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Date v's Just Sex
July 28 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
From my discussins with guys it comes down to this - the first girl (aka slut) allows herself to be treated like that the second girl (aka human) insists she be treated like that...it really is our choice...if we stick to our guns and insist on dinner and being treated like a human then thats what is going to happen...allow someone to treat you like a slut (in the manner you have described) and he isnt likely to change his behaviour, really why should he?? He is getting what he wants anyway... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chances are, one has looks and a brain, the other just has a reputation. One I'm going to want to talk to, the other one I'm just going to want to fuck anyway.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Funlovin if i was to be lucky enough to wine and dine with you I wouldnt be able to leave the table without showing off the hard cock in my pants... WOW girl that cleavage takes some beating.. And dinner date for certain You have the brain .. seduce the brain and the body will follow
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Chances are, one has looks and a brain, the other just has a reputation. One I'm going to want to talk to, the other one I'm just going to want to fuck anyway. It's insulting to hear people suggest that there is some sort of exchange of food for sex. "...if we stick to our guns and insist on dinner and being treated like a human then thats what is going to happen" Erm... I guess so... in the sense that he will feel obliged to jump through the hoops so that you let him have sex with him. His actual opinion of you won't be any different though, with the exception that you are a high maintenance slut. I don't know why you would want to have dinner with someone who is doing it to fuck you. Baffling.
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RHP User
14 years ago
JG has it right on. Who gives a shit about a meal? Can't we just screw and be done with it? lol...
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RHP User
14 years ago
that this man is messaging various women with a different tact each time, simply in the hopes that one of his messaging styles will be the winner.....The other possibility is he read the profiles of the women and they varied slightly so he is offering what he thinks the recipient wants. If someones profile says Meet First Play Later it is rational to assume he would not get far with that woman by asking for a play meet straight up. All speculation ofcourse. xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'JG has it right on. Who gives a shit about a meal? Can't we just screw and be done with it? lol... Hahaha. I will settle for a bottle of water in case I get thirsty. Screwing is hard work. xx Meeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Meeka gets 100 points for being upfront. Pass go, collect $200... and a bottle of PUMP pure water for your efforts.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was in chat the other day eating my meal and just reading what was being spoken about....There were a few girls on cam and as always all the guys say "OMG you are so sexy" blah blah blah...Anyway one guy was chatting to a girl on cam and talking about hooking up with her...she seemed interested and they chatted back and forth! This girl then left chat and the same guy started chatting to another girl on cam (who just entered the room) and asked her out for dinner! Both girls had boobs out...so there was no difference to me between the two! I was just curious as to why he would ask one for a "hook up" and the other one out for "dinner"? < JG I won't go out for dinner with someone for 2 reasons....1) If I don't like him I would hate to be stuck with him for that long! 2) If I was so horny and wanted sex with him...I couldn't wait that long! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I don't know why you would want to have dinner with someone who is doing it to fuck you. Baffling. Depends on whether you eat in a restaurant or the bedroom!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think people need to think outside the square... | Quoting 'xFunlovingx' ...and the other one you can only meet indoors and treated like a slut? . | Sex outdoors can be fun and there is no excuse for a lack of manners. | I always say "thank you".
