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Cuckold
July 24 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Last year Mr JJ arranged a meeting for me with a good looking young hung guy as a birthday present. We meet for coffee first , went away to discuss it all' then 2 weeks later on my birthday ' we organised to meet at a hotel.. Because we really didnt know the guy that well we agreed that Mr JJ be close by. In the next room or so we thought. Anyway' when we got to the hotel ' we found only a large main room and a very small bathroom. Mr JJ suggested he go down to the bar for a hour.. I know I was probally being over cautious but I didnt like that idea... I needed to feel safe ..Anyway' the guy didnt mind that Mr JJ be there if Mr JJ was OK with it. So it was either that way or nothing... Im glad Mr JJ agreed cause I worked myself up for this...lol..Anyway' It all went off well and my birthday gift was well received.. I didnt mind Mr JJ being there, and when I asked him later how he felt' he said as much as he enjoyed the show' he felt a lil like a intruder even though it was a hugh turn on for him..... Would I do it again. ? Id think about it... but no' watching doesnt nessasary mean a man is a cuckold.. the couple who play together' stay together.. Its give and take...
RHP User
12 years ago
One. Your profile sucks. Upgrade it (add information, not money!) and you may see responses worth more than a $2hooker. Two. Contribute... don't just jump in cold expecting all us "generous" souls to answer all your ridiculous questions. Three. "cuckolding" generally means "cheating" and is therefore hardly 'instigated' by the cuckoldee. Four. Pics. Five. History. Six. This is not a fucking charity. Seven. I speak from a position of observation... and it's in your best interests to realise that I'm actually trying to help you (in my own brutal fashion) rather than you read/me abused. I'm ok with being abused ;) from the Right person it turns me on. From the Wrong person, it just advocates my urge to stab you in the jugular. Eight. I'm going to go find topics that have some sort of depth, now. Good luck.
Paradisepair
12 years ago
As I understand it is when, usually the male, gets off on having his Hot Wife serviced either with him there, or not. We're not into it so can't otherwise comment.
RHP User
12 years ago
what century ar we in?Such an interesting word...the Shorter Oxford Dictionary definition...a man whose wife is adulterous..... not the best choice of word I think. OP Vagabonde and Ms.Velvet are correct,your profile needs some work and when you initiate a post it is always a good idea to proof read....but good on you for initiating what could be an interesting postxHugs H
Paradisepair
12 years ago
Spelling... Definitely a term for a recognized sexual kink... I doubt turkey slappings in the Oxford dictionary either...
RHP User
12 years ago
I detect some insecurities from the female sector above... Theres another post happening at the moment regarding MFM which is humming along nicely.. Same different except here ' the male steps back and allows his partner the fun. Where in the MFM post the lady getsto enjoy 2 males. ? So if he gets to watch the action and everyone is on the same page' whats the big deal ???? or are you ladies looking for something else besides the question ? No place to dump your baggage.. I have'nt read the posters profile, just the question posted.. Just my opinion Jay
RHP User
12 years ago
... rather than its historical usage is that it goes beyond just 'watching'. There's an element of dom/sub to it, that might involve bi elements like the male partner 'cleaning up' after his mistress' lover by eating her out after he's come inside her, humiliation, forcing her partner to go down on her lover etc. A more vanilla version of the kink would simply involve watching.There's often a sense of play over the fact that the male partner is unable to totally satisfy the woman sexually, and so she goes to great lengths to share just exactly how other men are satisfying her. Like a dom/sub relationship it's mutually beneficial. There's a small stream of cuckold porn out there, if you're interested. Not my scene, but that's my understanding of it.
