SexyScorpios

SexyScorpios

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Couples rorting the single female profiles

August 21 2016

We have been using the swingers websites for many years now and come across just about every rort there is but of late we have noticed an increasing trend for couples to create obvious single female profiles ( ladies change your lingerie!) which are listed in the searches as being available to couples. When you start to read the profile however you find that hubby wants to come along if you are a couple. Put the listing in the couples section and compete with the hundreds of other couples instead of putting a hot pic of femme in a listing of 15. We stress we have no problem with bi femmes in a couple putting up a single female profile to find women but is it good form to use this as a free ride for hubby. If you are going to run the safety argument for single females just meet at a club....

Comments

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    9 years ago

    That's for sure, seems not much slips past you, that's cool. Hard not to take a peek at your profile with Mrs Scorpio's lovely pic, saw in the header looking for 'Who Are' 25-50"Thought wow!!! we have a chance, how lucky you guys are hot, in the naughty forties just like us, like to get naughty naughtier as the time ticks on. Damn it, as we look on and.. well feel a bit embarrassed having all those delectable thoughts, even began dreaming and feeling each other up, it was electrifying and led to very things..as said, embarrassing because we are outside your range when it comes to the couples you seek, hit the cap at 45 years old, sorry about that and bummer lol. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I've been told in the past, it's okay to use a profile that way as long as it's not limited to couples only. Personally, I wouldn't waste a moment on a profile with wording like that. It's creepy. Peachy

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    In many cases (the ones we have experienced) it has turned out to be a male posing as a female who in turn purports to be a couple (hubby will participate ) Maybe it's a case of the male half, if a couple, who has registered the "single female " profile, without his wife / partner even knowing about it ? RHP should have a better "vetting" process. Perhaps force people to produce better proof (drivers license etc) to match the profile they are registering. That way only genuine, real people will be on here. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    "If" should read "of" - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Change your lingerie as in they have recognized the woman and her lingerie from her couples profile. Same pictures.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Much ado about nothing in the big scheme of things

  • SexyScorpios

    SexyScorpios

    9 years ago

    I have a photographic memory for photos lolol I can pick a photo of a profile from years ago and work out who they are in a new profile. Saves heaps of time screening for fakes. Unfortunately a necessary skill in this environment

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    But now Im single and still using my same pic that we had up on our couples.... But absolutely a single...gone our separate ways...couples account should've been deleted..... So definitely same lingerie pic, but new circumstances. When I was in a couples situation, we found it hard to find a unicorn who didn't have a partner, and they all wanted him to join in at some point..... Was totally frustrating....... 😒 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's been like this since day dot.If it rubs you the wrong way just block the offenders and move on, the more pissed off you get about the way people are trying to get an "edge" in the online dating game the less likely you will hang around. We like to keep the conversation going let them think they are going to score and then tell them no and why, then they block us and i get to save my finger energy for more serious pursuits.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It is incredibly annoying when you're actively seeking a single woman for ffm and you read through the whole profile to get to the bottom where it states 'hubby will be present but just for my safety' 😡😡😡

  • SexyScorpios

    SexyScorpios

    9 years ago

    lolol agreed we aren't taking it seriously we just wanted to know if others had similar experiences and we are not shy to block either

  • 225Special

    225Special

    9 years ago

    Well this is a pleasant change from the single male posing as a couple threads

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is having connected with a unicorn and right before the meet she pulls the "my fwb" want's to join. Oh yeah that's cool..... Denied.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Why do people pretend to be someone their not? How would they expect to get very far anyway or are they just trying to access photos and numbers? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Any advise welcome !! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Discovering

    Discovering

    9 years ago

    Well done Scorpios for putting this post out there! Lol... this is something that has not, nor do "we" feel will change. Haven't worked out an explanation yet...other than the security aspect of the "game"....yes, that's what clubs are for?? You just gotta keep sifting.

  • Discovering

    Discovering

    9 years ago

    Following DC36. Agree with you that it seems to be that case.....mostly. In our experience playing this gig...there are also quite a few "Prominent" single female profiles that are not who they proclaim to be. Gets back to that safety aspect we suppose? Again...that's what clubs are for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I thought of this for a while including the whole safety and security aspect and I came up with a way that almost entirely voids the time wasters and deceptive profiles. Can be done at any point in conversation and of they refuse then your pretty safe to say they're either lying or fake. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    4 out of 5 i just checked out are single all the way until playtime "My partner want's to watch"....