of mates shots are a laugh (once we saw that the mate of the intended subject was a workmate of mramour...and a fairly high profle person this was too lol). But dont forget the pics taken in the bathroom... where you can not only see the exit mould on the bench, but also that they clearly dont use it!!! Then there is photos on the floral bedspread with a months worth of ironing (at least i hope its done laundry) piled in the background. Then theres the pics of a foursome going at it on the loungeroom floor..... amongst the kids toys. I mean geeze we have kids but really. Or maybe theres a thomas the tank sex game we havnt heard about yet. Deal breaker number one however has to be the penis shot...no not any penis shot but the one being attended to... no thats not the worst of it ...just that he clearly has a case of genital warts EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!.hope you all handnt eaten lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I find the profiles with collections of pics obviously selected from the internetz to fit a profile description the most disturbing...it's amazing what can get you verified sometimes That, and mirror shots of people with horrible backgrounds...like an un-flushed toilet, or a filthy bedroom.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Guys shots where they are either holding alcohol or look like they are already intoxicated by it. Yanno tounge out, weird finger signs etc etc. Boys ...girls don't tend to go for the yobbo look, ya mates might think ya hot though. Nuff said. xxMiss Honeyxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    that had a pic taken down coz peeps complained that he had warts....turns out its actually silicone balls he has had implanted under the skin..."for her pleasure"...lol!SWEETIE....who?? WHO??? lol!JMO...BJxxx

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    15 years ago

    Too many to recall them all LOL....but a few like ones with cigarettes hanging off the lip or between fingers..yeah..always classy!! Head shots clearly showing missing or rotten teeth..yeah that's a good look! Big close ups of butts or pussies/dicks with severe shaving rashes and/or pimples & sores in that general area...yeah..that'll really attract us!! eeewwwwwww NOT!!Some people have no idea!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Apart from the instances mentioned already, some of my pet hates are; * The photo(s) show a young, blonde slim lady yet the profile discription say middle aged, slightly overweight and brunette! * The 'artistic' masterpeices that it doesn't matter how much you look at it you still have no bloody idea exactly what or whom you are viewing! * Those endearing photographic memories with the woman cuddling some misplaced mop that thinks it is a dog! I must admit what really pisses me off is those self centred, egotistical women who demand (I repeat) demand face pics from any guy who dares contact her (otherwise insta block) yet either has some obscure photo not showing anything recognisable or the majority of times, no damn photo at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Photos with 1. toliets in them 2. messy messy bedrooms ..sock jocks cans of drink etc etc strung around the room 3. ladies we dont want to see you can fit a can or bottle of Jim Beam there ! 4.tip if your pubic hair is not the same colour in all your photos .....ummmmm well ummmm well Brae and miss sarah

  • WhispersAndMoans

    WhispersAndMoans

    15 years ago

    Makes me wonder how many people consider ours as deal breakers? Depends on your interests I suppose.  I think most of what we would consider deal breakers are listed here.  Have certainly seen examples of just about all the ones mentioned here!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Im with mooka on this one. I have read alot of profiles, I enjoy the window shopping. I'm tired of reading the stock standard comment "no face pic no reply" on a profile of a wmoan (sorry girls the number of guy profiles Ive seen can be counted on 3 fingers) where either no face picture and/or just pictures of ass/legs/breasts/girl bits/etc. The desire to see peoples faces/smiles/eyes and appreciate a face for its unavoidable ability to identify someone ( so as to prove genuine profile or genuine person). I totally understand that the girls/ladies/spunkettes on this site get bombarded with flirts/msgs and lude requests as I've had them too. apparently I left a "interested in MMF Bi" setting on that attracted 30 + M's hunting some man loving and I was quite disturbed by the offers of sex/acts of sex from some of them. However if you dont want the unnecessary attention of the sleazy types then stop putting the sign post out that says "easy". I expect to be verbally hung out to dry for that comment but I was never good at going with the flow. I'm confident enough to say that most guys would agree that a well dressed woman can be just as hot as naked woman (sometimes hotter).Take Meeka's profile, tasteful public photography, good use of red lipstick and better use of my imagination. I hope I never meet meeka face to face as the first time I introduce myself the blood wont be heading to my brain and I'm sure I'll say something stupid and ruin the first impression.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    amoureuX...read your comments on this post...so checked out your pics...they are awesome and would be deal makers...and would be awesome if more people posted pics like yours