RHP User
12 years ago
Took a bunch of bitchpills this morning and have yet to work them out of my system. I find people who start a bunch of threads, without contributing to the forums in any way, irritating. And I guess I'm just not feeling particularly charitable today. A little "over it" when it comes to takers that never give. (an overly personal, somewhat bitter statement, I know.) Also, I do find it hard to "talk to" "ask me", I have a hyperactive imagination, and holding a conversation with what appears to be a blank piece of paper is somewhat frustrating. *shrug* one of those says where I don't get out of bed as I'm not fit for human company... unfortunately for you lot, though, my phone has Internet access :P
RHP User
12 years ago
Fucking iPhone thinks it knows better than me what I want to say :P Also, my intention with the second post was to try and apologise for unecessary nastiness without taking back the message intended (which I realised upon rereading that I suck at) therefore: sorry if I offended anyone, not my intention to be offensive, my bluntness can get a bit much on a bad day and I should have chosen my words better. I do read profiles when responding to OPs, as I like to feel like I'm having a conversation with a person, not a bot. But today may have been a "hide phone from self day". Sorry.
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Vagabonde'One. Your profile sucks. Upgrade it (add information, not money!) and you may see responses worth more than a $2hooker. Two. Contribute... don't just jump in cold expecting all us "generous" souls to answer all your ridiculous questions. Three. "cuckolding" generally means "cheating" and is therefore hardly 'instigated' by the cuckoldee. Four. Pics. Five. History. Six. This is not a fucking charity. Seven. I speak from a position of observation... and it's in your best interests to realise that I'm actually trying to help you (in my own brutal fashion) rather than you read/me abused. I'm ok with being abused ;) from the Right person it turns me on. From the Wrong person, it just advocates my urge to stab you in the jugular. Eight. I'm going to go find topics that have some sort of depth, now. Good luck. Yes his profile sucks and it wont be long before he puts up a topic asking why no one responds to his overtures, but hey, have a smidgen of patience, they are only kids after all. Barely out of thier teens. . 24mfm? Honey, do yourself a favour...fill out the profile a little and post some pics. "Ask me" generally gets a big thumbs down from all. We like to window shop first!
RHP User
12 years ago
The question was not directed at one person, so if you do not wish to answer it in a formal fashion, Feel free to press the back button and check out some other forums, instead of being so selfish As to take it on yourself to become somewhat rude. The reasons there is no pic, away from home at the moment travelling, no computer and these ingenious iPhones don't allow us to upload photos, As for the ask me fill in bits, I will get around to that, besides - how does that relate to asking questions like this, is our bust or cock size, eye color, height, etc going to change someone's answer. Well obviously it has with you. Rake a break from the pc. I think you are looking to deep into it all. That is all, now I will try and read some comments from some other hopefully nice and honest people that haven't taking such an offensive reaction to the question Peaaacceeee ha ha
RHP User
12 years ago
And by the way thanks jay_me at least someone has a look at it in with a normal frame of mind Just another little bit. When you type questions/answers into yahoo do you check the profile of the person replying, personally I have not, if I did, it wouldn't change the answer either way
RHP User
12 years ago
In my experience it's usually the male who fantasises about it, I've been asked to do it by a few people but I don't get off on humiliation play, and I find most of the 'bulls' available are more like pigs.
RHP User
12 years ago
The cuckold lifestyle isnt for everyone but it works perfectly for those who are wired this way......in its basic form its where the female plays with others while the male partner remains totally faithful to her.....for us it was my hubby who suggested it & I, after thinking about it & lots of communication & research, ran with it.Cuckolding takes what is perceived as the largest threat to a marriage and turns it into something that binds a couple closer together. Cheating is a violation of trust; cuckolding is an expansion and exploration of trust.For us the fun starts with the preparation...hubby helps me bathe,shave & dress for a lover & then after the lover leaves or I come home, if I go to my lovers place, we make love passionately. If i go to my lovers place I usually phone hubby whilst having sex, which is a total turn on for everyone The hard part for us is to find guys who are comfortable & actually into it
RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you for enlightening mex Hugs H
RHP User
12 years ago
I am sure there are a million different ways this is done. And my understanding is that the fetish is all about the man watching his partner with other people and or being humiliated as well. Although I have heard of one guy who likes to direct the play while he sits back and watches. I actually stumbled on a clip last night on this very thing. Don't know how that happened. \The wife was spanking the husbands bottom and telling him how a hot guy was coming over to fuck her and he would satisfy her like he wasn't able to do. When the spunky hot dude turned up, the wife did the husband with a strapon while the hot guy filmed it and watched. And there was a bit of forced cock sucking too. NICE! Meeka xx
RHP User
12 years ago
this is an interest of mine. I am a lifestyle domme and have a number of alpha male type lovers (no power exchange), and sexually deny male submissives, so in a broad sense this was certainly a fit for me (the contemporary fetish, not in the old dictionary sense, I never intend on marrying again).Watching is not necessarily a part of it (cuckold subs are banished from actually being present in the bedroom during my liasons in my case) but the cuckold being present is certainly always an element of cuckold porn.And yes, I get begged for this by male submissives constantly, and in groups I belong to there are copious threads from men asking how they can get their gf/wife to cuckold them. Males most certainly do attempt to instigate this.And to be very very clear - I have never cheated on anyone in my life. Everything I do is completely upfront, honest, and mutually consented to.
