Couples fantasy never a reality

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  But these are generally few and far between. We do however find that most of the time (in our experience) it is the single males that don't turn up. Perhaps for many, this is just a fantasy, and when the reality of an actual meet is arranged / confirmed, they get cold feet and chicken out ? Which of course they are entitled to do, but they really do need to give you notice and tell you that they are not going to meet up. If we arrange a meet (drinks /coffee) we always turn up. It's just common courtesy. It is after all, just drinks. That is always the first step. We have taken a look at your profile wording. Perhaps consider removing the young bull, well hung, 100% satisfaction guaranteed references. They might be off putting to some couples. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  But many reasons it doesnt. We have met single guys under our couple profile, wading through the bull that gets put up. Perhaps insecurities within the couple? You have very attractive which could work against you. Woman may have self esteem issues and go for someone more average. The male may feel insecure having a hot good looking stud servicing his woman. Many reasons. But answering the question. It certainly happens. Matter of fact everything happens in pie. You just need to find the right slice. ....

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  jedi_knight

  9 years ago

  I disagree I have had a lot of fun with couples and have met some fantastic ones on RHP ... it all comes down to being honest, decent, and realising that you are part of someone else's fantasy rather be than them catering to yours ... or your fantasy might be a by product of a couple allowing you into their experience. Sometimes life does happen and things don't work out that happens to all of us. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  rootratandlady

  9 years ago

  We love to meet people, and if we organise a time would certainly be there. Different people, different attitudes I guess :( - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I wonder if it works the same for situations where a single female is looking for a couple, i bet it would be a lot different, because the guy from the couple would more than likely go thru with it because he is going to be getting it on with 2 females, at least that is how i see it. As for me, as the male member of a couple, i know that i would not want to hook up with another couple because i wouldn't feel comfy with another guy being in the mix (don't ask me why, but it has nothing to do with another guy having sex with my partner) but i would be in it with a female seeking a couple, as long as my partner was ok with it, and she actively participated in the action. I also know that my partner would not want to hook up with another couple, but for her she says that it would because there is another woman involved, so neither of us could win i don't think.

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  Im a little confused (yeah....not hard). How's it going to work for you if neither of you want the same sex getting involved. Mexican standoff? Or you just feeling your way? Not having a go at you, just curious. Annie

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I know what i wanted to say, maybe it did not come out the way it was intended to Cheers

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  HAHAHA sorry dude. Couldn't help but laugh. If they're not satisfied.... What kind of refund do you offer lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  boobsandbusted

  9 years ago

  Maybe they discuss bits in your profile which gives them cold feet after a few discussions ,eg ,discreet affairs ,and satisfaction guaranteed or maybe the private conversations don't go well during the lead up , - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  As an older couple, we are tired of guys in their 20's wanting to meet with us even though we say we want a guy OVER 45.Also as another post says, the word BULL puts us off, we are looking for a fun time for all 3 of us. Bull has connotations that we do not want. Also guarantee satisfaction sounds so arrogant.But if someone arranges to meet for coffee, it is appalling not to turn up. Accurate descriptions are important.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I agree RayandGay,not to turn up is a big let down for anybody...and really....can this young guy have all that experience.....Steve

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  And have been approached by a few single, wanting to meet us. So far none of them pitched up last night, not even the courtesy of a message explaining why. We enjoyed our eve regardless. Tonight there are again a few who want to meet. But yet again we are pretty certain they won't show up. We plan to enjoy our evening regardless - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  If we say we will meet then that we will do. We do meet with single guys from time to time, but saying that we have a fairly specific taste in single guys. If you were bi that would certainly help from our point of view... More fun for everyone.. Just remember, while we are always wanting to help someone with their journey, it still is ours. And on the note of couples, it's twice as hard as singles as you now need two people who are into you and not just one.

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