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Crash landing from Cloud-9: How do you manage it?
October 19 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
In the fact that you have feelings and can still feel that way "better to have loved and lost than to have never loved"There are some hard people out there M&F, scarred, cynical and mercenary, be thankful you're not one of them.Feelings like that scare the shit out of me, but I think in my heart of hearts I would like to feel them again and be comfortable with it, to be a whole person again, all in good time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Best advice I can give is to throw yourself in deep... no wider.I suspect you are infatuated with the freedom rather than the specific person. I mean, transplant this person into your life with your responsibilities and do you think it would be all roses?I wise person once said 'Even the best lumberjack needs time off to sharpen his axe', and you apparently had yours well and truly sharpened. ;)So do it again. Book your ticket to Sydney, broaden your sexual horizons and look us up.Is it obvious I composed this after seeing your pics?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '50zcool'In the fact that you have feelings and can still feel that way "better to have loved and lost than to have never loved" There are some hard people out there M&F, scarred, cynical and mercenary, be thankful you're not one of them. Feelings like that scare the shit out of me, but I think in my heart of hearts I would like to feel them again and be comfortable with it, to be a whole person again, all in good time.I frighten myself because of how easy I let myself fall hard and fast. It never ends well and I never learn... I'm so full of love and affection and want so desperately to offload my overfill - i know it sounds daggy and stupid and clingy etc but I know what when I love someone they'll have never felt more wanted and loved in their entire life. I guess I'm a bit too much to handle..? Blah!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you sure you aren't getting lust confused with love? If I was you I would tell him that you are keen to see him again and see what he says. If he implies that it was a one off or is only interested in sex than yes cut all ties. I am sure you will forget him soon enough. Good luck! xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is to know you're alive.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'triunity'Best advice I can give is to throw yourself in deep... no wider. I suspect you are infatuated with the freedom rather than the specific person. I mean, transplant this person into your life with your responsibilities and do you think it would be all roses? I wise person once said 'Even the best lumberjack needs time off to sharpen his axe', and you apparently had yours well and truly sharpened. ;) So do it again. Book your ticket to Sydney, broaden your sexual horizons and look us up. Is it obvious I composed this after seeing your pics? My axe was WELL and truly sharpened... several times in fact I'd fly back this weekend if he'd let me! I throw myself in deep every time, I just don't know what compells me to do it with men who I already know I can't have. Sheer stupidity, hopeless and incurable romantic with a high sex drive. I seek comfort in outlets where I know the chance of having and keeping a relationship is all but impossible, given the circumstances, hence why I feel like a self-masochist.If he were to step into my world, he'd shrink and shrivel. He's not ready for it. All I could ever hope for is that if it's really meant to happen that our paths cross again and things are different.
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RHP User
13 years ago
was very similar to this, however it was just because we were caught up in the 'new experience' of it all.The lust, the surroundings, the freedom of no children, the being adults and enjoying ourselves!I'd definitely see if he's interested in another meet-up, otherwise, move on and find another who's willing to take you away to far away places!!!! Mrs C x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Are you sure you aren't getting lust confused with love? If I was you I would tell him that you are keen to see him again and see what he says. If he implies that it was a one off or is only interested in sex than yes cut all ties. I am sure you will forget him soon enough. Good luck! xx I know I'm lusting HARD over him, but I think the way the weekend panned out was something I'll have a hard time forgettign or ever wanting to forget. We've discussed catching up again... I'm not sure if it'll happen or not, but I hope it does. Love for me is so intrinsically tied to lust, but I do know that the 'feelings' I have for him are irrational and lingering from the way i felt in his arms. I will stop feeling it soon enough but I wont forget him. ever.
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RHP User
13 years ago
someone wisely asked the question...are you sure, it's not just lust?...when somebody REALLY knows, how to rock your boat...you can have seriously addictive hormones, flooding your body...Endorphin...Oxytocin...just to mention a few...pair that with amazing vibes and connection...and you have just created, that "cloud 9" feeling, you were talking about...but give it a few days...a week...and those hormones have faded away...so i'd say, sleep on it...wait a while...and if in a few weeks time, you still feel the same...well...then go and find out, how he feels...
