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Courting

December 11 2010

Dating-does anyone do it anymore? It seems as old fashioned as the fedora. In these modern times, people may prefer to just hang out especially the younger generation. But gentlemen and ladies know that whether this together time is a quick drink at a bar or a five-course meal followed by an art openning, it is still simply something to do on a Friday evening with a near stranger with whom you may or may not spend the rest of your life-or at least the rest of the night with. Uptown or downtown, traditional or untradiotional, young or old, on a budget or blowing it, dating, hanging, schmoozing, wooing, courting, whatever you term it, please do it with class! What are the things you like about courting? Whats the most romantic way to court? Waggy83

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Of course women young and old like to be courted. It does not always have to be about the expensive issues. Sure it is nice to recieve gifts and be wined and dined. We all appreciate that and it does make us go all soft and gooey inside which in turn makes us horny. It can also mean the little gestures. It is nice to have the door opened for us and held while we go through first. It is nice to hold hands across the table. Walks on the beach, holding each other and watching the sun come up. Just a little thing like picking a wild flower and giving it to her when you are out walking. Ringing her in the middle of the day (or texting as the case may be) just to say hello how is your day going. Romance can also be as easy as letting her choose what dvd to watch and what type of pizza toppings you order.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I agree with what FionaBee said. It's the little things that make the difference to me..........the small details that show so much. It's more what you do than what you say I find. So, things like holding the door open for somebody shows respect and care. I know this gesture has been a bit of a feminist issue, but the way I see it is people hold doors open for other people because they are nice and have good manners, not because a man wants to subjugate a woman etc etc. Intention, thoughtfullness, respect, fun...........I'm being general here, but these are in my opinion the most "romantic" ways to court and can be applied to any situation of courting. Dating's an opportunity to get to know the other person on a deeper level and what they say and how they treat you and others is all part of the process of finding out about them. Courting is exciting and fun!! Invigourating even :) I agree with Waggy about doing it with class! My favourite part? Dressing up to go out and meet someone for a date, even if it's a small thing like a casual coffee. Getting ready, feeling excited and nervous and happy to see them...thinking about what they will say and how they will smell, and know they are coming out because they want to see you too!!! That last part where you're brushing teeth and choosing little details like a necklace to wear or something and standing in front of the mirror and feeling excited about the night ahead..love it!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Im a thgoroughly modern girl...................but damn i love being romanced !! You dont have to pay for my meals or open my doors ...but I will let you,................ and I will return the courtesy. Its not the expensive things that will get my attention......its the trust shared between the two of us...the trust to show our real selves..... the dance we dance when unwrapping each other I delight in the boy child that comes to play when a man begins to be romantic. The gentleness a man allows you to glimpse when he is riomantic. It all makes my heart sing........... but there is only one that I wish to dance with .......only one that makes my heart sing

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    with showing a lady a little bit of courtesy... with being a gentleman to her... it's not hard to do at all and for some it's so natural as to not even think about it. hugs and xx to all the ladies out there - may you find a decent man for at least one night Wayne x

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    if only a man would come courting WEARING a fedora... all my christmases would come at once :) i guess i must be old-fashioned after all. for all my kinks and fetishes - nothing makes a girl hotter than romance, sincere gentleness and thoughtfulness - and, as Luxe_Laces says, getting dressed up for a date. i still remember the thrill getting ready for my first formal - and every date relives that, when you can be all woman, and glamour up to impress a fella you like. aw, i've gone all girlie now.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Even though we have been together for ages my guy is still very romantic. Just recently he surprised me with a bunch of roses. They were made of leather and attached to the end of a flogger. Just the way to romance a bondage Mistress!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am cut from a more traditional and all together more old fashioned kind of cloth. Even though, I still prefer a bit of romance when I go a-courting. I am one for manners. Blame it on a proper upbringing where these values were learnt at a young age.For myself, it is about manners, politeness and just plain respect for my partner. A show of appreciation and their value for allowing me to share a little of their time and a slice of their life with me.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Little bro your worried about shit,you know they"the girls" love all that sweet loving romance, and it works,they will tell you.Yeah guys and girls still date ,but its 2010 bro and you have to know that girls want to have fun without gilt or a long term hook up.They want to party and feel free of expectations,away from the norm and get a little wild as they love to be naughty.A five course dinner they can have with the family and an art opening is great to take your mum to,but man you must know this is a sex site.Girls are as bad as the guys and its ok just for fun mate.Favorite thing about dating is mentally connecting with a new partner and knowing it.The most romantic way to court is be honest about what you want from one another.She might surprise you! BAD IT UP A BIT ,its ok little bro as long as you wont feel used by her in the morning. DETONATOR Keep it fun and treat them right,and you will be right. BLOW IT UP and have fun.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    For some reason, I read Detonator's entire post in a quasi-Mexican accent.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Soubi'For some reason, I read Detonator's entire post in a quasi-Mexican accent. Or Angel Baptista from Dexter