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Chances are, one has looks and a brain, the other just has a reputation. One I'm going to want to talk to, the other one I'm just going to want to fuck anyway. I think you summed it up. All I saw, was JG calling the women above "high maintenance sluts". . Funloving, in all seriousness though, I don't know that you can make an assessment of the two different offers you witnessed being made in the chatroom (ie. history of chat, private messages etc). . I have a rather poor record when it comes to dinner vs sex. I tend to opt for the sex and on the one occasion I took the bloody dinner, I wound up with a gall bladder nightmare the next week! ... I don't suppose it helped that my partner opted for 2am kebabs instead of a fancy restaurant but I think it can safely be said I wasn't a high maintenance slut that night! *eyeroll* . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Chances are, one has looks and a brain, the other just has a reputation. One I'm going to want to talk to, the other one I'm just going to want to fuck anyway. Especially for internet dating. Okay so the guy may get an indication of character on this site first and also by chatting but I think I would err towards Focus's comments. You get treated how you allow others to treat you. It is that simple. If your chats start out open, forward and yes, slutty, then that is how you will be treated. If your chats are more on the friendly side of things, a little respect is earned.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' From my discussins with guys it comes down to this - the first girl (aka slut) allows herself to be treated like that the second girl (aka human) insists she be treated like that...it really is our choice...if we stick to our guns and insist on dinner and being treated like a human then thats what is going to happen...allow someone to treat you like a slut (in the manner you have described) and he isnt likely to change his behaviour, really why should he?? He is getting what he wants anyway... . Kisses Focus exxxxxactly FL couldn't be more right!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'JG has it right on. Who gives a shit about a meal? Can't we just screw and be done with it? lol... Hahaha. I will settle for a bottle of water in case I get thirsty. Screwing is hard work. xx Meeks meeka you must be popular with the guys, you always seem to get straight to the point and talk like one... i'm in love ;)MrNA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Chances are, one has looks and a brain, the other just has a reputation. One I'm going to want to talk to, the other one I'm just going to want to fuck anyway. I think you summed it up. All I saw, was JG calling the women above "high maintenance sluts". . Flirty x Actually I was implying that the difference between a 'slut' and someone who believes she has a god given right to dinner before she is a 'slut' is that one of them is high maintenance. . If two people want to get it on, then whether or not dinner is involved should make no difference. If the guy is just interested in a root and sneaks out in the middle of the night does it somehow feel better, or make him any better a person, to be able to say 'oh well, he did feed me'.
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RHP User
14 years ago
That men have 2 feelings...horny and hungry...if he has an erection - give him sex...if he doesn't have an erection - give him a sandwich...maybe this guy had whacked over the first girl and by the time he started chatting to the next girl he was thinking about how hungry he was...
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
For us sex is about sharing pleasure. A nice light meal, good wine, and hot sex just go together well, the sum of the activities is better than each lactivity on its own.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...has a brain ready for seduction and likes sex Quoting 'wowwow09' Funlovin if i was to be lucky enough to wine and dine with you I wouldnt be able to leave the table without showing off the hard cock in my pants... WOW girl that cleavage takes some beating.. And dinner date for certain You have the brain .. seduce the brain and the body will follow
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RHP User
14 years ago
love your brain .......for me i would rather have sex first- then go out for dinner - makes for a much nicer evening and you now have something truley in common - you like to fuk each other- then after dinner you let the real exploring begin Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Chances are, one has looks and a brain, the other just has a reputation. One I'm going to want to talk to, the other one I'm just going to want to fuck anyway. It's insulting to hear people suggest that there is some sort of exchange of food for sex. "...if we stick to our guns and insist on dinner and being treated like a human then thats what is going to happen" Erm... I guess so... in the sense that he will feel obliged to jump through the hoops so that you let him have sex with him. His actual opinion of you won't be any different though, with the exception that you are a high maintenance slut. I don't know why you would want to have dinner with someone who is doing it to fuck you. Baffling.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Depends on what the 2 girls were wanting. If i'm not a dinner-date girl do I deserve less respect? Who the fuck decided that food was the required element to make the distinction between respecting me and my choices or calling me names? The arbitrary 'dating rules' set up by others don't apply to me because I don't subscribe to them. My life, my self-respect, my fucking rules. xx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78'Depends on what the 2 girls were wanting. If i'm not a dinner-date girl do I deserve less respect? Who the fuck decided that food was the required element to make the distinction between respecting me and my choices or calling me names? The arbitrary 'dating rules' set up by others don't apply to me because I don't subscribe to them. My life, my self-respect, my fucking rules. xx Sarah Well said Sarah...
