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Date Finder etiquette

October 17 2012

Just wondering how others perceive the use of the Date Finder and the appropiate etiquette in responding to a date that has been posted. So let's say that the date we have posted has another RHP member expressing interest by the click of their mouse to register their interest in our date, so our question is "what should happen next?" What do you think should be the correct etiquette and why? Is the member expressing interest in the date then to contact the date poster by msg or flirt Or... Should the date poster contact the member who is expressing interest in the date Would love to hear your positive thoughts

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RHP User

13 years ago

have no idea but here is a bump

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Paradisepair

13 years ago

If we're really interested in someone's date we'll follow our interest up with a message. But maybe if someone thinks you're super sexy they might feel like they need to let you choose from the various candidates they imagine you could have...

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Paradisepair

13 years ago

Was whose bad grammar? Who's...

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RHP User

13 years ago

Who's is used as a contraction of who is. In your post 'who's' would have been correct.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Express my interest using that little button, and then wait. My thoughts are "if they're interested, they'll contact me, if not then I've done my bit." I'm to the opinion that no one likes to be badgered with interest and I don't, so I let them make the first move after that. How un-alpha male of me?

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playful4u

13 years ago

I posted this topic two days ago and now it has turned up

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RHP User

13 years ago

If you hash it all out and decide on what the correct etiquette would be, then someone who hasn't read your etiquette stipulations comes along, you're setting yourself up for being frustrated at best, disappointed and confused at worst.Trust me, the more flexible and adaptable you are about how to manage it, the less time you'll spend facepalming and "what does this mean"-ing at people who give it no thought whatsoever.xx SarahFormerly reformed Snarkaholic: currently off the wagon. Drug of choice: "hey bb how r u" intro messages...

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RHP User

13 years ago

I think may have only ever done this once long time ago.....Listed a date that is....but I would like to know if it works for some??? I would think if I listed I am available and the type of date it would be nice to get a message from the male offering a suggestion...Hey babe let me show you my town??Ok maybe something more imaginative. If some men put their perspectives forward it would be interesting.Might be what I need to do instead of sitting here on a friday night.

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