Wild_Pagan_Love
12 years ago
Wow, some people in here need to get off the forums, and go outside for some fresh air.Yes, kinks that can be traced back to old school rituals (cuckolding, bukkake etc), tend to have a common thread of humiliation. Maybe it was a sign of the times (ie sex being thought of as 'bad') or maybe it says a lot about how terrible we once were.Either way, it is generally not a major theme of these modern day kinks (unless specifically desired). I think for this reason the more common term of 'hot wife' is used, to distance itself from its origins.Just like many things, (historical) stereotypes can damage the image of an act of free choice, which should be regarded as positive, and celebrated.
RHP User
12 years ago
Sirenx, you nailed it to tee. Makes my blood boil when i read all this crap about humiliation and fetish just because a husband allows his wife some new pleasure for no other reason but to pep up a flagging lovelife usually and only because of the familiarlarity factor that can happen in any relationship. Why is it when a considerate man or woman can think outside the square the are imeadiately labled with some cruel name ? I have friends who are so uptight when their partner even looks at another man or woman it causes them so much unhappiness its not funny. ? We spoke about the unreal expectations placed on couples in a long term relationships a few years ago and came to the conclusion its not humanly possible to maintain the excitement level our biological bodies desire. So its either batten down and reject what our body and mind is telling us, or discuss the alternatives. We choose the alternatives and we are perfectly happy. If anything, and because we can openly share our feelings, we are more content while our friends are still argueing because of what might happen. No way would i class my man as a cuckold. What a disgracefull lable...
RHP User
12 years ago
Like you Neptune I was always of the impression that it was more of a Dom/sub thing rather than a wife being adulterous. It also seems from some of the other posts that this is the more common scenario. Although I don't have any experience with these types of relationships I certainly would not turn down the offer of helping out with one of these fantasies and trying to delve further into the psychology behind it.