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    if the main pic is wide open puss, or cock head we laugh and move on...zzzz couples standing naked with hands on hips is MUCH less apealing than fully clothed in cool gear B and K

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A profile full of only restricted pics won't even warrant a second glance from me...and as mentioned, niether will one sans photos at all. As BJ said, as guests, we can't view restricted (and I personally wouldn't want to - prefer to leave a little something to the imagination, rather than see close up genital/penetration shots). One that has yet to be mentioned is.... The DUCK face! That stupid pouty face that girls pull! I've been known to snap a photo or two with it on...But it's so unattractive! I also get really peeved when people ask to see my PG when they either have no photos, or a gallery full of restricted pics... Miss Red xxxx

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    15 years ago

    really don't get the ones that are taken with no regard for the background, dirty washing everywhere,general mess and filth, personal family pics of kids etc (yep saw that once) you can tell a lot about a person by how they live and their attention to detail, the way i look at if they live in a pigsty then what else don't they keep clean? and if they are not detail orientated enough to edit out things in the back ground then what else might they be lazy about?? not really my cup of tea.But do agree with the guys on here too, not fair for girls to demand face pics if not willing to share the same.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You both make valid points and I am guilty of the fact that my face pics are in my pg however I am willing to open them up to people once we have started chatting. I dont think anyone has the right to demand a face pic of you - especially if they dont have any pic what so ever of themselves up. This goes for both guys and girls. I have had some guys send me a message and ask for my pg access but if I ask them for any pic of them I get the standard my job/life circumstances dont permit it. Who's to say mine automaticaly does? Who knows one day soon i may be game enough to get some face pics taken of me and uploaded but in the meantime I admire those who already have. Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i had 2 photos with other's on there (just regular not dirty), but never really thought about the privacy thing as i wasn;t "advertising" for us, just me....my photos are crap because i tend to avoid them after having an ex that just took photos every time we were doing something that mean we had to leave the house lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    you roooly are a sweetiepieEarlappologies to Mr Sahahahahahahahaahahaha

  • nort4t

    nort4t

    15 years ago

    After looking at all the photo's in this forum so far, i would put Donna and Brett at the top of my list.Why? It has a clear Face shot which also Displays the obvious assets With out them being in your face. Cheers Nort4t.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i don't know that i should talk... as it seems i get told to change my display pic whenever i'm in the chatroom... apparently nose shots aren't particularly attractive. hahaha... my response is... as far as i'm a aware its the only one on the site, and while ever its unique... it's staying. lol i tend to favour creative shots... but i have not got n artistic mind so creative, to me, does not mean funky colours obscuring what used to be a photo. so by this i mean photos that require a little imagination... eg. i like missbj's pic because not only is it classy and respectable... it's in profile... very few profile shots on here.. to me that is creative... but i sometimes get lost with semantics.. haha im also a perve... so im fond of nudity and sex shots... this is a sex site at heart, though i can understand aswell why people do not need to see this in a pic. i cannot stand, as most have already put, pics with multiple people in them for single profiles......WHO ARE YOU???!!! I also dont like pics with people smoking cigarettes, pics with animals, or shots from a distance... and probly a whole heap more.... haha camming

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Donna_Brett' Too many to recall them all LOL....but a few like ones with cigarettes hanging off the lip or between fingers..yeah..always classy!! Head shots clearly showing missing or rotten teeth..yeah that's a good look! Big close ups of butts or pussies/dicks with severe shaving rashes and/or pimples & sores in that general area...yeah..that'll really attract us!! eeewwwwwww NOT!!Some people have no idea!!OOOOOOOOOPS, I have one of those lipcig pics, I know it's not the best, I just like that photo. I've been lazy with photos because I look so different in all of them and I think I have a love it or hate it face as opposed to somewhere in the middle. Weirdly enough, I have a couple old ones on hotornot, the one all my female friends love is rated lowly, another one where I have a silly bloody mohawk and it's got a freaking 9.5. Good for the ego, but weird as I hate that photo, just like how built I am when the camera lies on my behalf from certain angles!