M56
Curious
December 18 2016
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
This site is cleverly designed to help males part with their money . Sex sells !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
And writing profiles..... Think about what the sublime message is..... If you're fun and enjoy partying a bit...show it....in good tasteful pics, not with your tongue down someone's throat...your pic isn't that I realise....but it sends a message.... Same with the written....I think it lacks personality, while it is honest and up front, I ain't feeling much in terms of persona... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...your profile ends with an exhortation for women to message you. That ain't gonna happen buddy. The vast majority of women on here are guests because, well, they can afford to be. They're outnumbered 20 to 1 by men, so they hold all the chips. And guests can't message. I think they get the odd free flirt, so that might happen occasionally, but you really need to stand out from the crowd to grab their attention. Also, although this is a sex site, women tend to like a little depth with their encounters, so your constant reiteration of just wanting a bit of fun probably isn't a huge draw card. And as Stirry says, you need to project personality. Read your profile from an objective point of view and ask yourself why anyone would respond to it. It's not that it's bad, there's just no hook there. And finally a bit of punctuation would help. Great slabs of text with no full stops, commas etc are actually hard to read and conveys a sort of ADHD vibe. Cormac McCarthy can get away with it, the rest of us need to give at least a token nod to the rules of language if we want to control the message we communicate.
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RHP User
9 years ago
More pictures 😎
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RHP User
9 years ago
Did I miss some distasteful pics, damn 😀
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Should be banned from this site. It shits me to tears actually, my old profile write up used to say the same thing...and not to bother contacting me if the reader's profile contained the word. 😈 We all want fun in our lives; I for instance love a fun food fight, and playing with my 13month old great nephew is also a huge amount of fun. Anyone who messages me asking if I am up for fun is quite likely to get a reply which asks which park we are meeting up in to throw the frisbee around. 😜 If you are using the word to describe no strings - random - I only want a shag - I'll call you when I am horny - activities, bloody well just say that! (Rant over.)
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RHP User
9 years ago
A guy has to be super hot for me to overlook bad grammar and no punctuation. I like smart guys, so maybe that's why... I agree with everything that's been said above. There are WAY more guys than girls on this site. I can only speak for myself, but I came to RHP almost exclusively to meet other women and couples even though I'm fond of the D as well and maybe there are other girls like me here which lowers your odds even more. Plus it's just a matter of compatibility. I think you're good looking enough, but I have very little interest in doing anything with people who smoke, so that would have decided it for me. It's definitely a numbers game for men here, so just keep at it; eventually you'll get a bite
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RHP User
9 years ago
yeah its real - I'm female and on here and real - well at least i think i am. Your profile isn't well written sorry to be blunt but I agree that you have used the word fun way too many times - we get it you want to bang and that's it - you dont need to keep reiterating that most people are here for the same thing secondly - 'ask me' on relationship status most will (and generally rightfully so) assume that means you are attached and / or wont bother asking and just move on to the next profile where the person is actually honest about their relationship status so best you must answer it and be honest from the beginning - keep in mind if you are attached some women actually dont mind that or prefer it .wouldnt hurt to answer hair length as well unless you really cant for whatever reason. Need more pics. Need to be a paid member. good luck , be patient and engage people in conversation -its attractive .
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'MsJonesy' Should be banned from this site. It shits me to tears actually, my old profile write up used to say the same thing...and not to bother contacting me if the reader's profile contained the word. 😈 We all want fun in our lives; I for instance love a fun food fight, and playing with my 13month old great nephew is also a huge amount of fun. Anyone who messages me asking if I am up for fun is quite likely to get a reply which asks which park we are meeting up in to throw the frisbee around. 😜 If you are using the word to describe no strings - random - I only want a shag - I'll call you when I am horny - activities, bloody well just say that! (Rant over.) You and I think exactly alike.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Was having far too much fun to stick around
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nice one, another one bites the dust. Apparently you can't have fun around here dude 😀 To the grammar Nazi's, get a life. Maybe if you spent less time demeaning people over whether they use punctuation correctly, you'd have more time for 'fun' Shameful, who cares if grammar is correct 👎 and if you're reading this op, though there were some valid points raised, not being a paying member is the biggest issue for men, but a small group of people on the forum, are they your target audience? Not everyone wants one exclusive fwb, do it my way, spend quality time, invest in this person more than just sexual meets. Fine if that's what a few of you here want, but there are plenty who don't. You are of course entitled to your opinions but keep in mind those opinions are taken to heart more here on the forum. I just get tired of the fun police. Are you all really that boring. Do you ever let down your guard with all these requirements? Heaven forbid someone might want sex 😱 or fun 😱
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RHP User
9 years ago
Can blame him?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' To the grammar Nazi's, get a life. Maybe if you spent less time demeaning people over whether they use punctuation correctly, you'd have more time for 'fun' A grammar Nazi is someone who dismisses a profile because they put an apostrophe in the wrong place a person who suggests someone might employ the odd full stop within a ten sentence paragraph is just someone who doesn't like text induced headaches its similar to real life where an actual Nazi is someone who arrests someone for being Jewish not someone who arrests someone for murdering their next door neighbour it does convey something about someone if they take care over the way they express themselves a lot of people are turned on by this on the other hand youre absolutely right there are plenty of people on here yourself obviously included who dont care and might actually be turned off by people who use correct grammar ultimately its all about who your target audience is I don't think theres any parallel between use of grammar and amount of fun had though
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RHP User
9 years ago
MsJonesy 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Rick_Blaine' A grammar Nazi is someone who dismisses a profile because they put an apostrophe in the wrong place a person who suggests someone might employ the odd full stop within a ten sentence paragraph is just someone who doesn't like text induced headaches its similar to real life where an actual Nazi is someone who arrests someone for being Jewish not someone who arrests someone for murdering their next door neighbour it does convey something about someone if they take care over the way they express themselves a lot of people are turned on by this on the other hand youre absolutely right there are plenty of people on here yourself obviously included who dont care and might actually be turned off by people who use correct grammar ultimately its all about who your target audience is I don't think theres any parallel between use of grammar and amount of fun had though Rick, what you just did there - wow! Reading it aloud left me giddy with amusement as each word passed, and by the end, rather breathless and just a little lightheaded. ;) Well played sir! Quoting 'PoisonIV'secondly - 'ask me' on relationship status most will (and generally rightfully so) assume that means you are attached they may correctly assume it, but is it 'rightfully' assumed? I'd think if it were rightfully assumed in some cases, then the same reason it was in those cases would apply to all cases. ;) (The OP is gone, so might as well make this a fun thread - or at least "a mutually enjoyable thread full of mirth and amusement", right MsJonesy ;) )
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well said. Always enjoy what you have to say. You keep it real. We like fun. We look for the word fun. Awesome word. Happy word. Fun fun fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
or did the OP get taken by a Cougar.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Suggesting I'd be turned off by people who use correct grammar is just more ridicule/sarcasm and.plain offensive, your comment that is, and dismissing the serious nature of it. It turns many off posting on the forum (not the only reason, insert eye roll) because they struggle with grammar. Interesting that the people who liked your comment I seem to remember having strong opinions about this very subject, might have to find an old thread and bump it up 😉 the hypocrisy of my haters, aka the fun police, is quite amusing though, so they do bring me some joy 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
Right on mango 👍👌
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RHP User
8 years ago
What percentage of girls would like 2 see 2 guys blow each other - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
2456 messages lots of communication here
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