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Crazy in the head - great in bed???
June 27 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ya gotta love your every day freaks I reckon.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am as sane as anyone else...you ask my doctor. l He gave me a piece of paper that says so. Just after he took me out of the wonderful white room that is so comfy when you bang your head against the wall...(it doesnt even hurt!!!!) and undid the jacket that lets me give myself great big hugs.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't know if dating two woman gives you a sufficient sample size to deduce that hypothesis. I am currently working on the theory that all men who are good in bed are players who will root anything with a hole in it. I am doing well so far. :P xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
I totally agree that crazy can and does often = hot adventurous fun filled sex. But silly crazy... not scary crazy. I think that if ur a bit silly it makes u less inhibited and more comfortable and willing to explore and experience different sexual activities. Much rather be a bit spicy than bland old vanilla.Kxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've met guys who so long as they took their medication were great to be around and great in bed. But really, I dont think mental stability has anything to do with sexual performance. A crazy person is a crazy person and a dud fuck is a dud fuck. x
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RHP User
15 years ago
So far as I'm concerned, that seems to be a theory that works no matter the gender. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Meeka100' I don't know if dating two woman gives you a sufficient sample size to deduce that hypothesis. I am currently working on the theory that all men who are good in bed are players who will root anything with a hole in it. I am doing well so far. :P xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
What about what seems a nice guy..but he is insecure in bed. Or is that just the few men I have met in Bunbury and once I tell them I like MFM.. They run !! pmsl ohhh well..ya get that. sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
So tell us when you got your psyche degree jj074? You don't get much wilder than me in the bedroom but my vanilla friends think I am a "nice lady" and have no idea what I do with my clients so that blows that theory.
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RHP User
15 years ago
level of crazy don't think has much influence of how good they are in bed, it's a lack of personality that's the problem, if a chick lacks personality then she normally lacks spark in the bedroom as well
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RHP User
15 years ago
Are you going crazy over mavericks pics yet? lololol sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
"Crazies" have more energy to expend! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
methinks this is a twist on barney's hot/crazy scale...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=agy6KOSwyA8&feature=related
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RHP User
15 years ago
They are crazy for a reason and more than only have one use in life but to make other peoples lives crazy in the process haha Rock on whackos!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi everyone, JJ074 - great thread... you've got me laughing! From a sample size of 6 (lovely beautiful girls but all different) i find it difficult to formalise a single hypothesis. But I can honestly say that I have observed: - crazy in head and boring in bed; - crazy in bed and boring in head; - boring and boring; - crazy and crazy. With this debate the notion or element of craziness is not the issue... the personality is. That's how people click isn't it? p.s. I did have the best sex ever with an absolute Rabbit Boiler... great girl though. Bit of a stressful relationship though I must be honest. But we are good friends now... gosh I miss those glorious days of intamcy with that gorgeous girl!!! Truly magical...
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RHP User
15 years ago
lady in the street, freak in the sheets??its sometimes hard to tell what someone would be like sexually just by their personality.... but not always impossible in some cases
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RHP User
15 years ago
if they switch personalities during sex, does that count as a threesome on a technicality? will take it in that case.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Finch made a comment like that in an episode of "Just Shoot Me". Let me state the obvious and say that women with post-traumatic stre a doona, ss disorder from rape or sexual assault generally don't make good sexual partners. Any anxiety disorder is going to be problematic but with PTSD anything similar to the incident can trigger a flashback... which is a real mood killer. Not to mention the danger of getting one's eyes gouged out. Women who have body image problems tend to be very shy and reserved in bed and have got to do anything in total darkness, under the cover of a doona, and constantly apologise for being "fat" or "ugly". *sigh* . Depression tends not to be very sexy either. Loss of libido is one of the symptoms, not to mention losing enthusiasm for things someone previously found enjoyable and having no energy to do things. A woman I know who had an FB being treated for psychosis said he was a good lay but the medications stopped him from being able to orgasm most of the time. Then his behaviour outside of the bedroom started to go downhill and lead to the ending of the arrangement, . Let's see, anxiety disorders, mood disorders, psychotic disorders - well I've mentioned the major three folks are likely to encounter. If we're talking about "crazy" as just odd as opposed to mentally ill, well, there's much less treatment options available so you're taking a hell of a risk.