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RHP User
13 years ago
^ what that trucker said.
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RHP User
13 years ago
honeybee,is a magic word,you were brave enough to take a leap of faith, to spread your honeybee wings ,that was all part of the rapture.A wise friend once told me...''you can have a meaningful relationship with a stranger in just half an hour and a meaningless relationship with someone for a whole lifetime''. Maybe you will see this man again,maybe you wont,but appreciate that you had the courage to live in that moment.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have too, had experienced, the "cloud 9" feeling, in the past...and yes, it is an amazing feeling...you feel as high, as a kite...have a far away look, in your eyes...and a stupid grin, on your face, for days to come...replaying, the experience, in your mind...again and again...remembering new details, every time...i know...but in my case, i KNEW it was only LUST!as i am married... very much in love, with my husband...and would never have, romantic feelings, towards anyone else....hence i wasn't confused, about what i was feeling...so i am just saying....just because you feel these strong emotions, towards him, now...it doesn't mean, that these emotions are romantic in nature...it could be just gratitude, for the amazing times...desire and lust, to do it again.... to feel those sensations again...to feel that "high" again...i am not saying, that that is all, your feelings are...i am just saying, that they could be
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' honeybee,is a magic word,you were brave enough to take a leap of faith, to spread your honeybee wings ,that was all part of the rapture.A wise friend once told me...''you can have a meaningful relationship with a stranger in just half an hour and a meaningless relationship with someone for a whole lifetime''. Maybe you will see this man again,maybe you wont,but appreciate that you had the courage to live in that moment.x RMiss Freya, I always find comfort in your forum posts, I find your wisdom something very special and I hope to have even a 10th of yours when I grow up :) xoxo
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'sensualtimestoo' when somebody REALLY knows, how to rock your boat... you can have seriously addictive hormones, flooding your body... Endorphin...Oxytocin...just to mention a few... pair that with amazing vibes and connection... and you have just created, that "cloud 9" feeling, you were talking about... but give it a few days...a week...and those hormones have faded away... so i'd say, sleep on it...wait a while... and if in a few weeks time, you still feel the same... well...then go and find out, how he feels...I hope so, if I feel like this every day for another week I'll end up in a padded cell. It's off the charts and starting to drive me batty. I've never felt this level of lust and desire for anyone before - perhaps that's what's messing with my head more than anything... aaah, time will tell.Unfortunately there is no point in finding out how he feels, he's moving o/s so it's irrelevant :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
We strive towards what is forbidden and always desire things that are denied us...Ovid And is there any greater or keener pleasure than sensual love?No nor a madder.....Plato Such a roller coaster ride honeybee,and thank you for your kind wordsx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nogh said :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Next to being married, a girl likes to be crossed in love a little now and then". Jane Austin Pride & Predjudice
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RHP User
13 years ago
the fall from Cloud-9 is done and dusted. Get back on the horse, I say!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Are you sure you aren't getting lust confused with love? If I was you I would tell him that you are keen to see him again and see what he says. If he implies that it was a one off or is only interested in sex than yes cut all ties. I am sure you will forget him soon enough. Good luck! xx As usual, pearls of wisdome from the wise.