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I was in chat the other day eating my meal and just reading what was being spoken about....There were a few girls on cam and as always all the guys say "OMG you are so sexy" blah blah blah...Anyway one guy was chatting to a girl on cam and talking about hooking up with her...she seemed interested and they chatted back and forth! This girl then left chat and the same guy started chatting to another girl on cam (who just entered the room) and asked her out for dinner! Both girls had boobs out...so there was no difference to me between the two! I was just curious as to why he would ask one for a "hook up" and the other one out for "dinner"? xFunlovingx Could be that he had previously met up with #1 for dinner and was now moving on to deserts where #2 was a new contact so it was back to 1st base again ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
As usual, Sarah. I have never seen "respect" listed as an entree' or even a main...and I have eaten at everything from the greasiest of spoons to the nobbiest of snoberaunts. | I was going to suggest just doing the deed then calling Pizza Hut and have them deliver to her house whilst I was on the way home? | Probably not quite the same, huh? | | Maybe the delivery guy will be cute and she really gets some "respect"...with extra cheese!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well said Sarah!!! Why are you a slut if you opt for a fuck instead of dinner? What I understand is that if a guy is gorgeous, hot and sexy we might hop straight in the sack with them and brag about it to our girlfriends the next day.If the guy is your average Joe Blow, well then, he is disrespecting and not treating you like a human. WTF? Recently a friend told me that she felt cheap because she was with a guy who lied to her about seeing other people. I just don't get it. I have never felt cheap, pissed off and angry at people yes, but I have never turned that against myself or my self worth. Help me understand?? xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'we_are_no_angels' meeka you must be popular with the guys, you always seem to get straight to the point and talk like one... i'm in love ;)MrNA Thanks.... love being one of the boys, especially when I put on that mighty strapon. xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Dinner can be spelt sex. Who pays may have the bargaining power. Feeling cheap is not on the bill but tips are optional. Dessert can be ordered or not. A player will know all the rules but the playee can outplay with.......No thanks, I'm full. Don't eat anything that is on fire)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well i prefer to combine the two - im the whore that can be paid in kind by a nice dinner with fine wine courtesy of the gentleman wanting to fuck me for dessert
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RHP User
14 years ago
I occasionally let the girl take me home to "screw", instead of the other way round. This way, I'm the one left feeling like a slut, and leave a few poor girls insecurities about slutdom well alone. Yes, it's true, I AM a good samaritan...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Should be banned - why can't girls enjoy casual sex for its own sake just like men ?If they want coffee/dinner/anything else thats fine too and is also lots of fun, but if they just want sex, why should they be made to feel so ashamed ?We need a new name for girls who like sex that makes them feel good about itMrA
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RHP User
14 years ago
1) Libertine 'a person who is morally or sexually unrestrained'2)Lascivious 'inclined to lustfulness' There, they are much nicer words!You really can't do dinner or lunch pre play....sex on a full stomach?? Sometimes the best conversations and time spent together is after all the sex stuff is out of the way. Although the most fun I have had was meeting for drinks first....the downside?? None really but I was starving by the time I got home!xx SalinaPS....Libertine and Lascivious are far from new words but I think we should try for a revival of some of the classics :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
...I'm a tart and damn proud of it, so show me a little respect? I would like a little engaging conversation, maybe a kiss before, during or after...and when you start screaming, I would prefer that you use my first name. | Okay so that last bit isn't all that important...I've also got one hell of a sense of humour so maybe we can just substitute a good laugh together for most anything else. | Guess that makes me just your average garden variety hedonist with epicurean tastes. That sounds better than a slightly kinky tart after all. Call me what you want...just call me, please? |
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RHP User
14 years ago
it's the intent behind it that defines it
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RHP User
14 years ago
i think it comes down to the individuals concerned and what they both are comfortable with, communication is the key... i have had some dates where dinner has been awesome chance to get to know each other and has enhanced the experience.. others whereby after a light lunch or coffee meet the tension and desire from both is so intense that its a case of bugger the date lets just get it on... and in the days of gluten intolerence , ibs etc, i find it safer to respectfully ask for the ladies opinion n needs.. who wants to engage in long sensual sex with a gutful of heavy rich food anyway...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dirtyslut4grpsex'Well i prefer to combine the two - im the whore that can be paid in kind by a nice dinner with fine wine courtesy of the gentleman wanting to fuck me for dessert
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...I'm a tart and damn proud of it, so show me a little respect? | respect? what for? just gimme some pussy to play with...seriously, i prefer it when the girl's being bitchy.. like "NO NO NO NO NO" and the nails....mmmmmmmmmmdisrespectfully yoursMrNA
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