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Couples and Swinging
January 31 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
You just have to set your own rules. Everyone has different ideas
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like Dessert says... people have their own ideads about things. But if anything, I couldn't imagine anyone getting all worked up and out of shape in a circumstance where you know you are all there to shag each other. I mean, someone has to make a start so why not cross the floor if the urge takes you there?? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you are in the couples home, we would presume you have agreed to swing, and met previously. We also prefer to start and end with our own partners but everyone is different which in our opinion is great. Swinging may start with partner swapping...eg sitting around talking, the other guy has a shower comes out naked and proceeds to undress your partner pretty soon all four are in the bedroom swapped. Or sitting at the table and the other guy will invite your wife on his knee, soon after the other girl might say something like "I have a set of boobs too" Then other times all four will go the bedroom play with their own partners untill someone suggests swappping. We dont have a problem either way ...its all fun. Its up to you to make your rules, but let the others know preferable before playtime. One complication to be wary of is, If a new couple changes their mind and says they just want a bit of touching in the bedroom, we agreed to that, (but think its a tease and leads to dissapointment) ...then I look up and see the guy is recieving a blow job, (My wife says he instigated the oral by putting his cock to her mouth) well I then think their rules have changed thats not light touching.....a few minutes later my wife tapps me and says you better stop.....he was jealous and could see his blood pressure soaring. (By the way this was a couple that listed his wife as bi curious and when we met she told us she was not, her husband put her down as Bi ....he says because it was more popular, but obviously the real reason is his insercurity seeing his wife with another man) It was soon over and never heard from them again! Cheers.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Otherwise you might just be sitting there all night twiddling your thumbs, personally i have no preference for which individuals get the ball rolling, sometimes it me, sometimes not. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol @ getting jiggy with, and crossing the floor.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am not the one that gets the ball rolling!!! Happy to ball roll if you cross my path though!LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd love to got to a party!
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2more4fun
16 years ago
It will depend on how comfortable you are with your partner making the first move I guess. The only problem I can see is if you're not into the other partner (unless you're both voyeurs :) but I would think you'd have sussed that one out before you got to the other couple's house.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We do set our own rules and I prefer that my husband and I play together first as he REALLY gets my juices flowing! Anything after that is just a bit of good fun! Mrs D
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RHP User
16 years ago
We agree 100% thats truely is swinging with other committed couples and hopefully a friendship will develope. Quoting 'mrurge_mrsdesire' We do set our own rules and I prefer that my husband and I play together first as he REALLY gets my juices flowing! Anything after that is just a bit of good fun! Mrs D
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