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RHP User
13 years ago
With a married man, a qantas pilot. We would stay at the Hyatt, when he came over , the honey comb we called it. It was half a year of romace, lust, and yes love but it was not the hard yards of relationships. Those sweet encounters, are lovely and something never to forget. Carry the memory in your heart, and some days it will just sit at the corner of a smile as you remember Every person needs a secret smile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' With a married man, a qantas pilot. We would stay at the Hyatt, when he came over , the honey comb we called it. It was half a year of romace, lust, and yes love but it was not the hard yards of relationships. Those sweet encounters, are lovely and something never to forget. Carry the memory in your heart, and some days it will just sit at the corner of a smile as you remember Every person needs a secret smile I'll get there, I'd just prefer it to be without the stinging tears that well up in my eyes too (because I feel like a fool more anything else). But that secret smile will come. One day. I look forward to it. I also look forward to the day that a reminder of him doesnt punch me square in the face everyday... i.e. walked past a guy at the local shops the day after I got home who wore the same cologne, I nearly hit him with my trolley! haha Thank you, between you and Freya I feel like I have some very sound advice xo
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'You know.... you'd think Id remember that weekend..... But seriously.... Just enjoy the warmth of endorphins, miss honeybee. Hopefully, mr "next" raises the bar higher still..... DG I'd never let a man forget my name! I try not to go the "fucking typical men" route, but in this case I kind of feel like it's deserved. I *HATE* mindgames, hate hate hate. Life is too short for that shit. Mr. Next... hmmm, maybe I should venture the Miss. next path...? We'll see!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love what freya said....Don't feel stupid, you're human and opened yourself up and enjoyed. But the trick is to enjoy it for that and be happy that you had the opportunity to enjoy 3 days of bliss. It doesn't have to be any more to be wonderful. Minxy x Just off my cloud 9:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dont we all love it when a connection is so great it takes your breath away and part of your heart. Use the memory as something that was great and something that u will treasure. There are more men out there that can do the same for u, but like a wise lady told me once u have to kiss a few frogs first.Its nice to runaway from our normal lives and have some awesome fun without responsibilities. But thats part of what makes it so good. The two dont mix reality and our other sexual selves.Put a smile on your face and find a awesome man closer to home that u can see more readily.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'honeybee0086' the fall from Cloud-9 is done and dusted. Get back on the horse, I say! Giddy up !
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RHP User
13 years ago
when he rings again and he will. Go have another beautiful weekend on cloud nine. Most married people don't even experience cloud nine. My buddies and I cherish the moments we are together,when that door closes until the next time we may share a phone call or messages,but hey when we are together it is amazing. My favourite word is Next! I am assumming you can't have this man as he has a partener,well you too can have more then 1 friend.just enjoy the cloud when they sale past and smile you had a great weekend. P.S, i am speaking from my experiences and am just happy with me atm.
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RHP User
13 years ago
hey gorgeous bee.......just come out and have a fun night sat and keep looking forward. Always remember that wonderful weekend and if u happen to be feeling down.........take yourself back there and smille J x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'teasegoddess' when he rings again and he will. Go have another beautiful weekend on cloud nine. Most married people don't even experience cloud nine. My buddies and I cherish the moments we are together,when that door closes until the next time we may share a phone call or messages,but hey when we are together it is amazing. My favourite word is Next! I am assumming you can't have this man as he has a partener,well you too can have more then 1 friend.just enjoy the cloud when they sale past and smile you had a great weekend. P.S, i am speaking from my experiences and am just happy with me atm. He's moving overseas, I have kids, blah blah blah. I know and accept his reasons. There's a chance we'll meet up again but if we do, ZERO romance. lol - lesson learnt!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know exactly what this site is about so no illusions that it is anything but a little fun, with that in mind then there is no expectactions for more but if there is then it is a bonus for you. Perhaps what you are experiencing is the freedom that you had but bear in mind you do have responsibilities the reality of it all but if you can have those stolen moments from time to time it makes life a lot more fun.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Enjoy it for what it was - a break from your normal reality.Don't be too hard on yourself. You are lucky for getting that giddy/cloud 9 feeling - not everyone gets to experience this. Bank this experience for the time when you need to smile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'diwata'Enjoy it for what it was - a break from your normal reality. Don't be too hard on yourself. You are lucky for getting that giddy/cloud 9 feeling - not everyone gets to experience this. Bank this experience for the time when you need to smile.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a single dad myself I completely understand going gaga over someone who takes your mind (and body) away from the "mundane" regimented life we often lead. I have had the cloud 9 thing once and once. But that's a story for another day. Be glad you can still feel that way, now go chase it with whomever you desire, and that is the best part, it is all about YOUR desire. Have fun ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