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'bornagain_evil' if they switch personalities during sex, does that count as a threesome on a technicality? will take it in that case.Multiple personalities tend to be very different. If the promiscuous one who is having sex with you "changes" it'd likely be a protective, anti-sex personality that emerges instead. All of a sudden she'd push you off her and start screaming, "Get out you bastard, I'll never let you touch her again!" Different to the threesomes I've heard about.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Butterfingers - 'We like em when they're trouble'.... old, but funny clip...lol!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Have had mates recount this exact same philosophy, but have no first hand experience of crazy chicks. If I thought they were a bit unhinged I would avoid them personally.I disagree though that you have to be crazy to be good in bed.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
haha! Well... as a guest I can't see them... but using you as my always faithful radar of all things hot and hard, I think I should go crazy over that thing!Hugsstalky Quoting 'sweetpetite41' Are you going crazy over mavericks pics yet? lololol sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Slippers, can we please avoid making ridiculous and insulting generalisations... It's difficult enough to manage, really... and I think you're wrong for the most part, as trauma is managed differently from one person to the next. People have an amazing capacity to protect themselves from trauma but becoming a frigid bitch is not always or even usually one of them.In any case, brilliantly creative people are often accused of being crazy. Give me a brilliantly creative lover any day.HugsStalky Quoting 'slippery_halo' Finch made a comment like that in an episode of "Just Shoot Me". Let me state the obvious and say that women with post-traumatic stre a doona, ss disorder from rape or sexual assault generally don't make good sexual partners. Any anxiety disorder is going to be problematic but with PTSD anything similar to the incident can trigger a flashback... which is a real mood killer. Not to mention the danger of getting one's eyes gouged out.................... etc
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Slippers, can we please avoid making ridiculous and insulting generalisations... It's difficult enough to manage, really... and I think you're wrong for the most part, as trauma is managed differently from one person to the next. People have an amazing capacity to protect themselves from trauma but becoming a frigid bitch is not always or even usually one of them.In any case, brilliantly creative people are often accused of being crazy. Give me a brilliantly creative lover any day.HugsStalky Thanks Stalky you took the words right out of my mouth! I also think that Slippers has no idea what he is talking about ! xFunlovingx Quoting 'slippery_halo' Finch made a comment like that in an episode of "Just Shoot Me". Let me state the obvious and say that women with post-traumatic stre a doona, ss disorder from rape or sexual assault generally don't make good sexual partners. Any anxiety disorder is going to be problematic but with PTSD anything similar to the incident can trigger a flashback... which is a real mood killer. Not to mention the danger of getting one's eyes gouged out.................... etc
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RHP User
15 years ago
it is a generalisation...... Quoting 'slippery_halo' Finch made a comment like that in an episode of "Just Shoot Me". Let me state the obvious and say that women with post-traumatic stre a doona, ss disorder from rape or sexual assault generally don't make good sexual partners. Any anxiety disorder is going to be problematic but with PTSD anything similar to the incident can trigger a flashback... which is a real mood killer. Not to mention the danger of getting one's eyes gouged out. Women who have body image problems tend to be very shy and reserved in bed and have got to do anything in total darkness, under the cover of a doona, and constantly apologise for being "fat" or "ugly". *sigh* . Depression tends not to be very sexy either. Loss of libido is one of the symptoms, not to mention losing enthusiasm for things someone previously found enjoyable and having no energy to do things. A woman I know who had an FB being treated for psychosis said he was a good lay but the medications stopped him from being able to orgasm most of the time. Then his behaviour outside of the bedroom started to go downhill and lead to the ending of the arrangement, . Let's see, anxiety disorders, yup, i get that when l go for the grope and and find a weiner or lots of hair ( l loath the dentist and fur balls) mood disorders, damn i had to much to drink and im feeling really really frisky, you lucky bastard, psychotic disorders , yeah l get those also when they don't put out like their profile says well I've mentioned the major three folks are likely to encounter. If we're talking about "crazy" as just odd as opposed to mentally ill, well, there's much less treatment options available so you're taking a hell of a risk.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not to get too revealing, Stalky and Funloving, but I am speaking out of experience here. I would go out on a limb and say that people with PTSD from a sexual assault are probably not the best candidates for casual sex partners. In the same way that the guy who's a sober alcoholic isn't a good drinking buddy. If they've overcome it, Stalky, well that's a different thing. I've met some folks who haven't overcome it. I didn't mean to suggest it will be the case for all of those people, which is why I said "tend". I think it is an observable tendency and a fair statement. Especially in a discussion which is mostly taking the mickey anyway. . Funloving, I've had a lot of training and personal experience in issues of mental health. I also was in danger of losing my eyes in the manner described. You're entitled to think what you like of what I say and often I don't know what I'm talking about. In this case I think I do.