M58
Crack in the closet door..
February 03 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well that's just rude. However, I'm not sure there's anything you can do now... unless you are 15 years old or sommat. The only way to avoid this is not to agree... or perhaps enter into a deed of agreement on suitable terms. :pI never take pics and I really don't see why other people feel the need to.. but there you go.... I'd be pissed off to say the least, if they were published in any form without my consent.... but then I think there are laws against publishing porn without the consent of the parties pictured... maybe not. Google is your friend!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would not let anyone take photos of me unless I know that I can trust them - which means I have known them for a bloody long time. I definitely won't let someone I only just met take photos. As for Videos - good God - I think if I saw myself having sex I probably would never have sex again! I don't think it would be very attractive and I know I would be seeing all the fat bits. mmmm So no for me. I hope for you sake those photos don't appear anywhere. I will keep my fingers crossed. XMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
id go see them, make them delete them in front of me...you need to get rid of them sorry im adding to your paranoia arent i??...sorry about that i had my first pic session over the weekend...i didnt care what he took, it was my camera, so all pics come home with me...although i was nice enough to send them to him hehe but i have the NO face in the shot rule too...but he did take one and i knew he was doing it so there is a difference there but you need to go see them...even if you get copies of them all so that way if they publish yours with a face you can publish their face to...hahaha roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I see a camera in any play meet, it's on with the panties and out the door ! Simple ! I don't care about the "there will be no head shots" line. I've heard all the manipulative bull shit lines. I'm happy to view other people's photos. In fact I find them rather arousing BUT there will not be any of me. There was once a range of explicit photos taken (and video I believe) without my consent. It took me months to get over it. I've learnt to get tougher, stay sober at strange places or first meetings and keep my panties handy for the quick exit. xxx Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Must be the male in me but I love taking pics. Something to review later and refresh the good memories (there aren't enough of them yet). However, I won't take pics if the lady doesn't want and I will also delete or modify any they aren't comfortable with. They are then for my eyes only.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to agree with everyone else who has posted (by the time this makes it through, you might have more than the four comments I have read, but that is what it is). Just because everything from a phone to a tampon comes with a built-in camera doesn't mean we have to document every moment of our lives. I appreciate a good "racy picture," sent to me by a willing subject of self photography, but taking pictures of sex with people you have just met sounds a little sketchy, and a lot self-indulgent. I know a picture is supposed to be worth a thousand words, but isn't a memory and some discretion worth more? I would be pissed if I were you. I know that is not necessarily helpful to your situation, but I share in your unease. I would say this though, and I am sorry if this sounds critical: you took pictures, he took pictures. If you were concerned, you would have turned the phone/camera off before any pictures were taken, and said 'I am sorry, but that is a line I am not willing to cross.' No pictures means no way of being 'exposed.' I hope it all turns out well. I mean that.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've heard too many horror stories about photo's meant for private viewing ending up where they shouldn't so I wouldn't let anyone take photos
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RHP User
15 years ago
well you know the chick...she knows the guy...so i'd be going to his place...and watching him delete every pic you didnt like..from his camera AND his computer.I would also tell him quite seriously that should any ever appear EVER...he will be talking to your lawyer...or something.JMO....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Alright Markusss67... you chose to go out and do this, now you have to suffer the consequences! Now... have you learned your lesson arse-face!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Sidd72' taking pictures of sex with people you have just met sounds a little sketchy, and a lot self-indulgent. I know a picture is supposed to be worth a thousand words, but isn't a memory and some discretion worth more? Not aure about the legalities, but there is NO WAY I would allow pics during play meets. Quoting 'Meeka100' I would not let anyone take photos of me unless I know that I can trust them - which means I have known them for a bloody long time. I definitely won't let someone I only just met take photos. Same here. And even then, I am very very cautious. I can count on one hand the number of people who have my head and naked body parts of me on one hand. Actually, half a hand. Perhaps it is worth attempting to pay this person a visit and request they delete them... Good luck, I really feel for you and the situation you've found yourself in, regardless of the consensual nature of it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
from my point of view it all comes down to respecting the people who are involved in meeting my picture is on here by my choice no one elses my partners picture is on here by her choice
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RHP User
15 years ago
had a girl once after the fact go, "hey, look how many people watched that", then proceeded to open a window on the laptop that had been webcamming me.flirty_bi_fem: i agree wit you completely in terms of saying regardless of the consensual nature. if i'd been told, hey, this is what's happening, probably wouldn't have changed anything, but people that decide to thieve your choice.... no good. i don't believe in hell but karma's a fair c**** to me so hopefully that shit goes *POW!* right in the kisser on the choice thief you met
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RHP User
15 years ago
not cool to look up from busily enjoying Mrs and find that i was looking straight into the cam Mr was holding pointed at my face broadcasting directly onto a site kinda like this one (but sleazier, hehe) . i really liked the couple so i didn't make a fuss but remember thinking why the fuck would they not ask me if it was ok??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Great diversity of advice and commentary, RHP forum members are proving to be a asset, Thanks. I feel a little guilty as I do not know if the images will ever be published, my paranoia got the better of me. I do understand the appeal of photos. Cameras are a multi billion dollar industry, we all capture memories. Used to be photo albums, now computer directories. The number of times I spent viewing photos on cameras, phones, and computers with family and friends. We all love to take photos. So next time, I have a new rule. If there is a camera involved I will only allow it if I can vet and delete at the end of the night. If not, im off. And I kind of like the fact that my cock (as I love it so much) is on several profiles. JUST NOT MY FACE!!! gosh something is in the water, I love you all.... :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Markusss67'I feel a little guilty as I do not know if the images will ever be published, my paranoia got the better of me. i don't think it's unreasonable paranoia given the circumstances, i think the new rule is a very understandable one. glad to hear you're feeling better about it tho. :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'bourbon_babe' Alright Markusss67... you chose to go out and do this, now you have to suffer the consequences! Now... have you learned your lesson arse-face! the need to play leads us to lovely enjoyment and hopefully relaxed friendly ongoing feelings between peopleits sad when some want to drive too much out of other people... means we do need to be aware while still submerging in the private universe of sex, excitement and climax...lets try to balance life and love and not intrude on others without permission
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ask Fev
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's down rite Rude there is no respect at all for your self when anybody just pull's a cam on you, Fucking Rude
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wouldn't even allow photos of me if my face was hidden... Being the heavily tattooed woman that I am, I am easily recognised by the rest of my body aswell. (MRS)
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