RHP User
12 years ago
Yes....I am a single male so obviously I think any opportunity to have sex is hot.....if that's what you think...fine. However I have been with 4 cuck cpls and I think it is definitely some of the hottest sex I have had....I don't think people should make any assumptions when it comes to cuck cpls. Each cpl was very different as to what they wanted and where their boundaries lay. I for one don't judge them, if its not for you don't do it...I don't like wearing a gimp mask and being beaten with a stick...so I don't do it....I don't however judge those who do enjoy it...each to their own.One thing which does worry me about the replies to this thread though....are some of the mean, nasty and I would say verging on bullying comments. I am pretty sure that some people think that the forum(and in some cases chat-room) are there solely for the use of themselves and those who agree with everything they say.....oh finally....any cuck cpls....just wink...I'll come running...lol
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Sirenx, you nailed it to tee. Makes my blood boil when i read all this crap about humiliation and fetish just because a husband allows his wife some new pleasure for no other reason but to pep up a flagging lovelife usually and only because of the familiarlarity factor that can happen in any relationship. Why is it when a considerate man or woman can think outside the square the are imeadiately labled with some cruel name ? ... No way would i class my man as a cuckold. What a disgracefull lable... Whoa there Nelly, steady on that high horse! I wouldn't class your man as a cuckold either, if that's what you're implying. Nobody did, except you. We're talking about our understandings of the term. MY understanding is that as a fetish thing, it's a domme/sub relationship. Oh and hey look, that font of all modern information, Wikipedia, does too! "However, a requirement for the fetish is that the cuckold is somehow humiliated, whether this is acted out to be intentional or as some sort of by-product of the situation (i.e. the parties involved are somehow too sexually aroused to stop). Therefore cuckolding usually involves acting out a story or ritual involving humiliating acts, events or circumstances; it is not simply wife-swapping, swinging or sharing a sexual partner."Further, describing something as humiliation isn't necessarily saying it's a bad thing - both parties are getting pleasure from it. It may not describe every situation, but it's certainly understood as a prominent part of what the term 'cuckolding' invokes. But of course, just like bisexual, dom/sub, swinging, whatever sexual term you like, different people have different interpretations. Mine just happens to align with the crowd-sourced wisdom of millions of geeks with nothing better to do than update Wikipedia articles.
RHP User
12 years ago
I should add, does the majority of respondents in this thread.
RHP User
12 years ago
straight from the horses mouth, and i can only talk for ourselves. Its not about any fetish, or humiliation, its about 2 people making thier own choice about what it is right for them. If i thought for one moment that was the case it wouldnt happen. But as i know my man better than any one else on this earth, your feeble wiki explaination just doesnt cut with those who know first hand. Very easy to sit back and make judgements when you never been there.
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Sirenx, you nailed it to tee. Makes my blood boil when i read all this crap about humiliation and fetish just because a husband allows his wife some new pleasure for no other reason but to pep up a flagging lovelife usually and only because of the familiarlarity factor that can happen in any relationship. Why is it when a considerate man or woman can think outside the square the are imeadiately labled with some cruel name ? I have friends who are so uptight when their partner even looks at another man or woman it causes them so much unhappiness its not funny. ? We spoke about the unreal expectations placed on couples in a long term relationships a few years ago and came to the conclusion its not humanly possible to maintain the excitement level our biological bodies desire. So its either batten down and reject what our body and mind is telling us, or discuss the alternatives. We choose the alternatives and we are perfectly happy. If anything, and because we can openly share our feelings, we are more content while our friends are still argueing because of what might happen. No way would i class my man as a cuckold. What a disgracefull lable... As with many kinds of kinks, they've borrowed an old name and put a new twist on it. Cuckold play isn't the same as what you're getting riled up about. It's something entirely different and the humiliation part is a desired thing entered into by the cuckold willingly, it's a game. They enjoy it. Their kink may not be your kink but it's still ok.Live, let live and try to keep your rants on the actual topic ;)
RHP User
12 years ago
Apolgise if it come across like that. But i felt the need to put the record staight because i know their are couples like ourself who know the truth of the matter. i realise there are people who may enjoy what ppl have suggested, but i would imagine they are the few rather than the norm..
RHP User
12 years ago
The op asked for experiences & the moral police flashed their badges..As a couple who enjoy this lifestyle we have found that it has opened many doors that we hadnt even thought of & taken us to another level as a totally devoted couple, some doors we've walked through & walked back out again because it didnt work for us, others we have absolutely reveled in, which has opened more doors.The act of hubby preparing me for a lover is so important for us because it heightens our arousal & teases our minds, building the anticipation.... the final act before he slips me into my panties is for him to taste me & bring me to the edge a few times, leaving me so hungry. So I'm like a bitch on heat by the time my lover comes over or I go to him.For us there are 3 main scenarios after I have been with a lover, 2 depend on my mood & the 3rd depends on hubbys mood1 if I'm totally exhausted & wallowing in the afterglow, hubby & I make slow intense love2 if I'm still fired up I become dominant & make hubby orally service me & worship my body before I throw him on his back & use him for my pleasure & then make him orally service me when when he is drained3 hubby dominates me by taking me anyway he chooses, spanking me for being "such a slut" while I'm made to tell him every detail of my decadent nightwe always end up entwined in our bed in blissful exhaustion & glowing for days afterI believe you can only cuckold someone you love & are in a committed relationship with & not all cuckolds are submissive...just saying
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Apolgise if it come across like that. But i felt the need to put the record staight because i know their are couples like ourself who know the truth of the matter. i realise there are people who may enjoy what ppl have suggested, but i would imagine they are the few rather than the norm.. It's still what the OP is talking about.