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Halo, Look at the stats as well hun - you my find promiscuios and or assulted girls are the most outgoing and creative lovers around. xxx sin Quoting 'stalky'Slippers, can we please avoid making ridiculous and insulting generalisations... It's difficult enough to manage, really... and I think you're wrong for the most part, as trauma is managed differently from one person to the next. People have an amazing capacity to protect themselves from trauma but becoming a frigid bitch is not always or even usually one of them.In any case, brilliantly creative people are often accused of being crazy. Give me a brilliantly creative lover any day.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dont bother Funloving.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Not to get too revealing, Stalky and Funloving, but I am speaking out of experience here. I would go out on a limb and say that people with PTSD from a sexual assault are probably not the best candidates for casual sex partners. In the same way that the guy who's a sober alcoholic isn't a good drinking buddy. If they've overcome it, Stalky, well that's a different thing. I've met some folks who haven't overcome it. I didn't mean to suggest it will be the case for all of those people, which is why I said "tend". I think it is an observable tendency and a fair statement. Especially in a discussion which is mostly taking the mickey anyway. . Funloving, I've had a lot of training and personal experience in issues of mental health. I also was in danger of losing my eyes in the manner described. You're entitled to think what you like of what I say and often I don't know what I'm talking about. In this case I think I do. Learning out of a book does not give you experience no matter how many years you do it for! Neither does living with someone who has a mental health disorder make you an expert on what it is like to live WITH it! You are 100% wrong in your theory on sexual assault survivors...If you haven't been there...you have no right to say how we feel/don't feel! Never have I had a "flash back" while being with someone..BUT...if I was with a guy when I wasn't enjoying what he was doing and had to say NO or OUCH more than once...my oath I would go to gouge his eye (and his balls) out to make him stop! This has nothing to do with what happened in my past...this is dealing with a dickhead in the now that doesn't know or understand the word NO or OUCH! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Dont bother Funloving.HugsStalky Wish I didn't....oh well! Hugs right back at ya gorgeous xox
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just from personal experience slippers, of the several thousand casual sex partners I may have or not have had in the last 50 years, who can count, I doubt any of them would know one way or the other, if I'm a sober alcoholic.HugsS Quoting 'slippery_halo' Not to get too revealing, Stalky and Funloving, but I am speaking out of experience here. I would go out on a limb and say that people with PTSD from a sexual assault are probably not the best candidates for casual sex partners. In the same way that the guy who's a sober alcoholic isn't a good drinking buddy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You're not the only one Funloving. Maybe I should've kept this thread as the lighthearted and funny, if irreverent, way it was. I'm sorry that you heard me say a generalisation about all survivors of sexual assault. That's not what I meant to do. Please note that I am specifically talking about medically diagnosed PTSD. Not all survivors of sexual assault develop PTSD, so I'm not trying to say that all survivors will have flashbacks. Flashbacks are, however, a symptom of PTSD. So it's more fair to say that people who have PTSD because of sexual assaults are highly likely to experience flashbacks in otherwise completely okay sexual situations. Since you don't have PTSD, FunLoving, I did not mean to make any sort of comment about your experience. So I apologise for being unintentionally offensive. I could have been more clear. It didn't help that in my initial post the word "doona" inserted itself when I first tried to type PTSD out the long way... . So, to clarify, it's only people with PTSD from sexual assaults who are in danger of flashbacks during sex, not all survivors of sexual assaults in general. In the same way that only war veterans with PTSD might get a flashback when they hear a helicopter flying overhead, not all war veterans in general - who have experienced the same trauma but not developed PTSD.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Just from personal experience slippers, of the several thousand casual sex partners I may have or not have had in the last 50 years, who can count, I doubt any of them would know one way or the other, if I'm a sober alcoholic.HugsS Quoting 'slippery_halo' Not to get too revealing, Stalky and Funloving, but I am speaking out of experience here. I would go out on a limb and say that people with PTSD from a sexual assault are probably not the best candidates for casual sex partners. In the same way that the guy who's a sober alcoholic isn't a good drinking buddy. Stalky you missed what I was trying to say. I was using the sober alcoholic as a drinking buddy as an analogy, not about sexual partners. A sober alcoholic has a problem with alcohol and as such I wouldn't invite one to come out on a night of drinking. If I did and they did drink, they'd be likely to have a bad experience. That was what I was trying to compare with someone who has PTSD from a sexual assault. I'm not going invite them to have a sexual experience with me because of the high likelihood it'll go badly wrong.