A tender heart for love or maybe lust, can lead us to all sorts of adventures!! There is a time to enjoy the ride and then there is time to reflect and focus on the "real thing"! I am embarrassed to say that I have had similar adventures, both interstate and overseas......given that my heart is open most of the time (like you honeybee) !! Falling from great euphoric heights made me learn that, whilst the passion was out of this world, it just wasn't the complete "real love thing" that some of us truly desire. I want to share .....that as a man, or as a person, I feel similar to you and have similar qualities, but I know "the one" I am meant to match with (in more ways than one) hasn't crossed my path yet!! That is exciting too! It is exciting because I enjoy the journey in the meantime, which helps me get back on the horse each time! lol. :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'AdelaideFrolics' hey gorgeous bee.......just come out and have a fun night sat and keep looking forward. Always remember that wonderful weekend and if u happen to be feeling down.........take yourself back there and smille J xI'm pretty excited to be honest, this will be my first one. Any tips? lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
HoneyBee,You seem to be a very sensuous and giving person with a lust for what can only be describes as 'life' in the fullest meaning of the word.Live and let live - have and let have - bee and let bee ;)My 'motto' can also be taken as a mission statement for the way I live my life also.I too was in a similar situation - but in reverse.A lovely lady with whom I'd have a few meets with ended up in a very passionate time with me and the 'moment' was quite special - all day and night :)I liked her - a lot. She was such a breath of fresh air. She on the other hand fell for me. HARD!Our following conversations were more of a battle of how we were goign to see each other again and continue these passionate interludes and how the HELL she was going to "hold back (her) feelings" towards me.Now I'm not blowing my trumpet here, but our meet was spectacular. Problem was simply that she was confusing her feelings with lust - right? WRONG! This poor woman (and I only found out later) had such a 'thing' for me that my poor excuse of a brain took it as being something that happened and had to accept it for what it was - a great time.We had a couple of meets after - and they were just as spectacular - but they had to stop VERY quickly. You see, she was married to a very nice guy - a swinger couple - so all was good with him that I was playing with her until the day he came across a txt she didn't send to me but was in the process of finishing it. This txt was a complete heart-pour about the way she felt for me and what she would do to have me due to the "fantastic, explosive, heart exploding" feelings she had for me - her words.Hubby was NOT happy to say the least BUT he was very civil about it and a real gentleman - as was I - especially when we both found out that she would leave her husband to be with me if I so wanted. The marriage was obviously not in a good state of affairs I guessed.We were facebook friends, friends on here rhp and on adult friend finder. This was something that could NEVER be and we BOTH agreed that it could NOT happen unless we BOTH felt the same. I didn't.Ultimately, we broke off contact in every context. No calls, txt, messages on facebook, rhp or aff, and certainly no more meets let alone any sex.So I guess the moral of the story (at least for me) before I write an entire encylopaedic edition here, is simply this (as miss freya put so perfectly) ..."Maybe you will see this man again,maybe you wont,but appreciate that you had the courage to live in that moment."Roy xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just one tip HoneyBee - JUST BE YOUYou are amazing enough on your own without having to take on any other 'tips' with you :)Roy xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honeybee....you have so much to offer!! Your vital qualities will shine, so have LOTS OF FUN exploring! LOL. Those who come into your path, will be enriched in many ways! :-) G x
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Has this man contacted you since the weekend you had together. Sometimes it is better to have had 5mins of something special, then a lifetime of nothing!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Knight_of_Heat' Honeybee....you have so much to offer!! Your vital qualities will shine, so have LOTS OF FUN exploring! LOL. Those who come into your path, will be enriched in many ways! :-) G x Thank you :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'CheekyArses'Has this man contacted you since the weekend you had together. Sometimes it is better to have had 5mins of something special, then a lifetime of nothing! We've hashed it out. It's all sorted with him and we shall remain in contact. I think the giddy and lusty chemicals/hormones coarsing through my veins made me see and feel things which weren't there. I am more than happy to have him in my life as a friend (and I do believe we'll stay friends) than not at all. Weighing up the pro's and con's etc etc, I want him around. Funny how a week later, today I looked at my watch and realised that rought this time a week ago we were being attacked by the most terrifying seagulls ever... not once but at least 3 times! haha Those endorphines are nasty and nice all at the same time and without them clouding my judgement I can see our magical weekend for what it was and am now fondly looking back at it and getting tingles in all the right places ;) And I LOVE what the ever lovely Freya said: ''you can have a meaningful relationship with a stranger in just half an hour and a meaningless relationship with someone for a whole lifetime''. I've now done both by the tender age of 26...