RHP User
12 years ago
All I need is two men to bonk me at the same time. It would make me so hot I would be beside myself Hence two of me, and one could look at the other and say ," my god, You dirty slut how could you?"
RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirenx' The cuckold lifestyle isnt for everyone but it works perfectly for those who are wired this way......in its basic form its where the female plays with others while the male partner remains totally faithful to her.....for us it was my hubby who suggested it & I, after thinking about it & lots of communication & research, ran with it.Cuckolding takes what is perceived as the largest threat to a marriage and turns it into something that binds a couple closer together. Cheating is a violation of trust; cuckolding is an expansion and exploration of trust.For us the fun starts with the preparation...hubby helps me bathe,shave & dress for a lover & then after the lover leaves or I come home, if I go to my lovers place, we make love passionately. If i go to my lovers place I usually phone hubby whilst having sex, which is a total turn on for everyone The hard part for us is to find guys who are comfortable & actually into it
Wild_Pagan_Love
12 years ago
Haha! Too funny Red :) Quoting 'tuscanred' All I need is two men to bonk me at the same time. It would make me so hot I would be beside myself Hence two of me, and one could look at the other and say ," my god, You dirty slut how could you?"
RHP User
12 years ago
you ARE something else girl.. :) Gorgeous reply..:) I omce said to a girl.. "I am going to gang fck you" She said.. "Cavey.. cavey.. how can one person.. even you.. pack fck one girl??' I replied.. "Girl.. I m going to fck you so hard and faast and for so long.. you will THINK there is a pack of cavemen doing you!!" "IT WORKED!!!" To the ORIGINAL POSTERS... "GO THE FCK FOR IT!!!" I have, and STILL do.. do it from a number of perspectives.. and love it all.... SirenX.. you Rock... If I could get with you guys... ... *siiiigh* Cavemen.. making neanderthal sessions
RHP User
11 years ago
Nice answer
RHP User
11 years ago
Sirenx
RHP User
11 years ago
is a much nicer term these days. Yes, a fascinating kink, I am very intrigued by hotwifing, and loving some of the responses. Great thread.
RHP User
11 years ago
I absolutely love it; my husband loves to watch me be used by others and to see me pleasure them. He is no wimp as some cuckolds are he is strong and fit with an amazing hard cock however gets great pleasure from watching me.
RHP User
11 years ago
i do it.. its great!!! i get to fuck anyone and my husband loves it... his bi, so he gets me, a cock to suck, cum to lick from me... and i get thr freedom to play with whoever i want when i get the urge... funny thing is, we dont do it very often because my husband pleasures me very well.... i think he get withdrawal symptons and wants me to play around... and when i do itm i love it... and the best part about it, is talking about it as we have our daily sex... me riding him talking about all the things i want to do and see him do... then once every couple of months we do it for real and that keeps us going for the next couple of months.. HOT
RHP User
11 years ago
Sirenx I love your response. I couldn't have said it better myself.
RHP User
11 years ago
with Siren X as well
RHP User
10 years ago
Gee....... some people will just never get it.
RHP User
10 years ago
oops just realised how old this thread is. Sorry.
BarbaraH
2 years ago
I’d love to cuckold my husband but not sure how to make it actually happen. I have flirted quite blatantly with a few of his friends and even let one of then lightly grope me in front of him but can’t work out his reaction.
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