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RHP User
15 years ago
So you had an experience. My point is simple. It's difficult enough to manage, but really trauma is managed differently from one person to the next. You are most probably unlikely to ever know that your casual lover has ever been raped. HugsStalky Quoting 'slippery_halo' Let me state the obvious and say that women with post-traumatic stre a doona, ss disorder from rape or sexual assault generally don't make good sexual partners. Any anxiety disorder is going to be problematic but with PTSD anything similar to the incident can trigger a flashback... Quoting 'slippery_halo' I would go out on a limb and say that people with PTSD from a sexual assault are probably not the best candidates for casual sex partners. Quoting 'slippery_halo' I'm not going invite them to have a sexual experience with me because of the high likelihood it'll go badly wrong.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I will stop Stalky because obviously I'm unintentionally being offensive around what I know is a very emotive issue. I could have been more careful. I'm also finding it unusually difficult to be understood. So before I stop replying to y'all for the moment in this thread I will try one last time to explain that I am talking about someone with PTSD from sexual assault only, not people who have been sexually assaulted and have not developed PTSD. My sober alcoholic analogy didn't go so well. I'm yet to hear if I've offended any war veterans. I'll go for the trifecta. I could make a comment about smokers who have developed emphysema by describing a symptom of that illness- shortness of breath. Then I could say that I would not invite a smoker who has developed emphysema to be my jogging buddy because of the high likelihood they wouldn't have enough air to go jogging safely. That will be true of someone with emphysema only, not all smokers develop emphysema. A close friend is a smoker, does not have emphysema, and is significantly more fit than me, she could jog me under the table. I would have sex with someone who has been raped if she wants to and the situation is right but I will not be doing anything sexual with someone who is currently suffering from PTSD as a result of rape. . The topic was about "crazy" (which is a pejorative word I wouldn't use) people being good at sex and that hasn't been my experience and doesn't sit with the logic. I mentioned PTSD as one specific mental illness that can be bad for sexuality. I understand that not all people who experience rape develop the mental illness PTSD and therefore not all women who have been raped will flashback during the event. Again I apologise for any hurt or offense I may have unintentionally caused. . Slip out for now.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo' Again I apologise for any hurt or offense I may have unintentionally caused. Well, I got it and I certainly didn't find it offensive. I have no experience with these matters so don't have an opinion as to the veracity of your points, but I thought you presented them reasonably. Maybe there's some subtext to this situation that not everyone is aware of? Either way, leaving it alone seems wise.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Slip. Not all people who have been raped seek to be clinically diagnosed... I'm only guessing that a majority attempt to deal with it themselves in their own way. On flashbacks.. not everyone has flashbacks even if they do have PTSD.... and if you happen to get flashbacks they don't have to occur during intercourse.. they could happen at any time... in the middle of sleep for instance... and maybe never during intercourse.... maybe your mind just blocks the whole thing out anyway and you don't remember a thing... that's still PTSD... it may not make you any less appealing as a casual lover.... but thanks for taking my objections so lightly with your smoking jibe there... apology accepted.The OP's question.... about how crazy bitches are more fun in bed... didn't necessarily have anything to do with a diagnosed mental illnesses... least I didn't think so... I thought he was saying that people who are out there.. outragious couldn't care less kind of people are freaks in bed.... whereas the more reserved personality types tend to be more reserved in bed. I think that's an interesting call... I'm looking for examples in the accounts department rather than the art department that are outragious lovers.... applications close end of July.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm dead set bonkers! A fantastic root too!Err... not the right place to advertise myself??
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RHP User
14 years ago
The ones I date are usually nucking futs and lots of fun
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