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RHP User
13 years ago
we fall for what we dont know and what is new to us.. this might not be th‚e most sensitive thing to say, but if you were to hook up and do the happily ever after, you would loose interest.. routine, bad habbits, not seeing eye to eye, bills, work etc.. if you want to forget about him, hook up with someone else. not sensible, but works. all the best :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mrs FL here. I have tears in my eyes after reading your post. I've also read your "updates" and you seem to be rationalising everything in your mind. I am a hopeless romantic. Hopeless! I wear my heart on my sleeve in all aspects of my life and I experience wonderful highs and unspeakably horrible lows. However nothing changes my eternal optimism. I would rather live like this than stifle my emotions and feelings. I read your profile and you just sound so gorgeous. So deserving of meeting someone amazing. And it sounds like you did! And how wonderful you are going to have that memory with you for the rest of your life. Maybe the two of you will create some more amazing memories too ..... who knows! Life is so short, somehow I blinked and more than half my life is now over. And I don't feel like I've even barely begun. Continue to live life to the full, enjoy what you can and somehow develop some strategies to cope with the crash you've identified. Personally I wish Cloud 9 was located a bit closer to the ground as I've had several falls off it myself. Damned bruises and bumps lol! As I said, I wish I could give you a hug. Yes you are emotional but in reading your posts you are also very logical and analytical when needed, so draw on these strengths. Personally I wish he was "the guy" for you. I wish he'd feel the same about you and somehow you could work out a great future together. If you continue on sites such as this I guess you expose yourself to the roller coaster of emotions potentially again and again. I haven't ever been on the other sort, the "relationship" ones, so don't know if it would be more comfortable for you on there or not. I think just continue being you. If the guy you discuss in your post doesn't turn out to be "the one" I have a weird feeling that one of the gorgeous guys who have read your post and maybe even replied just could be an option!!! Not sure why I feel that, apart from the fact that a brave action such as your post deserves to be rewarded. So hugs from another shorty and best wishes! Love Mrs FL xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why is it when you hook up with a women in which it has been understood by both just to be a little bit of fun, to then have the woman become all needy????? Did she lie right from the begining? Does this woman think she doesnt deserve a mans love and therefore pretends that she is just after something casual? Or is the guy just amazing?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am so happy that you had a soft landing and that you shared your journey with us....I think you touched many hearts including mine sweet bee.May you have many more adventures of the heartx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Axiom possum?Emotions sometimes get the better of us,that is what makes us human.Have you never had that experience,the unexpected full force of someone elses charm?It usually doesn't happen in an hours casual sex granted,but when you orgasim many times,and sleep...I do mean sleep...with someone, that can be a powerfull punch. And the man,I can only guess from a few hints she has given but if it is who I think it is,special,hell yeah.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'axiom28' Why is it when you hook up with a women in which it has been understood by both just to be a little bit of fun, to then have the woman become all needy????? Did she lie right from the begining? Does this woman think she doesnt deserve a mans love and therefore pretends that she is just after something casual? Or is the guy just amazing? Of which are much more personal and intentionally left out; because they are not my factors to discuss and those of which that are mine are VERY personal. The guy this is about has been watching this thread and I love that he has been able to talk to me personally about it. Fact is, I'm going through a VERY rough time. I thought I might have been capable of just having a wonderful weekend without getting all "needy" To be fair, I don't think I became NEEDY - I just saw things in my mind that weren't there and chose to publicy deal with the hideous low I felt after such an utterly amazing high. And yes, he IS amazing, absolutely fan-fucking-tastically amazing! He obviously knows what I think of him but as my posts above have mentioned, I have swiftly come down and realised that I would prefer to remain friends than not have him in my life at all. Confusing lust and an exorbitant amount of endorphines and other yummy brain chemicals flowing freely through my body caused my "neediness". Anyway - as I said previously, Mr Amazing and I have discussed at length what happened and we are both satisfied with the outcome. I hope one day soon I get to ravish him again, yesss that would be delightful :) This time I know what it is and won't be caught off guard by myself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ForeverLovers' Mrs FL here. I have tears in my eyes after reading your post. I've also read your "updates" and you seem to be rationalising everything in your mind. I am a hopeless romantic. Hopeless! I wear my heart on my sleeve in all aspects of my life and I experience wonderful highs and unspeakably horrible lows. However nothing changes my eternal optimism. I would rather live like this than stifle my emotions and feelings. I read your profile and you just sound so gorgeous. So deserving of meeting someone amazing. And it sounds like you did! And how wonderful you are going to have that memory with you for the rest of your life. Maybe the two of you will create some more amazing memories too ..... who knows! Life is so short, somehow I blinked and more than half my life is now over. And I don't feel like I've even barely begun. Continue to live life to the full, enjoy what you can and somehow develop some strategies to cope with the crash you've identified. Personally I wish Cloud 9 was located a bit closer to the ground as I've had several falls off it myself. Damned bruises and bumps lol! As I said, I wish I could give you a hug. Yes you are emotional but in reading your posts you are also very logical and analytical when needed, so draw on these strengths. Personally I wish he was "the guy" for you. I wish he'd feel the same about you and somehow you could work out a great future together. If you continue on sites such as this I guess you expose yourself to the roller coaster of emotions potentially again and again. I haven't ever been on the other sort, the "relationship" ones, so don't know if it would be more comfortable for you on there or not. I think just continue being you. If the guy you discuss in your post doesn't turn out to be "the one" I have a weird feeling that one of the gorgeous guys who have read your post and maybe even replied just could be an option!!! Not sure why I feel that, apart from the fact that a brave action such as your post deserves to be rewarded. So hugs from another shorty and best wishes! Love Mrs FL xxx I'm taking your hugs mrs FL, I do love a good cuddle :) Thank you for such kind words! It's nice to be heard and appreciated. I fear that I too will "experience wonderful highs and unspeakably horrible lows" throughout my life, as I already seemto be. I don't want to change or be cynical. I'm already too jaded about love as it is; one day I'll find it again. I doubt very much with this guy, but who knows. Never say never right? :) I am ever the optimist and it gets me in trouble frequently, but I see unhappy cynics and think "what kind of life could that be?" Surely not very fulfilling. Big hugs to you too, Miss Bee
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'I am so happy that you had a soft landing and that you shared your journey with us....I think you touched many hearts including mine sweet bee.May you have many more adventures of the heartx R Is you dear Freya <3 Such sweet words, always sound and wise advice and never an ounce of undue judgment in your replies. My adventures will surely be posted about from time to time! Big hugs to you xo
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont really know. Havent landed yet but its only been ten years.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' Axiom possum?Emotions sometimes get the better of us,that is what makes us human.Have you never had that experience,the unexpected full force of someone elses charm?It usually doesn't happen in an hours casual sex granted,but when you orgasim many times,and sleep...I do mean sleep...with someone, that can be a powerfull punch. And the man,I can only guess from a few hints she has given but if it is who I think it is,special,hell yeah.x R Thank you again :) yes, sleeping side by side with someone sure does change the dynamics of a weekend long raunchy romp. I spent 3 nights in his bed. And his charm, oh MY does the man have some serious game going on. YOU'D probably fall for him too, Axiom, if you met him and felt the full force of his charm and gravity... haha! How's THAT for a validation babe? I'll stop now though, because it makes me look silly. Anyway my point has been made time and time again. I've landed somewhat disgracefully... but I've landed. Thanks Freya, you totally get what happened :) xo
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and I'm sorry it had to end for you. Maybe the reason you had that experience was so that you'll recognise those feelings when the right one comes along. And when he does, he'll want you just as much as you want him. There won't be any doubt. You need to be kind to yourself right now though - have a wonderful relationship with yourself for a while. When you know your own worth it shows and you will attract others who will value you as much as you do. SC x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' Axiom possum?Emotions sometimes get the better of us,that is what makes us human.Have you never had that experience,the unexpected full force of someone elses charm?It usually doesn't happen in an hours casual sex granted,but when you orgasim many times,and sleep...I do mean sleep...with someone, that can be a powerfull punch. And the man,I can only guess from a few hints she has given but if it is who I think it is,special,hell yeah.x R Nope have never felt that........ How could anyone be more charming than I ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'honeybee0086' Quoting 'axiom28' Why is it when you hook up with a women in which it has been understood by both just to be a little bit of fun, to then have the woman become all needy????? Did she lie right from the begining? Does this woman think she doesnt deserve a mans love and therefore pretends that she is just after something casual? Or is the guy just amazing? Of which are much more personal and intentionally left out; because they are not my factors to discuss and those of which that are mine are VERY personal. The guy this is about has been watching this thread and I love that he has been able to talk to me personally about it. Fact is, I'm going through a VERY rough time. I thought I might have been capable of just having a wonderful weekend without getting all "needy" To be fair, I don't think I became NEEDY - I just saw things in my mind that weren't there and chose to publicy deal with the hideous low I felt after such an utterly amazing high. And yes, he IS amazing, absolutely fan-fucking-tastically amazing! He obviously knows what I think of him but as my posts above have mentioned, I have swiftly come down and realised that I would prefer to remain friends than not have him in my life at all. Confusing lust and an exorbitant amount of endorphines and other yummy brain chemicals flowing freely through my body caused my "neediness". Anyway - as I said previously, Mr Amazing and I have discussed at length what happened and we are both satisfied with the outcome. I hope one day soon I get to ravish him again, yesss that would be delightful :) This time I know what it is and won't be caught off guard by myself. I met a woman(not from here), whom has recently come out of a marriage and obviously was going through some tough times. Seeing that this lady lives quite a while away and because I think she is lovely I have tried to give her as much support as possible, I enjoy our chats on the phone also as we have alot in common. We have met twice in which we had alot of fun............. now I get told she loves me, Im amazing blah blah blah. It scares the shit out of me. I find myself having to return her missed calls or she gets upset etc and am trying to figure out how a bit of fun has turned into this.(was all she was after apparently) Why would I be perceived as a prick If I tell her to back off when I have been nice enough to give her support? Anyhow, will be seeing her again this weekend and will decide whether to make or break. This may explain the post above. PS Fuck I enjoyed Gillard falling flat on her face
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think there is a brand of dog food called Chump,my dog loves itx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'I think there is a brand of dog food called Chump,my dog loves itx R lol, that was almost funny
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seriously Axiom28 you showed a woman compassion and shared in her pain you opened up and let her confide in you....what did you expect.OK its hard to get some without a concerning interest but this woman was and is still needy she has pain and you are her comfort. Its probably the one thing I keep away from my playmates all the bullshit of my life that way we dont get too personal.
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